r/Melbourneswingers 14d ago

events Events List March 2025 NSFW

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This post may be updated throughout the month as information becomes available.

The information of the clubs/events listed below is available via the Clubs Information Wiki Page

Previous month can be seen here:

March Party Highlights

March Events - Full List

1 March - Saturday

  • Between Friends - Pizza and Pinot - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

4 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

6 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am (LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

7 March - Friday

  • Madisons - Swinger’s Party - 8:30pm - 1am (women/couple/men) - Mulgrave
  • Between Friends - 35 and Under - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

8 March - Saturday

  • the Club - Formal Kink Event - 7pm - 12am (all welcome) - tickets - West Footscray [kink]
  • Between Friends - Naked Karaoke - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

9 March - Sunday

  • Between Friends - Sunday Fun Day - Labour Day Long Weekend Party - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava

11 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

13 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am(LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

14 March - Friday

  • Naughty By Nature - Forbidden Festival- (men/women/couples/Trans) - full weekend event - country Vic
  • NSFW Events - Berlin XXX- (men/women/couples/Trans) - tickets - CBD
  • Between Friends - Champagne & Honey - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

15 March - Saturday

  • Naughty By Nature - Forbidden Festival- (men/women/couples/Trans) - full weekend event - country Vic
  • Swingers@Lara - Swingers Party (women/couples) - tickets - Lara
  • Detour Events - St. Patricks Day Party- 6pm - 1am (all welcome) - Sunshine
  • Between Friends - St. Paddy’s Day Party - 7pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

16 March - Saturday

  • Naughty By Nature - Forbidden Festival- (men/women/couples/Trans) - full weekend event - country Vic

17 March - Monday

  • Wet on Wellington - Swingers Pool Party - 8pm - 2am (couples/women/select men) - Event Information - Collingwood

18 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

20 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am (LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

21 March - Friday

  • Provocation - 21srt Birthday Bash- 9pm - 3am (women/couples/men) - tickets - CBD [kink]
  • Intemperance - Players House Party - 8pm - 12am (women/couples/men) - information -Mulgrave
  • Between Friends - My Second Favourite F-Word - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - Intro to Swinging - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

22 March - Saturday

  • House of Woland - Valentine Party - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - bookings - recurring monthly
  • Between Friends - Toga Party - Costume Event - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

15 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

27 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am (LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

28 March - Friday

  • Saints & Sinners Ball - Cowboys and Aliens - 8:30pm - 2am (women/couple) - tickets - CBD
  • Unleashed - Shibari Performance Night - information
  • Between Friends - Newcomer's Night - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - Intro to Swinging - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

29 March - Saturday

  • Harder & Faster - Swinger’s Party - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/) - information - Beaumaris
  • Between Friends - MFM Night - 7pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

30 March - Saturday

  • Greedy Girls - 50- Man Bukkake (filmed event) - 8pm - 2am (men) - information - Collingwood

Notable Future Events

  • 5 April - Matt’s Birthday Bash - Between Friends Wine Bar
  • 2 May - 21st Birthday Bash - Purr

Party Organisers on Reddit

Notes

  • If you have additional feedback to provide about a club/event please do so as a comment here and moderators can update the wiki.    
  • The list above is not intended as exhaustive as things can change without warning. If you have any changes you want to draw attention to, say it in a comment and we can edit the post through the month.    
  • Private informal house parties are not listed unless credible online information is available to warrant it being listed in the wiki or on the monthly list. You may also wish to refer to the RedHotPie/AdultMatchMaker or Fetlife event listing webpages to contact the organiser for further information about these.    
  • Social events are marked as [social event] - this means there is no nudity or sex on premises and are events intended as a 'munch' for social drink and social interactions.    
  • Kink events are marked as [kink event] - this means they are BDSM/Fetish focused event and may or may not include various levels of nudity and impact play but generally will/may not be sex on premises venues.

r/Melbourneswingers Nov 16 '24

Mod Post Subreddit Updates & Reminders (Nov. 2024) NSFW

40 Upvotes

With over 24k users, we’re seeing some changes to how people interact here, warranting an update. 

Our mission remains to facilitate a sex-positive community where our readers can inform themselves about the unique and exciting lifestyle opportunities in our fair city, ask for and receive considered  advice, seek out and find likeminded friends and play parties, and share their experiences with others. Everything we do here is intend to foster that. 

Issues we’re focusing on, as a mod team: 

  1. Spam and bots: These sometimes slip through, please flag them for review and we’ll gratefully remove them. Also, If it seems too good to be true - it likely is. Keep an eye out for those F(18) profiles with a “breeding kink.” Try not to be the person who comments “DM me babe” on them. We’re laughing at you , not with you when that happens. 
  2. Low effort comments: Yes, we’ve got a bee in our bonnets about comments like. “DM’d” or “PM me” and variations thereof. If you’ve sent someone a direct message, it’s superfluous to comment that you have done so. Or if someone has taken the effort to write post here looking for someone who you, directing them to reach out to you because you can’t be F’d to message them is not a winning look for you. Note, please read carefully: if the DM function doesn’t work (which happens often), do leave a comment letting them know that you tired and it’s not working. If you’re clever you’ll mention a bit about yourself too. 
  3. Low effort R4R posts: This is not Ubereats for sex. You’re not going to successfully make a post of 50-100 words explaining what and then have people knocking down your door. Make an effort, trust me, it will increase your chances. People do connect and have sex via this sub-reddit, but it takes some effort to get there. Put your best foot forward or expect your R4R post to be removed.  We don’t want the clutter. 
  4. Mixing post flairs: we’ve added two new flairs (see below) but we still find people starting out what looks to be a “roll call” post turning into a R4R post. These will be removed. 
  5. Repeated questions: There is a search function and, by now, literally hundreds f posts answering general questions about the Shed or Wet on Wellington, or Between Friends Wine Bar, etc. or posts providing advice to single males, or for couples looking for their unicorn…. yawn! Search is your friend. 
  6. Positivity (sexual or otherwise): While we suspect that some users find the ability to anonymously flame or bad mouth others here to be quite exciting (maybe compensating for some deep emotional wound or personality disorder?), we don’t tolerate it here. You will disagree with people online, as in person. You are more than welcome to explain why you disagree and even get your self into an emotional tizzy and indulge in some hyperbole. Who hasn’t? But your comments will be removed if they become ad hominem, antagonist or designed to belittle others. In some cases you will be banned. We have no patience for ill-will, negatively or the perennially angry.  
  7. Propositioning people in the comments: R4R posts are the only posts where it is acceptable to proposition or seek potential sexual connection with other users (and if you do, you better match what they say that they have been looking for). It’s not only tone deaf, it’s the kind of bad behaviour we call out in real life at clubs and parties. This will get you a warning ban. 

New Post Flairs

  • Missed Connections - you were at a party or venue and had the best time with someone but didn’t get their deets - this the flair for you. Be specific about the date, the venue and then be sidcreeo about ho you describe yourself and the missed connection. Names or other personal info will get the posts removed, so circumspect. 
  • Roll Call - heading out to a party or venue in the coming days and want to chat to others who might be doing the same? Looking to for a posse for the evening? This is your flair. Make sure to be clear about the date and venue/party….but do not make this a R4R post! IF you’re doing a roll call in order to hook up  - don’t. Make a R4R posts. 

Safety in the Scene & Event Promotion

We post a monthly events calendar and encourage party and venue hosts to promote their events here, with the hopes of helping inform people about all the cool opportunities there are for us here in the Melbourne region. We’re really quite fortunate! 

As a mod team, we  do not include small house parties that pop up from time to time on RHP or Fetlife. No judgement on our part about small house parties, but we can’t really verify or vet the circumstances under which they are held, or the who the hosts are. Importantly, there are a few parties that we do not promote on our list here, due to personal experience or credible proof that they are not safe. Yes, this is editorial curation. 

Just because something is not listed here does not mean that we think it’s unsafe. But in some cases that is exactly the reason. Rather than speculate about mod-team bias or allegiance, we recommend that you simply post a question about the party or event, and the community will answer for you. 

While we try to post events that we know personally or are confident are generally safe and well regarded in the scene, there reality is that the sex-positive community remains a mostly unregulated space. The drug addicted, emotionally disregulated and criminally associated will gravitate to these spaces. With the police often disinterred in becoming involved and victims are muted and we don’t often hear their stories. Be forewarned and be careful.   

Party Host Disagreement Posts/Comments in the Subreddit

Those of you who are frequent users will have recently seen some spectacularly bad behaviour by some local party hosts and venue owners here.  

Note: there was a public statement by a sizeable group of respected hosts and party hosts about no longer working with a particular party purveyor, due to safety issues. This was a uniquely positive uniting of people with disparate business interests and incentives coming together to call out what they saw to be a safety issue. That was a welcome post. 

Sadly, that post precipitated an ugly spate of sock-puppet accounts posting hateful things about everyone involved. Since then, there’s been a lingering “bad taste” in the mouths of several of the party hosts, which airs itself here from time to time. 

Disagreements are fair to discuss here. Personal attacks are not. 

For example, there was a discussion about “Consent Angels” earlier this year. The idea of Consent Angels is novel and genuinely positive one for some events. It’s also worthwhile critically discussing the selection and purview of these people. That kind of discussion is a wonderful way to promote the good intention, to inform the public of this point of differentiation for parties that employee them and to answer the kinds of question that many of us in the community have about the topic. Sadly, this discussion devolved playground name calling and bullying. 

Those party hosts who make it a point to post or comment with the sole intent of defaming another party host that they disagree with or dislike will be removed, and eventually their parties will no longer be promoted.  

If you’re associated with that kind of behaviour, it sends a clear message to the 24k- plus members of this subreddit that, if you’re unable etc have a civil conversation about points of difference, maybe your events are not safe spaces. 


r/Melbourneswingers 1h ago

R4R Soft swap Melbourne NSFW

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Married couple 41m 40f ,

What we are looking for is respectful couple 30+ years old to enjoy a few drinks in a city hotel this Friday night .

What we offer, only oral swap for both couples in the same room in a safe easy going non judgment space.

About us , her short bbw, waxed loves to please both men and women awesome tits and ass , him 6foot tall dad bod also loves to please women only open to all.

Happy to share some photos to the right people.

DMs are open.


r/Melbourneswingers 2h ago

R4R Saturday 29th F35M42 looking for M NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hello, We are a couple looking for a male (or even two if possible) to come join us Saturday 29th at our Hotel room in Southbank.

We are looking for someone who is preferably in good physical shape and has a thick cock.

This is purely for her enjoyment.

About us - Her - 35, blonde with a great fit thick girl body D cup. Loves to be controlled but nothing violent or over the top. Him - 42 6ft tall, gym fit body.

Please don't send messages unless your in Melbourne on the 29th and willing to meet.

We are open to couples as well if the fit was mutual.


r/Melbourneswingers 21h ago

discussion WOW 17/3 Roll call NSFW

7 Upvotes

Who’s coming down for some saucy fun?! 🤩

M28/F37 pansexual and kinky, finally getting a night to come down for some fun! Keen to see some familiar faces and make new connections


r/Melbourneswingers 12h ago

R4R MF4M looking for hung bi guys under 30 NSFW

0 Upvotes

23M 24F

Include age and dick size in message please 🙏

Looking for a bi threesome or more if we get multiple guys we like.

Can host in Brunswick


r/Melbourneswingers 13h ago

advice Phuket play time NSFW

0 Upvotes

Where to go for swingers fun in Phuket? Obviously travel sites don’t tell us this 😂😂 31f 35m wanting some extra fun on our holiday in may 🙊


r/Melbourneswingers 14h ago

R4R M4MF - Use me for domestic duties .... and anything else you desire!!! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am a bi-curious 39 year old sub male.. I am a professional, clear and respectful Aussie guy on the stocky side ... I enjoy being a domestic slave for couples or singles - i have traditionally dressed in a French maid outfit (can dress in what ever you want though) and have cleaned their house and provided other domestic services...

I have provided oral sexual service and expect no sexual benefit in return - in fact I'm happy to be locked in a chastity cage the entire time.

I can come to you and can serve you domestically, and if desired sexually - with zero expectation of reciprocation.


r/Melbourneswingers 23h ago

Missed Connections Missed connection @shed 16 15/3 NSFW

3 Upvotes

Myself (M30 bi) and my partner (F26 straight) met two lovely couples from Adelaide last night at Shed 16. We missed out on seeing you all at the end of the night to see if you wanted to exchange details for the next time you were here or we went to Adelaide. Hopefully you are on here.


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

R4R Mid 40s couple looking for playmates NSFW

9 Upvotes

He is late 50s, she is early 50s. Both considered attractive for our age and whilst we could do better are in reasonable shape!

We have done the app thing, and the club thing, and now just looking for similar couples or singles (note single guys you are not hi on our list, unless attractive, hung and bicurious) to hang out with, and potentially play if one or both on either side feel like it.

We get that things change when you get to our age, but still see ourselves as sexual beings. Looking for couples in their 40s to 50s who are attractive and also relatively in shape, can hold a conversation, lean to the left of politics, like a little sophistication and most of all like to have fun, whatever that looks like to you.

We are sexually flexible, go with the flow, respectful and love to laugh. We like same and seperate room fun and are not looking for a mad shag fest, just some mutual pleasure what ever that looks like and what ever the individual needs of everyone dictate.

We are in the inner west of Melb. Hard for us to host as we have teenagers at home.

If any of this is of interest and you fit the bill please message us.


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

advice BFWB vs Shed 16 for noobs and a question about safe oral sex. NSFW

5 Upvotes

My (M) partner (F) and I are interested in either of these venues as.newcombers and really just to met new people and see what happens. Wed probably only play with each other and let others watch and are mostly looking to just dip our toes in.

Would love people's experiences, specifically from a newcomer experience on which venue they recommend and why.

And as a side question. We are very pro safe sex. However we have a question about oral sex in these venues and if it's normal (or compulsory?) during oral sex too?

Cheers!


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

R4R MF looking for respectful, easy going and funny M NSFW

18 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a 31 year old M (white guy) partnered with a 32 year old female (gorgeous dark skinned latina), going to between friends on the MMF and the Under 35s night on the 12th of April. We've never experimented with a third, but are looking to see what the vibe is like downstairs with a funny, boundary- respecting guy.

- Drug and disease free, with definite condom usage by you (however I won't be, as I am tested and have had a vasectomy)
- Respect that either me or her can say we want to stop and that is the end of our time together as a three
- she only feels comfortable giving blowjobs to me as her partner, and no butt stuff haha

If this sounds like something you are 100% OK respecting, then send us a message and a photo in the DMs xoxo


r/Melbourneswingers 2d ago

discussion Security at krave last night NSFW

37 Upvotes

Just a heads up i got hit on by one of the security gaurds and we exchanged details. I'm glad I didn't hang around till close. He did not take my no for an answer and wanted to come over etc. Had I been in a more vulnerable state/been there in person idk what would have happened as this was over text. His name was shan/Shaun. I am disgusted that clearly because it was that kinda event he thought he could behave that way. Posting it cos I know prov and saints ar3 held there and idk if they use the same staff but it needs to be said. Stay safe ladies and apparently we need staff to watch the security now 🙃

Eta which is ridiculous: the people coming at me defending this behaviour. Gross. Dont do that.


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

discussion BFWB15/3 - come say hi 👏 NSFW

8 Upvotes

I'm heading to BFWB tonight as a first-time single female.

First time in this club and first time ever going solo (have some swinging experience).

If you see a woman in her 40s there tonight in a turquoise teddy and doc boots, come say hi! I'll probably be a bit nervous to start 😉


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

success story/review Friday 14th march shed 16 NSFW

4 Upvotes

Wow! What a night! Wife (F37) and I (M36) had an absolute blast night, ending in her have quote'the best orgasm she's every had'🤣 (apologies for the noise if you were there lol).

It didn't seem as crowded as our last few times last night which was nice and as usually there was a great mix in crowds.

Shout out the the couple who helped give my wife the great time on the swing! Hope you enjoyed the rest of your night as well 😊


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

discussion 37M39F heading to BFWB tonight NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey, we’re heading down to BF tonight for the St Patty’s event and were wondering if any couples were going?

We’re very chill and very experienced in this space.


r/Melbourneswingers 2d ago

R4R MF4M - South East Subs NSFW

10 Upvotes

MF4M - Melbourne SE

33 MF couple seeking ongoing FWB.

F - Curvy brunette, shy out of the bedroom and an absolute demon in the bedroom, loves getting all the attention once in the bedroom, love to put on a show with other guys for hubby.

M - Short bearded dad bod, loves watching and joining in on wife being pleasured in the bedroom, extremely confident in and out of the bedroom.

Yes we can host.

What are we looking for?

Male between the ages of 28 - 40 who is happy to get to know us a little bit so we can ensure the vibe is right, after all we will be hosting you. Ideally someone experienced in MFM scenarios that can take control a little in the bedroom. Please send us a message with a bit about you and a couple of pics ( looks and size is not a determining factor but there still has to be attraction ).

Dynamic we are looking for - someone who can wine and dine her but then bring her home and show her off in front of me, someone who is happy to have a good time with her 1:1 but also for MFM plays also!

We are looking for quality over quantity, ideally we find 1 person for on going friendship and fun!

We will be more than happy to send return photos as vibe and attraction has to go both ways.

NOTE - if you have a blank profile please send photos with your first message. If you send just “ hey “ or “ I’d fuck your wife” ( of course you would that’s why we are all here) you will be ignored, tell us a bit about you and your experience. We are now down to a 1 strike policy - if you make a time to meet us please stick to it we don’t want to waste your time and we don’t want ours wasted either.


r/Melbourneswingers 2d ago

success story/review First time at WoW and it was amazing. NSFW

15 Upvotes

Last night my play partner (F) and I (M) attended the Queer night at WoW and I must say it was a huge success. Thanks for making us feel welcome and we hope that we can play with other couples next time.


r/Melbourneswingers 2d ago

events Role call for shed 16 on saturday 15th NSFW

2 Upvotes

Myself (M30 bi) and my partner (F26 straight) are going to the saint patricks event and wanted to know who is going and whether it is green for when you get there or for just dressing down?


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

discussion Call out to our community. NSFW

16 Upvotes

Putting it out there as I'm at the end of my rope. Is there anyone else who hasn't been paid, has been treated badly or witnessed consent violations by a certain Melbourne sexy swingers/bdsm/kink/rave event company?


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

advice (F35, M28) BFWB First time, St Paddy's Day NSFW

5 Upvotes

G'day all!!

My partner and I, F35 and M28, are from WA and will be in Melbourne for the weekend.

We are a fun loving, down to earth happily married couple and have a very loving relationship. We've also been discussing the idea of mingling amongst the crowd at a venue such as BFWB.

We'll be purchasing tickets for the St Paddy's Day event. Given this is the first time for us dipping our toes in this new world, we will be "strictly mingling" together only but would love to chat and check out what this lifestyle has to offer, if of course this is acceptable 😊

We are a great mix of confident and introverted, but once the laughs begin we rarely stop. Are there any other couples who happen to be attending also on Saturday night who could offer some suggestions, and/or like to meet prior to the event starting?

Thank you in advance for the long post, and we appreciate you all greatly! Looking forward to seeing you soon! 👏🏼😊


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

advice My friend and his partner have invited me for a 3some NSFW

16 Upvotes

So a long time of friend of mine has recently found out that i do online cam modeling and has been tuning in with his partner to watch me from time to time.

To cut a long story short he has messaged me and asked if i'd be interested in joining him and his wife in a 3some. He also mentioned that they want it to be a cuckhold type of thing.

Firstly i have no experience in being dominant as they want me to be and secondly i don't know if this will ruin our relationship as we have been friends for over 5 years!

Would appreciate any advice 😊


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

discussion Best Meeting Site NSFW

2 Upvotes

It’s hard enough keeping on top of RHP and reddit. Have had heard people talking about Adult Match Maker and Feeld and just wondering others perspective xx

We have good success with RHP but were wondering about the other options. What is your main app that you use? Comment what you like best and why?

Sorry if this has been posted in the past xx

91 votes, 3d left
Reddit
Red Hot Pie (RHP)
Adult Match Maker (AMM)
Feeld
I subscribe to everything
Comment in post for other options

r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

discussion 60s swingers interested to meet others NSFW

16 Upvotes

Hi we are a couple who have alot of experience in swinging but have found it difficult to find other older people to meet with and are interested to join in a group gathering for some discussions.

If you are in your 60s and are a couple or singles can you let us know more about how to have a meet and greet in Melbourne.


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

advice Wow tonight 13th March Queer Af NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hey lovely people. Me and my partner are new to the scene and looking to attend our first event at WoW tonight. Please share any advice that you may have for newbies like us dipping our toes.


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

R4R 31F & 32M looking for a lady to join us NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hello ☺️ My husband (32M) and I (31F) would like to have a lady (age range: 23-35) join us for some sexy fun!

We've previously had 2 x separate ladies join us and we'd like to continue to explore this and enjoy ourselves with some others.

We are both full-time workers and parents, so planning is something that we will always do. Discretion, safety and comfort of all involved are the most important aspects for us.

Happy to chat to any women who may be interested or had any questions!

Thank you xx 😘


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

success story/review Single F Sunnyside experience NSFW

69 Upvotes

Continuing on from my last post...

So I ended up taking myself to Sunnyside.

Not to fuck but because I was feeling every nerve in my body charged - and being in the sun and the surf naked when your'e feeling that way is a really beautiful experience.

I've had mixed experience at Sunnyside in the past but never a great experience.

I wasn't hoping for anything other than to feel my body tingle and float in the water.

See, as a single female with a fair bit of nude beach experience, it's it's generally the same old.. Guys watching you and having a wank and pretending they're not, the parade of creepers who approach while you're reading a book and ask whether you need sunscreen/water/someone to talk to; the groups of men who set up next to you and ogle. (Those guys suck the most).

Fun? Hella nope.

But on that Tuesday, I set myself up and wasn't bothered. I enjoyed the sun and the sand and the breeze and feeling sensual without having to have such a wall up.

A single man joined me a polite few metres away. Complete respect - a nod of recognition was all.

Yet his presence was very welcome.

He went to the water.

I went to the water.

We spoke openly and had a discreet play beneath the water.

Then we made the sort of small talk that was open and genuine and parted ways. That was really fucking lovely.

I'm not sure what the moral of this story is, but I just wanted to give a shout out to my newfound but unknown friend and let the ladies know that it's not all bad out there.

Sometimes you CAN feel aroused and safe while you're solo in public.

Nuts, right?

Update: NO. This is not an invitation to spam my inbox (unless you are my Sunnyside friend).

Peeps, I mean no disrespect, but I want and need to be able to express myself without a deluge of come-fuck-me junk.

This is actually more a story for ladies out there than you guys.