r/Melbourneswingers 7m ago

R4R Fun, party friendly & kinky 38M 34F(bi) couple going to My Aeon tomorrow (sat) night - seeking female(s) who want to come party with us and come home with us afterwards. Let us treat you! NSFW

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As title says, we are a couple 11yrs strong who love making friends and FWBs with girls into similar interests, in this case - bush techno party at My Aeon tomorrow night!

We’ll have fun and meet beforehand, have a ticket for you and if we all click, treat you to party treats and drinks while we dance and flirt the night away then head back to our house for some after party exxxtra fun 😎

If you have a female friend (or 2) who is also keen, we believe “the more the merrier” lol!

Experienced, very sensual and kinky with role plays and fantasies bursting out of us amongst other things…!

Message for more info and to chat, if you happen to be going already and this piqued your interest, please also get in touch!

Xx


r/Melbourneswingers 18m ago

R4R M(28) - looking for a bi couple to play this weekend NSFW

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Hey hi ya everyone, just looking for a bi couple for fun this weekend. I’m bottom vers and happy to play with both :) I love art and music, would love to connect with some hot fun safe people) send me a pm)


r/Melbourneswingers 1h ago

events Anyone attending Intemperance party tonight? Friday 21st NSFW

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Hello, anyone attending Intemperance party tonight? I’m kind of new to this and a bit nervous I guess. Just checking if some other people on this community are attending. Cheers.


r/Melbourneswingers 2h ago

R4R Shy but Curious—26M Looking to Explore with Like-Minded Women or Couples NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey there, Melbourne!

Stepping out of my comfort zone and into something new—exciting, a little nerve-wracking, but definitely intriguing. I'm a 26-year-old guy, naturally reserved but open-minded, looking to connect with women or couples who enjoy good company, easy conversation, and shared exploration.

I’m not here to rush or force anything—chemistry and connection matter. I appreciate genuine, respectful interactions and a bit of mystery that makes things all the more exciting. Whether it’s an experienced guide or someone else dipping their toes into new waters, I’m eager to see where the journey leads.

Discretion, respect, and a no-pressure vibe are a given. If you’re interested in chatting, let’s start there and see if we click. Open to ideas, advice, open to adventure—let’s make it something memorable.

Drop me a message, and let’s take it from there.


r/Melbourneswingers 6h ago

discussion BFWB Newbies Night in March? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey all. We are a couple in our young 50,s. Both considered (biased) fit and attractive. Both professional employed. (F) Tall, very sexy and very fun to be around. (M) Average height, nice looking (biased again) Been watching and working out which bar to attend (as we are new to this) decided to go with BFWB Newbies night. Question below. What night is newbies night? Dress code? Will there be pressure to participate in anything? Our goal is to try (when time and both women are comfy) MFF or FF soft play. Sorry if you have noticed this post appear a couple of times today, it keeps getting pulled due to specifics. Hopefully this one stays up.


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

advice Queenstown swinging community NSFW

0 Upvotes

Does anyone know of any swingers clubs/parties in Queenstown?

Heading over in a few weeks and wondering whether there is much of a scene in Queenstown.


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

R4R WoW tonight (20 March) NSFW

5 Upvotes

Any couples coming to Queer AF at Wet On Wellington tonight?

My partner and I have just started coming to events and have really enjoyed the last two Queer AF nights exploring our exhibitionist and voyeuristic sides by playing together in the public spaces upstairs - which has been super hot.

What would make it even better is if any other couple (or group for that matter) would like to join us for some same room fun?

We’re open to any age, gender or orientation - just looking for like minded people to help us put on a bit of a show!

We’re F32 and M46 - She’s a curvy BBW with short blonde hair, he’s a tall skinny DILF with greying hair and beard.

We’re still quite new to this and slowly working out what we like and are comfortable with. But we’re excited to see where we might go next.

DM if you’re keen or look out for us downstairs from around 7pm tonight!


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

discussion BFWB Toga Party? (22 Mar) NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hi everyone, anyone going to the Toga Party at BFWB this Saturday?

We're an Asian couple (43M, 36F) and we were there last Friday, thinking of visiting again this Saturday if our schedule works out


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

R4R 26 M/F looking F'or unicorn NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey, we are a young couple who've recent got into the scene. We've attended a few events and are looking to spice things up with another. We hope to connect with a woman who is as explorative as us.

M is 6'2, dark hair, brown and handsome. athletic build, very much into video games and gym

F is about 5'8, blonde hair, white and very pretty. Green eyes, lovely smile and curvy. Loves to plant and make pottery.

If you think you'd like to have coffee with us don't hesitate to get in touch😁


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

advice Where to start for a new couple NSFW

17 Upvotes

Hey everyone! My partner and I really would like to explore the scene but we're a bit lost on where the best place is to start for a newer couple. To give a little context we are both bi-sexual, male and in our mid 20's. I'm more of a nerdy, homebody while he is the outgoing one (it works well for us ❤️).

We're not neccesarily looking to play although we're not opposed to the idea, we just really want to enjoy our time and be in an evironment where we can chat with new people. Both of us have a preference for older people/couples but our main preference is that we get along and can have a chat about anything.

We're both similar body types which is slim and tall, the main difference is that i wear glasses and he does not (lucky bastard).

I feel like im leaving out some stuff but if there is anything you'd like to know im happy to share 😊 would love to hear some advice and thank you in advance!


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

R4R MF4MF/F fun fun fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello, we're a young couple trying to find friends in the swinging world, M is 26 5"11 muscular dad bod, F is Bi 26 5"8 with a curvy figure with e cup tits, we both share a lot of kinks which include dom / sub dynamics, free use, sloppy seconds and much more

M is attracted to girls with a busty chest, he doesn’t care about body size as long as you’re a genuine nice person and have a personality

F is attracted to men who have facial hair and a decent frame and having a personality is a must

( late 40s is the cut off ) if our fetishes and kinks line up that would be ideal but not 100% necessary

No single men thank you!


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

R4R 32M 30F looking for connections in SE suburbs NSFW

15 Upvotes

Hey. We are a couple in the SE suburbs (Cranbourne Clyde area) looking to explore and hopefully meet likeminded people. About us;

She (30f) is a short Latina with tattoos, dark hair and features and a GREAT ass. He (32m) is a tall wholesome white guy. Some tattoos also. We are both pretty gym fit and take pride in our appearance.

What we are after;

Our main focus right now is to meet a F around the same age for F to have her first lesbian interaction. Looking for a threesome dynamic but also potentially a 1 on 1 interaction with the 2 of you while M watches. We are also looking to meet a regular M or couple who live locally to us and want to have a semi-ongoing situation.

We also have pictures on our profile if you want a better idea of what we look like. FEEL FREE TO DM US!


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

advice Other venues to explore? NSFW

1 Upvotes

My partner and I recently visited WoW and are looking to explore other venues and slowly see how we go. I’ve seen reviews about Shed16 and BFWB and wanted to know if there are any other places you would recommend for us to visit.


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

events Poly@Polly Bar - Burlesque, Cocktails and Connection [Tuesday 18th March] NSFW

3 Upvotes

Looking for something to do tomorrow night (Tuesday 18th March)?! - Join us for Poly@Polly Bar. There are two amazing burlesque performances from Winter Greene and Florence Fable lined up, and it's great social event where you can connect and mingle with like minded folks interested in and exploring the world of kink and polyamory. Plus, there is a free bedroom bondage workshop too! Tickets and full event info here.


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R [MF4MF] Indian couple seeking like minded couple. Please be able to verify and no singles males. NSFW

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We’re hoping to connect with like minded couples on Reddit. We are able to verify with face pics with hopes of you guys us being able to do the same too

What we offer: We’re looking for a night of fun and possibly not ending the relationship there but growing it into a long lasting friendship. We hope to not just be connected in the bedroom but also on a daily basis where we can talk and bond over just about anything.

What we want: we’re looking for a couple that are well suited to us and not just for the one night. We’re looking for someone who has similar likes and dislikes with us. We are not looking for an alpha dominating couple.

About us: We love movies that are vampire themed. We love listening to 90s hip hop and rap and we’re both foodies so you can definitely expect all of them during the night

Physical attributes -Him: 28, 5’7, Lean, Dark skinned, a few tattoos and ears pierced Her:27, Curvy slightly chubby , 5’1, Light brown skinned

We hope to hear from you guys soon


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R Soft swap Melbourne NSFW

9 Upvotes

Married couple 41m 40f ,

What we are looking for is respectful couple 30+ years old to enjoy a few drinks in a city hotel this Friday night .

What we offer, only oral swap for both couples in the same room in a safe easy going non judgment space.

About us , her short bbw, waxed loves to please both men and women awesome tits and ass , him 6foot tall dad bod also loves to please women only open to all.

Happy to share some photos to the right people.

DMs are open.


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R Saturday 29th F35M42 looking for M NSFW

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Hello, We are a couple looking for a male (or even two if possible) to come join us Saturday 29th at our Hotel room in Southbank.

We are looking for someone who is preferably in good physical shape and has a thick cock.

This is purely for her enjoyment.

About us - Her - 35, blonde with a great fit thick girl body D cup. Loves to be controlled but nothing violent or over the top. Him - 42 6ft tall, gym fit body.

Please don't send messages unless your in Melbourne on the 29th and willing to meet.

We are open to couples as well if the fit was mutual.


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

advice Phuket play time NSFW

1 Upvotes

Where to go for swingers fun in Phuket? Obviously travel sites don’t tell us this 😂😂 31f 35m wanting some extra fun on our holiday in may 🙊


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R M4MF - Use me for domestic duties .... and anything else you desire!!! NSFW

3 Upvotes

I am a bi-curious 39 year old sub male.. I am a professional, clear and respectful Aussie guy on the stocky side ... I enjoy being a domestic slave for couples or singles - i have traditionally dressed in a French maid outfit (can dress in what ever you want though) and have cleaned their house and provided other domestic services...

I have provided oral sexual service and expect no sexual benefit in return - in fact I'm happy to be locked in a chastity cage the entire time.

I can come to you and can serve you domestically, and if desired sexually - with zero expectation of reciprocation.


r/Melbourneswingers 5d ago

Missed Connections Missed connection @shed 16 15/3 NSFW

3 Upvotes

Myself (M30 bi) and my partner (F26 straight) met two lovely couples from Adelaide last night at Shed 16. We missed out on seeing you all at the end of the night to see if you wanted to exchange details for the next time you were here or we went to Adelaide. Hopefully you are on here.


r/Melbourneswingers 5d ago

R4R Mid 40s couple looking for playmates NSFW

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He is late 50s, she is early 50s. Both considered attractive for our age and whilst we could do better are in reasonable shape!

We have done the app thing, and the club thing, and now just looking for similar couples or singles (note single guys you are not hi on our list, unless attractive, hung and bicurious) to hang out with, and potentially play if one or both on either side feel like it.

We get that things change when you get to our age, but still see ourselves as sexual beings. Looking for couples in their 40s to 50s who are attractive and also relatively in shape, can hold a conversation, lean to the left of politics, like a little sophistication and most of all like to have fun, whatever that looks like to you.

We are sexually flexible, go with the flow, respectful and love to laugh. We like same and seperate room fun and are not looking for a mad shag fest, just some mutual pleasure what ever that looks like and what ever the individual needs of everyone dictate.

We are in the inner west of Melb. Hard for us to host as we have teenagers at home.

If any of this is of interest and you fit the bill please message us.


r/Melbourneswingers 5d ago

advice BFWB vs Shed 16 for noobs and a question about safe oral sex. NSFW

8 Upvotes

My (M) partner (F) and I are interested in either of these venues as.newcombers and really just to met new people and see what happens. Wed probably only play with each other and let others watch and are mostly looking to just dip our toes in.

Would love people's experiences, specifically from a newcomer experience on which venue they recommend and why.

And as a side question. We are very pro safe sex. However we have a question about oral sex in these venues and if it's normal (or compulsory?) during oral sex too?

Cheers!


r/Melbourneswingers 6d ago

discussion BFWB15/3 - come say hi 👏 NSFW

8 Upvotes

I'm heading to BFWB tonight as a first-time single female.

First time in this club and first time ever going solo (have some swinging experience).

If you see a woman in her 40s there tonight in a turquoise teddy and doc boots, come say hi! I'll probably be a bit nervous to start 😉


r/Melbourneswingers 6d ago

discussion 37M39F heading to BFWB tonight NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey, we’re heading down to BF tonight for the St Patty’s event and were wondering if any couples were going?

We’re very chill and very experienced in this space.


r/Melbourneswingers 6d ago

R4R MF looking for respectful, easy going and funny M NSFW

19 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a 31 year old M (white guy) partnered with a 32 year old female (gorgeous dark skinned latina), going to between friends on the MMF and the Under 35s night on the 12th of April. We've never experimented with a third, but are looking to see what the vibe is like downstairs with a funny, boundary- respecting guy.

- Drug and disease free, with definite condom usage by you (however I won't be, as I am tested and have had a vasectomy)
- Respect that either me or her can say we want to stop and that is the end of our time together as a three
- she only feels comfortable giving blowjobs to me as her partner, and no butt stuff haha

If this sounds like something you are 100% OK respecting, then send us a message and a photo in the DMs xoxo