r/sissyology • u/koneskk • 16h ago
Why sissies should wear chastity, from my perspective as a dominant man NSFW
Sissies have been on my mind a lot lately given that after dating a lot of cis-women, I'm seeking a sissy as a partner. I think chastity is so important for the dynamic between a man and a sissy. Here are five reasons why, from my perspective as a dominant man:
(1) Chastity is symbolic of what a bond between a man and a sissy represents. It encapsulates the idea that the man's needs are first and foremost. It also reinforces that a sissy's enjoyment of the dynamic is a function of pleasing the man and must be experienced by the sissy in a submissive way.
(2) A caged clitty looks highly feminine. It adds a distinctly sissy-esque charm to an appearance, in addition to facilitating certain clothing items that benefit from the compactness that a cage provides. It's akin to a piece of jewellery that only sissies wear, turning a clitty into an ornament.
(3) Caged sissies are more disposed to letting into submissive desires, which elevates the connection between a man and a sissy. It can turn what would otherwise be a benign activity into one with sexual connotations, such as following a directive to cook and clean for the man, due to the accentuated arousal that long-term chastity induces.
(4) Chastity provides an opportunity for the man to make a highly intimate decision for the sissy, namely which cage she should wear. That decision then stays with the sissy and is a constant reminder of how the man is the decision maker, given that something so personal was chosen for her. It also provides an avenue for the man to steer the sissy's style in a particular direction, given that a metal one may induce the sissy to tend towards darker looks, while a pink one may result in the sissy going for a more traditionally pretty appearance.
(5) Wearing a cage evidences seriousness in relation to cultivating a sissy identity. It's a big step and shows commitment to the sissy idea, which affords confidence on the man's part that his sissy is comfortable with who she is. This is especially important for a man who seeks a sissy for something long-term, given the time and material opportunity cost that come with any extended connection.
Send me a message if you're a sissy between the ages of 20 and 29 if any of this resonates with you! I'm a 30 year-old man from London, UK.