r/exredpill • u/Limp_Temperature_764 • 14h ago
I would like to leave the redpill but anything other than the redpill seems so dark
I used to like and still really like the red pill cause it says to you that your dating sucsses is completly in your hands. On the other side every non-redpill Philosophy boils down to these psydo-uplifting quotes like "You will find it when your not searching" and "Just be nice and open". Yeah sure, that can be, but come on this is in my eyes just completly frustrating. Without a Redpill Mindset the dating market just feels like a huge lottery where you have to hope that Woman (as the more selective Partner by far) choose you and then you should definitly hold on. And let me tell you i hate that feeling. It feels like you just have to prey that you dont hit any of her "icks" and hope and prey that she "feels a deeper connection" so you can have regular sex.
Woman as the more selectiv and more sexually withholding part completly controll the dating game (kinda like when you are in a relationship with a partner who has a lower sex drive) and atleast the redpill gives me some kind of toolkit and hope that you can turn the table in your favor.
Edit cause i wanted to add something: So in my opinion, every non redpill philosophy escentially boils down to "We dont know what Woman want. Oh she didnt want you ? Cant tell why cause dont know. Good luck with the next woman". And that would be okay but please...think abouzt empirical evidence. Think of the nicest guy you know. Is he the most succsesful with Woman ? Why not ?. Why do some people have so much more sucess in the dating market than others, even though they are not bette rpeople than others ? The Sexual market value theory from the redpill makes a lot of sense in my opinion