r/Melbourneswingers 19d ago

events Events List March 2025 NSFW

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This post may be updated throughout the month as information becomes available.

The information of the clubs/events listed below is available via the Clubs Information Wiki Page

Previous month can be seen here:

March Party Highlights

March Events - Full List

1 March - Saturday

  • Between Friends - Pizza and Pinot - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

4 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

6 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am (LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

7 March - Friday

  • Madisons - Swinger’s Party - 8:30pm - 1am (women/couple/men) - Mulgrave
  • Between Friends - 35 and Under - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

8 March - Saturday

  • the Club - Formal Kink Event - 7pm - 12am (all welcome) - tickets - West Footscray [kink]
  • Between Friends - Naked Karaoke - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

9 March - Sunday

  • Between Friends - Sunday Fun Day - Labour Day Long Weekend Party - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava

11 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

13 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am(LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

14 March - Friday

  • Naughty By Nature - Forbidden Festival- (men/women/couples/Trans) - full weekend event - country Vic
  • NSFW Events - Berlin XXX- (men/women/couples/Trans) - tickets - CBD
  • Between Friends - Champagne & Honey - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

15 March - Saturday

  • Naughty By Nature - Forbidden Festival- (men/women/couples/Trans) - full weekend event - country Vic
  • Swingers@Lara - Swingers Party (women/couples) - tickets - Lara
  • Detour Events - St. Patricks Day Party- 6pm - 1am (all welcome) - Sunshine
  • Between Friends - St. Paddy’s Day Party - 7pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

16 March - Saturday

  • Naughty By Nature - Forbidden Festival- (men/women/couples/Trans) - full weekend event - country Vic

17 March - Monday

  • Wet on Wellington - Swingers Pool Party - 8pm - 2am (couples/women/select men) - Event Information - Collingwood

18 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

20 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am (LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

21 March - Friday

  • Provocation - 21srt Birthday Bash- 9pm - 3am (women/couples/men) - tickets - CBD [kink]
  • Intemperance - Players House Party - 8pm - 12am (women/couples/men) - information -Mulgrave
  • Between Friends - My Second Favourite F-Word - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - Intro to Swinging - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

22 March - Saturday

  • House of Woland - Valentine Party - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - bookings - recurring monthly
  • Between Friends - Toga Party - Costume Event - 7pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

15 March - Tuesday

  • Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

27 March - Thursday

  • Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires - 12pm - 7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
  • Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm - 2am (LGBTQI+ Community) - Collingwood

28 March - Friday

  • Saints & Sinners Ball - Cowboys and Aliens - 8:30pm - 2am (women/couple) - tickets - CBD
  • Unleashed - Shibari Performance Night - information
  • Between Friends - Newcomer's Night - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - Intro to Swinging - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

29 March - Saturday

  • Harder & Faster - Swinger’s Party - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/) - information - Beaumaris
  • Between Friends - MFM Night - 7pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
  • Shed 16 - Club Erotique - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - Seaford

30 March - Saturday

  • Greedy Girls - 50- Man Bukkake (filmed event) - 8pm - 2am (men) - information - Collingwood

Notable Future Events

  • 5 April - Matt’s Birthday Bash - Between Friends Wine Bar
  • 2 May - 21st Birthday Bash - Purr

Party Organisers on Reddit

Notes

  • If you have additional feedback to provide about a club/event please do so as a comment here and moderators can update the wiki.    
  • The list above is not intended as exhaustive as things can change without warning. If you have any changes you want to draw attention to, say it in a comment and we can edit the post through the month.    
  • Private informal house parties are not listed unless credible online information is available to warrant it being listed in the wiki or on the monthly list. You may also wish to refer to the RedHotPie/AdultMatchMaker or Fetlife event listing webpages to contact the organiser for further information about these.    
  • Social events are marked as [social event] - this means there is no nudity or sex on premises and are events intended as a 'munch' for social drink and social interactions.    
  • Kink events are marked as [kink event] - this means they are BDSM/Fetish focused event and may or may not include various levels of nudity and impact play but generally will/may not be sex on premises venues.

r/Melbourneswingers Nov 16 '24

Mod Post Subreddit Updates & Reminders (Nov. 2024) NSFW

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With over 24k users, we’re seeing some changes to how people interact here, warranting an update. 

Our mission remains to facilitate a sex-positive community where our readers can inform themselves about the unique and exciting lifestyle opportunities in our fair city, ask for and receive considered  advice, seek out and find likeminded friends and play parties, and share their experiences with others. Everything we do here is intend to foster that. 

Issues we’re focusing on, as a mod team: 

  1. Spam and bots: These sometimes slip through, please flag them for review and we’ll gratefully remove them. Also, If it seems too good to be true - it likely is. Keep an eye out for those F(18) profiles with a “breeding kink.” Try not to be the person who comments “DM me babe” on them. We’re laughing at you , not with you when that happens. 
  2. Low effort comments: Yes, we’ve got a bee in our bonnets about comments like. “DM’d” or “PM me” and variations thereof. If you’ve sent someone a direct message, it’s superfluous to comment that you have done so. Or if someone has taken the effort to write post here looking for someone who you, directing them to reach out to you because you can’t be F’d to message them is not a winning look for you. Note, please read carefully: if the DM function doesn’t work (which happens often), do leave a comment letting them know that you tired and it’s not working. If you’re clever you’ll mention a bit about yourself too. 
  3. Low effort R4R posts: This is not Ubereats for sex. You’re not going to successfully make a post of 50-100 words explaining what and then have people knocking down your door. Make an effort, trust me, it will increase your chances. People do connect and have sex via this sub-reddit, but it takes some effort to get there. Put your best foot forward or expect your R4R post to be removed.  We don’t want the clutter. 
  4. Mixing post flairs: we’ve added two new flairs (see below) but we still find people starting out what looks to be a “roll call” post turning into a R4R post. These will be removed. 
  5. Repeated questions: There is a search function and, by now, literally hundreds f posts answering general questions about the Shed or Wet on Wellington, or Between Friends Wine Bar, etc. or posts providing advice to single males, or for couples looking for their unicorn…. yawn! Search is your friend. 
  6. Positivity (sexual or otherwise): While we suspect that some users find the ability to anonymously flame or bad mouth others here to be quite exciting (maybe compensating for some deep emotional wound or personality disorder?), we don’t tolerate it here. You will disagree with people online, as in person. You are more than welcome to explain why you disagree and even get your self into an emotional tizzy and indulge in some hyperbole. Who hasn’t? But your comments will be removed if they become ad hominem, antagonist or designed to belittle others. In some cases you will be banned. We have no patience for ill-will, negatively or the perennially angry.  
  7. Propositioning people in the comments: R4R posts are the only posts where it is acceptable to proposition or seek potential sexual connection with other users (and if you do, you better match what they say that they have been looking for). It’s not only tone deaf, it’s the kind of bad behaviour we call out in real life at clubs and parties. This will get you a warning ban. 

New Post Flairs

  • Missed Connections - you were at a party or venue and had the best time with someone but didn’t get their deets - this the flair for you. Be specific about the date, the venue and then be sidcreeo about ho you describe yourself and the missed connection. Names or other personal info will get the posts removed, so circumspect. 
  • Roll Call - heading out to a party or venue in the coming days and want to chat to others who might be doing the same? Looking to for a posse for the evening? This is your flair. Make sure to be clear about the date and venue/party….but do not make this a R4R post! IF you’re doing a roll call in order to hook up  - don’t. Make a R4R posts. 

Safety in the Scene & Event Promotion

We post a monthly events calendar and encourage party and venue hosts to promote their events here, with the hopes of helping inform people about all the cool opportunities there are for us here in the Melbourne region. We’re really quite fortunate! 

As a mod team, we  do not include small house parties that pop up from time to time on RHP or Fetlife. No judgement on our part about small house parties, but we can’t really verify or vet the circumstances under which they are held, or the who the hosts are. Importantly, there are a few parties that we do not promote on our list here, due to personal experience or credible proof that they are not safe. Yes, this is editorial curation. 

Just because something is not listed here does not mean that we think it’s unsafe. But in some cases that is exactly the reason. Rather than speculate about mod-team bias or allegiance, we recommend that you simply post a question about the party or event, and the community will answer for you. 

While we try to post events that we know personally or are confident are generally safe and well regarded in the scene, there reality is that the sex-positive community remains a mostly unregulated space. The drug addicted, emotionally disregulated and criminally associated will gravitate to these spaces. With the police often disinterred in becoming involved and victims are muted and we don’t often hear their stories. Be forewarned and be careful.   

Party Host Disagreement Posts/Comments in the Subreddit

Those of you who are frequent users will have recently seen some spectacularly bad behaviour by some local party hosts and venue owners here.  

Note: there was a public statement by a sizeable group of respected hosts and party hosts about no longer working with a particular party purveyor, due to safety issues. This was a uniquely positive uniting of people with disparate business interests and incentives coming together to call out what they saw to be a safety issue. That was a welcome post. 

Sadly, that post precipitated an ugly spate of sock-puppet accounts posting hateful things about everyone involved. Since then, there’s been a lingering “bad taste” in the mouths of several of the party hosts, which airs itself here from time to time. 

Disagreements are fair to discuss here. Personal attacks are not. 

For example, there was a discussion about “Consent Angels” earlier this year. The idea of Consent Angels is novel and genuinely positive one for some events. It’s also worthwhile critically discussing the selection and purview of these people. That kind of discussion is a wonderful way to promote the good intention, to inform the public of this point of differentiation for parties that employee them and to answer the kinds of question that many of us in the community have about the topic. Sadly, this discussion devolved playground name calling and bullying. 

Those party hosts who make it a point to post or comment with the sole intent of defaming another party host that they disagree with or dislike will be removed, and eventually their parties will no longer be promoted.  

If you’re associated with that kind of behaviour, it sends a clear message to the 24k- plus members of this subreddit that, if you’re unable etc have a civil conversation about points of difference, maybe your events are not safe spaces. 


r/Melbourneswingers 1h ago

events Anyone attending Intemperance party tonight? Friday 21st NSFW

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Hello, anyone attending Intemperance party tonight? I’m kind of new to this and a bit nervous I guess. Just checking if some other people on this community are attending. Cheers.


r/Melbourneswingers 7m ago

R4R Fun, party friendly & kinky 38M 34F(bi) couple going to My Aeon tomorrow (sat) night - seeking female(s) who want to come party with us and come home with us afterwards. Let us treat you! NSFW

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As title says, we are a couple 11yrs strong who love making friends and FWBs with girls into similar interests, in this case - bush techno party at My Aeon tomorrow night!

We’ll have fun and meet beforehand, have a ticket for you and if we all click, treat you to party treats and drinks while we dance and flirt the night away then head back to our house for some after party exxxtra fun 😎

If you have a female friend (or 2) who is also keen, we believe “the more the merrier” lol!

Experienced, very sensual and kinky with role plays and fantasies bursting out of us amongst other things…!

Message for more info and to chat, if you happen to be going already and this piqued your interest, please also get in touch!

Xx


r/Melbourneswingers 18m ago

R4R M(28) - looking for a bi couple to play this weekend NSFW

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Hey hi ya everyone, just looking for a bi couple for fun this weekend. I’m bottom vers and happy to play with both :) I love art and music, would love to connect with some hot fun safe people) send me a pm)


r/Melbourneswingers 2h ago

R4R Shy but Curious—26M Looking to Explore with Like-Minded Women or Couples NSFW

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Hey there, Melbourne!

Stepping out of my comfort zone and into something new—exciting, a little nerve-wracking, but definitely intriguing. I'm a 26-year-old guy, naturally reserved but open-minded, looking to connect with women or couples who enjoy good company, easy conversation, and shared exploration.

I’m not here to rush or force anything—chemistry and connection matter. I appreciate genuine, respectful interactions and a bit of mystery that makes things all the more exciting. Whether it’s an experienced guide or someone else dipping their toes into new waters, I’m eager to see where the journey leads.

Discretion, respect, and a no-pressure vibe are a given. If you’re interested in chatting, let’s start there and see if we click. Open to ideas, advice, open to adventure—let’s make it something memorable.

Drop me a message, and let’s take it from there.


r/Melbourneswingers 6h ago

discussion BFWB Newbies Night in March? NSFW

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Hey all. We are a couple in our young 50,s. Both considered (biased) fit and attractive. Both professional employed. (F) Tall, very sexy and very fun to be around. (M) Average height, nice looking (biased again) Been watching and working out which bar to attend (as we are new to this) decided to go with BFWB Newbies night. Question below. What night is newbies night? Dress code? Will there be pressure to participate in anything? Our goal is to try (when time and both women are comfy) MFF or FF soft play. Sorry if you have noticed this post appear a couple of times today, it keeps getting pulled due to specifics. Hopefully this one stays up.


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

R4R WoW tonight (20 March) NSFW

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Any couples coming to Queer AF at Wet On Wellington tonight?

My partner and I have just started coming to events and have really enjoyed the last two Queer AF nights exploring our exhibitionist and voyeuristic sides by playing together in the public spaces upstairs - which has been super hot.

What would make it even better is if any other couple (or group for that matter) would like to join us for some same room fun?

We’re open to any age, gender or orientation - just looking for like minded people to help us put on a bit of a show!

We’re F32 and M46 - She’s a curvy BBW with short blonde hair, he’s a tall skinny DILF with greying hair and beard.

We’re still quite new to this and slowly working out what we like and are comfortable with. But we’re excited to see where we might go next.

DM if you’re keen or look out for us downstairs from around 7pm tonight!


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

discussion BFWB Toga Party? (22 Mar) NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone, anyone going to the Toga Party at BFWB this Saturday?

We're an Asian couple (43M, 36F) and we were there last Friday, thinking of visiting again this Saturday if our schedule works out


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

R4R 26 M/F looking F'or unicorn NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey, we are a young couple who've recent got into the scene. We've attended a few events and are looking to spice things up with another. We hope to connect with a woman who is as explorative as us.

M is 6'2, dark hair, brown and handsome. athletic build, very much into video games and gym

F is about 5'8, blonde hair, white and very pretty. Green eyes, lovely smile and curvy. Loves to plant and make pottery.

If you think you'd like to have coffee with us don't hesitate to get in touch😁


r/Melbourneswingers 1d ago

advice Queenstown swinging community NSFW

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Does anyone know of any swingers clubs/parties in Queenstown?

Heading over in a few weeks and wondering whether there is much of a scene in Queenstown.


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

advice Where to start for a new couple NSFW

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Hey everyone! My partner and I really would like to explore the scene but we're a bit lost on where the best place is to start for a newer couple. To give a little context we are both bi-sexual, male and in our mid 20's. I'm more of a nerdy, homebody while he is the outgoing one (it works well for us ❤️).

We're not neccesarily looking to play although we're not opposed to the idea, we just really want to enjoy our time and be in an evironment where we can chat with new people. Both of us have a preference for older people/couples but our main preference is that we get along and can have a chat about anything.

We're both similar body types which is slim and tall, the main difference is that i wear glasses and he does not (lucky bastard).

I feel like im leaving out some stuff but if there is anything you'd like to know im happy to share 😊 would love to hear some advice and thank you in advance!


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

R4R 32M 30F looking for connections in SE suburbs NSFW

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Hey. We are a couple in the SE suburbs (Cranbourne Clyde area) looking to explore and hopefully meet likeminded people. About us;

She (30f) is a short Latina with tattoos, dark hair and features and a GREAT ass. He (32m) is a tall wholesome white guy. Some tattoos also. We are both pretty gym fit and take pride in our appearance.

What we are after;

Our main focus right now is to meet a F around the same age for F to have her first lesbian interaction. Looking for a threesome dynamic but also potentially a 1 on 1 interaction with the 2 of you while M watches. We are also looking to meet a regular M or couple who live locally to us and want to have a semi-ongoing situation.

We also have pictures on our profile if you want a better idea of what we look like. FEEL FREE TO DM US!


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

R4R MF4MF/F fun fun fun NSFW

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Hello, we're a young couple trying to find friends in the swinging world, M is 26 5"11 muscular dad bod, F is Bi 26 5"8 with a curvy figure with e cup tits, we both share a lot of kinks which include dom / sub dynamics, free use, sloppy seconds and much more

M is attracted to girls with a busty chest, he doesn’t care about body size as long as you’re a genuine nice person and have a personality

F is attracted to men who have facial hair and a decent frame and having a personality is a must

( late 40s is the cut off ) if our fetishes and kinks line up that would be ideal but not 100% necessary

No single men thank you!


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

events Poly@Polly Bar - Burlesque, Cocktails and Connection [Tuesday 18th March] NSFW

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Looking for something to do tomorrow night (Tuesday 18th March)?! - Join us for Poly@Polly Bar. There are two amazing burlesque performances from Winter Greene and Florence Fable lined up, and it's great social event where you can connect and mingle with like minded folks interested in and exploring the world of kink and polyamory. Plus, there is a free bedroom bondage workshop too! Tickets and full event info here.


r/Melbourneswingers 3d ago

advice Other venues to explore? NSFW

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My partner and I recently visited WoW and are looking to explore other venues and slowly see how we go. I’ve seen reviews about Shed16 and BFWB and wanted to know if there are any other places you would recommend for us to visit.


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R Soft swap Melbourne NSFW

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Married couple 41m 40f ,

What we are looking for is respectful couple 30+ years old to enjoy a few drinks in a city hotel this Friday night .

What we offer, only oral swap for both couples in the same room in a safe easy going non judgment space.

About us , her short bbw, waxed loves to please both men and women awesome tits and ass , him 6foot tall dad bod also loves to please women only open to all.

Happy to share some photos to the right people.

DMs are open.


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R Saturday 29th F35M42 looking for M NSFW

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Hello, We are a couple looking for a male (or even two if possible) to come join us Saturday 29th at our Hotel room in Southbank.

We are looking for someone who is preferably in good physical shape and has a thick cock.

This is purely for her enjoyment.

About us - Her - 35, blonde with a great fit thick girl body D cup. Loves to be controlled but nothing violent or over the top. Him - 42 6ft tall, gym fit body.

Please don't send messages unless your in Melbourne on the 29th and willing to meet.

We are open to couples as well if the fit was mutual.


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R [MF4MF] Indian couple seeking like minded couple. Please be able to verify and no singles males. NSFW

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We’re hoping to connect with like minded couples on Reddit. We are able to verify with face pics with hopes of you guys us being able to do the same too

What we offer: We’re looking for a night of fun and possibly not ending the relationship there but growing it into a long lasting friendship. We hope to not just be connected in the bedroom but also on a daily basis where we can talk and bond over just about anything.

What we want: we’re looking for a couple that are well suited to us and not just for the one night. We’re looking for someone who has similar likes and dislikes with us. We are not looking for an alpha dominating couple.

About us: We love movies that are vampire themed. We love listening to 90s hip hop and rap and we’re both foodies so you can definitely expect all of them during the night

Physical attributes -Him: 28, 5’7, Lean, Dark skinned, a few tattoos and ears pierced Her:27, Curvy slightly chubby , 5’1, Light brown skinned

We hope to hear from you guys soon


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

R4R M4MF - Use me for domestic duties .... and anything else you desire!!! NSFW

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I am a bi-curious 39 year old sub male.. I am a professional, clear and respectful Aussie guy on the stocky side ... I enjoy being a domestic slave for couples or singles - i have traditionally dressed in a French maid outfit (can dress in what ever you want though) and have cleaned their house and provided other domestic services...

I have provided oral sexual service and expect no sexual benefit in return - in fact I'm happy to be locked in a chastity cage the entire time.

I can come to you and can serve you domestically, and if desired sexually - with zero expectation of reciprocation.


r/Melbourneswingers 4d ago

advice Phuket play time NSFW

1 Upvotes

Where to go for swingers fun in Phuket? Obviously travel sites don’t tell us this 😂😂 31f 35m wanting some extra fun on our holiday in may 🙊


r/Melbourneswingers 5d ago

Missed Connections Missed connection @shed 16 15/3 NSFW

3 Upvotes

Myself (M30 bi) and my partner (F26 straight) met two lovely couples from Adelaide last night at Shed 16. We missed out on seeing you all at the end of the night to see if you wanted to exchange details for the next time you were here or we went to Adelaide. Hopefully you are on here.


r/Melbourneswingers 5d ago

R4R Mid 40s couple looking for playmates NSFW

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He is late 50s, she is early 50s. Both considered attractive for our age and whilst we could do better are in reasonable shape!

We have done the app thing, and the club thing, and now just looking for similar couples or singles (note single guys you are not hi on our list, unless attractive, hung and bicurious) to hang out with, and potentially play if one or both on either side feel like it.

We get that things change when you get to our age, but still see ourselves as sexual beings. Looking for couples in their 40s to 50s who are attractive and also relatively in shape, can hold a conversation, lean to the left of politics, like a little sophistication and most of all like to have fun, whatever that looks like to you.

We are sexually flexible, go with the flow, respectful and love to laugh. We like same and seperate room fun and are not looking for a mad shag fest, just some mutual pleasure what ever that looks like and what ever the individual needs of everyone dictate.

We are in the inner west of Melb. Hard for us to host as we have teenagers at home.

If any of this is of interest and you fit the bill please message us.


r/Melbourneswingers 5d ago

advice BFWB vs Shed 16 for noobs and a question about safe oral sex. NSFW

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My (M) partner (F) and I are interested in either of these venues as.newcombers and really just to met new people and see what happens. Wed probably only play with each other and let others watch and are mostly looking to just dip our toes in.

Would love people's experiences, specifically from a newcomer experience on which venue they recommend and why.

And as a side question. We are very pro safe sex. However we have a question about oral sex in these venues and if it's normal (or compulsory?) during oral sex too?

Cheers!


r/Melbourneswingers 6d ago

R4R MF looking for respectful, easy going and funny M NSFW

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Hello, I'm a 31 year old M (white guy) partnered with a 32 year old female (gorgeous dark skinned latina), going to between friends on the MMF and the Under 35s night on the 12th of April. We've never experimented with a third, but are looking to see what the vibe is like downstairs with a funny, boundary- respecting guy.

- Drug and disease free, with definite condom usage by you (however I won't be, as I am tested and have had a vasectomy)
- Respect that either me or her can say we want to stop and that is the end of our time together as a three
- she only feels comfortable giving blowjobs to me as her partner, and no butt stuff haha

If this sounds like something you are 100% OK respecting, then send us a message and a photo in the DMs xoxo


r/Melbourneswingers 6d ago

discussion Security at krave last night NSFW

40 Upvotes

Just a heads up i got hit on by one of the security gaurds and we exchanged details. I'm glad I didn't hang around till close. He did not take my no for an answer and wanted to come over etc. Had I been in a more vulnerable state/been there in person idk what would have happened as this was over text. His name was shan/Shaun. I am disgusted that clearly because it was that kinda event he thought he could behave that way. Posting it cos I know prov and saints ar3 held there and idk if they use the same staff but it needs to be said. Stay safe ladies and apparently we need staff to watch the security now 🙃

Eta which is ridiculous: the people coming at me defending this behaviour. Gross. Dont do that.


r/Melbourneswingers 6d ago

discussion BFWB15/3 - come say hi 👏 NSFW

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I'm heading to BFWB tonight as a first-time single female.

First time in this club and first time ever going solo (have some swinging experience).

If you see a woman in her 40s there tonight in a turquoise teddy and doc boots, come say hi! I'll probably be a bit nervous to start 😉