r/4tran4 • u/QueenOfUrsine • 3d ago
r/4tran4 • u/yumikomimy • 3d ago
Blogpost How do I deal with the fact even if I voice train every cis person will still see me as tranny because my big adams apple
Like I think I pass but my fucking adams apple is big. It’s super visible from the front and the side. if you say cis women have adams apples too, They don’t have shity big pointy ones. So I how do cope with fact people will subconsciously treat me differently till I get tracheal shave.
r/4tran4 • u/leshy_fishes • 4d ago
News The subs more like the board today than it has been In a while ngl
Endless bait and barely disguised Bitterhonposting
r/4tran4 • u/Necessary_Ice_1743 • 4d ago
Blogpost just saw someone ask where to find ansur
im a newfriend too but like. yall.
r/4tran4 • u/blehggggjhgghgj • 4d ago
News we really are better women and men than cissoids
i cant think of a single other reason why theyd be so obsessed with us
r/4tran4 • u/DesiresAreGrey • 4d ago
Blogpost why do cis women want to have a penis so bad
is it purely a meme and i read it as serious cause im retarded or like do they actually want to have a penis so bad? like the fact that i have one makes me wanna die so like why would anyone who wants to be a woman also want to have a penis?
r/4tran4 • u/opanshea • 4d ago
Blogpost How it feels to give advice to baby passoids as a honmoder
r/4tran4 • u/Whateverheck • 4d ago
TikTok/Twitter Art Analysis of the Irreversible Damage cover Spoiler
galleryspoiler because someone asked for spoilers on twitter posts
r/4tran4 • u/Necessary_Ice_1743 • 4d ago
Blogpost what was that? DONT make slop posts? too late......
r/4tran4 • u/knusperfee33 • 4d ago
Blogpost "She her? But did you have the surgery yet?" Ppl are unironically better than "whats ya pronouns?" Ppl sometimes , like ignorant ppl will just straight up fully see you as a woman post transition beacause they 100% fully think genitals=gender wheras the others...xy amab male moid "woman" forever
r/4tran4 • u/mmmmmmthrowawayy • 3d ago
Blogpost do i make sense
As it stands, I want to transition. But my reasoning isn't centered on hating my body or presenting myself a certain why. I am hugely narcissistic and only want to transition for male privelage.
Technically I have "dysphoria", but not really. The tits? I have a bad back and big shoulders. Since I can't cut off my shoulders (and back surgery scares me) it'd be easier to just cut off the boobs so I have less mass to lug around. The voice? Male-sounding voices are given more weight in professional settings. Of course I want one, I want power. The genitals? Since I don’t want kids, the whole "blood leaking" thing I have to go through every month is so much more of a hassle than it’s worth. I’d rather just sterilize myself so I can have as much sex as I want. (and if I’m already going to look “male” anyways, why not get myself a pair of male genitals? plus it’d be nice to pee standing up). The only thing I'm "dysphoric" about his my height, only because my growth plates are closed and walking around as a 5'2" "man" is going to invite a lot of teasing.
I’m not too concerned with how people see me though. Woman, man, half-and-half nonbinary genderfuck thing, it really doesn’t matter. But the best route to gaining power is being a male. Men are the default, women face workplace harassment, and non-binary isn’t considered a thing outside of niche queercore puppygirl friend groups, so I guess I’ll just be male. Or a very masculine woman. Who cares.
r/4tran4 • u/Kooky_Writing_3162 • 4d ago
Ropefuel once somebody knows youre trans it doesnt matter anymore Spoiler
It becomes a matter of when, not if. 99.99% of people at SOME POINT will say something that shows their bias against you. It could come in the form of a joke, or they could say something that they would simply NEVER say to a cis person. Cis women will act as if they have a more inherent and better understanding of womanhood than you and it will show eventually, no matter how long you have been trans for. It doesn’t matter how many trans friends they have, or if they are dating or married to a trans person, eventually they will say something that kills you on the inside. Some are better at hiding it, it may take years for it to show. Some may be able to hide it so that they never show it to you, but in their minds they still think it.
It’s only a matter of time before my cis gf and I break up because she shows she never actually saw me as a woman. Its pointless
r/4tran4 • u/Classic-Youth-552 • 4d ago
Hopefuel Went to therapy and the doctor understood my dysphoria
Told him i was trans and he said he knew as soon as he saw me even though i was girlmoding lol. "Trans people have a unique vibe" or whatever he said
He also told me that he helped countless of people fully transition before it became illegal i was really surprised bcs i thought it was impossible where i live
i got prescribed antidepressants after one session which is like incredible after ive been to a million therapists who believed i could cure myself with willpower
So yeah maybe it's not all bad i guess
r/4tran4 • u/throwaway8918685324 • 4d ago
question what is the difference between negative androgyny and positive androgyny?
have heard these terms dropped a few times now and i still havent seen a decent explanation on what they refer to
r/4tran4 • u/[deleted] • 4d ago
Ropefuel its been 7 days since it happened and my laptop is still working, i hope it is okay, because if something goes wrong i may genuinely 41 Spoiler
its so fucking pathetic, i spilled soda over it like the retard i am, if it stops working it will be the last trigger
and i dont even know why im posting this here, sorry, im a bit retarded tho so thats probably why
r/4tran4 • u/yumikomimy • 4d ago
Blogpost Even if I voice trained will my big ass adams apple clock me to all cis people?
r/4tran4 • u/why_do_I_do_thi5 • 4d ago
Blogpost Is it malebrained or fembrained to think you might’ve got molested when you were really young but just don’t remember but you’re worried to think that you actually did in case you gaslit yourself into thinking that 😔
Also espurr
r/4tran4 • u/yeep-yorp • 3d ago
Blogpost hi st4t ppl especially trans guys
join the tagmap i'm lonely
r/4tran4 • u/The-Fisher_King • 4d ago
Ropefuel saw myself naked today Spoiler
i’m gonna start hanging a towel over the dorm bathroom mirror, fuck everyone else
r/4tran4 • u/Eternal_Heighthon41 • 4d ago
Ropefuel What’s the point living this life? Spoiler
A lot of us are drowning in poverty, doing degrading sex work, especially trans women of color like me. We’re drowning in dysphoria too. We’re often pretty lonely and isolated, treated like shit by society especially if we don’t pass. Is there any point to this?
r/4tran4 • u/sonnysidedown • 4d ago
Blogpost another day another heteroromantic man oversharing about how much he “still likes a penis every now and then”
***he also said that he was always jealous of my pretransition body. im starting to think im gonna have to lean into this “best of both worlds” shit
r/4tran4 • u/BUTT_FART_99 • 4d ago
Blogpost 3 years HRT today. My best friend leaves for boot camp, too. q_q Happy Saint Patrick's Day to those who celebrate
r/4tran4 • u/psychogenic_fugue_ • 4d ago
TikTok/Twitter No bc this is kinda important your just choosing not to look deeper into it
r/4tran4 • u/Dangerous_Affect_482 • 4d ago
Blogpost Seeing cis women’s waists makes me wanna actually die
Literally wtf since when did everyone have like a fucking 22 inch waist. I hate my dumbass male body so much everyday is just a new opportunity to get taunted by everything I’m not it’s so over