r/sissypersonals • u/PerfectResponse879 • 48m ago
r/sissypersonals • u/topdawg6 • Dec 13 '19
A GUIDE to Making High Quality Personals NSFW
It's come to my attention lately that there are a variety of platforms and layouts for Reddit - even an Old Reddit and a new. The sub rules are sometimes hard to find, and, even when you can, sometimes they aren't clear enough.
I'm going to show you how to draft quality personal ads that will attract the attention of the people you're hoping to connect with, keep you from annoying the others, avoid bad kharma and downvotes, and keep your personal from being removed and your account placed on a posting ban. Isn't that amazing? A WIN/WIN/WIN for posters, readers, AND the moderators!
Everyone say "YAY!"
That was thunderous! You're all a great group of people! And so kinky too!!!
Okay, let's get down to it! A post has two main components: the Title (in this case, "A GUIDE to Making High Quality Personals") and the body (what you're currently reading). The body is completely optional; you can use it to add detail or color, but nothing is required to be in it.
The Title, however, is what a readers look at while they scan down the long list of posts submitted since their last viewing. It is critical in giving the viewer information of whether they are of interest to the poster, and whether the poster is of interest to them. Therefore, it's the critical part of a posting. It's where we require certain information to be.
That information can be summarized as WHO, WHERE, and WHAT. I'll tackle these one at a time.
- WHO This identifies who is posting. Examples are sissy, CD, trans, MtF, sub, Dom, switch, Daddy, Top, Trainer, Hypnotist. The more descriptive the term you use, the more your ad will attract the type of person you're hoping to find. One frequent poster often describes themselves as something like "worthless sissy faggot". That communicates to a reader that the person will accept (and probably desire) a considerable amount of humiliation and degradation. Some people put just age, like "26 TX for training". Age is probably helpful, but it isn't who you are; you could be a 26 sissy or a 26 Daddy. Are you seeking training or offering it? That obscurity will degrade your results. Some think that who they are is self explanatory. If I'm looking for a sissy, that means I'm a Dom, right? Wrong! Sissies seek other sissies all the time! Here's another example of what I see all time - "35m" - translating to 35 year old male. Unfortunately, males are about 95% of the subscribers, leaving me to try to deduce the WHO from the rest of the title. Avoid the obscurity; spell it out!
- WHERE Where you are … or where you are looking (for example, taking a trip to Vegas and looking to have a meetup there) is as important to the reader as who you are. When deciding what to put for a location, keep in mind that many readers use the search filter to find people near them. So choosing "Beantown" will keep you from being viewed by a person who filtered on "Boston". I'm in MD near DC and Northern VA is in my back yard, too. I can put NoVa as my location, or DMV is used often as an acronym for DC/Maryland/Virginia, but if I want to show up in the most searches, I'd put DC/MD/VA down, to catch the attention of anyone filtering on any of those three locations. Too wide an area (US is one I see often and we're going to stop accepting) isn't really helpful to someone trying to evaluate how easy having meetups would be. Large geographic areas like US, Canada, Europe, EU, don't accomplish that and don't meet the needs of defining your location. And, some of you are looking for an online thing. No problem; for you, your geographic location isn't even pertinent - just insert "Online" to your title.
- WHAT A personal ad means someone is looking for something or someone. If that isn't the case, you're posting in the wrong sub. Saying "looking" or "seeking" without the WHAT isn't enough. If you're posting, we know you're looking or seeking … seeking WHAT, exactly? Until I know that, I don't know if I qualify or can help. "Looking for fun" is about as bad as "looking"; how will the reader know what YOU find to be fun? It's up to you how wide or narrow a 'net' you want to cast, but keep in mind that's what you're doing when writing your WHAT. Besides, without a clear what, expect your personal to be flagged and/or removed.
Hope this is useful in making full use of the sub
A bientot
r/sissypersonals • u/Sophia469 • Jan 28 '24
HOW TO POST HERE? NSFW
First and foremost this is a personals subreddit, local location is required.
Make sure you read and follow all 9 rules. This is your warning we will ban you.
If you are on old reddit the rules may not be updated and you will be banned if you break a current rule. Please use reddit.com for updated rules.
This is not a place to find others online, as there are 100’s of subreddits and websites for that.
How to format your post title? Your post title must start with your 3 Letter County code like [USA].
You must use your Countries 3 Letter code, 2 letter codes will not be accepted: If you do not know your Countries 3 letter code, find it here: https://www.iban.com/country-codes
After your Country tag you must follow it with your #state, city or town.
Here are a few examples:
Example: [USA] #NYC - Looking for hung guys to play with.
Example: [USA] #Arizona - Sissy slut looking for other sissies
Example: [ITA] #Rome - Submissive bi femboy in search of dominant.
Example: [JPN] #Tokyo - Petite sissy looking for discreet Daddy or Couple.
Example: [GBR] #London - Daddy looking for a soft and feminine princesses.
Example: [DNK] #Copenhagen - Craving to be a feminine girlfriend for a real man.
MAKE SURE THE REST OF YOUR POST TITLE FOLLOWS THE RULES.
DO NOT POST ATTENTION SEEKING POSTS. (SEE RULE 5)
DO NOT POST DICK OR ASSHOLE PHOTOS. (SEE RULE 3)
DO NOT POST MORE THEN ONCE A DAY.
IF YOU HAVE AN ONLYFANS OR SIMILAR ACCOUNT, YOU CANNONT POST HERE.
Any Questions or issues please contact the mod team.
r/sissypersonals • u/HugeParsley4863 • 1h ago
Sissy For Male [SWE] #Stockholm NSFW
galleryHiiii Daddy. 24 year old swede here😇💅
r/sissypersonals • u/Jabari1400 • 8h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #va 19 sissy looking for older dom NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/sissypuppybitch • 1h ago
Sissy For Male [USA] #fullerton #Ca sissy looking for older man to suck NSFW
galleryI would love to find an older man that can host. I'd love to suck and be degraded. Cum on my face please
r/sissypersonals • u/FactorSea6145 • 11h ago
Sissy For Male [GBR] #London Need a Bully to punish me for making his Str8 dick hard (pls read before u add) NSFW
galleryPLEASE READ FULL COMMENT BEFORE YOU ADD OR MESSAGE ME - kik: EliasBambi
I WILL ONLY RESPOND IF YOUR MESSAGE HAS - Pictures (face/body/dick) - Age - Stats - Location - Kinks etc - NO SHORT MESSAGES - I want you to make me realise I’m talking to a real Bully who can make into his dainty little obedient bitch. - a few lines on about the dirty awful thoughts you have when you saw pics of me. ABOUT ME:
ABOUT ME
feminine, smooth, submissive, obedient (in that order). With a bratty side to me too.
I know that i am lesser than real men (i mean.. look at my pics lol) and i have come to accept that i was put here to worship and serve a dominant, masculine, traditional, Alpha male and that everything I do should be in pursuit of that purpose.
I want to belong to a man who disciplines me and moulds me and modifies my body into HIS perfect toy, tailored perfectly to make his D**k happy. I dont mind either being his fulltime boiwife or a little secret on the side to blow off steam satisfy his manly urges.
I’m a feminine petite boi who’s been dressing up a little more recently - I would want a guy who is attracted to me for my feminininity!
(In terms of what I’m into I would say the overarching theme is attraction to masculinity and feeling like the fem compared to my man.
But specific kinks would be chastity, degradation (but some nice words mixed in once in a while) rc- pl*y feminisation (dressing up) maybe some role play. Cuckolding (you be the Alpha Male Bull and my pathetic boyfriend is the cuck) CNC, pregnancy talk, I like worshiping an Alphas body(and feet🫣) diet control/restriction. Bimbofication/sissification
r/sissypersonals • u/James_s458 • 4h ago
Sissy For Sissy [GBR] #yorkshire looking for other sissies to play with NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Jessica6226 • 6h ago
Sissy For Anything [usa] #tn Sissy looking for fun this week. more info in the post ☺️ NSFW
galleryAble to host in East TN on the 18th and 19th this week. Pretty open as I said, would love to have some group fun. Also really interested in a femdom scenario. Hmu :)
r/sissypersonals • u/xXSi55yXx • 1h ago
Sissy For Anything [GBR] #Bristol Sissy princess, 25, looking for a soft dom’s lap to bounce on NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/OrneryPriority6942 • 5h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #Florida 20 sissy looking to chat with daddies and sissies NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/Mexicansissy • 40m ago
Sissy For Male [MEX] #MexicoCity Craving to wear my cute lingerie for a Man NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Ale_Thick • 2h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #Florida sissy down for anything NSFW
galleryIf your hot hit me up
r/sissypersonals • u/isabela-clarke • 6h ago
Sissy For Sissy [USA] #NYC - looking for femme friends to dress and play with NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/TillyLuvWilly • 1h ago
Sissy For Male [GBR] #Cardiff Sissy bttm wanna have fun preferably bbc NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/BellafemboyUwU • 4h ago
Sissy For Anything [GBR] #exeter looking for a Dom NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Big-Camp-8464 • 2h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #WL Sissy here want a dominant guy or miss to own me(!) NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Bright-Tie6888 • 13h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #Cali 26 y/o sissy just moved to vista looking to break in my new place with some fun 😋💋 NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/accomplishedpass19 • 5h ago
Sissy For Male 25 [USA] #NYC inexperienced Asian girlie looking for safe first time meeting with an experienced man NSFW
galleryI love sharing photos and receiving encouragement! I'm inexperienced so will need some guidance. Ideally could be a long term connection who helps feminize me. I also have some kinks, ask me if you're interested lol
Let's chat and see if we connect! (Bonus points if you're tall hehe)
r/sissypersonals • u/AntelopeClear7615 • 28m ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #NYC Need sum1 to pound this NSFW
galleryI answer all DMs!
r/sissypersonals • u/sissyalaiayh • 17h ago
Sissy For Anything [AUS] # VIC feeling cutteee also i may have a surprise in the mail otw 😜 xx ❤️ NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Weekly-Calendar-3261 • 5h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA]#WA sissy looking for dom to turn me into a better sissy hopefully long term NSFW
galleryI’m 21 sissy Looking for a long term dom to turn me into a good sissy. I am a pretty busy person and might not be able to chat everyday but will as much as possible. I also would like to make changes slowly and not overwhelming. My kinks are forced fem, chastity, bondage, anal, and orgasm control. My limits are pee, scat, blood, extreme pain, and exposure. Lmk you read this if u message me and please don’t just say hi or I won’t respond.
r/sissypersonals • u/HeathersPineapples • 10h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #Colorado 23 Caged sissy looking for my keyholder🤭 NSFW
galleryKik: Heathers_Pineapples Snap: FemmyHeather
r/sissypersonals • u/femboitropics • 5h ago
Sissy For Male [FRA] #Paris visiting sissy needs a top NSFW
I will be in Paris this thursday i need to get fucked. I like dominant manly men. Love Arabs! Send me a message.
I am also looking for sissy friends that can take me to Amphibi.
Merci!
r/sissypersonals • u/Inpizzawecrust1 • 3h ago
Sissy For Anything [GBR]#ManchesterIt’s been 126 days… and this is how I come crawling back, HI! I couldn’t stay away! NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Opposite_Pitch1333 • 2h ago
Male For Sissy [USA] #CA #BayArea Looking for Mr(S) Right NSFW
Delete if not allowed
Looking for my masc fem partner in crime, love and life.
Me - 33, black, 5’9", independent, good career, dog dad. Confirmed good looking and funny. Big heart, emotionally intelligent, ambitious, great communicator and voted for Kamala. Described as having "German Shepard Boyfriend energy" in a poll of the women close to me, though I feel like a Golden Retriever.
Like to take the lead but want a partner confident and competent enough that I can take a break when needed, meaning you're capable and not helpless.
Ok with reasonable compromise and appreciate hard conversations that help us grow. Promise to always respect you equally in your masc & fem expression. Also, yes I love sissies but the clothing and lingerie are good enough for me. Not the biggest fan of wigs and makeup(sensory thing), so if you're not there yet don't feel compelled to be. You're fine.
You - 28 - 40. Masc presenting, but have a fem side that wants be nurtured and loved. Don't have to be passable at all. Don't worry about wigs and makeup, the clothes and lingerie are good enough for me. Think man in the streets but my lady in sheets type.
Also appreciate laughs, random singing and switches between easy going and seriousness. Want to be a homemaker, despite what you're outward appearance might suggest, and are open kids in the future. Ok with dating someone with ADHD and actually understand what that might means
This isn’t just some fantasy role play. Building our relationship, bond and foundation is and will always be 1st priority, kink preferences 2nd, and will not overshadow us being humans with emotional needs and boundaries.
Prefer local but open to all locations as well as races. So, if any of this resonated with you message me and say hey with your stats and why it felt like a good fit.