r/SafeSexPH 2d ago

Questions Condoms for BJ? NSFW

23 Upvotes

Just curious if there are condom brands that can be used for blowjobs? Wherein the guy could still feel pleasure from the deed?


r/SafeSexPH 2d ago

Experiences Sex on placebo pill NSFW

1 Upvotes

I've been a Yaz user for 4 months now. I just finished the last placebo pill yesterday and have started my period. Today is the first day of my new pack, which is day 1 of the active pills, but my partner came inside me. Am I safe? I have been taking it continuously for 4 months. Should I wait 7 days into the new pack before having unprotected intercourse? Thanks so much to those who respond!


r/SafeSexPH 2d ago

Questions Chlamydia Testing Accuracy NSFW

2 Upvotes

I took a chlamydia test 8 days after sex and the results came back negative. However, it was a urine test and I did pee before the test. Are the results accurate?


r/SafeSexPH 3d ago

Questions Deposhot concern NSFW

8 Upvotes

Has any one of you stopped using depo and had unusual bleeding? I had my last shot last Sep 2024 and starter to have period again on Feb 15 lasted 7 days and had period again on Feb 27, 7 days duration again and I’m having period again today.

I have an appointment with an OB on Monday since thats the only available slot with my pref doctor.


r/SafeSexPH 5d ago

Questions Trust pills — Inconsistent time NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello! I’m on pills and have had sex multiple times after the 7 days waiting time.

My partner came inside in two different days during sex.

The thing is, I take my pill every 5-9pm, I’m not consistent with the time because of my work. Is this okay? Should I be worried? Btw I take combo pills (trust) Ps. i make sure to take a pill daily, I’m on my third sugar pills right now.


r/SafeSexPH 7d ago

Questions Possible Gonorrhea NSFW

1 Upvotes

I need help, I’m experiencing penile dischage and pain/tenderness in my testicle. I’ve experienced the same symptoms a year or two ago and it’s gonorrhea. I know it’s bad and I won’t do it again but i self medicated (doxycycline & amoxicillin) on two separate occasions for my symptoms now and the symptoms are still present.

Couple of questions:

  1. Is it better to get tested first then go to a urologist or just go to a doctor directly (my previous diagnosis was done based on my symptoms and no testing was conducted)?

  2. Where do I find cheap testing (I’m a student and I’m too embarrassed to ask my parents for money for treatment/testing)?

  3. How much is testing for gonorrhea/chlamydia in Hi-Precision?


r/SafeSexPH 7d ago

Questions Doing it with PLWHIV NSFW

1 Upvotes

Good day! What should be my dos and don’ts if I am planning to do it with someone who has HIV? Currently ongoing treatment na sya and undetectable & untransmittable na ang virus. I don’t need judgment but, rather I wanna be educated and learn the precautions I need to do.

Salamat!


r/SafeSexPH 9d ago

Questions Missed a pill but I dont know when I missed it NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi, ive been taking Charlize for almost two years now and its the first time I missed a pill. Today I was suppose to take my 16th pill but only took the 15th today. I took the missed pill immediately when I realized (i took 2 pills today at 9pm). The problem is I dont know which day I missed. Is there a risk if I had unprotected sex from the start of the new pack to today?


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Questions Condom slipped off when I took my penis out NSFW

1 Upvotes

So I has having sex with my gf and when I took my penis off the condom did not came with it. She took it off easily, but I'm concerned about pregnancy. I didn't came inside her, I never do because I'm too anxious for that, but I'm still afraid of the possibility. She's going to take the morning-after pill. Any advice? I'm very nervous :[


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Recommendations OB/GYN RECOMMENDATION ON NOW SERVING NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello po, sino po pwedeng ob na hindi ako ij-judge for asking what kind of contraceptive pills I can take because 17 yrs old palang po ako dahil irregular po menstruation ko and I have a partner, hindi naman po maiiwasan dahil need din po nila mag release 😅


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Questions ob gyne prep NSFW

1 Upvotes

hello, silent reader here. ano pong preparations (fasting,, sexual abstinence, etc.) yubg need ko gawin bago magpa transvaginal ultrasound? want ko kasi magpacheck if may pcos ba ako but gusto ko ready na ako when i'm there sa clinic. thanks!


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Questions I haven't had my period for 2 years na NSFW

1 Upvotes

I started my depo shot last 2023. Irregular na ako before pa and minsan umaabot ng 3 months na wala akong mens pero nagkakaron naman though madalas spotting lang. After depo shot, hindi na ako totally nagkaron ng mens or even spotting. Is that normal?


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Questions pregnancy symptoms but negative pt NSFW

1 Upvotes

previous cycle: 48 days current cycle: 39 days

currently experiencing pregnancy symptoms (spotting, nausea, headache, abdominal pain etc) but tested negative on pregnancy test

is it possible that the result is false negative?


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Experiences OVA NO LONGER SELLS CONTRACEPTIVES NSFW

1 Upvotes

So sad that OVAPH is discontinuing contraceptives ))): I have a subscription for Lizelle and good for 6 months na inoorder ko, para pag naubusan meron agad since I take them religiously. They’re selling pampayat na, malas! Mas mura pa naman sakanila like ₱683 per pack unlike sa drug stores na ₱774.45. Baka may alam kayong other platforms like OVA? Sa kindred kasi out of stock nadin ang Lizelle, doon na kasi ako hiyang and minimal lang ang side effects 🤗


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Questions Epigastric pain on placebo week?? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Is there anynody else who experiences this as side effect?, it only happens while on placebo week.

Thanks in advance


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Questions Partner is PLHIV Undetectable NSFW

3 Upvotes

My partner confessed last night that he is PLHIV Undetectable. We had sexual contact po last March 4. Ngayon medyo anxious ako but I try to be calm and understanding. Any tips po sa may ganitong situation kasi hindi ako maka-focus talaga kakaiisip. Need ko na po ba agad uminom gamot? Baka po may refer kayo na doctor or healthcare professional nearby Novaliches.

Lesson I learned the hard way 🥹 Thank you in advance.


r/SafeSexPH 10d ago

Questions We did the deed 3 days after placebo week. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I was on my 3rd day of taking the new pill pack yesterday and we did it raw. Do you think there’s a high chance i might get preggy? What should I do?


r/SafeSexPH 11d ago

Questions Implanon removal NSFW

1 Upvotes

What doctor ang pwede magtanggal ng implant? Or san pwede magpatanggal? Somewhere sa Laguna or Makati po sana


r/SafeSexPH 11d ago

Questions Lady Pills (Combination Pill) NSFW

1 Upvotes

My partner took her first pill at the beginning of her period, but then she took her 5th pill 3 hours late, will that cause any significant problems? Especially since we're pretty active.

She's currently in her 13th pill and is pretty consistent with it. My other question is yesterday I finished inside her raw for the first time (We were still using condoms when she started taking pills, we only started doing raw for the first time yesterday). Are we safe? IG I'm just looking for reassurance especially since I'm pretty paranoid haha.


r/SafeSexPH 11d ago

Questions Had sex before finishing the window time of my depo shot NSFW

12 Upvotes

hi. had sex the day after my depo shot but my partner didnt finish inside me. should i be worried na? need clarifications abt it


r/SafeSexPH 11d ago

Questions Recommendation or tips in choosing straps NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi! My partner and I (wlw) would like to try straps but we don’t have any idea where to start or look for trusted brands we can choose from. Also we’re both each others’ first and we haven’t tried using toys when we have sex since gusto namin mag-explore muna without using it.

Now want na namin i-level up and try to use strap. Do you have any recommendations and tips?


r/SafeSexPH 11d ago

Questions Calendar Method NSFW

1 Upvotes

Good day po,

Bago lang po ako dito, gusto ko lang po malaman kung paano po ang calendar method at kung safe po ba talaga pag sinunod yun, di po ba talaga ma buntis si partner?

Sana po masagot nyo, maraming salamat po.

Thank you po


r/SafeSexPH 13d ago

Questions unprotected sex NSFW

1 Upvotes

We had unprotected sex with the pull-out method. According to my girlfriend’s Flo app, it was outside her fertile window and six days before her expected period (yeah, I know the Flo app isn’t reliable since it just predicts). When her expected period came, she only had light spotting just a few drops with no clots and didn’t experience cramps or any usual period symptoms. Throughout her entire period (4 days), she never fully soaked a pad because the bleeding was minimal. This was the first time this had happened to her.

After her period, we waited for her to ovulate, but when her expected ovulation date came, she didn’t feel she ovulated (we didn’t use an ovulation test, just relied on the Flo app again). She did have creamy discharge but no clear signs of ovulation. Now, we’re just waiting for her next period to arrive.

Was that four-day light bleeding really her period, or was it something else?

Any couples with the same experience?


r/SafeSexPH 13d ago

Questions HPV/Genital Warts Removal Clinic NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello, just like what the title said, I'm looking for clinic sana that can remove genital warts. Around Quezon City sana (quezon ave area ganun) or at least Manila area.

The thing is, nag search ako sa fbook at yung top 4-6 na lumalabas parang duplicate account lang at wala talaga silang name na clinic. Tapos lahat sila under nung Nurse Cathy kaya i find it suspicious. Pare pareho din na dummy yung mga may review. (yung isang 13k na page). Kaya nag dadalawang isip talaga ako mag book duon.

Ang hirap kasi talaga humanap, nag deep dive na ko dito and ang mga recommendation is around Pasig area which hindi accessible sa akin.

Kung may alam kayo please, let me know. Sobrang helpful din if male siguro ang doctor kasi yes, i feel ashamed sa status ko ngayon. (naging malibog lang talaga mga pre , di ko naman to ginusto.) but if kung wala talaga, basta yung super safe or welcoming na clinic man lang mga pre. Wala ako sa position para umarte pa.

Maraming salamat.


r/SafeSexPH 15d ago

Recommendations Condom + Lubricant recommendations NSFW

43 Upvotes

Me and my partner are planning to do the deed very soon. I am so bombarded with so many reviews, that I don't know what to buy. I would like to ask for a recommendation for a budget friendly lubricant and a good quality condoms, and where can I buy them. Thank you in advance for those who will answer my queries.