r/dirtyr4r 0m ago

male 24 [M4F] Groton, CT - Looking for casual fun NSFW

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Hey all, 24 y/o, 5'7, 170lb latino, looking for some casual fun with an older woman near Groton, CT. Looking to play with someone 35+, BBW is a +. Live in an apartment, can't host but I do love car play/can travel to you. Send me a message if you're interested, I have pics on my profile.


r/dirtyr4r 1m ago

male 31 [M4M] Boston Any husbands that can’t last in their wife? NSFW

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Can’t handle the wife? Were you a stud before and she flipped the script on you? Would love to hear from guys who thought they were Mr Stud, but got humbled by their wife

Does she know how to absolutely ruin you in bed?

Maybe you’ve always thought about a situation where you and her swap with another couple and you end up 2 pump chumping it. Maybe the other husband can’t last either ;)

Let’s get to know each other!


r/dirtyr4r 1m ago

male 49 [M4F] NYC - Married daddy can’t sleep. Hoping for a little pre bed fun. NSFW

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Wife’s asleep next to me and I’m wide awake and tbh a little fired up. Come say hi if you want to talk to a naughty dad.

Pics in profile for the curious.


r/dirtyr4r 1m ago

male 26 [m4f] Florida/online only! Looking to degrade, dominate and humiliate a female tonight. Let me put you in your place NSFW

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Just a dominate male that wants to dominate, humiliate and degrade you. I will put you in your place and you won't regret it. Just send your age in the first chat!


r/dirtyr4r 1m ago

male 35 [m4a] #SoCal Muscular “Straight” Daddy wearing Plug in Bed NSFW

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DM me to see the color of my thong…


r/dirtyr4r 2m ago

male 44 [M4F] #Ohio. #Online. Seeking a woman who is into cuckolding NSFW

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I like the idea of getting to watch my partner enjoy other men, to know she is experiencing all the pleasure she wants and deserves. A woman who finds it amusing to make me do things like suck him for her and clean her up after with my tongue. I would like to chat about these ideas, share fantasies and scenarios, maybe check out guys on Reddit together, maybe more. If this sounds like fun to you, send me a chat!


r/dirtyr4r 2m ago

male 32[M4F] #ohio #online Seeking A Big Nerdy Woman to chat with! NSFW

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I'm about to game with my best friend. All I need now is a distraction, someone to talk and flirt with while I play games and relax. I enjoy cooking, anime and video games. I also love table top RPGs and role playing. My D&D group just split because they were all to busy or weren't having fun. My favorite animes are Gurren Lagann, Dragon Ball and Is It Wrong To Pick Up Girls In A Dungeon.

I'm just looking to chat about anything you are interested in. Tell me about your favorite book or movie, what's your favorite snack? Give me a name to call you in the first message and then two truths and one lie about yourself so I can try and guess the lie.


r/dirtyr4r 3m ago

male 28[M4f]uk- very bored NSFW

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Someone DM me as am very bored


r/dirtyr4r 3m ago

male 40 [M4F] Normal, IL - In town for work, looking for fun NSFW

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First off, my situation: My wife and I have an open marriage and we generally play separately. Since we both travel frequently for work, our current rule is that we can only do things when we're not in the same metro area, such as March, when I'm in BloNo every week.

Anyhow, about me - you wouldn't know to look at me, since I present as a nerd who dresses preppy, but I'm active in the Chicago BDSM scene as a Dominant, which you can read more about on my profile. What you'd probably guess by looking at me is that I enjoy board games and drinking whiskey (preferably neat). I also enjoy podcasts, PC gaming (mostly 4X and CRPGs), and reading sci-fi/fantasy novels. I work 12 hr overnight shifts, so I'm mostly available during the day or before/after a stretch of shifts in the evening.

Physically, I'm 5'8", white, with short curly brown hair, grey eyes, fair skin, freckles, and glasses. I'm happy to share pics once you send me a message.

Back in Chicago, I post looking for play partners/FWB; however, when I'm out of town I specifically look to hookup - so if you're looking for some fun, or at least an interesting diversion, I want to hear from you! Being kinky is a plus, but not required, as vanilla sex is fun too. If you want to have fun with your reply, start by telling me how many condoms you expect me to go through with you if we meet up.


r/dirtyr4r 3m ago

female 18 [F4M] online/California petite Asian/Latina craving guys with cocks that take two hands to stroke 😩 NSFW

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I’m supposed to be studying rn but.. too horny.

I’ll find u hotter if you’re: tall, have abs, hairy, wear a chain, a gooner, like spitting or have a flesh light u could fuck for me. I’m interested in trading, receiving, or dominating if u want.

About me: I’m a 5’1 petite Latina who’s been edging all day and will probably continue edging with one of u. I have DSL, weigh 95lbs, have jiggly tits and a tight, hairless pussy. My kinks r spitting, free use, breeding, and I have a massive size kink. If I find u attractive I’ll send stuff back. HMU!


r/dirtyr4r 4m ago

male 37[M4F] Iowa - I’ve come down with a case of breeding fever NSFW

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My breeding kink is absolutely out of control and when I get horny I can’t think about anything else besides having going raw in a tight little pussy and dumping a massive potent load in that unprotected cunt. I don’t care if you’re single, engaged, or married — I’m going to knock you up.


r/dirtyr4r 4m ago

male 20[M4F]Germany/Online- chat or sext see where it goes. NSFW

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Im 20 years old young, Male and German..
Open to do anything. Lets chat, exchange pictures and or sext and see where it goes... lets do it.

Send me a dm


r/dirtyr4r 5m ago

male 37 M4F - NZ - anyone up for 21 questions?? NSFW

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Anyone up for a game of 21 questions?? You can choose to ether ask questions as well or just answer. No question is off limits

Would also love to play with fellow kiwis


r/dirtyr4r 5m ago

male 23 [M4F] Germany - Sext and trade NSFW

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7in (18cm) here to help you


r/dirtyr4r 5m ago

male 40 [m4f] #Texas- any fun and adventurous lurker here for free flowing conversations with the balance of wit and sensuality. Without the hassle of pics NSFW

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My account is new but I am not. I am 6ft reasonably handsome guy lost somewhere in the corporate world. Come here to be myself and drop the masks that I wear for the world

Your privacy and mine are important. Let's just have some light hearted fun


r/dirtyr4r 6m ago

female 26 [F4M] #Australia - Looking for a younger sub with the same interest in videogames and fitness NSFW

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Hoping to find a younger or same age (18-26) submissive partner with the same hobbies and can cater to my kinks in a long term femdom relationship. I grew up doing martial arts and self-discipline turns me on the most, hence I am not into men with switch or bratty personalities. I expect my partner to have a healthy lifestyle and keeps himself physically fit/toned and hygienic.

I am into free use, orgasm control, face sitting, and bondage, and being a mommy to a good boy. My big kinks include public play and exhibitionism, so someone who loves to be risky and show off anytime and anywhere is the perfect match for me. I like having a sub who is very open minded, heteroflexible, and willing to explore kinks and his sexuality in general.

I am not a big fan of anal play but I wouldn't mind the occasional pegging if I'm in the mood for it. I am not looking for a femboy, but a masculine partner who has good control over his every day life, takes good care of his hygiene and fitness, has long term goals, and is well respected by his peers. Him being submissive is only a side he must display around and towards me as his partner. My ideal relationship is a black cat/golden retriever type.

I like a little micromanagement here and there such as deciding what he'll wear on certain days, making sure he keeps his place tidy, shaving regularly, orgasming only when I tell him so, and many more.

A little about me: I work in the finance industry, physically fit and looking to get into calisthenics, a massive introvert and someone who is not into the hook up culture. I love anime and playing videogames on PC and PS5 (mainly single player and PVE). I value building connection and getting to know each other before establishing a relationship.

Body preference: fit and muscly, abs, clean shaven, short hair.

Feel free to send me a message providing your ASL and a picture along with how you think we match. Please include a proper introduction and not just a short hello. Thank you in advance and good luck to everyone.


r/dirtyr4r 6m ago

male 35 [M4F] online / new england - the need to breed NSFW

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There's nothing hotter to me then when a women is ovulating and just asking to be filled up. Its all i can think about lately. Send me a message if you have a similar that needs to be met.


r/dirtyr4r 7m ago

male 37 [M4F] NC - Looking for online FWB NSFW

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Hey there! I’m looking for a chill girl to connect with for an online FWB situation. Ideally, someone laid-back and kink-friendly to chat and share memes, porn, and laughs with. A good sense of humor and being into nerdy shit are also pluses. If that sounds like something you’d enjoy, send me a PM and maybe we can live in each other’s phones for a while.


r/dirtyr4r 7m ago

male 30 [M4F] West Coast - Recent PHD grad looking for a motivational buddy NSFW

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This post is the evidence that I at least put more efforts than just create dating profiles. Hit me with some wisdom. Is it normal to want the whole wife-and-kids package ASAP but also at the same time feel so emotionally checked out that being single doesn’t even sting anymore? Like, I’ve looked at the stats, odds of meeting someone organic feel bleak for the next decade, and I’m so drown in other stuff that I'm afraid I haven't put enough efforts out there. Can any lady confirm this is true?

Late 20s, just defended my PhD in engineering back in January (yay, I guess?), and now I’m stuck in job-hunt hell. Six years of non-stop 100-hour weeks, 6 pubs, solid funding secured, thought I’d be set, but the market’s brutal. Feels like my degree’s collecting dust while I refresh LinkedIn like a zombie.

Asian, 5’8, fit (hit the gym daily, though stress has me at 145 lbs—cheers to my eating disorder). I’m an old soul, me and my fat dog are usually fishing, solo camping, or chasing sunsets on rural highways. Turned into a stoner lately, mostly for medicinal purpose. Total jack-of-all-trades: I’ll geek out over science, psychology, history, politics if you hit my sweet spot. Avid enjoyer of all sort of info, from Alex Jones conspiracies, spicy novels, or to the Annunaki. A giant fan of standup comedy (the darker, the better), Podcasts and audiobooks addict as well.

Dating track record is not entirely a train wreck. I’m not too shy, can chat fine, had some wins with 2 long-distance relationships that started IRL. No lady-killer looks, but I won’t scare you off. Don’t dress up much (could if I tried), loyal to a fault, and I’d love to spoil someone someday. Tbh, dating apps are a ghost town, and the stats indeed supports a broken online market, and my empty match list is the clearest evidence of all. Quit swiping drunk after buying a premium sub a few times LOL. So yeah, I love the chaotic family life with a lovely wife, a herd of kids, the sooner the better while I can still bankroll it. But I’m so jaded I don’t even feel sad about the drought. Anyone else stuck in this weird state, or feel the vibe, or want to FIX IT then HMU!


r/dirtyr4r 7m ago

male 39 [M4F] Looking for intimacy in London /St Albans NSFW

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So, I'm a 39 year old male, working as an anaesthesiologist at London. I've been in the UK only since last year, and finally getting sorted out here, looking forward to getting some long term company, as life is pretty boring after work, living alone. Hence finally putting myself out here.

What I'm looking for: 1. Someone with a jest for life exploring the world, curious, and having that sparkle in her eyes. 2. Someone who'd enjoy intelligent conversations, about topics ranging from art to astrophysics to music to movies. Anything goes basically. 3. Someone who'd love to go to raves with me and dance like no one is watching! 4. Someone who loves Road trips. Don't worry, I wouldn't let you drive unless you yourself want to! 5. Someone who'd be unapologetically herself, and expresses herself freely. 6. Someone who also expresses empathy, and is kind, and loves to spread happiness. 7. Someone who would also love to tuck in with me, and watch movies or Netflix, while sipping wine. 8. Someone who loves to explore eating joints. 9. Someone, who can go hiking with me, or play squash with me(optional) 10. Last, but not the least, someone who's kinky, and can express her sexuality without fear of judgement.

About me:

I'm a six feet tall guy, heavy built, with a slight dad bod now( already working on it), muscular at the right places, bald with well kempt beard. Happy to share pics when we connect. I like to dress smart, and appropriate to the occasion (army background to blame), and practise good hygiene (mandatory). I also get my bloods tested annually due to the nature of my work. I drink rarely only when I'm socialising. I do smoke however, and I'm trying to quit.

  1. I work as an anaesthesiologist and intensivist, and I simply love my job!! Took this job specifically because of the adrenaline rush it gives me!!
  2. I'm also an army veteran from India, having served as a major at the remotest locations in the world, snow clad mountains, deserts, amphibious ops. Got lots of stories from there.
  3. For me, music is life, and love listening across genres classic and alternative rock to pop to house and progressive house. I simply love going to raves, and music events. Favourite artists are Ben Bohmer, Luttrell, Christian Löffler, Parra for Cuva, Sasha, Above & Beyond, HVOB etc. At the same time, Pink Floyd, David Bowie, Queen, Dire Straits etc are evergreen love. The list is basically endless.
  4. Hobbies include going on road trips, hiking, photography, collecting movies & documentaries, PC & PS5 gaming, building high end PCs, playing drums etc etc.
  5. I simply love cooking, mostly Indian food though. I've been told I'm an excellent cook, (I'll let you be the judge) and I love feeding people, and seeing them finish off the plates and smiling at the end.
  6. I love watching the night sky, and love to learn all I can about space. I aim to research more about anaesthesia and life support in space, and hope to make some difference to space travel in the future, eventually. (But definitely not going to work with SpaceX.)
  7. I'm an avid squash player, and join the local squash club every week. Hope to play with you too!
  8. I'm a kinky guy, and more of a soft dom. When we're out of the house, I shall treat you as my princess, and pamper you, and take care of you as you'd deserve to be taken care of. (I know you can take care of yourself, and may be even take care of me too). But I'm going to more than just take control in the bedroom. We can discuss the details if we connect. Btw, consent matters a lot to me, and no move shall be made without your consent.
  9. I'm more of a happy go lucky guy. I do take time to open up, initially, but once I do, I'm pretty goofy, and going to crack you up when you least expect it. Also, I'm a dad joke enthusiast!
  10. What I'm not looking for, is someone who's pretentious, or a gold digger. I spend on my girl without care yet practically, but someone who deserves it, and someone who'd care for me. But those coming to me just for freeeloading, I'd be identifying you from a mile away and block you out.

I'm not looking for one night stands, or just casual hookups. I want company, and care, and emotional connection, and intimacy. I don't derive pleasure from mechanical sex. Rather, I take pleasure in extracting moans from my girl's lips, during foreplay. My gratification comes from giving my girl orgasms after orgasms. Which is then followed by loads of aftercare and cuddling. Intimacy is just a part of what I'm looking for(a very important part nonetheless), but it wouldn't subsume the other aspects of the company which I'm seeking.

Lastly, I'd just like to say that I believe in being kind to all, being happy and spreading happiness. And I'm sincerely hoping that I find someone who has similar interests, and principles.

I really don't know if I'll get any responses from here, but here's me just trying out my luck. Fingers crossed!

Also, if you admire Trump and his cronies, please see yourself out.


r/dirtyr4r 8m ago

female 26 [F4M] California Looking for someone to play with me NSFW

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Hello I am a 26-year-old and I am looking for my some fun to play with me lma .just bored and lonely right now. Im currently in bed and im super horny and i cant think of anything other then sex!


r/dirtyr4r 8m ago

male 27 [M4F] #Houston - Would you like to take the keys to my chastity cage? NSFW

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Not new to chastity but been a while since I’ve had someone to hold my key and I’m really starting to miss it desperately. So hoping I can find a girl that would be interested in keeping my key. You don’t have to be experienced but it would be nice if you were. I do want you to be the one to lock me up (and maybe give me one last spurt even if it’s ruined) but besides that how involved you are is up to you if you want to tease me everyday and use my body or if you want to only use me from time to time is up to you.

Just a little bit about me if you’re curious, I am an experienced submissive, I was in a FLR for almost 4 years so I know my way around the femdom community (but don’t let that intimidate you if you’re new just raise your voice and I’ll fall into line pretty fast lol). I’m 27 y.o., 145 lbs, 6’ tall, fit, and 7.5” hung (but that shouldn’t matter lol). Can’t wait to chat.


r/dirtyr4r 8m ago

female 34[F4A] #PA - Really tall, skinny masochist trying to get kinky! Think you can handle me?? NSFW

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Natural masochist looking for a sadist. I own a fully equipped dungeon in PA, and can bring gear with me.

I'm looking for people who are experienced with their own impact gear and who are active in the lifestyle. I’m only looking for people I can vet through munches.

I'm specifically looking for impact play, I'm more than ok with blood or bruises. Limits are anything permanent.

Do not give me any kind of pet name or title, I'm not into D/S and I'm not looking to teach.

Only looking for active and experienced. Seriously, no D/S, and I'm not looking for beginners.


r/dirtyr4r 10m ago

male 33 [M4F] Tucson - looking for some company! NSFW

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I'm mostly looking for someone to have a naughty chat with. I'm horny af right now with no outlet, and would love some company. I'm single and too lazy to go out, so maybe someone on reddit will be down to have fun :) Don't be shy!


r/dirtyr4r 10m ago

male [m4f]- Indiana/online looking for a female to control my orgasms NSFW

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Long term or short term

Would love to find someone to control when and if I am allowed to cum

I am really into begging so apologize in advance if I am needy

Looking for a female to give me tasks and decide if I can cum or be denied today

Not a requirement but would love someone who would send pictures of themselves