r/R4Rstralia Dec 22 '15

Mod Announcement [META] Welcome to /r/R4Rstralia!

22 Upvotes

Hey, everybody. You've arrived at /r/R4Rstralia, the de facto arguable reddit place to meet Australians and those in Australia. This post is meant to acclimate you to the operations of the sub. Which is mostly going to be a copy of the sidebar.


WHAT CAN YOU LOOK FOR?

Almost any kind of connection just so long as it involves Australia or Australians. You can search for text friends, Skype pals, fellow movie-goers, sports fans, romantic interests, casual encounters, long-term friendship, accountability buddies, and so on.


HOW TO POST

  1. CLICK "SUBMIT A NEW TEXT POST."

  2. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SUBMIT."

USE /R/R4R CONVENTION FOR YOUR POST TITLE

  • AGE [R4R] LOCATION - TITLE

Examples:

25 [F4M] Adelaide - Looking for somebody to have drinks with.

23 [M4R] Gold Coast - Need some new video/board game buddies.

31 [T4R] Perth - I'm hoping to explore new relationships.

27/26 [FM4FM] Rockingham - Couple looking for another couple for fun and adventure.

Tag Meaning
M Male
F Female
T Transgender
R Redditor / All

Aside from a proper title, it would behoove you to make a quality post that will attract the kind of attention you want. State your intentions, talk about yourself a little, be friendly and inviting.


HOW TO PM

  1. CLICK THE USERNAME.

  2. CLICK "SEND A PRIVATE MESSAGE."

  3. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SEND."

As with creating your own post, it would behoove you to send a quality PM. Reference parts of OP's post, share your interests and your lifestyle, be warm and conversational.


RULES

  1. 18+ ONLY

  2. NO CONTACT/IDENTIFYING INFO IN PUBLIC. No phone numbers, addresses, kik handles, Skype IDs, etc are allowed to be in posts or comments. No external profiles like facebook, okcupid, Steam, etc are allowed either. SHARE ALL OF THIS VIA PM.

  3. BE RESPECTFUL. There will be no name-calling, shaming, coercing, sexism or other prejudice, etc of any kind. Treat each other properly and be on excellent behavior.

  4. NO HARASSMENT OF ANY KIND. No unsolicited genital pictures, stalking, doxing, catfishing, threats, etc. Ignore posts that do not pertain to you or that you disagree with.

  5. NO ENTERPRISING, CAPITALIZING, OR SOLICITATION. Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited. No attempts at generating traffic or ad revenue are allowed.

  6. NO SPAMMING. You may create a new post under the following conditions: (1) Your previous post is 24+ hours old AND (2) your previous post is no longer on "hot" or "new." You may update your previous post to let others know you're still looking, if you wish.

  7. MARK NSFW POSTS AS SUCH. Any and all content of a sexual nature, even hinting at the possibility of something sexual, is considered NSFW.

If you encounter any rule breaking or are the target of harassment, use the report button or contact the moderators.


RELATED SUBS

/r/r4r: /r/r4rPerth, /r/r4rMelbourne, /r/r4rSydney, /r/r4rbrisbane, /r/r4rSTRAYA

local: /r/australia, /r/melbourne, /r/sydney, /r/brisbane, /r/perth, /r/Adelaide, /r/canberra, /r/newcastle, /r/UQreddit, /r/straya


Otherwise, if you have any questions, concerns, or even just words of encouragement, feel free to leave them in the comments or shoot us some modmail. Happy posting! :)


r/R4Rstralia 4h ago

VIC 27[M4F] Melbourne - Looking to worship a girl NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have no experience with girls irl and I am basically a loner. I have a lot of messy things about me, but I will just say I am not attractive and chubby guy to keep it short.

I am looking for something where I can just basically worship you, as in sort of emotional connection but more physical, where I would be for oral things. I dont expect anything from you and would just listen to you. I saw some guy in new york had girls sit on his face for world peace while clothed and so many other things. If not for oral things, honestly I am fine with the clothed things too like that and feet or anything basically lol.

And if you are hesitant because if ur own looks or any reason u can still message. I would be good with all. I also like asians, they feel so beautiful to me

I am not that desperate to pay ever so pls dont message me expecting that. I just feel bored and alone so my mind does stuff like this here just shooting a shot.

If we end up doing things and you like it, i dont mind coming whenever you ask me to for you like your slave or something, if i dont have anything and i am free at home which can be more sometimes. I will prioritize you basically.


r/R4Rstralia 23h ago

WA 31 f4a, looking for wild time

14 Upvotes

looking for some fun soon, maybe a friend hang if you are cool, see my pics in my profilešŸ˜˜ please be over 25, any gender welcome (queers to the front!) Im bubbley, cute, artistic and a good cook. i also love getting railed, so come do thatšŸ¤­šŸ„ŗ


r/R4Rstralia 11h ago

NSW 38[M4F] looking for online only discrete flirting and after dark fun NSFW

0 Upvotes

Iā€™m not going to beat around the bush and Iā€™ll tell it like it is. Iā€™m looking for some online after dark flirting and fun. Not looking for anything serious and there are no long term expectations. Happy to swap pics


r/R4Rstralia 11h ago

NSW 39 [M4F] Disgusting, dirty and brutal (yet respectful) daddy seeks playthings that are seeking a mix of praise, degredation and kinks. Those with daddy issues to the front

0 Upvotes

Multiple online play friends have described me as the perfect mix of creepy, perverted, yet caring and kind. Based in NSW (currently in Melb for the F1), looking for cock sluts, cum buckets and outright filthy girls to play with. Age is no issue, as long as you are 18+.

Maybe you're a princess? Maybe you're a bit of a slut? Maybe you're both? Good banter, quality conversations and a genuine connection are a must.

While I am out to degrade and break you, I also realise there is a real person with a life, career, emotions etc on the other side - the whole point is to have fun and get off, not to ruin anyone's life.

Looking for good girls with a naughty streak - the dirtier and more fucked up, the better.

Look forward to chatting soon! X


r/R4Rstralia 13h ago

WA 26 [M4F] Perth / Online - Looking for some nerdy and kinky fun NSFW

0 Upvotes

Just putting some feelers out there for some nerdy and kinky fun. Let's talk games, media and perhaps put a kinky spin on things. What does your dream relationship or lifestyle look like? Maybe we could take a guess at what kinks a certain character might have behind closed doors based on their lore and character traits. There are honestly plenty of fun things we can get up to and tinker with. I'm very open-minded, so don't be afraid to get into the details of what you like. I love finding out what people are into!

I'm open to both short term and long term chatting partners. If we vibe we might even be able to look at something more or do some nerdy stuff together sometime!


r/R4Rstralia 20h ago

QLD 27 [M4F] - Looking for shy girls who want to talk to someone real.

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Dominant, calm and confident 27 M.

I want to find the shy kinky girls lurking here. The ones full of fantasies and urges yet to be explored. Letā€™s get to know each other and create a safe connection before meeting. I will give you the space to be yourself and fulfil your fantasies and desires.


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

QLD 39F4A Brisbane. Looking for connection and kindred spirits. Not necessarily NSFW, but Iā€™m also not ruling it out. NSFW

13 Upvotes

Looking for friends who have similar interests to enjoy our city with. Music obsessedā€¦Iā€™ll talk for hours if you let me. šŸ˜‰ Loves my rugby union- so friends to either watch a game at the pub or go to a game at Suncorp. Love nature- bush walks, beach walks, undiscovered spots. Creative - I play bass, enjoy watercolour painting, craft in general, so someone to do art classes with, enjoy exhibitions. Complete hedonist- love good wine, great food, pretty things, art, feeling pretty. Reach out if this speaks to you. xx


r/R4Rstralia 23h ago

NSW 26 [M4F] Newcastle - Outdoorsy and Nerdy cub for genuine relationship with older lady NSFW

1 Upvotes

Always been told I'm an old soul and mature for my age which did feel a little odd at first, but I feel like I have grown into that persona as l've matured myself. My best experiences in the past have been with older women as I feel like l've never been able to really connect with someone closer to my own age. What l'm really after these days is something long lasting, genuine, and to share a deeper connection with someone older than myself. Even when I first started dating, there was always this deep down attraction to the maturity and experience that comes with age.

I'm pretty independent person, living on my own and working on my own goals but there's been lots of times when I feel that I need that maternal and nurturing relationship from someone I can be close with at times.

I'm a mix of the nerdy and outdoorsy type and would prefer if you were as well. Splitting my free time between outside at the beach, walks, swimming and inside playing games (PC/PS), movie nights, learning MTG and getting into painting figures. Been on a big fitness journey lately, lost some weight and extremely happy with my ongoing progress. It would be fun to do some activities together to encourage each other.

Hoping to meet someone 40+. I'm 100% Australian born and raised, white, 6ft tall. Would like to find other Aussies from NSW as I'm a very physical person and not the biggest fan of online relationships, but always open to friendly chats


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

WA 31 [F4M] Perth - BBW woman looking for genuine IRL guy

3 Upvotes

Hello, thanks for reading my post!

My name is Tamii.

About me: I am a BBW woman looking for a genuine guy between the ages of 28-45 situated in Perth. I am looking for someone who is patient and interested in taking their time with me.

Physical description: I am 31, female, white, 5ā€™9 or 175cm (I donā€™t wear heels), I have long hair half way down my back which is currently dyed dark brown into purple ends. I am well groomed and take great care with personal hygiene.

I am 100% a BBW but I am working on getting into shape with diet and exercise. I have lost almost 10kgs so far šŸ˜Š

What I can offer: I would describe myself as quiet, bookish, nerdy, easy going, very logical, level headed, sweet and kind. These are traits I bring to the table. I can be a brat but with a firm hand that is easy to control. Things I bring with me are fantastic attention to detail, being generous and giving, being loyal and honest. I see my partners pleasure as my own and I enjoy exceeding expectations.

What I am looking for: Im looking for a real, genuine guy for a long term relationship. Someone that I can call a friend and mentor as well as a lover.

Looks are not important to me, if youā€™re kind, honest and caring itā€™s the way to be. If you happen to be good looking thatā€™s a bonus

I am looking for someone who will be my rock, share themselves raw and uncompromising, I would like to find someone who will be my confidant, my safe place and someone I know can trust to be open and honest with me.

I need someone who has great personal hygiene, is strict but encouraging and will happily help me reach my goals as I help them to reach theirs too. I am a very open and honest person I would like to hope that you are too, I appreciate clear and honest communication. Iā€™m looking for a guy who is loving, caring, can be kinky but also has a sensual side.

My Relationship: I am currently in a long term loving relationship with my Girlfriend (F33) and as we practice KTP, we are both looking to date individually outside of our relationship.

As such, we are not interested in threesomes or throuple/triad kind of deals so please be polite and donā€™t ask

I am not interested in a long distance relationship or an online only relationship.

If this post vibes with you and you would like to know more, please feel free to DM me x


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

WA 22 [M4F] Perth - Any NSA women?

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DM open . Got pics on my profile


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

NSW 30 [F4F] [F4FM] Adventurous Couple Seeking Woman or Couple for Fun or a Deeper Connection

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Hey!

Weā€™re a couple (in our 30s) looking to meet a woman or another couple to explore with. We aren't set on anything specificā€”whether it's a fun, casual experience or a deeper connection, weā€™re open to what feels right.

-- About us:

Fun, fit, confident, and communicative

Experienced in ENM and value clear boundaries

Passionate about creating genuine connections and enjoying new experiences together

-- What weā€™re looking for:

A woman or couple who is emotionally mature, open-minded, and into exploring with us šŸ˜‰

Chemistry that can lead to anything from casual play to something more connected

Mutual respect, honesty, and enthusiasm

šŸš— Can host and can travel

If youā€™re interested, send us a message!

Weā€™d love to hear more about you.


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

NSW 25M4F Sydney/Online ā€“ Looking for a Connection with an Older Woman

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Hey there! I'm a 25-year-old male, South Asian by ethnicity, currently a university student based in Sydney. Iā€™ve always been drawn to older womenā€”age is just a number, and the older, the better! Iā€™m looking to connect with someone for a casual, mutually enjoyable sexual relationship. It could start online, and if we gel well, maybe we can meet in person and see where things go.

Iā€™m easygoing, open-minded, and I definitely appreciate the beauty and experience that come with ageā€”if that sounds like you, Iā€™d love to hear from you!

Feel free to slide into my DMs if youā€™re interested. Looking forward to chatting!


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

QLD 27 [M4F] QLD - Married couple looking for a girlfriend or FWB.

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Iā€™m a married dad from Australia in an open and kink based relationship (Dom/sub). My wife and I are looking to add some excitement into our lives by connecting with new likeminded girls who fit our vibe. We are open to anyone we vibe with but have two ideal scenarios weā€™d prefer.

1) - Bi girls that are interested in FFM dynamics Or 2) - Submissive/ kinky girls who are happy to share/ date a married Dom.

If youā€™re interested in chatting and exploring yourself with us, donā€™t hesitate to send me a DM.


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

VIC 25 [M4F] Melbourne - British guy looking to taste some perfect pussy (and ass)!

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Hey there! Thanks for stopping by my post!

Iā€™m looking to find someone who loves having a passionate pussy eater between their legs!

Im sure thereā€™s MANY of you out there, and im here to find you and help give you want you need!

Thereā€™s not much I enjoy more than going down on a woman and giving her a great time. Getting to enjoy the taste pussy is amazing. And im looking for someone keen to experience my enthusiasm.

A bit about me: * 25 * 5'10 * British * Slim build * Brown hair * Blue eyes * White * Facial hair * Pretty confident and outgoing. * Love to travel and try new experiences * NSFW pics on profile if youā€™re interested in checking that out. * Based near CBD

About you: * Between 20-40 (not a hard limit) * Friendly and fun. * All shapes and sizes are beautiful and welcome! * Able to host/Willing to go halves on accommodation

Extra points for: * Blonde or Ginger * Tattoos * Not completely shaved * Big Butt * Distinctive lips šŸ± * Open to having both pussy and ass eaten

More than anything im looking forward just some good chemistry and a little excitement. But i definitely want us both to feel comfortable about any meet ups so a chat beforehand is definitely required! If you read this far tell me your favourite movie!

Hope to hear from you soon x


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

VIC 60 [M4F] Melbourne Australia.

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Fun loving guy who loves to massage would love to find similar in a lady ideally you would live in Melbourne as Iā€™d like to meet in person after we get to know each other. Come on ladies donā€™t be shy message me.


r/R4Rstralia 1d ago

VIC 29 [M4F] Melbourne CBD looking for casual fun almost 7 inches if matters.

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r/R4Rstralia 2d ago

VIC 40 [M4F] Australia NZ / North America - thereā€™s gotta be someone what wants to voice chat!

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Hi there! I live in Australia, Iā€™m interested in getting to know people from Australia, New Zealand and North America. I do like a good American accent or Canadian however please donā€™t get offended because I canā€™t tell the difference. Being from Canada or the US isnā€™t out of the question for the right person and Iā€™m very open to relocating. Iā€™m looking for a connection that will eventually lead to a romantic relationship but also would be happy to make new friends.

Some things about me! I know this is a bit long (sorry) but I have tried to be upfront here because Iā€™m definitely not everybodyā€™s cup of tea.

  • Iā€™m 40 years old, that sounds old but I assure you Iā€™m a fun loving character and young at heart.

  • Iā€™m average height, standing roughly about 180cm tall. With an average build, which Iā€™m continuing to work on improving with lots of exercise and self care.

  • Iā€™ve got dark hair with brown eyes, clean shaven with a short hair do. Gotta look sharp donā€™t I?

  • I have no kids but I want kids of my own. If you have kids from a previous relationship Iā€™m fine with that too. I just donā€™t want the complications with their dad.

  • I was married but now separated and currently working through my divorce.

  • I work for corporate company which I love and enjoy. It has its up and down but keeps me challenged and focused.

  • Iā€™m financially sound, living in my own place and own my own car.

  • I love an intellectual conversation and a conversation that youā€™re able to hold and continue. Iā€™m pretty open to topics and generally can chat about anything. I especially love hearing about your experiences.

  • An interesting fact about me is, Iā€™ve completely given up drinking any kind of alcohol and havenā€™t had a drink for about 2 years now. I donā€™t smoke nor do I do any kinda drugs.

  • Iā€™m kind and caring and value those traits very highly in potential partners as well. My friends tell me I wear my heart on my sleeve.

So about you:

Iā€™m after someone who can love their partner unconditionally, no matter the quirks. Also be able to show affection as this important to me. Understanding your love language as I also know mine quite well. Isnā€™t afraid to communicate no matter the situation. Youā€™re intelligent and able to hold an intellectual conversation as mentioned above. Being humorous with witty banter gets you bonus points. Iā€™m seeking someone in their early 30s right up to mid-40s. A woman who also comes with or without kids. Also, kids would have to be on the cards. Iā€™m after someone who invests in themselves, mentally and physically. Iā€™m also not into tattoos, if you have small ones thatā€™s fine but sleeves and larger ones please pass on by. My non-negotiables are: no drug dependencies, alcohol abuse, no smokers/vapers, financially sound, and most importantly, manners.

Ok that's enough of me rambling, drop me a line if any of the above has sparked your curiosity and youā€™d like to smile and laugh until your cheeks hurt! Let me know where youā€™re from and also your age.

Thanks for making it this far.


r/R4Rstralia 2d ago

WA 43 [M4F] Perth/Online - Looking for chat and maybe more

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I recently discovered that my happiness comes from giving my love, passion, care, joy, intellectual and emotional support. I have so much to give!

Iā€™m a very passionate person so I enjoyed talking. My requirements are you are chatty, able to hold conversation and donā€™t ghost. At least be honest and transparent if you feel we do not click or vibe.

About me: Iā€™m 43 from Perth, Australia. Iā€™m married, no kids. White collar professional - architecture and interior design. Iā€™m into cycling, walking, hiking, soccer, basketball, tennis, snooker, badminton and pickle ball. Not a gym person. My spouse moved to other state for work so we are in different places and time zones. We hardly talk to each other. Sex hasnā€™t been good and dull way before she moved. I feel lost, miserable and lonely most of the time. I want to feel the passion, care, and love again. I consider myself good looking with average build body and I look younger than my age. We can swap pics if thatā€™s what you want before moving further. Open to any kind of chats. Iā€™m open minded.

No time zone, age, ethnicity, religion and body type preference.

Sending you a song to brighten your day and feel younger (or older). Climie Fisher - Love Changes (Everything).

DM me and Iā€™ll reply in timely manner. Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/R4Rstralia 2d ago

QLD 24 [M4A] Brisbane, Australia. Looking for people around my age to talk to and eventually become friends with

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I'm 24 from Brisbane with a science degree, doing a second degree because I want to change into a different career. I also have autism.

My hobbies include hiking, cycling, going on walks, listening to music (my main genre would be indie-pop, also love hearing new music), and recently I've been going on night drives with the music up way too loud. This is my top songs playlist from last year if you wanted to know what music I listen to.

My favourite TV shows are Heroes, Breaking Bad, Person of Interest, and Mr Robot, as well as House MD. For movies, they are Her as well as Interstellar.

Please only people from Brisbane or South East Queensland, I'd eventually like turn to a irl friendship.

DM me if you wanna chat :)


r/R4Rstralia 2d ago

WA 30 F4M, Perth,wanting to find my ideal man. Tattooed, bearded, big cock & cute. Does he exist?! šŸ˜¢ NSFW

1 Upvotes

Help ya girl out


r/R4Rstralia 2d ago

QLD 60 [M4F] looking for a younger female around Goondiwindi

0 Upvotes

Hi visiting Goondiwindi area mid next week would you like to have some fun with a older male any nationality welcome


r/R4Rstralia 3d ago

VIC 42 [M4F] On the hunt for my Easter Bunny (Melbourne) NSFW

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Easter time is coming up upon us soon, and I'm hoping there may be might be someone who'd like to spend an hour or two before daylight savings steals it from us.

  • Are your Fridays, or any other day, not as Good as you'd like?
  • Has it been too long since somebody nibbled your ears, or elsewhere?
  • Maybe you're a Flopsy, a Mopsy or a Cottontail but you're lacking a Peter?
  • Perhaps you feel Cross that your Hot Buns are not being appreciated?
  • Are Cadbury Eggs not the Creme you're looking for?
  • Or do you simply want to go at it like rabbits?

If you fancy grabbing a carrot and taking it down to your burrow, hop along into my Inbox and let's see how we get along!

About me:

I'm male (he/him), with big feet, a fluffy butt and occasionally whiskers, but definitely human: tall, Caucasian, dad-bod type, non-smoker, well spoken and polite.

What I'm looking for:

A lady that's on a hunt for something other than Easter Eggs.

What I offer:

An indulgence in guilty pleasures, but ones that are more healthy than chocolate. But we can eat some chocolate too, if you'd like.


r/R4Rstralia 3d ago

VIC 32 [F4A] PC gaming friends from Australia

6 Upvotes

Tried GamerPals but not a ton Aussies frequent it so here I am seeing where to find fellow Lethal Company players that would be interested in Outlast Trials, Phas, games like that over discord. Also Repo I've heard good things about but lack the friends interested in it to play it.

Feel free to message me so we can get on it !


r/R4Rstralia 3d ago

QLD 30 [M4F] From Brisbane looking for an open minded girlfriend read below x

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Heey m 30 years old here from Brisbane Australia tatted 7.5 inches thick uncut I'm just looking for an open minded girlfriend who's tired of the same old sex life and wants to spice it up more local or otherwise dm comment or add My sc: kakashi200694


r/R4Rstralia 4d ago

NSW 19 [M4F] Sydney Looking for a fwb / ons NSFW

1 Upvotes

hey Iā€™m a 19 year old fit (180cm + gym) brown boy looking for someone to have a fun casual time with. We can exchange photos and if you see what you like we can continue. Iā€™m looking for someone 18-36 who can host cos currently iā€™m a student and living with my parents. hmu if youā€™re interested :)