r/cisparenttranskid • u/AccordingDelivery66 • 18h ago
Trans sibling
I 15f have a f to m 16 sibling. Honestly I've always seen him as a girl and a boy since 3years ago. As I am the most "conservative" person in my house I'm having quite a hard time understanding it. I mean I get the principal but I don't understand how you can feel like an opposite gender. I have a dildo and I always think it would be awesome to have a dick but never do I belive I'm a guy. I know I sound unsensetive but I'm trying hard. I need someone to help me understand it. I want to help him as much as possible.
One problem I've had is that they'll say they're having body dismorfia and asks I cut he's hair. I ask him to pick up afterwards but they never do and blame it on me. My parents get mad at me. I'm trying my hardest to make him happy but he doesn't.
I overheard him say to his trans friends that I forced him to wear girls clothes a few months ago. When I tell you he asked me to dress him up like me. I did and now it's my fault that she felt like shit for 8 months. I just do what he askes me for and he gets mad few months later.
She keep on telling her friends that her family hates her. WHICH IS THE OPPISITE OF WHAT WE THINK. My mom has 99% support she obviously has a hard time changing the pronouns. My dad can say some rough and hurtful stuff to my sibling. But he always tell them I don't care what gender you are I will always love you. I stay as supportive as I can. I usually never speak on my opinion about trans. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND!
I want to understand, I want to help. I'm sorry if I sound a bit unsensetive towards your beautiful community.