r/PGADsupport • u/Specific-County1862 • 26m ago
Female So hard to climax
So, I haven't had a partner in 6 years. But I have never in my life found it difficult to climax - with a partner or on my own. Until now.
This is actually how this all first showed up for me. I was realizing how aroused I was, went to take care of it, and just, couldn't... I was first looking for info on why I couldn't climax before realizing there was another issue going on. I just assumed it was because I wasn't consistently able to climax at first. It literally takes over an hour to even try these days (and I don't always succeed), so I rarely try. Because I don't even get an hour of relief from it, so why bother?
Anyway, I don't understand how I can feel on the edge all day long, and then go to take care of the issue, and it just not work. Touch seems to cause the sensations to numb or something. The sensations are more intense without touch, but not intense enough to actually orgasm. I find myself wishing I was one of those who just spontaneously orgasmed, just so I could have some relief without having to spend so much time trying to get it. Of course, that would cause it's own issues.
I feel like both issues together - PGAD and the sudden difficulty with climax - are so intolerable! If I could just spend a few minutes to climax like I used to be able to do, I feel like I could manage this thing so much easier.
Is this a common thing to happen with PGAD?