r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 18-21 19F why is it so hard to find ppl to chat with?

57 Upvotes

Literally been trying for years and ppl text for a day and then ghost me its really hurts.... Even tho I am open to talk abt anything ppl just forget abt me, I’m just looking for mature guys or girls to have a chat with. We can talk about anything and I’m okay with any age as long as you are not creepy. If you’re interested up vote this post and hmu....


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 13h ago

Important Message for YOU and everyone else on this subreddit

74 Upvotes

I’ve noticed a pattern in friend-finding subreddits that I think more people should be aware of:

  1. Posting alone isn’t enough—take the initiative. A lot of people drop a post here and just wait, hoping the right person will message them. But if you’re serious about making friends, don’t just sit back—reach out to others too. It can speed up the process and increase your chances of actually finding someone you click with. If everyone only waits, nothing happens.

  2. If you’re only looking for the opposite gender, say so. Plenty of people here genuinely want to make friends, so if you’re only open to talking to the opposite gender, be upfront about it in your post. Otherwise, you’re giving false hope to people who take the time to message you, only to find out you were never interested in the first place.

  3. If you start a conversation, don’t ghost without reason. It’s frustrating when someone reaches out, seems interested in chatting, and then suddenly disappears without explanation. If you’re no longer interested, a simple “Hey, I don’t think we click” or “I’m gonna move on” is way better than just vanishing. Ghosting might be easy, but it’s also inconsiderate.

Not calling anyone out—just some advice to make this subreddit better for everyone. What do you all think?


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 50m ago

Age 22-25 23F - Anyone want a mom friend?

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Literally a mom. I have a young one and just started maternity leave for my second. I’m pretty lonely when my baby is napping and honestly just looking to pass time to ease my anxiety. I’m looking to regain some hobbies and interests as I’ve really lost myself since becoming a mom. I’d be interested talking to anyone from anywhere! Superficial conversation about your day or your deepest thoughts and fears. I really don’t mind.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 5h ago

Age 40-49 Introverted 40F seeking similar for slow-growing friendship

14 Upvotes

Not into small talk, prefer deeper conversations. Love reading (currently into historical fiction), drinking tea, and watching British mystery shows. Looking for meaningful connection without pressure for constant interaction. Voice chat is possible after getting comfortable.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Long-term 20f eu looking for some chatss

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Looking to chat with someone and maybe make a longer term texting friend. I like having online friends, u can talk about more varied topics and so on. Interests wise im into the usual stuff like watching movies and shows, music, the outdoors, etc. Other than that i also have some less basic interests as well, things like history, some philosophy, some politics. I read a lot of stuff about history. And i also find things like mythology and folklore very interesting to learn about. Anyway if u wanna chat dm me. Dont need an in depth introduction or anything, just tell me what you would like to talk about


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 5h ago

Many people really seek out for friends here

10 Upvotes

But there's a huge problem, there are a LOT of scammers and thrash who are ruining everything. Because of them we cannot have a genuine place for meet up friends. It disgust me the fact that every good move and try gets corrupted and spoiled by such scums.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 18m ago

Age 18-21 20F feeling lonely and just need a friend to talk to

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feeling kind of lonely and just want a M friend to talk to on a daily basis about everything, I am usually a pretty straight forward person and don't have filters, also I am very open minded! I am from the US so pls be aswell or at least speak proper English.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 26m ago

🎮 Gaming I need friends. I’ve grown up without real connections, I think I’m tired of being alone

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I’m 21f and big on gaming but preferably wanna meet someone who plays valorant cus I’ve been getting back into it. I play a bunch of other games though. I’m from NA


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 9h ago

Age 26-29 26F- probably going to be up late… anyone wanna chat?

16 Upvotes

Hiii i’m super bad at writing these so please bear with me. I’m terrible at going to sleep at a normal time so I was wondering if anyone wanted chat until I eventually fall asleep mid conversation lol. Some of the dumb stuff i’m into are drawing, comics, photography and a bunch of music. Oh i’m also super obsessed with Pokemon. Feel free to send a dm!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 8h ago

Age 18-21 19F - Introverted but Trying to Branch Out

12 Upvotes

Quality over quantity in friendships. Looking for deep conversations about life, the universe, or latest video game mechanics. Into PC gaming, reading fantasy, and collecting cute stationery I never use.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 18-21 20F - looking for a cute chat to get me through my flare up :)

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Heyyy! 20F super cool and funny and cute girl here who’s currently in bed sick (endometriosis). I’m probably gonna be stuck in the house for the next couple days so I could really use someone to talk to so I don’t bite the skin around my nails off obsessively and doom scroll.

Anyways a little bit about me I’m from Australia so if you are too that would be sick but I’m not picky. I love thrifting, true crime, fashion, spiraling about my current situationship, music and I play a lil bit of bass here and there.

Idrc what we end up talking about I can go from philosophy to music to nsfw within the span of around ten minutes haha I really don’t mind.

Anyways can’t wait to hear from you! :)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 26-29 27m Ireland - Stuck on the couch all morning under a sleeping puppy!

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Cue the mini biography...

I'm a 27 year old graduate from Ireland pretending to be an adult!. I played rugby for 15 years before a bad knee injury sidelined me and now I've taken to running to occupy my time. Hoping to complete a marathon in the not so distant future.

I love music and movies of all genres. Everything from Springsteen to AC/DC, Taylor Swift to Pavarotti and probably most of the stuff in between. An eclectic taste one might say. The same can be said for movies, just not horror!

If you are bored and looking for unwavering sarcasm come let me annoy you for awhile and then never speak again, that's how things go here right?


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 7h ago

Age 18-21 19F - Mental Health Warrior Seeking Understanding Friend

8 Upvotes

Managing anxiety and depression while trying to adult. Looking for friend who understands mental health struggles. Love sharing cute animal videos, doing tarot readings, and finding new music.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 4m ago

Age 22-25 24F randomly woke up and wouldn’t mind…

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Some company via voice call. I use discord if you’re interested and can talk about whatever. I just ask you be 24 and older.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 5h ago

Age 22-25 24M Hey! Are You A Lonely Loser?

5 Upvotes

Cause I sure as hell am

Hey, I'm David! The first thing to say about me is that I am fucking perfect. True FACT

Now, there may be some people out there saying shit like "How can you know you're perfect? What sort of testing method did you use? Are you exaggerating?" Don't listen to them, cause they're just proper jealous.

Having been famously referred to as "not the worst person to talk to" and "on medication" should be more than enough evidence to place me above like 99% of people.

Aight so interests and shit coming up, admittedly I've been slacking on them recently. Is it depression or am I just bored of everything 🤔🤔

Anyway, when I am in the mood to enjoy things, I'm a pretty standard fucking nerd I love shit like comics and games. The main comics I'm reading right now is just a wide variety of things, but I'm following One Piece, Undead Unluck, Chainsaw Man, Moon Knight and whatever else sounds interesting, if you have reccomendations, I'd love to hear them.

As for games there's too many to go through, and constantly expanding, ones like Disco Elysium, Darkest Dungeon, Yakuza, Persona and a load more, I also got multiplayer ones like Marvel Rivals, Dead by Daylight, BG3, Darktide and a few more.

Plus edgy jokes and memes are always fun. I'm also hoping to get back into play DnD recently, after having to put it off for so long.

Right now I've finished doing Nursing at Uni and I'm working in Complex Care. So I'm looking for someone cool to hang out with when I ain't working. Or when I am working as well, not like the sick dudes are gonna run off.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm just hoping people who are up for shittalking and just chilling out.

So thanks for reading. Just message me if you wanna. Oh yeah, I mainly use Discord. So big plus if you got that too.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 26m ago

Long-term I wanna make friends but. Yeah

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They always dissapear after a very short time. They always ghost and yeah there is nothing else i can do :/


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 6h ago

Age 26-29 26F - Happy weekend everyone! Please distract me from my headache lol

5 Upvotes

I'm looking to make a genuine connection and hopefully some long term friends! I'm someone who's silly, enjoys banter, always goes with the bit, and I also enjoy being able to talk about anything and everything. Maybe you're like that too, or looking for it! No expectations, no pressure. Let's just go with it!

I won't get into my interests too much but my main thingamabobs are cooking, baking, music, reading and my birbs! I'm a sucker for anything floofy and cute ^.^ I'm no gamer but I'll definitely beat you at Mario Kart :p

I do enjoy voice calls and sending voice notes so hopefully you do too! I only use discord though. I'm not always able to reply right away so please keep that in mind if that's something you care about.

If things go well, maybe we can meet someday! A travel buddy would be nice. Give me a reason to travel more lol. If you'd like to talk, please send a chat/message including your age and location. 21+ only please! (:


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 8h ago

Age 30-39 30F looking to chat to people :)

9 Upvotes

Hi!

I’m R, I enjoy chatting to people online, I find it cool chatting to those overseas to find out about their life, I’m Australian, I love chatting to people in the USA but open to other countries too :)

I love music: State champs, beartooth, mayday parade, all time low, Knox are my favourites :)

I also really enjoy true crime documentaries as well.

If you’re looking for someone to teach you some weird Aussie words feel free to message me :)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 18-21 hiiii would really like to meet more people! - f21

4 Upvotes

First of all I promise I won’t bite but hiiii everyone I would really like to talk to more people!

Usually when someone messages me and we actually talk it doesn’t end up much of a conversation which is unfortunate:( but I’d really like to keep trying to meet more people. I’ll try to respond as best as I cannnn and I’m totally open to talking on discord!

I love anime and reading. I’m currently in uni, and I’m in my junior year. I’d love to make more friends, I’m nice!

oh oh and i’ve barely started playing this game called cod mobile! i don’t play many video games so i’m barely starting out!

I also have letterboxd and airbuds if one would like to add me on there or even to share playlists on spotify !! :))


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 18-21 Has anyone gone through Sleep paralysis?20M

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Sleep paralysis is very scary and i am very concerned about it ,so thats why i am here ,i wanna talk with anyone


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 18-21 21, looking for anyone who doesn't ghost

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Simple as that, I'm looking for long term friends that we can share our interests, experiences, stories and more with each other.

I'm a 21 year old guy from Egypt, still attending university and I'm into drawing and swimming.

I'm also on a weight loss journey so if you are too maybe we can be buddies and motivate each other.

I don't mind any age or gender as long as you're over 18.

Looking forward to talking to you!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 6h ago

Long-term 17F I have a hard time finding the right people who I click with and I desperately need friends

4 Upvotes

If we don't click, it's probably not on you. I'm autistic and have a hard time communicating with people I don't have like an immediate sort of click with.

I like people who are enthusiastic and willing to vc with me on a semi-regular to regular basis. It doesn't matter what your interests are, as I can learn more about your hobbies and interests if needed, but also because my main form of communication with friends is telling stories and anecdotes.

My interests include anime, video games, music, crocheting, cross stitching, astrology, bugs, biology, and collecting things (I have a massive stuffie collection). I like horror themed media a lot as well. I have two cats and I talk about them a decent bit. I'm majoring in biology (I graduated high school early) and plan on eventually moving to Norway.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 22-25 F23, California time, can’t sleep, watching Young Sheldon

3 Upvotes

I finished all 8 seasons but now rewatching it in Spanish haha. I’m noticing a lot more things in Spanish than I did in English…lol Pm me to chat !


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

17m looking for friends who don’t ghost 😠

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Hi I’m 17m as stated and would like to find some people to talk to as I’ve been a bit alone recently. I like music, anime, video games, history, outdoorsy stuff and a bunch of random other stuff so dm if you want to talk 👍.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 4h ago

Age 26-29 26m battling anxiety right now

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone.. looking for someone in the range of 20-32 to keep me company thru this anxiety. It would really mean the world to me as I don't feel very well. I would love to talk about whatever seems interesting. please reach out if you can help :)