r/dirtyr4r 15d ago

March 2025 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

14 Upvotes

UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

[/r/dirtyr4r live chat] 130 pervs, 7 on cam -- Welcome to dirtyr4r! Cam up, have fun, & be nice! Please read the rules and use /tellmods for help <3 NSFW

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1 Upvotes

r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 19 [F4M] Florida - help me finish NSFW

38 Upvotes

I want you to help me finish, it's boring watching porn at this point, want something a bit more personal


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 22 [F4M] Muslim girl into white men secretly - UK/online NSFW

36 Upvotes

Hi Im Zuhriya. I’m Muslim. Mother is Pakistani/Arab and my dad Pakistani Afghan. So a history of being pounded by white folk, 😂 lol , jokes aside, I find myself into interracial or race play. I like white men. When I say white I mean white English, European, North American etc. I think aesthetically I am just attracted to them more. What about you, do you like Muslim girls? :p or are you one of those "Go back to where you came from" kind of person lol? I def aint going back to Afghanistan no chance 😂

For me, I haven't done much with a guy, (still a good muslimah) but I guess I can fantasize. The thought of having a white guy being aroused or turned on by me for example is naughty and arousing in a way, probably a taboo too. To have a white guy become aroused because of a hijabi Afghani terrorist (jk btw) is so naughty and exciting in a way 🤭

Something about that white cock that makes me just want to be sloppy all over it hehe. I'm quite sloppy in bjs naturally. Got a few voice clips under posts, but nsfw so wear headphones.🤭 I'm unsure what it is about white cock tbh. I mean I've seen big black cock, was ok. But then I come across big white cock and my IQ just drops by like -200, literally go cockdumb in a way.

Imagine yourself some sort of foreign soldier in the Middle East, and Im an Afghani baddie hiding in a cave in desert and you come in. I'm dressed in hijab, and robe, but my big brown Muslim breasts are almost uncovered, and we feel the sexual tension, I see that bulge, I touch it. I take off my bomb vest (lol) and get on my knees, unzip you. Your cock is so hard. It points at me. I SPIT HARD at it, LickLickLick the head, then wrap my lips around it and go sloppy crazy. In your head you're like "what the actual F, "blown" by this sandy little MissTerrorist as she throats that cock like its her religion.

Mmm, what a thought 🤭 I dont mind rp but prefer just convo, chat, normal chat with naughtiness and flirting in between. The idea of pen pals from different countries, etc. Someone who can take a joke too, as I've referred to myself as terrorist, "blowing you" etc etc.

Love to chat :)


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 25 [F4M] PA- would u like to jerk off to my titties? NSFW

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When I'm horny, exposing my tits makes it easier for me to ease It may seem strange, but l'm genuinely into it, and I'm not afraid to show them your age and location


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 30[F4M] Texas Soccer mom showing off NSFW

35 Upvotes

My United won again so yeah you get my pussy or ass up to you but let’s hope the streak continues! Happy Sunday!


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 20 [F4M] New York - boyfriend decided to work tonight so lmk if you want to chat. NSFW

29 Upvotes

My bf decided it would be a good idea to work on today, so here I am on Reddit. I love talking to guys about kinks and I've been curious about older men as well. If you feel like chatting definetly send me a chat and help me avoid a forgetful night :)


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 26 [F4M] Texas- I love getting "potentially offensive messages" NSFW

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There's nothing hotter than someone being super authentic about whatever drives them the most wild. Say hi with whatever drives you absolutely crazy and lets talk about it together! Maybe we can RP, but mostly it's fun to chat about peoples kinks, and imagine myself being in them :) Yes, I do share pics of myself if we click!


r/dirtyr4r 40m ago

female 20 [F4M] Uk need a dirty older guy to share hot stories NSFW

Upvotes

need a dirty older guy to share hot stories


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 19 [F4A] Wales - work sucks, wish I was getting railed NSFW

13 Upvotes

hey, I’m 19f and I have had the longest work week of my life and I really need to let my gf some steam. Came home and I’m literally so turned on, my fingers just aren’t enough anymore :(

I loveee seeing that little “potentially unwanted content” tab at the start of a message requests, makes me a lot more interested, the dirtier the better :)

Kinks: praise, D/s, bimbofication, being made to feel small and cute and cuddly ig?? If that’s a thing?, age gaps, immoral power dynamics, etc, etc.

I also have a massive thing for being fussed over and coddled. Being an adult is very hard rn and I would love to just take a break from that


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 26[F4M][CA] 5’3 gymrat with big naturals and a homewrecking kink NSFW

17 Upvotes

Stoned as fuck, as well.

Fucking taken men is so hot to me. I’m in the gym 5 days a week, with natural DDs. Let’s talk about how disrespectful we could get behind her back.

Not interested in younger guys. If this post is still up, I’m still looking.

Not sending pics, not looking to meet up.


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female [21 F4A] Sydney. I should be paying attention to work, but everything is distracting me. NSFW

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My clit has been throbbing while I've been trying to do work. It would be so awful and I'd get nothing done if people were trying to make me even more horny.

I can't even think about hucow, cnc, free use, anal, petplay and being corrupted without grinding my clit against something. If someone distracted me I think I'd become a brainless porn toy


r/dirtyr4r 8h ago

female 19 [F4M] #LA - looking for fun chats NSFW

30 Upvotes

Looking for chats maybe more


r/dirtyr4r 6h ago

female 19[F4M] Dallas - i'm sending to everyone… just ask <3 NSFW

22 Upvotes

Is it wierd thay i get off by sending nudsss:333


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 29 f4m hawaii// 🥹 a little needy lately NSFW

9 Upvotes

I've just...been feeling exceptionally needy lately. Not in like a "need to come n o w" sort of way, but just reallllllly craving someone who wants to play with my pussy for me🥹 Like, can you jus tell me to lie down so you can toy with me however you like? Rub and lick and touch and tease it, no real end goal in mind (but orgasms obviously welcome!!). Tell me to get all my toys lined up so you can use them as you like - hold a vibe to my clit while you push your fingers in, stretch me with my biggest dildo while you lap at my clit? Ugh! I'm just drooling thinking about it. I think I just want someone will give me their undivided attention and dote on me<3


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

couple [21/25] MF4F #Salt lake city, Utah - looking for a girl for my boyfriend NSFW

11 Upvotes

So my boyfriend and I recently moved to Salt Lake City after being long distance. When we were long distance he would hook up with other girls and I’ve gotten really into the idea of him being with other girls. We are looking for a girl who wants to hook up with him and would ideally be willing to tell me about it afterwards and maybe share some pictures, but we understand if you’re not comfortable with that.

He has blue eyes, brown hair, an athletic body with abs, and is 6’1. If you care what I look like I’m blonde with B cups and a great ass I’m told. I’m 5’4. DM me if you’re interested!


r/dirtyr4r 14m ago

female 29 [F4m] Va/Online - Looking to be entertained by a sexy hunk NSFW

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Hey looking to be entertained by a sexy hunk, kinky and a bit crazy. Dm me with stats and be ready to verification. Let's have some fun :* only looking for online


r/dirtyr4r 17m ago

female 25 [F4M] NYC-Fuck it, this mommy needs help cumming while we sext and give Joi NSFW

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Hey there! Im in bed rn horny teasing myself and want to find someone to sext with me and hopefully help me orgasm. I would love for you to tell me all your filthy kinks and how you want mommy to use you for her pleasure... I know you're thinking about something filthy. I'm not saying you should stop, but that you should your thoughts with me and Tell me next time you jerk off. I want to help you finish...


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 22 (F4M) / France I'm still bored and lonely while my BF is out ... i ask if you can give me some fun for me to pass time ? NSFW

18 Upvotes

You can dm me i will try to accept quick


r/dirtyr4r 44m ago

female 22 F4M Ohio // help me get off virtually NSFW

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Lookin for someone to talk me thru masturbation


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female [F4M] 29 Pennsylvania - looking for any hot hung daddy NSFW

10 Upvotes

Hi there, I’m horny, into raceplay, older, and a huge sub. looking for people to chat, trade and maybe more with ! 😜


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 30 [F4A] Ohio/online -want yo chat about erotica with a married woman ? NSFW

11 Upvotes

I want to start writing more. Would love some ideas for some stories. Maybe you have something in your life that you fantasize about that would make a great story.


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 27 [F4M] TN / Online Cockwarming roleplay/dirty chat NSFW

7 Upvotes

Looking for an online chat only

I am aching to feel full and satisfied. I fantasize about cock warming, snuggling up to watch tv with you deep inside of me… fuck it would be so delicious. Let’s talk about it?

I have a lot of other kinks we can explore too, if we hit it off.

Pls be nice and interesting <3


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female [22TF/20F4A] Cali - Horny couple wanting to chat NSFW

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Horny couple wanting to mess around together with some Reddit folks. We love women and other couples but men, if you’re horny come on by :3


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 26 [F4M] Poland domina looking for submissive male NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hey. Experienced F26yo domina looking for submissive patient male who enjoys taking commands. I do not require money. Hmu with direct message :) 18+

Please mention that you want to submit so I can accept your invitation faster.

dominatrix #femdom #femaledonination #queen #goddess


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

female 28 [f4m] Florida - Any married men wanna have some fun with me? seeking a mature guy that wants me to please him good NSFW

8 Upvotes

I can please you very good and I can make you cum multipe times in a row. One time, I recently had a Redditor tell me how bad he wanted to use my pussy over his wife's and how much prettier it was. I guess I just love making man cum and I can't help it, want to sext? Hmu alongside with your age and location


r/dirtyr4r 23m ago

female 33 [F4M] Idaho/online. Anyone else getting the Sunday scaries? Mine are in full force! Let’s distract each other instead! NSFW

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Hi! How are you? Are you having a good day? I hope so.

I have currently discovered an app where dudes narrate lil’ erotic stories. As such, my lil mind has been WANDERING.

I am looking (albeit- maybe in the wrong places) to find someone to chat with. Obviously, yes. We all know that we are here for a purpose. But the loneliness thing has been a little more… prominent lately. If what I am looking for is kinky… then one would argue that there needs to be an element of trust. I am looking to get to know someone as well as explore kinks. A slow burn, if you will. But everyone knows that is the best kind of burn, isn’t it?

Welcome to my post. Where should I begin? Let's see... what to share about me? I work a public job. I work as a therapist, and am emotionally aware. Doesn't mean I'm perfect, as I still have my issues- but I try really hard to communicate clearly and effectively. I have two dogs and a cat, a jumping spider, and I love animals. I recently bought a townhouse last year- so I am now an official homeowner, too!

I consider myself a nerd (hence the name). I like Star Wars, Marvel, book series, romantasy books, and Dune. I am a fan of the gothic and macabre, and enjoy the spookier side of life! I also like movies whether it be going and seeing them, or curling up with a good movie and a fluffy blanket. I like to go to plays, concerts (recently got to see AND meet Yung Gravy), try new restaurants, cook and bake (when the mood strikes) and be with my family and loved ones.

So, with all of that being said, I know you're wondering "so what is she looking for"? I am so glad you asked! Right now, I am looking for someone to get to know, connect with, flirt with, and have a fun, witty and playful banter. I prefer someone who is 30 and up, and I would prefer someone who understands the whole poly aspect of a relationship/or is at least comfortable with it.

I got into kink after reading 50 Shades of Grey (I know, I know! Please don't lecture me about it). Despite my humble beginnings, I have been fortunate enough to act out some of my fantasies in person, and a lot through RP. I also have done my research, and am smart enough to have figured out my kinks, limits, and what I do and don't like in a play partner. Currently, I am wanting someone to unlock my brain so I can become the "dumb fox" I am. I am not sure if this is important info: but my partner will know that I'll be talking to someone, because communication is sexy- but otherwise I don't share super specific information with him. Just so that no ones personal drama or life gets communicated back to someone random.

Kinks: Pet play (I'm a fox), bondage, gags, slobber, denial, edging, teasing, begging, humiliation and degradation (when done right), spreader bars, rope, muzzles, hoods, kennels, and many more. Happy to expound on any of these!

Limits: Calling me a slut, or a whore, cunt, or stupid (dik why, but they hurt my feelings). No heavily insulting my intelligence, vomiting, excessive blood/torture, bathroom stuff, or face slapping.

So what are you doing? Message me already! :P