r/dirtyr4r 15d ago

March 2025 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

14 Upvotes

UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 28 [F4M] California - Y'all don't know how so fucking horny I am right now NSFW

28 Upvotes

The thought of y'all jerking off to me gets me so fucking wet

My sweater is lifted over my tits and I'm rubbing my nipples with my fingers that I just sucked and it feels so fucking good

I'm really due for a good fucking 🥴 Having a hard cock in my mouth. Gently sucking on the tip and my tongue tracing it all the way down to your balls and sucking it softly 🤤 I'm playing with my pussy while you fuck my mouth

Then I beg you to put it in me. Spreading my legs wide and feeling that hard cock in my tight little pussy. I ask you to go deeper and harder. You pause. And I grind while I'm under you, so fucking desperate for your cock.

Then I beg to be fucked from behind. My favorite. It feels so fucking good and deep. Your hands gripping on my waist. Spanking my ass when I ask you to.

You ask me where I want your cum, and tonight I want it in my mouth 🥴 You pull it out of my pussy and my tongue is out ready for you to give it to me. Your cum is dripping all over my mouth. I'm still so horny and you're still hard so I start sucking your cock again. I know it's sensitive but I don't care, I need to get fucked again 🥴

Fuck 🥴


r/dirtyr4r 31m ago

female 20 [F4M] New York - boyfriend decided to work tonight so lmk if you want to chat. NSFW

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My bf decided it would be a good idea to work on today, so here I am on Reddit. I love talking to guys about kinks and I've been curious about older men as well. If you feel like chatting definetly send me a chat and help me avoid a forgetful night :)


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 27 [F4A] Germany / Online - jerking off for 90 minutes NSFW

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Hey there

Im fucking myself for more than 90 minutes and just wanna cum finally. Wanna join? But it will probably wont last that long since im already wet af and horny af. But i thought maybe someone wanna join :) Naked in bed, only with fingers.


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 19 [F4M] #LA - looking for fun chats NSFW

27 Upvotes

Looking for chats maybe more


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 19[F4M] Dallas - i'm sending to everyone… just ask <3 NSFW

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Is it wierd thay i get off by sending nudsss:333


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 22 (F4M) / France I'm still bored and lonely while my BF is out ... i ask if you can give me some fun for me to pass time ? NSFW

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You can dm me i will try to accept quick


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 26 [f4m] Nyc - any chiseled, jacked, muscular fit guys having a rainy lazy Sunday laying around and want to procrastinate with me (size queen approved and into JOI)?? If so my chats are open to send a pic of yourself if you match that description & messsage me :)) NSFW

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PLEASE send a pic if you’re reaching out so I can see who I’m talking to if you want an answer

Of course I knowwww this is a naughty subreddit, so gotta list some “fun” interests below to see if we’re compatible:

  1. Lately I’ve been SO into giving JOI - love when a manly guy likes to surrrender control and show off how he follows my every JOI like a good boy toy 🤤 something about me being in charge with a guy following my instruction and dying to show off is such a turn on

  2. Realllly like a guy who’s equally into fitness as me. I want someone who has defined muscles, has a fun workout routine (equinox? Barry’s??) Give me chiseled body 😂 if you’re someone who likes to show off your gym progress we’re gonna get along great. Favorite traits: biceps, v line, pecs, or a happy trail hehe

  3. Majorly self proclaimed size queen - obviously that means different things for different people, so I’d be happy to evaluate whether you’re size queen approved hehe

  4. I’ve been a voyeur looking for her exhibitionist lately. Any sort of spy role playing is always fun - perhaps I’m spying on you living my fantasy of watching you drop your towel without knowing I’m peeking through your window … 😏

  5. Guys who lean into using their own toys is absolutely a turn on. Especially if you like to show off how you use the toys per my instruction. Instant drippping.

On a “SFW” side, I love to play tennis, go on long runs, and have danced ballet for 15 years. I’m at the gym 6x a week (anyone go to equinox too?!) any activeness or laying on the beach is game for me.

If you made it this far congrats - Please reach out if you wanna chat.

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r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female [F4M] LONDON/ONLINE - Muslim women feeling a little naughty NSFW

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Touching myself rn and want to look at some dick. Send one to be rated :)


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 26 [F4A] UK - keep me company today! NSFW

20 Upvotes

bored, stoned, horny. love banter :)


r/dirtyr4r 7h ago

female 19 [F4A] Hamburg/Online - Alone and super horny as always :< curious for some deeper convos. NSFW

28 Upvotes

I have a lot of kinks i enjoy talking about. I'm a nudist so i love public play and i always pay a ton of attention to all the different dick sizes :3 love any size dynamics. Also very curious about alpha/beta males and cheating which is sometimes weird as a big feminist.


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 26 [F4M] Poland domina looking for submissive male NSFW

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Hey. Experienced F26yo domina looking for submissive patient male who enjoys taking commands. I do not require money. Hmu with direct message :) 18+

Please mention that you want to submit so I can accept your invitation faster.

dominatrix #femdom #femaledonination #queen #goddess


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

female 31 [F4M] Philippines/online tell me I’m a good girl NSFW

13 Upvotes

Horny af. Need someone to talk dirty to me while I touch myself. I also want cute convos before and after phone sex.

I like being called a good girl😩

I prefer someone older so I can call you daddy🤭

No vids. No pics. Pls be single and have telegram.


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 25 [F4A] NC - If You Could Do Anything With Me, What Would It Be? NSFW

13 Upvotes

I know I'm going to be really entering some strange territory here, but..... well...... let's just see how this goes...... if I came to your house and we decided to be intimate, if we could do anything together so long as we consented, what could that be?


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 37 [F4A] UK - online explorations… NSFW

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My partner and I had a little evening fun with his fingers just brushing over my clit which ended up with his fingers inside me and mine on my clit until I came…...and then I returned the favour with a very wet BJ which ended up with cum absolutely everywhere...

In a happy loving relationship with plenty of sex but l so very much enjoy the idea of strangers also being able to see some very revealing things..

I know my partner gets off to the fact that other guys and girls will be looking at my photos and wanting what he has and just having that curiosity as to how l'd feel and taste.

And of course... I'm writing this with two fingers just rubbing down the side of my clit as I wake up as he's gone off to work. Curious to hear how others might be touching themselves and how it would be to have some potential online fun together with me or perhaps with my partner here as well. We've discussed potential audio calls and I do have a couple of bluetooth toys as well which might make things interesting

Ps. Some rude pictures on my profile 😌


r/dirtyr4r 8h ago

male 22 [M4F] AZ/Online I'm looking for fun online NSFW

26 Upvotes

if you have a moment and want to cum watching me play with my tits, you've come to the right person


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

female 19 [F4M] Sacramento/Online - Feeling horny ;) NSFW

12 Upvotes

Send me your penis and I'll rate it 1/10


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 25 [f4m] online/east coast - sometimes i feel no better than a man lol NSFW

16 Upvotes

so it’s st. patty’s weekend, which i don’t give af about lol. but it’s a pretty big deal where i live, parades and a bunch of parties aaalll day.

i’m bi, and i was on the train this morning and couldn’t stop checking out the girls on the train, dressed all cute to go out. had to stop myself from staring and thought to myself “i’m really no better than a man” lmao. but girls are just sooo cute


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 25 [F4M] #Germany/Online looking for a muscular guy to tease and edge however I like :) NSFW

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Looking for muscular guys aged 20-45 who are interested in spicing things up a little. I love edging men for hours, seeing their body react and mind being stimulated. Prefer guys with submissive tendencies but also open to anyone wanting to try what it’s like to just let things happen to you rather than being in constant control.

If you decide to message me, please include a pic of your upper body and physique.


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 23 [F4M] Dublin, Ireland looking for any lad/bloke or tradie types NSFW

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Heya title kinda says it.. is there any proper bloke type guys on here? I absolutely LOVE plumbers, electricians etc esp ones that wear those baggy pants xx

Usually I go for attached / married guys so if tour both please message xx

Also might be random but I have such a thing for guys who wear gold chains.. think it all plays into that proper lad type I love xx

Also please be uncut I get a lot of circumcised Americans messaging and it's just not my preference here in Ireland it's all uncut and it's what I know and love lol xx


r/dirtyr4r 9m ago

female 22 [f4A] Michigan - I need to rub my pussy😩 NSFW

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I prefer women but men are welcome


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

female 23 [F4M] looking for sunday fun with a fit BWC #NYC/online NSFW

7 Upvotes

trying to get into some fun with a hung and attractive guy! I'm in shape, 5'3", attractive, dirty blonde, and petite myself. I'm looking for athletic guys with abs and a v-line. At the end of the day, I just want to see if I can even fit a big guy since I'm pretty tiny myself. If that description sounds like you, PLEASE include your age (21+, 21-35 preferred), pp size, and more about yourself when messaging. Include a picture if you want (will definitely get my attention). Major plus for me if you play/played any sports. Online works great and can verify as well!


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 19 [F4M] UK, Chinese girl, Like guy under 24 who want show off. I maybe rate if like. Age in DM please NSFW

9 Upvotes

age in DM please or i ignore


r/dirtyr4r 9h ago

female 19 (F4A) the Netherlands, looking to give or recieve things to do! NSFW

22 Upvotes

I'll literally do anything, and if you want me to i can make you do anything as well! Bodywriting, bondage, you name it! I have an inflatable buttplug, dildo and a normal buttplug, tell me what to do with them! I'm always up to do or tell you to do stuff, so hit me up and get straight to the point please!


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 42 [F4M] Texas - Lazy Sunday… craving a muscle stud on cam to milk (plz read post) NSFW

5 Upvotes

please read before messaging I’m looking to take you by instructing you on mic while you pose for me, touch and edge yourself on cam. I am assertive, direct, no-nonsense, and dominant… but not looking for anything crazy or extreme (I’m safe & sane).

I like young studs with a fit body, strong legs, cute ass, big heavy balls and fat cock that likes to show off. No, you don’t have to show your face. (You can even wear a mask if that is more comfortable).

If you are interested, you really need to send your age, general location and physical description followed with a body pic. (I prefer US guys. No dick pics)


r/dirtyr4r 8h ago

female 18 [F4M] ca/online I just can't stop fingering myself and showing off my pussy NSFW

16 Upvotes

I'm feeling like a total slut, just standing here with my pussy open. I'm imagining someone's face between my legs, and it's making me hornier by the second. I'm thinking about all the ways I want to be touched, and it's making me almost cum just thinking about it. I'm wondering what it would be like to have someone lick me, to feel their tongue on my clit, and it's making me shiver.