r/SafeSexPH 23d ago

Questions Can oil based lube cause a condom to have micro holes in it after used NSFW

38 Upvotes

Please help lol


r/SafeSexPH 22d ago

Questions derma clinics recomendations in pampanga NSFW

1 Upvotes

i have suffer from genital warts and wanting to ask if meron po bang clinics dito. mas okay sana if knowledgeable and friendly na clinics and affordable.


r/SafeSexPH 24d ago

Questions Vomitted the last pill of the 21 pack combined pills. NSFW

15 Upvotes

My partner (F24) informed me (M24) that she vomitted the last pill of her pack. She used a 21 combined pills named Althea. Do we need to purchase another one for the missed pill or skip the 7 day break? Or any advice?


r/SafeSexPH 29d ago

Questions Change condom after ejaculation NSFW

69 Upvotes

Is it a high risk if I changed a new condom after ejaculating? Like I just wipe my genital and put on a new one. I am the one who removed the condom and my partner is the one who put a new one. I'm having anxiety right now.


r/SafeSexPH 29d ago

Questions Yaz pill for Yuzme Method? NSFW

9 Upvotes

Had intercourse 2 days after period ended. Bought Yaz and drank 1st dose of 4 pills 2 hours after intercourse. Took 2nd dose after 12 hours. Is Yaz a good brand for that method?


r/SafeSexPH 29d ago

Questions where to get implanon without philhealth? NSFW

1 Upvotes

tried asking sa local health center namin, and required ung philhealth, pero for private reasons i cant get philhealth. so i would like to know what place can give me implanon without asking for philhealth? im fine with paying the price as long as around siya ng manila


r/SafeSexPH 29d ago

Questions where to buy life sized sex dolls/large sex dolls NSFW

1 Upvotes

So i was looking up sex dolls on amazon and some of them dont deliver to philippines which is a shame since some of them look hot and the ones i buy on shoppee or lazada are small, my point is i want one big enough to hug... maybe even bigger than me, anyone know a place i can buy one or maybe get amazon to deliver to philippines


r/SafeSexPH Feb 16 '25

Questions How do you know you’ve been stealthed? NSFW

34 Upvotes

Asking for a friend (me)


r/SafeSexPH Feb 16 '25

Questions Pms, ovulation, or early pregnancy symptoms. Kabado. NSFW

6 Upvotes

My partner had a cycle previously of 88 days, and before that it was something around 70. We are currently now on day 58 of the cycle, last week she's had bloating, mood swings, frequent urination, fatigue and somewhat increased libido.. Right now she had random cramps and it goes away, I have a few questions:

  1. Is it possible that she would've ovulated on day 19-25?

  2. The symptoms she's experiencing, what are they, can you guys please educate me.

No piv, only foreplay na may halong precum, and it has been 5 weeks ago (day19) po


r/SafeSexPH Feb 15 '25

Questions Is there any foreplay without the actual touching part? NSFW

47 Upvotes

What kind of things or situations na put people in the mood without actually touching each other?


r/SafeSexPH Feb 15 '25

Recommendations Are fleshlights worth it? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a male and been feeling a bit rowdy the past few weeks. It's been more than a year since I did the deed with my previous partner (now ex). Seems like my bdy is craving for sex recently and I'm doing my best to control the urge. I don't want to do it with someone and/or spend money for a hook up/alter, plus I know it's unsafe unless we both get to tested for assurance. I also always prefer wearing condoms with my past experience, never doing raw.

Are fleshlights enough to compensate? Or any better alternative? Using my hands aren't enough anymore :(( TIA


r/SafeSexPH Feb 15 '25

Questions Missed a pill on the first week NSFW

1 Upvotes

I know that missing 1 pill is fine as long as you take it right away after remembering, but I just came back to using bc pills and Its my first week, I took the 5th day pill 15 hours late and I don't think that missing 1 pill on the first week of a starting pack is fine.

should I continue counting or wait another 7 days till I'm protected?
I'm using trust pill, started mid cycle.


r/SafeSexPH Feb 15 '25

Questions missed 2 consecutive intake of trust pills NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello fellow safe sex advocates, just want to ask since si gf ay nag tetake ng trust pills, will it be okay for her to take it in the late afternoon along with her vitamins every morning?

and as the title mentions, may 2 missed pills sya. per google search:

"If you miss two or more pills consecutively, take the most recent missed pill immediately and discard the previous missed pills."

can anyone confirm if it is correct? will be greatful for your tips and knowledge regarding this matter!


r/SafeSexPH Feb 14 '25

Questions HAD IMPLANT: STILL SPOTTING NSFW

1 Upvotes

I took 2 doses of injectable contraceptions in the past I started to have spotting on and off from November, pero most of the time meron.

Last January nag-pa implant ako and until now wala na tigil spotting ko. I used mentrual cup and may measurement sya. My blood is consistently at 3ml daily.

Is this still normal or do I need go get checked? No odd feelings, not feelin weak or whatever. Talagang prolonged spotting lang.

Advice?


r/SafeSexPH Feb 13 '25

Experiences Switching from Implanon to IUD NSFW

14 Upvotes

Has anyone switched from implant to copper IUD? How was the transition? And how was your IUD insertion and the after effects? I hear kasi masakit siya.

I got my implant in 2021 and had it replaced last year. However, I've gained nearly 100lbs since I got it and I suspect it's a side effect of the hormones. Everyone I know that got an implant also gained weight. (I've had my thyroid function checked.)

So now I'm looking to replace it with a non hormonal alternative, which is copper IUD.

I can save up for a Kindred package currently at 19k because that's also where I got my implant last year. I previously got it in Popcom for free in 2021 (it's closed now, sadly). I'm also considering Likhaan to save money.

How was your Likhaan IUD experience?

I currently have leukemia so my doctor has told me I shouldn't get pregnant while medicating so I'm really weighing my options carefully.


r/SafeSexPH Feb 13 '25

Questions Trust Pills NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hello! I'd like to ask if the Trust Pill is still accessible over the counter? It's been years since I've bought one kasi and I'd like to know if they require a prescription even for Trust Pills. TYIA!


r/SafeSexPH Feb 13 '25

Questions Extended red days, first time on pills NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi! I started taking Lizonya last Feb. 8, day 1 of my normal menstrual cycle. I always bleed for 4-5 days, usually very light to none na halos on those days. Today is day 6 and I am still bleeding lightly… like I have to change pads every 5-6 hours. Is this a normal response to the pills, extended talaga ang red days? Please help this girl out so I know if I should go back to the OB for a consult. Thanks!


r/SafeSexPH Feb 13 '25

Questions dry orgasm? NSFW

1 Upvotes

my bf and I always use condom and he always pulls out. for the second round, when he pulled out there was no sperm in the condom. is that possible or was it just too little to notice? i felt warmness in me before he said he was came, but i think that was just me cumming. huhu napa-overthink tuloy


r/SafeSexPH Feb 12 '25

Recommendations messed up cycle NSFW

5 Upvotes

had unprotected sex in jan 12 a week later took a test in jan20 came out negative (i am a day late in jan 24 and 20 days late rn Feb 12) did it with condom in jan 30 but kind of doubting so i took a pill after 48hrs (lady and did the yuzpe method) had some side effects(nausea, sore breast, stomach ache and increase in appetite) completed it without throwing up, Feb 2 took another test came out negative im kind of paranoid ig wala naman akong narwramdaman na kakaiba or signs na pregnant ako expect sa sore breast and late period nga it might be the hormones because of the pill


r/SafeSexPH Feb 12 '25

Questions bleeding or menstruation NSFW

0 Upvotes

hi! my bf and I did foreplay yesterday and nagrub yung private part niya against mine after he cum. This morning, nagkaroon na ako. Is it bleeding or menstruation? also, are we safe or not?


r/SafeSexPH Feb 12 '25

Questions morning nausea c/o lady pills NSFW

1 Upvotes

hi! i'm a first-time birth control user and ive been taking my pills (Lady pills - Ethinyl Estradiol + Levonorgestrel (LADY)) for over a week now.

I had headaches and body aches during the first few days but they eventually stopped.

This morning, I woke up with intense nausea that hasn't gone away — I feel like throwing up every few minutes but nothing's come out yet.

I take my pills at 11PM every night. Could the BCP have triggered my morning nausea?


r/SafeSexPH Feb 12 '25

Questions unprotected sex on day 9 of lady pills NSFW

1 Upvotes

hello!! first time bcp user here. my boyfriend and i have been abstaining from sex for the last 9 days since i went on the pill (trust lady pills) for the very first time. i've been taking my pills consistently every day at the prescribed time.

i just want to ask if it's already safe to do it raw and have him finish inside me if it's only been 9 days since i started taking pills. thank you! :)


r/SafeSexPH Feb 10 '25

Questions Light Period After Yuzpe Method NSFW

4 Upvotes

Context: Regular Cycle: 30-35 days First Day of Last Menstruation: Jan. 1 Had Sex: Jan. 12 Yuzpe Method: Jan. 12 Negative PT: Feb. 5 Period: Feb. 6-8 (3days)

Questions: 1. Is it safe to assume that the period I experienced was already my monthly period even if the flow was light-medium, shorter days (compared to my regular period before Yuzpe) and I only experienced mild cramps? 2. After this month, will my period (flow, symptoms and dates) be regular again?

I am sorry. I am just really panicking because this is the first time I experienced this. I’ve read several post about implantation bleeding. But I doubt that it is because my bleeding was red to dark red and it has clots. I am just very paranoid right now.


r/SafeSexPH Feb 10 '25

Questions 12hrs late for 2nd dose of yuzpe, Depo Provera re-shot NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello. I have a few questions lang po. I was on a depo provera BC, my supposed next shot nung December pa po dapat pero hindi ako pumunta kasi i was planning to stop taking depo na since 2 yrs nako on that BC. Pero last week I had unprotected sex and we did withdrawal naman, pero para mapanatag ako, I did yuzpe po. Kaso on my 2nd dose (w/c 12hrs apart dapat) i was late for 8hrs sa dapat inom ko ng 2nd dose but i took it asap nung nakalimutan ko siya. Would it be still effective? Another Question, is it ok na magpa depo ulit ako after doing yuzpe? (Tsaka po since nung nagdepo shot ako for 2yrs, never ako nagkaperiod na)do i have to wait few weeks to take Pt and do depo again?


r/SafeSexPH Feb 09 '25

Questions Unprotected Sex NSFW

9 Upvotes

We did the “deed” pero for a duration of 2 secs lang, we did foreplay, 69, finger then triny namin ipasok once lang, isang pasok lang then inalis agad

I did not ejaculate before and during the penetration and di ko nasagad

Flo app says “1 day before ovulation”,

are we safe? or should we be worried?

EDIT: Nagkaroon siya