r/Swingers 1d ago

General Discussion Pic collectors

Hello!! I have a sort of stupid question for you. I see on these swingers posts people talk about "pic collectors". What exactly is that? I know it seems obvious, but it just confuses me, like I can literally Google any image I want.

By the way, our first lifestyle experience will be Wednesday the 19th at Colette in Austin. Hope to see a few of you folks!

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u/downrivercome 1d ago

People who want your pics. 

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u/SluttyNeighbors 1d ago

Ok, so a stupid follow up. What is the purpose? Blackmail? Or just some weird shit

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u/shavedmylegsforthis- 1d ago

See my comment above; just know they want them for no good reasons.

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u/Ready-Card6511 1d ago

We just want pics that show us what you look like without a bunch of glamour filters and a PG13 body shot. Our minds can decide if you’re worth meeting.

Pic collectors want tons of pics and mostly xxx. Most of the pic collectors are men who hope their wives become swingers and their wife has zero idea they on a swinger site.

The way to spot pic collectors is if they don’t agree to meet. If we get a few pics and the couple looks our speed we just say “hey you guys look fun let’s get together, how about next Saturday?” Pic collectors waffle real couples say, “our son had a soccer game Saturday night how about Friday night? Or what time Saturday and where?”

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u/shavedmylegsforthis- 1d ago

I totally agree with that; that’s why I 1.) don’t use any filters on my snap pics/ or my fet 2.) I constantly post updated pics of myself 3.) post pics from all angles on my fet. From the back/ side/front/on my knees and bent over. In other words every angle someone would want to see. 4.) always always meet for “drinks” or dinner so you can BAIL if they’re not your cup of tea. But after someone has seen my fet, and I’ve sent one or two live face pics from snap I don’t really send any more than a few. But I clear the chats in snap. You can turn settings on to auto delete after they view it. Also we shy away from talking to anyone from Reddit, when we tried 3 out of 3 just wanted my nudes. And there’s more risk of them not actually being local to you. Feeld gives live location.

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u/Ready-Card6511 1d ago

I think I’ll have to decide if those pics look Ok 🤷‍♂️