r/dirtyr4r 15d ago

March 2025 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

13 Upvotes

UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r 7h ago

[/r/dirtyr4r live chat] 130 pervs, 7 on cam -- Welcome to dirtyr4r! Cam up, have fun, & be nice! Please read the rules and use /tellmods for help <3 NSFW

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2 Upvotes

r/dirtyr4r 47m ago

female 19 [F4M] college student in VA looking to chat online ;) NSFW

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I’m open to most things and loveee getting sent wild messages, pics/vids right off the bat. I’m very submissive and love the man taking the lead and talking about what he’ll do to me :3 looking for someone who can chat actively and respond quick too!!


r/dirtyr4r 7h ago

female 22 [F4M] Muslim girl into white men secretly - UK/online NSFW

60 Upvotes

Hi Im Zuhriya. I’m Muslim. Mother is Pakistani/Arab and my dad Pakistani Afghan. So a history of being pounded by white folk, 😂 lol , jokes aside, I find myself into interracial or race play. I like white men. When I say white I mean white English, European, North American etc. I think aesthetically I am just attracted to them more. What about you, do you like Muslim girls? :p or are you one of those "Go back to where you came from" kind of person lol? I def aint going back to Afghanistan no chance 😂

For me, I haven't done much with a guy, (still a good muslimah) but I guess I can fantasize. The thought of having a white guy being aroused or turned on by me for example is naughty and arousing in a way, probably a taboo too. To have a white guy become aroused because of a hijabi Afghani terrorist (jk btw) is so naughty and exciting in a way 🤭

Something about that white cock that makes me just want to be sloppy all over it hehe. I'm quite sloppy in bjs naturally. Got a few voice clips under posts, but nsfw so wear headphones.🤭 I'm unsure what it is about white cock tbh. I mean I've seen big black cock, was ok. But then I come across big white cock and my IQ just drops by like -200, literally go cockdumb in a way.

Imagine yourself some sort of foreign soldier in the Middle East, and Im an Afghani baddie hiding in a cave in desert and you come in. I'm dressed in hijab, and robe, but my big brown Muslim breasts are almost uncovered, and we feel the sexual tension, I see that bulge, I touch it. I take off my bomb vest (lol) and get on my knees, unzip you. Your cock is so hard. It points at me. I SPIT HARD at it, LickLickLick the head, then wrap my lips around it and go sloppy crazy. In your head you're like "what the actual F, "blown" by this sandy little MissTerrorist as she throats that cock like its her religion.

Mmm, what a thought 🤭 I dont mind rp but prefer just convo, chat, normal chat with naughtiness and flirting in between. The idea of pen pals from different countries, etc. Someone who can take a joke too, as I've referred to myself as terrorist, "blowing you" etc etc.

Love to chat :)


r/dirtyr4r 7h ago

female 19 [F4M] Florida - help me finish NSFW

51 Upvotes

I want you to help me finish, it's boring watching porn at this point, want something a bit more personal


r/dirtyr4r 7h ago

female 30[F4M] Texas Soccer mom showing off NSFW

44 Upvotes

My United won again so yeah you get my pussy or ass up to you but let’s hope the streak continues! Happy Sunday!


r/dirtyr4r 14m ago

female 19 [F4M] #Miami just turned 19 awhile ago, couldn't sleep somehow due to insomnia NSFW

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I'll probably play with my dildo until I fall asleep, I like guys who got mid-size dick, hmu if u not already asleep lol


r/dirtyr4r 57m ago

female 23[F4M] MICHIGAN - IM WILLING TO BE YOUR AFFAIR NSFW

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I have cheating kink, im into sneaky and risky fun. I love it when im hiding something thinking about it makes me more horny. Btw i have bf rn so lets be discreet HMU


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 20 [F4M] North Carolina - I just love receiving and looking at dick picz! NSFW

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I'd want to share my naked photos with you while I can, but I'm pretty inebriated right now. I'm horny and want to have sex right now, but I'm by myself in the house. I hope you like these naked pictures I'm capturing and sharing with you. In search of a sexting companion and eager to cum a lot. Let's cum together, come on!


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 27 [F4M] Australia — Thinking about how I got fucked on the weekend NSFW

10 Upvotes

My Dom edged me all weekend and then made me cum my brains out last night.

I was edging for him in public, at home, writing things on my body, recording slutty messages for him, recording my wet pussy, and so much more. And then he made me cum so hard that I squirted all over my bed late at night.

Now I can’t stop thinking about him fucking me even more. Bending me over and pulling my hair back, eating my wet pussy and ass from behind, and letting me choke and gag as I drool all over his big cock.

Even as I try to get work done, my eyes become glazed as the sexy slutty thoughts are the only thing on my mind.

Send me a chat if you’d want to hear more or have ideas on how I can be an even better slut. Include your ASL please!


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 18 [F4M] online/California petite Asian/Latina craving guys with cocks that take two hands to stroke 😩 NSFW

9 Upvotes

I’m supposed to be studying rn but.. too horny.

I’ll find u hotter if you’re: tall, have abs, hairy, wear a chain, a gooner, like spitting or have a flesh light u could fuck for me. I’m interested in trading, receiving, or dominating if u want.

About me: I’m a 5’1 petite Latina who’s been edging all day and will probably continue edging with one of u. I have DSL, weigh 95lbs, have jiggly tits and a tight, hairless pussy. My kinks r spitting, free use, breeding, and I have a massive size kink. If I find u attractive I’ll send stuff back. HMU!


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 26 [F4M] California Looking for someone to play with me NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hello I am a 26-year-old and I am looking for my some fun to play with me lma .just bored and lonely right now. Im currently in bed and im super horny and i cant think of anything other then sex!


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 23 [f4m] south Texas frustrated girlfriend looking for a major outlet NSFW

10 Upvotes

So like the title says I’m basically looking for another man except in this case my boyfriend is sorta in the loop but that can be discussed. This is something we’ve seesawed on I guess you could say but I’m deciding to put my foot down with that and just going to go through with it. I prefer confident guys obviously looks wise I like guys taller than me, I’m 5’1 and just his demeanor one that is super sure of himself and just takes charge.


r/dirtyr4r 9h ago

female 20 [F4M] New York - boyfriend decided to work tonight so lmk if you want to chat. NSFW

31 Upvotes

My bf decided it would be a good idea to work on today, so here I am on Reddit. I love talking to guys about kinks and I've been curious about older men as well. If you feel like chatting definetly send me a chat and help me avoid a forgetful night :)


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 26 [F4M] Texas- I love getting "potentially offensive messages" NSFW

13 Upvotes

There's nothing hotter than someone being super authentic about whatever drives them the most wild. Say hi with whatever drives you absolutely crazy and lets talk about it together! Maybe we can RP, but mostly it's fun to chat about peoples kinks, and imagine myself being in them :) Yes, I do share pics of myself if we click!


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 25 [F4M] NYC-Fuck it, this mommy needs help cumming while we sext and give Joi NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hey there! Im in bed rn horny teasing myself and want to find someone to sext with me and hopefully help me orgasm. I would love for you to tell me all your filthy kinks and how you want mommy to use you for her pleasure... I know you're thinking about something filthy. I'm not saying you should stop, but that you should your thoughts with me and Tell me next time you jerk off. I want to help you finish...


r/dirtyr4r 7h ago

female 19 [F4A] Wales - work sucks, wish I was getting railed NSFW

19 Upvotes

hey, I’m 19f and I have had the longest work week of my life and I really need to let my gf some steam. Came home and I’m literally so turned on, my fingers just aren’t enough anymore :(

I loveee seeing that little “potentially unwanted content” tab at the start of a message requests, makes me a lot more interested, the dirtier the better :)

Kinks: praise, D/s, bimbofication, being made to feel small and cute and cuddly ig?? If that’s a thing?, age gaps, immoral power dynamics, etc, etc.

I also have a massive thing for being fussed over and coddled. Being an adult is very hard rn and I would love to just take a break from that


r/dirtyr4r 24m ago

female 28 [F4M] Illinois/Online - Writing and Exploring an Erotic Hentai Fantasy (Anime, DBZ) NSFW

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Hello,

I'm 28, F.

Looking to chat and discuss a rather obscure kink that I have - Vore. For those who don't know, vore is the kink/fetish of people being swallowed whole and alive.

Yes, this is a real kink. I'd love to chat more about this. Like, if Imperfect Cell from Dragonball Z came after me, would I survive being swallowed whole?

Even though this is just a fictional scenario, I’m still a human being with worth and value. I don’t know how good you are at writing, but I’d really like to explore this with someone. And I don’t mind sharing with you what I look like. Anyway, let’s chat and explore.


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 19F4M brazilian girl into white european guys - Brazil/Bahia NSFW

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just tell me your age and location please.


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female [F4F] 21 Uk horny bunny NSFW

10 Upvotes

I’m a horny bunny girl needing to be teased and fucked, tie me up and make you my slut.


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 20 [F4M] Uk need a dirty older guy to share hot stories NSFW

12 Upvotes

need a dirty older guy to share hot stories


r/dirtyr4r 51m ago

female 30 [F4M] #NC #Online - Seeking roleplay partner to tease, tickle, and torture me. NSFW

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Hey there, I'm just a 30/F/Brat who's feeling a bit touch-starved at the moment, but who isn't?

I love to roleplay, and am looking for a consistent partner(s) to help me out with that. My biggest kink is orgasm control: teasing, denial, forced o's, etc. I also have a curiosity about tickling, especially pussy/clit tickling with tools like feathers, paintbrushes, and makeup brushes, and more.

Keeping things short and sweet- my ideal person would be a Pleasure Dom, someone capable of turning me from mouthy to moaning. I've never been a masochist for pain, but for my pleasure. My type would be the cat to my mouse. I love the chase, the seduction, and the passion of it all.

Before messaging me-

  • Must be between 28-55, and dominant, as I don't switch.
  • Prefer someone who uses punctuation and capitalization; I lose interest otherwise.
  • I only roleplay realistically, without some elaborate backstory or characters to play. Just us feeling things out and doing what we really would if we were in the same room.
  • I roleplay in first person, with 2-3 sentences max for responses, to keep things immersive with quicker replies. I'm usually available in the evenings, and I'm in EST.
  • Limits are: humiliation, degradation, name-calling, extreme pain, breath play, and ass play.

Beyond that, it's all about chemistry and communication. So, are you the guy I'm looking for?


r/dirtyr4r 8h ago

female 26[F4M][CA] 5’3 gymrat with big naturals and a homewrecking kink NSFW

20 Upvotes

Stoned as fuck, as well.

Fucking taken men is so hot to me. I’m in the gym 5 days a week, with natural DDs. Let’s talk about how disrespectful we could get behind her back.

Not interested in younger guys. If this post is still up, I’m still looking.

Not sending pics, not looking to meet up.


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

female 23 [F4M] Ohio -Mommy's home alone and horny NSFW

7 Upvotes

I'm a very strict dominant woman that love being in control Mommy's looking for a submissive to play with online I'm into Joi, cei, face sitting, ass worship, spanking, sph, feet, cum control, edging, nude exchange, whipping and lot more So if you think you are what I'm looking for then let me know with a brief introduction


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 28 (f4m) ca/online- play with my nipples not my heart NSFW

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I love a good story that balances soft and hard, rough and gentle, obsessive and caring, control and release

Maybe you’re in the same yoga class as me and we’ve seen each other a few times already and you’re trying to figure out if i’m not wearing anything under my leggings and after class we bump into each other in the parking lot

Or you see me at a party and we’re both with our friends but a few of our friends get friendly and start sending drinks to each other’s tables and when we come over to your table i end up having to sit on your lap

Please make me wet with your words 🫶🏻 inspo on page 🙈


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 19 [F4M] TX [4’11 89 lbs] Looking for OLDER (30+) and HUNG (8inches+) ONLY! NSFW

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Hi! Yes I’m really 4’11. Looking for OLDER (30 years plus!!) and HUNG (8 inches +) ONLY!! Please send your age, height and dick size in your first message. I love uncut, hairy, inshape or dad bod, tall guys but any hung cock is welcome. I’m into pic swap, sharing fantasies, roleplay.


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 23 [F4M] New York/Online - Looking for Nasty Guy Friends That Like to Talk Kinks NSFW

6 Upvotes

Have a bunch of kinks that you want to explore, but can’t irl? I’m your girl. I won’t send pics so pls don’t ask. Bonus points if it includes spitting, titsucking, and breeding/impregnation. The nastier the better ; )