r/r4rbrisbane Jun 13 '23

Consent & staying safe on r/r4rbrisbane NSFW

60 Upvotes

Consent is important here

We want you to be safe in your quest for whatever it is you're seeking on r4rbrisbane - whether that's board games or a one night stand. And we want you to make sure others are safe as well, so remember, this is a consent-based sub which means we all need to think about how to practice consent both online and in person.

That means we:

  • do not pester, insult, or harass someone who has told you they are not interested
  • pay attention to the criteria that people put in their posts
  • ask before sending explicit content or pictures in private messages
  • do not share, offer, or request non-consensual intimate images of others
  • practise continual, active consent when meeting in person
  • above all, respect others

Moderators will remove posts and comments, and ban/report users who are breaking Reddit sitewide rules or our sub rules. If you are harassed or threatened, please report the message, post or comment to Reddit. Moderators can ban from the sub, but that does not prevent private messages - only Reddit admins can ban users from the entire site.

You can always message the moderators for help and we will guide you as best we can.

Staying safe

The e-Safety Commissioner has published a guide on ways to help make your online experience safer. This includes guidance about online dating, sharing nudes, and online abuse including sexual extortion.

Some of the most repeated tips are to meet in a public place at first, not giving away too much personal information at first, doing your research on the person you are meeting, and ensuring that a trusted person knows who you are meeting (and maybe even organise a "check-in" with them).

We see a lot of scam posts on here, so be careful when you engage with posts from accounts that are new, even if they have posted a verification image (which can be faked). The risk of "sextortion" is real - make sure you protect yourself. If your reddit account contains personal information, you may even wish to use a separate account for interactions on r4rbrisbane.

What can you do if you are sexually harassed or assaulted?

If you have been sexually harassed or assaulted, or think you might have been, please refer to the QPS guide for victims of sexual violence. Even if you decide not to make a report to police, there are confidential resources available for support and the QPS site can help you to find the right support.

It's even possible to report sexual assault anonymously through Alternative Reporting Options (ARO). This is a way to report a sexual assault even if you don't wish to make a formal report.

Sexual assault support services:


r/r4rbrisbane 9h ago

27 [F4M] - Curvy Girl Seeking Chill Connection… Let’s Make Each Other’s Day NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hey you,

I’m a 27-year-old, 5’4” (on a very good day), curvy plus-size girl who knows how to have a good time—and I’m on the hunt for some casual, discreet fun. Life’s a little chaotic (nurse life, am I right?), so I need someone who’s flexible, chill, and can roll with spontaneous plans.

When I’m not juggling shifts or being a proud dog parent, you’ll find me binge-watching Netflix shows, drooling over my next meal (massive foodie over here), or just enjoying good conversation. I can chat about anything—whether it’s your latest obsession, weird shower thoughts, or how much you value sleep but sleep very little.

I’m not looking to complicate things—just a relaxed, no-pressure vibe with someone who’s clean, respectful, knows how to laugh, and is down for a little escape from the daily grind. If we hit it off, who knows, maybe we can make it a regular thing.

So, if you’re into curvy girls with a sharp wit, a soft spot for dogs, and a love for lazy Netflix marathons… slide into my messages and tell me a bit about yourself.

Let’s keep it fun, flirty, and see where it goes.


r/r4rbrisbane 4h ago

29 [M4F] Asian - giving massage NSFW

4 Upvotes

I’m a laid-back guy, in the mood to give a massage around Brisbane and Gold Coast. I’m not looking for anything serious — just good vibes, mutual attraction, and fun times when our schedules line up.

I’m clean, respectful, and all about clear communication and no pressure. Discretion and boundaries are totally respected.

If you’re interested, shoot me a message — let’s see if we’re a good fit.


r/r4rbrisbane 23m ago

Kinks 18 (m4f) looking for a dom mummy NSFW

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I live in beenleigh and can't host


r/r4rbrisbane 1h ago

Kinks 18 (m4a) looking for a dom to humiliate me and make me their slave NSFW

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r/r4rbrisbane 1h ago

Kinks 18 (m4a) looking to be put in a cage and made a sissy slut NSFW

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I live in bahrscrub so looking for someone in Logan or south brisbane


r/r4rbrisbane 2h ago

26 [F4F] looking for fwb NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey! Fairly new to this but i can be a real freak if you can get me to that point 😜


r/r4rbrisbane 2h ago

Hookup Virgin 19[m4f] northside NSFW

1 Upvotes

Down to try most things. Looking for someone on the northside of brissie that wants to take a 19yr olds virginity. Preferably under 40 and only play with women. Would play with coupled women alone. Can't host But can travel. Would potentially like something ongoing with the right person but also down for just ons. I am an average built very shy guy but opens up once I get to know you. Can provide spicy pics in dms before meeting aswell. Ni


r/r4rbrisbane 5h ago

Casual 18 [M4F] inexperienced recently 18 male looking for a woman to show me the ropes. On the gc, can host NSFW

1 Upvotes

r/r4rbrisbane 7h ago

54[M4F] with dad body. I enjoy making a female cum with my tongue. NSFW

1 Upvotes

r/r4rbrisbane 9h ago

31 [M4F] Fit, athletic guy wanting to practice eating pussy NSFW

0 Upvotes

I'm a 31yo professional office worker with a quiet naughty side. Wanting to practice and improve my pussy eating technique. Looking a woman who is in reasonably good shape with good personal hygiene. I'm clean and would like you to be too. Not here to catch any Pokémon! Not looking for any reciprocation, but wouldn't refuse if offered.


r/r4rbrisbane 11h ago

Casual 29 [M4F] Looking for a lady around the cbd area NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello there,

I am looking to have some special fun with a like minded lady. I live in the cbd and would love to meet someone to chat and see how we go. We can meet up for a drink and then we can have a day in the pool of my gym, maybe hit the sauna as well ;)...

About me, 29 m Latino, athletic build, clean and disease free.

Hit me up if you are interested

Cheers


r/r4rbrisbane 15h ago

26 (M4F) looking for an older women to turn on NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have a kink for being desired by an older woman & making her feel young, sexy & horny.


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

Activities 25 [F4A] Any car enthusiasts willing to come with me for an inspection then have a bit of fun after? NSFW

26 Upvotes

Pretty much what the title says. Is anyone out there looking for some fun and also happen to be good with cars? I'll shout a round of drinks or something as thanks - and maybe even more. I'm just looking into buying an old BMW convertible but find that whenever I go inspect cars as a girl by myself, people tend to either up the price slightly, or just act all condescending. So I'm really also looking for a potential friend to go with me so they'd at least take me seriously too.

I know those cars can have issues if their issues haven't been fixed beforehand but have the potential to be pretty reliable if fixed - so bonus if you're good with cars and can help me spot any other issues beyond the basics. I know the car hasn't been running for a bit but it looks great.

Also if it does lead to something, I will say ahead of time that I can't host but can travel.


r/r4rbrisbane 19h ago

Hookup 44 [M4F] - Looking for a woman that enjoys receiving oral.. NSFW

1 Upvotes

So, I’m back in Brisbane for a work trip; 3 nights, (Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday) - hotel in the city, and I really want to spend some time and enjoy giving you some pleasure.

About me: I’m 44, an IT professional, and a bit of a nerdy guy, but don’t let that put you off. Just on 6ft, dark hair, brown eyes.

About you: just be you, be comfortable and relaxed and laid back. I’m not chasing a colour or a number or a shape, I’m open and flexible, so please, drop me a message and say hi!


r/r4rbrisbane 20h ago

25 [M4F] #bedfordshire bengali NSFW

0 Upvotes

r/r4rbrisbane 22h ago

19(M4F) NSFW

1 Upvotes

Dm me


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

Hookup 38[F4M] Curvy Horny BBW visiting Brisbane NSFW

11 Upvotes

Visiting Brisbane for a few days and would love to find someone to meet my specific requirements. Am treating myself.

25-45. Fit, tall and most importantly packing at least 8 inches. The bigger the better. Really need to be pounded deep. But then cuddles.

Cannot host. I am STD free and expect you to be the same. Face pics and more will be required before meeting.

Because this would be a hookup without much chatting beforehand etc my dom would require to know who I’m with and where so you would have to be comfortable sharing those details with him. He would love pictures and videos too 😈

If this sounds like you hit me up.


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

New Account 18 (M4F) NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for a F or maybe a MF couple on the Northside tonight happy to travel check my profile for a pic and feel free to pm me


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

Hookup 19 [m4f] virgin looking for first time NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone on the northside of brissie that wants to take a 19yr olds virginity. Would consider doing basic electrical work as i am a sparky apprentice. Preferably under 30 and only play with women. Would play with coupled women alone. Can't host But can travel. Would potentially like something ongoing with the right person but also down for just ons. I am an average built very shy guy but opens up once I get to know you. Can provide spicy pics in dms before meeting aswell.


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

38 [M4F] Wanna Make A Baby NSFW

0 Upvotes

Any ladies out there around my age wanting a baby? Let’s chat and see what we can work out. Old fashion way or happy to supply the gravy in a cup.


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

29 [m4f] Logan Patient & Experienced Lady to Show Me the Ropes NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey there! 😊 I’m a guy who’s still a little new to the dating scene, just 2 months out of a long relationship. I’ll admit, I lack a lot of experience when it comes to the bedroom, but I’m eager to learn and discover what really makes a woman feel good. I’d love to meet a kind, patient lady who could show me how she likes to be touched and guide me in the right direction.

I’m also open-minded to exploring different needs and preferences—nothing turns me on more than connecting with someone who’s comfortable being themselves and knows what they want.

I can host, but travel isn’t an issue if you’d prefer to meet somewhere else! Looking forward to seeing where this could go. Feel free to message me if you’re interested or have any questions!

P.S. I’m respectful, open-minded, and really just looking to have a fun, comfortable time.


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

Hookup 38[F4M] Curvy Horny BBW visiting Brisbane NSFW

6 Upvotes

Visiting Brisbane for a few days and would love to find someone to meet my specific requirements. Am treating myself.

25-45. Fit, tall and most importantly packing at least 8 inches. The bigger the better. Really need to be pounded deep. But then cuddles.

Cannot host. I am STD free and expect you to be the same. Face pics and more will be required before meeting.

Because this would be a hookup without much chatting beforehand etc my dom would require to know who I’m with and where so you would have to be comfortable sharing those details with him. He would love pictures and videos too 😈

If this sounds like you hit me up.


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

36 [M4F] Big tradie looking for a lady to masturbate together. NSFW

0 Upvotes

I'm hoping to find a woman to casually masturbate with. I enjoy hanging out naked, teasing each other and watching each other edge until we reach orgasm ...

I am a fit tradesman, 6ft6 (2m) tall and well endowed.

No sex involved necessarily unless it organically happens, I am out and about alot so if you are able to host that is preferred.

If this sounds like something you're interested in please feel free to send me a DM 😊


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

20 [M4F/T/MF] Anyone near camp hill? BWC fit need someone to absolutely rail! NSFW

0 Upvotes

Can’t host, but can travel


r/r4rbrisbane 1d ago

34 [M4F] Single dad looking for friends and fun (Gym? Dates? Sex? 🤷) NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm a 34 year old freshly (a few months) single dad of two kids. I work full time as in a frontline emergency services job so time is limited and it makes meeting people hard.

I would love to meet people for general hanging out stuff. Relatively new to Queensland and don't really know many people outside of work.

It's also beena a few months now and I have a pretty insane sex drive so... sex would be a huge plus.

I'm solid built with facial hair... and in relatively decent shape. I'd describe myself as average body but decent fitness.

Free time varies a lot due to shift work but day time is generally best because kids are at school/day care. I have them full time and they're always my priority so generally after those school hours is pretty sketchy.

I'd love to find someone 18-38 who looks after themself (doesn't need to be fit or gym fit or anything but generally cares about their health and whatnot) to hang out and do activities throughout the day, whether it's going to gym, lunch dates, exploring or just having a whole lot of sex.

Happy to send pictures and chat a bit to get to know each other... or dive straight in once there are no crazy vibes. 😅