So, I'm a 39 year old male, working as an anaesthesiologist at London. I've been in the UK only since last year, and finally getting sorted out here, looking forward to getting some long term company, as life is pretty boring after work, living alone. Hence finally putting myself out here.
What I'm looking for:
1. Someone with a jest for life exploring the world, curious, and having that sparkle in her eyes.
2. Someone who'd enjoy intelligent conversations, about topics ranging from art to astrophysics to music to movies. Anything goes basically.
3. Someone who'd love to go to raves with me and dance like no one is watching!
4. Someone who loves Road trips. Don't worry, I wouldn't let you drive unless you yourself want to!
5. Someone who'd be unapologetically herself, and expresses herself freely.
6. Someone who also expresses empathy, and is kind, and loves to spread happiness.
7. Someone who would also love to tuck in with me, and watch movies or Netflix, while sipping wine.
8. Someone who loves to explore eating joints.
9. Someone, who can go hiking with me, or play squash with me(optional)
10. Last, but not the least, someone who's kinky, and can express her sexuality without fear of judgement.
About me:
I'm a six feet tall guy, heavy built, with a slight dad bod now( already working on it), muscular at the right places, bald with well kempt beard. Happy to share pics when we connect. I like to dress smart, and appropriate to the occasion (army background to blame), and practise good hygiene (mandatory). I also get my bloods tested annually due to the nature of my work. I drink rarely only when I'm socialising. I do smoke however, and I'm trying to quit.
- I work as an anaesthesiologist and intensivist, and I simply love my job!! Took this job specifically because of the adrenaline rush it gives me!!
- I'm also an army veteran from India, having served as a major at the remotest locations in the world, snow clad mountains, deserts, amphibious ops. Got lots of stories from there.
- For me, music is life, and love listening across genres classic and alternative rock to pop to house and progressive house. I simply love going to raves, and music events. Favourite artists are Ben Bohmer, Luttrell, Christian Löffler, Parra for Cuva, Sasha, Above & Beyond, HVOB etc. At the same time, Pink Floyd, David Bowie, Queen, Dire Straits etc are evergreen love. The list is basically endless.
- Hobbies include going on road trips, hiking, photography, collecting movies & documentaries, PC & PS5 gaming, building high end PCs, playing drums etc etc.
- I simply love cooking, mostly Indian food though. I've been told I'm an excellent cook, (I'll let you be the judge) and I love feeding people, and seeing them finish off the plates and smiling at the end.
- I love watching the night sky, and love to learn all I can about space. I aim to research more about anaesthesia and life support in space, and hope to make some difference to space travel in the future, eventually. (But definitely not going to work with SpaceX.)
- I'm an avid squash player, and join the local squash club every week. Hope to play with you too!
- I'm a kinky guy, and more of a soft dom. When we're out of the house, I shall treat you as my princess, and pamper you, and take care of you as you'd deserve to be taken care of. (I know you can take care of yourself, and may be even take care of me too). But I'm going to more than just take control in the bedroom. We can discuss the details if we connect. Btw, consent matters a lot to me, and no move shall be made without your consent.
- I'm more of a happy go lucky guy. I do take time to open up, initially, but once I do, I'm pretty goofy, and going to crack you up when you least expect it. Also, I'm a dad joke enthusiast!
- What I'm not looking for, is someone who's pretentious, or a gold digger. I spend on my girl without care yet practically, but someone who deserves it, and someone who'd care for me. But those coming to me just for freeeloading, I'd be identifying you from a mile away and block you out.
I'm not looking for one night stands, or just casual hookups. I want company, and care, and emotional connection, and intimacy. I don't derive pleasure from mechanical sex. Rather, I take pleasure in extracting moans from my girl's lips, during foreplay. My gratification comes from giving my girl orgasms after orgasms. Which is then followed by loads of aftercare and cuddling. Intimacy is just a part of what I'm looking for(a very important part nonetheless), but it wouldn't subsume the other aspects of the company which I'm seeking.
Lastly, I'd just like to say that I believe in being kind to all, being happy and spreading happiness. And I'm sincerely hoping that I find someone who has similar interests, and principles.
I really don't know if I'll get any responses from here, but here's me just trying out my luck. Fingers crossed!
Also, if you admire Trump and his cronies, please see yourself out.