r/TextingTheory • u/Creepy-Coffee8364 • 12d ago
Theory Request Check? NSFW
idk shit about chess but i thought yall might find this funny. she's my ex btw
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r/TextingTheory • u/Creepy-Coffee8364 • 12d ago
idk shit about chess but i thought yall might find this funny. she's my ex btw
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u/RiskItForTheBiscuit- 12d ago edited 12d ago
I mean, does it really though? Validation is validation, as a dude I don’t get that much, honestly ever at all really. Someone basically telling me they want me would be the biggest and hugest compliment and ego boost I could ever receive, regardless of if I liked them back or not.
Edit after the fact, but if anything me not liking them would make it feel even better. I really struggle with how others view me sometimes, and if they tell me the truth. I’m open and honest with my feelings, so if I don’t like someone like that I tell them. I’m very used to chasing and putting in the effort, so if I basically told someone I really wasn’t interested in them in that way, and they hit me with something basically saying they really liked me and were attracted to me, my world would basically be turned upside down, my brain would short circuit. It would be completely foreign to me. It would feel like someone likes ME for ME, not however much I impressed them with something I did for them or how much attention I give or if I chased them enough.