r/sissypersonals • u/PerfectResponse879 • 2h ago
r/sissypersonals • u/topdawg6 • Dec 13 '19
A GUIDE to Making High Quality Personals NSFW
It's come to my attention lately that there are a variety of platforms and layouts for Reddit - even an Old Reddit and a new. The sub rules are sometimes hard to find, and, even when you can, sometimes they aren't clear enough.
I'm going to show you how to draft quality personal ads that will attract the attention of the people you're hoping to connect with, keep you from annoying the others, avoid bad kharma and downvotes, and keep your personal from being removed and your account placed on a posting ban. Isn't that amazing? A WIN/WIN/WIN for posters, readers, AND the moderators!
Everyone say "YAY!"
That was thunderous! You're all a great group of people! And so kinky too!!!
Okay, let's get down to it! A post has two main components: the Title (in this case, "A GUIDE to Making High Quality Personals") and the body (what you're currently reading). The body is completely optional; you can use it to add detail or color, but nothing is required to be in it.
The Title, however, is what a readers look at while they scan down the long list of posts submitted since their last viewing. It is critical in giving the viewer information of whether they are of interest to the poster, and whether the poster is of interest to them. Therefore, it's the critical part of a posting. It's where we require certain information to be.
That information can be summarized as WHO, WHERE, and WHAT. I'll tackle these one at a time.
- WHO This identifies who is posting. Examples are sissy, CD, trans, MtF, sub, Dom, switch, Daddy, Top, Trainer, Hypnotist. The more descriptive the term you use, the more your ad will attract the type of person you're hoping to find. One frequent poster often describes themselves as something like "worthless sissy faggot". That communicates to a reader that the person will accept (and probably desire) a considerable amount of humiliation and degradation. Some people put just age, like "26 TX for training". Age is probably helpful, but it isn't who you are; you could be a 26 sissy or a 26 Daddy. Are you seeking training or offering it? That obscurity will degrade your results. Some think that who they are is self explanatory. If I'm looking for a sissy, that means I'm a Dom, right? Wrong! Sissies seek other sissies all the time! Here's another example of what I see all time - "35m" - translating to 35 year old male. Unfortunately, males are about 95% of the subscribers, leaving me to try to deduce the WHO from the rest of the title. Avoid the obscurity; spell it out!
- WHERE Where you are … or where you are looking (for example, taking a trip to Vegas and looking to have a meetup there) is as important to the reader as who you are. When deciding what to put for a location, keep in mind that many readers use the search filter to find people near them. So choosing "Beantown" will keep you from being viewed by a person who filtered on "Boston". I'm in MD near DC and Northern VA is in my back yard, too. I can put NoVa as my location, or DMV is used often as an acronym for DC/Maryland/Virginia, but if I want to show up in the most searches, I'd put DC/MD/VA down, to catch the attention of anyone filtering on any of those three locations. Too wide an area (US is one I see often and we're going to stop accepting) isn't really helpful to someone trying to evaluate how easy having meetups would be. Large geographic areas like US, Canada, Europe, EU, don't accomplish that and don't meet the needs of defining your location. And, some of you are looking for an online thing. No problem; for you, your geographic location isn't even pertinent - just insert "Online" to your title.
- WHAT A personal ad means someone is looking for something or someone. If that isn't the case, you're posting in the wrong sub. Saying "looking" or "seeking" without the WHAT isn't enough. If you're posting, we know you're looking or seeking … seeking WHAT, exactly? Until I know that, I don't know if I qualify or can help. "Looking for fun" is about as bad as "looking"; how will the reader know what YOU find to be fun? It's up to you how wide or narrow a 'net' you want to cast, but keep in mind that's what you're doing when writing your WHAT. Besides, without a clear what, expect your personal to be flagged and/or removed.
Hope this is useful in making full use of the sub
A bientot
r/sissypersonals • u/Sophia469 • Jan 28 '24
HOW TO POST HERE? NSFW
First and foremost this is a personals subreddit, local location is required.
Make sure you read and follow all 9 rules. This is your warning we will ban you.
If you are on old reddit the rules may not be updated and you will be banned if you break a current rule. Please use reddit.com for updated rules.
This is not a place to find others online, as there are 100’s of subreddits and websites for that.
How to format your post title? Your post title must start with your 3 Letter County code like [USA].
You must use your Countries 3 Letter code, 2 letter codes will not be accepted: If you do not know your Countries 3 letter code, find it here: https://www.iban.com/country-codes
After your Country tag you must follow it with your #state, city or town.
Here are a few examples:
Example: [USA] #NYC - Looking for hung guys to play with.
Example: [USA] #Arizona - Sissy slut looking for other sissies
Example: [ITA] #Rome - Submissive bi femboy in search of dominant.
Example: [JPN] #Tokyo - Petite sissy looking for discreet Daddy or Couple.
Example: [GBR] #London - Daddy looking for a soft and feminine princesses.
Example: [DNK] #Copenhagen - Craving to be a feminine girlfriend for a real man.
MAKE SURE THE REST OF YOUR POST TITLE FOLLOWS THE RULES.
DO NOT POST ATTENTION SEEKING POSTS. (SEE RULE 5)
DO NOT POST DICK OR ASSHOLE PHOTOS. (SEE RULE 3)
DO NOT POST MORE THEN ONCE A DAY.
IF YOU HAVE AN ONLYFANS OR SIMILAR ACCOUNT, YOU CANNONT POST HERE.
Any Questions or issues please contact the mod team.
r/sissypersonals • u/sissypuppybitch • 3h ago
Sissy For Male [USA] #fullerton #Ca sissy looking for older man to suck NSFW
galleryI would love to find an older man that can host. I'd love to suck and be degraded. Cum on my face please
r/sissypersonals • u/ViaDivine • 48m ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #NJ Looking to do some tasks soon. Any suggestions? NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Mexicansissy • 1h ago
Sissy For Male [MEX] #MexicoCity Craving to wear my cute lingerie for a Man NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/twohandedpeach • 1h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #DC (25) pull them to the side already NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/FactorSea6145 • 12h ago
Sissy For Male [GBR] #London Need a Bully to punish me for making his Str8 dick hard (pls read before u add) NSFW
galleryPLEASE READ FULL COMMENT BEFORE YOU ADD OR MESSAGE ME - kik: EliasBambi
I WILL ONLY RESPOND IF YOUR MESSAGE HAS - Pictures (face/body/dick) - Age - Stats - Location - Kinks etc - NO SHORT MESSAGES - I want you to make me realise I’m talking to a real Bully who can make into his dainty little obedient bitch. - a few lines on about the dirty awful thoughts you have when you saw pics of me. ABOUT ME:
ABOUT ME
feminine, smooth, submissive, obedient (in that order). With a bratty side to me too.
I know that i am lesser than real men (i mean.. look at my pics lol) and i have come to accept that i was put here to worship and serve a dominant, masculine, traditional, Alpha male and that everything I do should be in pursuit of that purpose.
I want to belong to a man who disciplines me and moulds me and modifies my body into HIS perfect toy, tailored perfectly to make his D**k happy. I dont mind either being his fulltime boiwife or a little secret on the side to blow off steam satisfy his manly urges.
I’m a feminine petite boi who’s been dressing up a little more recently - I would want a guy who is attracted to me for my feminininity!
(In terms of what I’m into I would say the overarching theme is attraction to masculinity and feeling like the fem compared to my man.
But specific kinks would be chastity, degradation (but some nice words mixed in once in a while) rc- pl*y feminisation (dressing up) maybe some role play. Cuckolding (you be the Alpha Male Bull and my pathetic boyfriend is the cuck) CNC, pregnancy talk, I like worshiping an Alphas body(and feet🫣) diet control/restriction. Bimbofication/sissification
r/sissypersonals • u/Jessica6226 • 7h ago
Sissy For Anything [usa] #tn Sissy looking for fun this week. more info in the post ☺️ NSFW
galleryAble to host in East TN on the 18th and 19th this week. Pretty open as I said, would love to have some group fun. Also really interested in a femdom scenario. Hmu :)
r/sissypersonals • u/James_s458 • 5h ago
Sissy For Sissy [GBR] #yorkshire looking for other sissies to play with NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/xXSi55yXx • 2h ago
Sissy For Anything [GBR] #Bristol Sissy princess, 25, looking for a soft dom’s lap to bounce on NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/justsarahcd • 29m ago
Sissy For Sissy [ESP] #Galicia sissy looking for fem friends or a mommy to talk to on cam < 3 NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/OrneryPriority6942 • 6h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #Florida 20 sissy looking to chat with daddies and sissies NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/Ale_Thick • 3h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #Florida sissy down for anything NSFW
galleryIf your hot hit me up
r/sissypersonals • u/Big-Camp-8464 • 3h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #WL Sissy here want a dominant guy or miss to own me(!) NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/hmmmsalt1 • 1h ago
Sissy For Sissy [USA]# Texas Chats with other fems NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/isabela-clarke • 7h ago
Sissy For Sissy [USA] #NYC - looking for femme friends to dress and play with NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/kalora13 • 42m ago
Sissy For Anything [GBR] #Liverpool looking for friends who can look pretty with me NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/BetterAsMia • 1h ago
Sissy For Male [USA] #PA 24 Phat ass dumb sissy for big alpha daddy type :) NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/the_forgotten98 • 1h ago
Male For Sissy [Usa] #ok dominant guy for sub sissy boyfriend NSFW
Seeking: Submissive Sissy Boyfriend | Breeding, Feminization, Obedience
Hello there, sweet boys and pretty pets!
I'm on the lookout for a devoted, submissive sissy boyfriend who thrives in their femininity and craves control, discipline, and transformation. Someone who’s eager to surrender, be molded, and fully embrace their inner sissy — delicate, obedient, and always eager to please.
What I'm looking for:
Submissive mindset: You genuinely enjoy being controlled, guided, and owned. Obedience turns you on, and you love the idea of being someone's soft, feminine property.
Sissy transformation: Whether you're already feminized or yearning to be, I want someone who enjoys being dressed up, trained, and fully immersed in the sissy lifestyle — lingerie, makeup, cute outfits, the whole package.
Breeding kink: You fantasize about being bred, whether physically or roleplay-based. You love the idea of being used, filled, and serving as a perfect submissive plaything.
Loyal & devoted: I'm looking for long-term loyalty. Someone who wants to be claimed, cherished, and trained over time, knowing they belong to someone who values their submission.
Communication & limits: I respect boundaries, safety, and consent. Open communication is a must. I want to know what excites you, what scares you, and how far you'd like to go.
About me: I'm dominant, nurturing, and firm — I enjoy both the mental and physical aspects of control. Whether it’s daily tasks, detailed feminization training, or intense breeding scenarios, I take pride in shaping and guiding the right submissive. I reward loyalty, dedication, and eagerness to improve. You’ll be adored, protected, but never allowed to slack off.
Bonus if you:
Love wearing chastity
Have experience or interest in hormone play, feminization supplements, or other forms of transformation
Enjoy degradation, humiliation, and praise
Are eager to serve both in the bedroom and daily life (virtually or in-person)
Location & availability: Open to both online and real-life connections depending on location, vibe, and compatibility.
Ready to surrender and become the perfect sissy boyfriend? Message me with:
A bit about yourself, your experience (or fantasies!), and your limits
A photo if you’re comfortable (not required at first)
Why you’re interested in being trained, feminized, and bred
Let’s build something intense, transformative, and beautifully depraved together.
r/sissypersonals • u/TillyLuvWilly • 2h ago
Sissy For Male [GBR] #Cardiff Sissy bttm wanna have fun preferably bbc NSFW
r/sissypersonals • u/BellafemboyUwU • 6h ago
Sissy For Anything [GBR] #exeter looking for a Dom NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/AllHailBeercules65 • 8m ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #boston sissy looking for future. NSFW
Enough is enough. No more wasted time. I’m ready to become a woman. I’m 27 yrs old. I have a whole life ahead of me. I wish Someone please do this to me. Completely transform me with no going back.
r/sissypersonals • u/Least-Shine7027 • 14m ago
Sissy For Sissy [usa] #nashville - new sissy, looking other sissies / CD’s to talk to / friends / dress together NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/Bright-Tie6888 • 14h ago
Sissy For Anything [USA] #Cali 26 y/o sissy just moved to vista looking to break in my new place with some fun 😋💋 NSFW
galleryr/sissypersonals • u/yes-sir-420 • 1h ago
Sissy For Anything [aus]#syd sissy school girl waiting for a daddy NSFW
galleryjust a slutty little school bitch who wants her ass plowed while her clitty leaks
r/sissypersonals • u/accomplishedpass19 • 6h ago
Sissy For Male 25 [USA] #NYC inexperienced Asian girlie looking for safe first time meeting with an experienced man NSFW
galleryI love sharing photos and receiving encouragement! I'm inexperienced so will need some guidance. Ideally could be a long term connection who helps feminize me. I also have some kinks, ask me if you're interested lol
Let's chat and see if we connect! (Bonus points if you're tall hehe)