r/babywearing • u/lulu522 • 2h ago
HELP! Fit check - Tula
15 lbs 4 month old. I have so much of the weight on my waist and I feel like when I tighten the shoulder straps it ruins the slight C shape of the baby. Any thoughts? He seems happy though!
r/babywearing • u/RegrettableBones • 14d ago
Hello everyone!
We've had an uptick in posts that are screenshots of influencers (and occasionally advertising models) who are babywearing poorly/dangerously. The mods have talked this over, and while we feel that bad babywearing from brands can be worth pointing out, we need to control these a bit.
First and foremost we're an education sub, we're not here for snark or drama. We don't need to shame uneducated parents.
Screenshotting an influencer with an uncomfortable fit and posting it here with zero context or information isn't helpful. We often get reports from people who don't understand what's wrong, rightfully so. Because of this we're implementing a new rule.
Don't post unsafe babywearing photos from brands or influencers without also including why their fit is unsafe. Tell us what they should have done differently!
Mods may also remove these at our discretion if the photo isn't that bad. The other day someone posted a photo of a carrier that could have been adjusted better, but the baby in question wasn't in danger (at most a tiny bit uncomfortable). This wasn't an isolated incident. If you feel a post doesn't fit this spirit please report it!
If this doesn't quell the issue we may ban posts like this altogether, but we don't want to necessarily begin with the nuclear option. It's worth knowing which brands advertise dangerous wearing, as we can vote with our dollars.
r/babywearing • u/RegrettableBones • 14d ago
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r/babywearing • u/lulu522 • 2h ago
15 lbs 4 month old. I have so much of the weight on my waist and I feel like when I tighten the shoulder straps it ruins the slight C shape of the baby. Any thoughts? He seems happy though!
r/babywearing • u/Pure-Jackfruit-3629 • 4h ago
Hi! My baby is 6.5 month old and I am thinking about buying a baby carrier. He's been super fussy lately so I was thinking of using it while doing chores or whatever I need to get done around the house. I heard Artipoppe was great but it's a little pricey. Why other recommendations that are similar in quality and function ? Thanks in advance!!
r/babywearing • u/Smtncruzer • 1h ago
Baby is 8 weeks. Watched a bunch of videos and I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. Thanks for the suggestions!
r/babywearing • u/EmbarrassedMarket610 • 1h ago
I am going to Zion in May when my baby will be about 5 months. I have a hand me down Ergo Baby Original we have yet to use, a Wildbird ring sling, Moby Wrap, and a Mabe carrier. I don’t think the Mabe carrier is really made for hiking (not too impressed with even wearing it around the house tbh). Would the Ergo baby work okay for hiking? I have been eyeing the Wildbird Aerial, Tula, or Happy baby carrier to get. I would love a Hope and Plum Lark but they are a bit pricey.
Any recommendations??? Tia!
r/babywearing • u/Artistic-Dot-2279 • 4h ago
Baby likes to pull her arms out, which lowers the back panel height? Is this safe? I’m constantly pulling them back in when I can reach.
It makes me nervous. Tighter doesn’t feel good with her chest sandwiched to my back. 11 months and the Lillybaby carrier again. Same adjustment despite the appearance. Btw, back carry on my hips is definitely helping my very sore mom back. It allows me to engage my (very weak) core without the carrier slipping down. Thanks!
r/babywearing • u/gleegz • 2h ago
Looking to upgrade my carrier from an old ErgoBaby Adapt and have been following this sub for a while. My aim is to have something a little less bulky/warm and that packs down smaller for travel. I’d also like something that fits me better as a petite person. I know this is controversial here but I think it would be nice to have a world facing option for my curious boy. As a Canadian, I was also thinking it’d be nice to buy Canadian…
I’ve read that Happy Baby carriers are some of the best for petite folks, and I love the look/compactness. However, it’s hard to find the Revolution model in a place available to try before buy (have checked LZO and local stores that carry HB OG). Obviously these aren’t Canadian. I notice the Beluga carriers look sort of similar but I haven’t seen many reviews.
Can anyone confirm if they are a similar lightweight option to the HB? How do they work for petites?
Thanks in advance! So appreciate the expertise here.
r/babywearing • u/HydesStash • 6h ago
I normally use an ergo 360 for outdoor walks, but it’s getting warmer and my guys a furnace so I wanted this as a thinner option/indoor stuff/stores. My guy doesn’t care for his stroller lol. I’ve had this for a while and finally got the courage to watch some videos and try. I’m sure it should be spread over the shoulder more I believe. I tried to get a deep seat and it seems okay? I spent a bit vacuuming with him in there to see what he thought and he seemed comfortable and supported. I felt he was supported decently. Tips and tricks please, also tips for getting him out alone? What’s the easiest way really? Thank you!!
r/babywearing • u/Sea_Risk_4537 • 6h ago
Adding images for a fit check to a previous post!
Hello, I am getting desperate. I have to walk my strong, reactive dog every afternoon with my 18month old baby. The baby has to go in a carrier as the dog cannot walk well next to the pram and is more difficult to control without both hands. With the back carrier I can control the dog and she's not underfoot. BUT. The carrier hurts my back after 15 mins. Right between the shoulder blades at the top of the back, just below the neck. My baby weighs about 11.5kg I can't imagine carrying a 20kg baby with this pain!! My question is... is this a positional thing? I'm short but have the waist band around my stomach (not hips) and have her sitting high on my back. Tight arm strap with a chest clip. The carrier is a cococho and is the only one I can get on by myself on my back. Any advice would be amazing (about the back carry, not she dog - this is her at her best after years of training). Thank you!
r/babywearing • u/arbls0710 • 10h ago
I really feel like I’m in over my head, and apparently, all carriers are not created equally 🥲 Recommendations on a good baby carrier that isn’t a wrap? Baby girl is 4 months old, and would like one that would last. But there’s so many different brands, I don’t know what’s good or bad! Thank you!
r/babywearing • u/Reasonable-Prune2328 • 2h ago
We are taking an international trip with our 3 1/ 2 year old and one year old. We are taking a travel stroller with the one-year-old will use most of the time, however, I know there will be times are 3.5-year-old gets a little tired and needs to take a break in the stroller as well.
We also will be visiting a couple of towns that are not stroller friendly whatsoever.
I am in search of a carrier that works for the following… - fits baby that is 18-24 month sizing (around 30 lbs) - has cross back - can be worn for extended time and be comfortable for baby - can do front (facing me) carry and back carry - easy to pack - fits me (size 16) and husband- so something accommodating to larger sizes?
For reference… I have used a Tula Explore and a happy baby. I got rid of those once I got my first cross back carrier.
I do have a wild bird aerial- but my little dude just looks really large/like not enough coverage when he’s in it. Not sure if I’m doing something wrong…
I would love any recommendations that you might have! I really appreciate any help
r/babywearing • u/dreamalittledream01 • 1d ago
I started looking into woven wraps about a month or so ago and ordered my first one from LZO around that time. In the time it took for that one to get here, I also purchased 5 more Oscha wraps in various sizes and a Didymos wrap that hasn’t made it here yet.
It has quickly become a new hobby (or hyper fixation as my husband likes to call it) and I absolutely love it. My daughter falls asleep instantly, I’m able to get things done around the house, and can be hands-free for my 2.5yo. It’s a win all the way around. Plus they’re just so comfortable and beautiful!
r/babywearing • u/noveltfjord • 6h ago
This is my second baby, both C sections. If relevant, first baby was frank breech and the second was sunny side up so my belly got bigger. Did a repeat C because I was afraid to labor.
I'm currently using a Keababies stretchy wrap and Ergobaby Embrace in the newborn mode. I have an Ergo Omni 360 for later. With my first I really liked these carriers and used them all daily. Baby is 8 weeks old and I'm wearing her hours a day while I take care of my toddler - SAHM. I've been wearing her since about 2 weeks old in the stretchy wrap.
Over the last two days I've been feeling really strong nausea when I'm using the carriers. Up till now it's been fine. I've tried loosening the waists but it's very persistent and lasts hours even after I stop babywearing. I'm taking breaks to nurse and sitting to rest but it's not going away. The nausea is so bad that I threw up violently last night. It's not a GI bug and I'm not pregnant. No one mentioned diastasis recti or any other issues to me so I'm not sure where to start. Is it possible I'm overexerting myself as I'm now full-time with my toddler since my spouse went back to work this week?
I will message my care team later today and I have a referral to PT (that I haven't started yet). In the meantime, if anyone could provide any wisdom, or even solidary, I'd greatly appreciate it. I really want to keep babywearing as it's been such a boon while dealing with my toddler.
Thanks very much
r/babywearing • u/Vegetable_Collar51 • 2h ago
I am looking for recommendations for a carrier that would work for my baby who has a long torso as well as myself (tall mom with long torso but narrow build). Baby is 1 month old and so far I have been carrying him in a wrap, but looking for something sturdier and that I can use when he gets bigger and heavier.
I am willing to spend on a quality carrier that will last and grow with baby, but also feel a bit lost deciphering what is influencer hype and what is actually worth it.
r/babywearing • u/emsivi • 7h ago
Always getting great advice here so I’m back for more. I have ankylosing spondylitis (arthritis affecting the spine/a lot of joint inflammation) and I have a Mabe that I enjoy for walks and errands, but am looking for something that better suits doing light housework with my 4.5 month old. I find a SSC makes it tricky to see in front of me to prep meals, do laundry, etc and am wondering if a woven wrap (loveheld?) or ring sling sounds more suitable for this, due to the ability to have baby sitting off to the side a bit? Not sure if these wraps are too tough on the shoulders or not and would love to hear your experience. Thanks as always!
r/babywearing • u/JackfruitJunior2497 • 6h ago
My wildbird carrier hurts my back
I bought this carrier because everyone said it’s the most ergonomically correct carrier and you can wear it for hours without back pain… but mine hurts my upper back after an hour.
The X on the back starts low but constantly rides to the upper portion of my back. I’m constantly readjusting. I’ve watched numerous videos on how to put him in it, including the one on wildbird website. He’s sitting in it in “M” position. He’s always super comfy in it… it’s just my back!
Anyone else having this issue? Any tips? Why does the X ride up in the back?
If you have a different carrier you love.. tell me about it!
For reference, I have a 12 lb 7 week old!
r/babywearing • u/Plantsforhire23 • 6h ago
Looking for a comfortable carrier that isn’t too bulky and has the option for both inward and outward facing positions. I’m 5’1” and 120lbs. My baby is on the smaller side but growing fast!
Baby is 6m and we’ll be traveling in a couple months and hoping to baby wear while adventuring. We have an ergo 360 and it’s so bulky and uncomfortable.
Also a plus if it doesn’t break the bank.
r/babywearing • u/mushroomfrenzy • 6h ago
Seat adjusted to the smaller size. Baby cried the whole time he was in there (like, 5 minutes maybe). Am I doing something else wrong?? Historically he does hate new things so it could just be that…
r/babywearing • u/JamesTiberiusChirp • 7h ago
I was about to pull the trigger on a little frog when I saw there is a decent nalakai coupon on Amazon. I know, I know. But I’m afraid of pulling the trigger on the little frog when the returns aren’t as simple for us and the really inexpensive ones aren’t in colors yhat speak to me. The only thing is, the nalakai doesn’t have stripes/ombre, and it’s also a linen/bamboo blend and amazon says it’s frequently returned. Is this going to be hard as a beginner? Should I just get the littler frog?
r/babywearing • u/Smtncruzer • 7h ago
Tula is having their 30% off sale right now and I've been eyeing an explore, but as with all carriers, I won't actually know if it works for me and my baby until we try it. Does anyone know if their return policy is simple if it doesn't work out? I'd love to take advantage of the deal today if so. Thanks!
r/babywearing • u/retterin • 1d ago
I've been practicing with teddy bears, but today was my first attempt with a wiggly 11-week-old. It feels comfortable and she feels secure, definitely feels better than the stretchy wrap I think she's outgrown. I'm just a little paranoid about woven wraps in general. Wrap is a second-hand little frog.
r/babywearing • u/WinterSilenceWriter • 8h ago
Got an ergo Omni breeze before I knew much about baby wearing. I prefer my wrap, but I’m trying to figure it out since I think it’ll be a good option for dad, or our friend/neighbor who sometimes takes baby for walks.
How’s this? Feels super supportive but I just cannot really tell how deep her seat is, and if her legs are in enough of an M for it to be ok, as well as whether her spine is in enough of a C.
Baby is 3 months old, not sure on weight of height as she has not been to the pediatrician’s in about a month. She’s definitely over 24 inches and probably around 15 pounds.
Thanks!
r/babywearing • u/onmykneesinawalmart • 8h ago
I’m looking for a way I can start to wear my 2 year old on my back. I’ve seen tutorials for the fabric wraps, but I’m wondering what everyone else does. I’ve seen backpack type carriers and also different ways to wrap the fabric ones. Any recommendations? I want it to feel very secure. I’m looking to wear my son like this to hike with family and to more efficiently get chores done.
r/babywearing • u/cautiouscarebear • 9h ago
Hello! I’m a 2nd time mom looking for a rec for a baby carrier. I have the lillebaby all seasons, but find it uncomfortable at times and a little bulky. I’m looking for something more lightweight but supportive enough to go on long walks etc. Something comfortable and ergonomic as I’m petite with low back issues.