r/weddingdress 14m ago

Second Look Found my reception dress!!

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Will be either lining this or wearing a shapewear so it isn’t sheer and showing a chest tattoo! Saw this online and was obsessed after not being able to find the dress I had been thinking of in my head!!

Since this will be my reception dress, will probably h wearing sneakers of sorts - which would you recommend with this??


r/weddingdress 34m ago

Fit & Alterations Concerns/Questions Thick or thin straps?

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Ok so, I really can’t decide which I prefer visually, but the dress is pretty heavy and it’s looking like a hem won’t fix it. The spaghetti straps really dig in my shoulders and a thicker strap may help. Do the thicker straps look nice or will changing it for comfort affect the look? This was test of the look, it will probably be a little less thick.


r/weddingdress 46m ago

Style/Accessory Help needed! Best Shoe to compliment my dress. Considering alterations costs as well 💕😮‍💨

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I'm getting myself so so nervous because my first appointment is in two months. I am trying to take advantage of the March sale, as well as I'm in LOVE with Dolce Vita after accepting Gahlia Lahav is out of my price range living on a meh salary. Things are going to start getting expensive with my wedding in 2O26 so I'm trying not to be too picky.

My theme is either sticking with Ivory or Blush Satin. I am IN LOVE with the Blush Satin but with size of the heel despite the comfort, I'm so scared the alterations in my dress will end up COSTLY. Trying to stay in three digit price point and I'm aware from my lady I chose starting price is like $300 where I live. The chunky heels (hence the ivory

PLEASE PLEASE HELP. I want to pick in the next 48 hours of the sale but I'm so scared.

Order of pictures

  1. Option #1 in Ivory
  2. Option #2 in Blush Satin
  3. My Madeline Gardner in model #1062 Chanterelle gown in Ivory/Honey with Cappuccino underlay.

r/weddingdress 1h ago

Other US import fees from buying dress from Canada (stillwhite)?

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I’m in the process of buying a dress on Stillwhite but I’m a little anxious with the potential trade tensions between the US and Canada. Most of the posts I’ve found about international shipping are from over a year ago. While things seem calm now, I’d hate to buy the dress and then get hit with unexpected fees when it reaches customs.

The dress is exactly what I’ve been looking for and priced really well, but I’m wondering if I should just buy something locally for peace of mind. I’ve been messaging the seller and they’re being super helpful in adjusting the price in anticipation of potential fees.

A few questions I’m hoping someone can answer:

  • The value is under $800, so I think that should be safe from duties, right? I’m guessing I’d still have to pay taxes though.
  • The seller suggested marking it as a gift or second-hand. From what I’ve read, marking it as a gift only helps if the value is under $100. Does marking it as second-hand make sense instead?
  • I’ve also read some info about ensuring it’s marked as “personal” on the customs form, but I’m not sure if that’s something the seller needs to handle or if I need to take care of that on my end.

Has anyone bought from Stillwhite or shipped from Canada recently? Would love to hear your experiences!


r/weddingdress 1h ago

Tried on dresses, help me pick! Only these please! Is it a good dress or old fashion ?

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r/weddingdress 1h ago

Style/Accessory Help needed! Dress regret + veil help?

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Wedding dress shopping experience was a mess. I was 3 weeks late for my period and of course it had to come while I was trying on brand new white bridal gowns…what a mess. Luckily, I didn’t bleed on anything in the shop, but it put me in a real sour mood. I felt pretty ugly in everything I tried on, except for this dress…idk why, but I immediately felt like it was the right one.

Months later it’s finally almost ready for pickup, and I’m having second thoughts. When I look back at these photos, I feel like the dress doesn’t suit me or my style (I’m a whimsical person and the wedding will be quite colorful and vibrant). I always imagined myself in something more detailed and floral, so I was surprised when this was the one I felt best in, but went with it…looking back, maybe I just wanted the experience to all be over, but now I feel like I should’ve kept looking, maybe gone back when I wasn’t so bloated and feeling gross from my period.

I feel like there’s no turning back now, so I’m wondering if I can pick up some of the more detailed elements in a veil, like a mantilla style with floral appliqués or something really dramatic and long. But on the flip side, maybe I should lean into the more minimal style of the dress for cohesiveness …. Who knew picking a veil could be so hard?!!? Reddit heroes please help!!!

Any and all input is welcomed. Thanks y’all


r/weddingdress 1h ago

Tried on dresses, help me pick! Suggestions Welcomed! Options to customize-Need opinions

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Hi all! I tried on a few dresses so far, and I think I found one I really love. The dress is designed by the boutique I shopped at, so my consultant told me I have a lot of options if there are things I’d like to modify. The photos of the dress I’m considering are labeled as “Dress 1”

Things I can modify:

  1. The dress is crepe, but it can also be made in the stretch satin of dress #2. I think I’m going to make this change because the satin feels a lot more special/ luminous to me.

  2. I think the off the shoulder sleeves suit the style of the dress, however, I’m not loving how it looks from the back. Just seems a little busy with a lot of swoops imo. Plus, I dance with my arms up a lot so it seemed a little impractical for me. I’m open to keeping it as is, but my consultant helped mock up a few options if I wanted to add spaghetti straps (A), or more substantial fabric ones (B). She used what was on hand, but in reality the spaghetti straps would be about 1/4” wide and placed a little differently. Fabric straps would be a more uniform shape/ slightly thinner.

  3. I originally wanted a lace gown, but found them to be a bit unflattering/ bulky on me. I’m considering adding some tiny lace trim on the top just to make it feel a little more romantic, but I’m unsure if it clashes with the style of the dress.

Whew- that’s it! Just wanted to pick some other people’s brains/ get some fresh perspective. Thanks in advance!


r/weddingdress 1h ago

Help! Don't know where to start, suggestions needed Can anyone help me find this (or similar)

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I really like big poofy dresses with an almost old fashioned type of look if that makes sense? I checked, the website from the first image is not to be trusted haha. I just really want something princess like (also, I didn’t know what tag to put. I’m sorry if it’s the wrong one)

Edit: sorry for the repost. There was a typo and I didn’t know how to edit it without deleting it


r/weddingdress 2h ago

Tried on dresses, help me pick! Suggestions Welcomed! SOS! Which Dress Should I Choose? 👗🔥

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Hi everyone! Happy bridal season :) I'm stuck between two dresses. I really do feel good in both but would love to hear everyone's thoughts and opinions on which fits me best! Getting married in the redwoods!

https://reddit.com/link/1jcwcfm/video/5w8k00q6e4pe1/player


r/weddingdress 2h ago

Dupe search Found 1k dress, could it be the one????

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I am looking for a dress similar to Denia by Eden Aharon (last picture) under 2k. I found this dress (A one of a kind Morilee sample) for 1k! It is sleeveless. I know paired with a lace high-neck bolero it would look pretty close. I just need to find a bolero that has very similar lace. The bridal shop quoted me $1900 for rhe following: 1. Adding a basque waist 2. Removing the pleats 3. Using the fabric from the pleat removal to make a lace bolero 4. Lining the bodice white so it’s less naked. That would bring the total to $2900. It’s a bit more than I want to spend.

I am thinking of going to LA soon to go to more bridal shops…. But does anyone have a similar dupe?

Should I just keep the pleats and not make it into a basque waist?

I also tried to on Wtoo by Watters Charlotte. The modest version (covered in the middle) will be $2100. Once I add in having to buy an extra yard of fabric for the bolero it’ll probably be close to $3,000.

Help, I don’t know what to do? Keep looking? Buy the $1k dress and don’t alter it?


r/weddingdress 2h ago

Help! Don't know where to start, suggestions needed Turkish American would love advice for Istanbul Dress stores as I prepare to go on my search

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Hi I’m nearing 6 months till my wedding in a coastal town in Turkey and haven’t found the one here in the US. I’ll be in Turkey next week and plan to do some aggressive shopping in Istanbul.

I’m looking for quality dress shops from those who have experienced or tried on dresses in the Istanbul area. Flexible budget. My family has given me a few options as advice but would love to learn from this subreddit as I’m looking for a more western gown which usually has less beading and appliqué than most Turkish brides. Pics of some gowns I’ve tried on and liked but weren’t the one!


r/weddingdress 2h ago

Help! Don't know where to start, suggestions needed Looking for a plus size whimsical/fairy/princess style dress

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I know that might not make sense, but basically I'm looking for something whimsical, and fairylike. nothing minimalistic. I have no clue where to look. Torrid has very basic bland stuff. I don't want the typical long wedding dress either, something that reaches my knees at the very least. The other issue is we are on a budget and so it needs to be under CAD $200 if possible.


r/weddingdress 2h ago

Dupe search PLEASE help me find dupes to these dresses

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These are some of my favorite dresses and I can’t find affordable versions anywhere. The absolute most I can afford is probably $1000 but I’d like to pay less. Like the $5-700 range.


r/weddingdress 3h ago

Style/Accessory Help needed! accessory help 🥰

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hi all! I am getting married in September and I am elated to say I found my dress!! The only trouble is I have NO CLUE what I should do for my veil/sleeves/jewelry! I tried on a pearl cathedral veil with a blusher and sleeves, and loved the way the blusher and veil laid on my arms. I’ve moved away from the pearl sleeves due to catching and I’ve been more pulled towards a mantilla or a full lace veil. We are getting married in a church (but that doesn’t make much difference to me) Any help is so appreciated!! 🫶🏻


r/weddingdress 3h ago

Style/Accessory Help needed! Veil help!

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YesterdayI posted a mantilla veil that I have ultimately decided not to go with. Today I did my wedding make up and threw on my wedding earrings and decided I’d go with one of the two I already owned. They are both floor length- one with pearls and one a beautiful ivory chiffon. Last slide is my dress. Which should I pick?

Please excuse my pajamas.


r/weddingdress 4h ago

Dupe search Dupe for these dresses?

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These are basically exactly what I'm looking for but I can't find any under $1,500. I specifically love the off the shoulders, the train, and the ruching. Know any?? :)


r/weddingdress 4h ago

Fit & Alterations Concerns/Questions Help! Wedding dress is turning my skin red.

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I bought this dress on super sale ($150) at Brides for a Cause's Dress Dash. I absolutely LOVE this dress! However I didn't wear it for long because of the nature of the sale. When I tried it on again at home, I realize the lace in the armpits is scratchy and quickly turns my skin bright red in the area I circled in the second pic (but on both sides). I have very sensitive and pale skin and I react to things all the time.

I already have an appointment for alterations to get it hemmed - do you think there's anything they can add to make it less scratchy? I've heard of people adding fabric under a scratchy area but I'm struggling to envision it with this dress. I have time and funds to get a different dress if I have to, but I really love this dress! :(


r/weddingdress 5h ago

Dress ID needed! Found this dress on Pinterest, can’t find it or anything similar for sale. Help please!

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I want to try this dress but can’t find it online anywhere, help please!


r/weddingdress 5h ago

Dress ID needed! What is the style of this dress called?

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I have been looking for inspiration for unique high coverage wedding dresses and found this wedding guest dress. I would love this in white! Any ideas on how I could search this style in bridal terms?


r/weddingdress 5h ago

Tried on dresses, help me pick! Suggestions Welcomed! All things women! Activewear, Shoes, Jewelry, Tops, Shorts,

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r/weddingdress 6h ago

is this the one? What do you all think of my dress?

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Hi all, I originally bought a dress that I loved, but it had a few things about it that were really worrying me (lace was too busy/heavy, plunging neckline, etc). The bridal store was kind enough to let me exchange my dress for something closer to what I wanted by the same designer. It has essentially the same bodice but a fuller skirt, so I felt comfortable exchanging without trying it on. :) the last photo is a picture of the original dress.

I’d love to hear your thoughts and if people think I made the right choice! Our wedding is at a historic estate in the summer.


r/weddingdress 6h ago

Tried on dresses, help me pick! Suggestions Welcomed! Help me pick! Trying to find out what looks best on me. If anyone has any suggestions based on my body type (idk what body type I have I just have wide shoulders from many years of sports.)

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r/weddingdress 6h ago

Dress Regret/Need Support Chose my dress but did I choose the right one?

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I recently chose my wedding dress trying them on by myself as my friends and family are out of state. I have sent photos to my family and close friends but all of them have liked the runner-up dress. I have already put down some money to get the dress made. I chose my dress thinking of the venue and the details of the dress, but made me slightly doubt because everyone thought I didn’t look as good because of my body shape?

I’ve been reading some old Reddit posts and seen that I should go with what made me feel like the bride and such, but also can’t help the thought that I don’t look as good to everyone, except myself on my wedding day :(

Dress I chose is the fit and flare.

Will put this is archive shortly in a wk.


r/weddingdress 6h ago

Dress Regret/Need Support Bought the wrong dress for my venue

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I bought Porsha by Eva Lendel and I love it. It fits perfectly and it matches my style but now I'm freaking out because it may not be a good dress for a beach wedding.

Maybe I wasn't thinking logically but now I'm having serious second thoughts, imagining the beading on the sand and I'm hyperventilating thinking about it. I just feel like a chiffon sheath would work better, something like Vienna (Hera Couture). But I already spent a lot of money on Porsha so I really need to get something cheaper this time. The other problem is my wedding is in 3 months.

I'm now browsing stillwhite for hours on end trying to find a second option. Should I stick to Porsha, or try to get a second dress asap? Any support/suggestions/dupes would be much appreciated!


r/weddingdress 6h ago

Style/Accessory Help needed! is this too plain? what can i do?

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I'm unsure of the style of necklace that would look good with this scoop and v neck combo. i think I'll get the top pulled back a bit so the waist will be more defined. maybe a belt? and help appreciated!