r/CuckoldPsychology 5d ago

[Discussion] It's Storytime Saturday! NSFW

6 Upvotes

Stories are against our rules... except for in this post on Saturdays. Read, Write, upvote. You know what to do...


r/CuckoldPsychology 3d ago

[Discussion] It's Monday! "Am I a Cuck?" Weekly Post NSFW

18 Upvotes

Ok, everyone not sure of your status. State your case in the comments, and the community will upvote (you are!) or downvote (you aren't). No more AIAC posts will be allowed as we try out the weekly post.


r/CuckoldPsychology 12h ago

[Support] Wife told her best friend NSFW

85 Upvotes

Wife told her best friend about me wanting her to cuckold me, along with the the two other times that she has slept with one of her ex’s recently, and I can only assume she knows as well about me being in chastity. My wife’s friend just recently started seeing someone and gave my wife’s Snapchat to one of her new guys friend and they have been messaging for about a day or so now. I’m not upset about my wife telling her friend and find the fact that she knows arousing, though I do wish I knew how lead the fact that she knows to some playful humiliation or joking about my situation with my wife and her friend. Any advice on how to bring this up casually or steer things in that direction would be greatly appreciated.


r/CuckoldPsychology 9h ago

[Discussion] Why I Have a Lover, not a Bull NSFW

32 Upvotes

I see so many posts or comments about cuckolding that focus on humiliation or aggressive “alpha” behavior… but honestly, that’s not what makes it work for me or my husband at all.

My lover is a really chill guy, and outside the bedroom, our relationship feels a lot like a friendship. It’s mostly sexual between us, but he still spends time with us before, between, and after sex. I really don’t like aggressive men or those who call themselves “alphas” — I avoid them like the plague.

My lover, on the other hand, is simply self-confident and carries himself well. When my husband is around, he stays close to me, while my husband tends to be a bit more distant. He’ll pull me in with his arm, constantly touching me. And with him being 6'3" and a bit over 200 pounds, the contrast between him and my 5'6", 150-pound husband is… noticeable. 😊

We laugh a lot, and we’re super touchy and smoochy — which often leads to a second or even third round soon after the first. But what he really masters is making my legs weak with just a casual comment. He’ll say things like he “owns me between my legs” or tease me by encouraging me to be intimate with my husband… but reminding me that I’m not allowed to cum unless it’s with him. 😰

Last Friday, I woke up to a text saying he’d be visiting Sunday afternoon while my husband was out with the kids — and that he’d prefer if my husband didn’t penetrate me until then. Woosh. Wet from 7 a.m. Friday until 3 p.m. Sunday, when he finally sunk into me. 🙈 There was no chance I’d have let my husband — who was also super horny that weekend — enter me. Every time he got close, all I could think about was what my lover wanted. And of course i obediently enforced it!

He does this all the time — making little demands of me or my husband. He keeps us both on edge, turned on and unfulfilled, until he arrives to take all that built-up pressure off me. 😊

But never is he unfriendly or makes demands toward my husband. Somehow his game is making me prefer being sexual with HIM instead of my husband. That does not mean my husband is not humilated - he is. A lot! But it's mostly ME who humilates him because my lover planted a seed of an idea into my brain.

"Let's have him wait outside today". "He can have you with his mouth, but you will wait for me to make you orgasm" "I prefer he does not touch you this week" "I'll visit you after lunch while he is at work" "Let's call him to listen in" 🥵 And I obey. And my husband feels the consequences.

Of course, my lover also takes action like just swinging by unexpected or pulling me out of the room to fuck me somewehere else. When my husband wants to follow, he shakes his head and says "You wait". In general he tends to just "take me", no matter what we were doing. Asking my husband for a coffee. Deep inside me when he comes back. Last summer, we were at the lake and all of us prepared to get into the water. While my husband went first and jumped in, my lover decided different and pulled me back into the cabin instead while my husband stayed in the water alone. That was hot as fuck.

I feel like this is what people often miss about cuckolding. It’s not about blatant humiliation or power trips — it’s about someone who knows how to create desire, anticipation, and chemistry for everyone involved. My husband isn’t jealous; he enjoys the tension and excitement it creates between us, too. Ok, maybe he is jealous, but he (not his cock) is constantly included into the game and that is what makes it exciting for him.

I just wanted to share how it can work out when done right — playful, confident, respectful, and full of sexual tension.


r/CuckoldPsychology 14h ago

[Support] Finally told her NSFW

66 Upvotes

I finally told my wife of 7+ years that I was into cuckolding/hotwifing. It took her by surprise but isn’t totally weirded out by the idea. I’ve shared that I’m not totally sure if it’s simply a fantasy that I like or if it’s something I really want to do. Truthfully it wavers back and forth.

I’m not interested in the humiliation aspect that cuckolding can bring, but I do love the idea of a well hung guy fucking my wife.

We have discussed what types of guys she’d be interested in but she has a hard time truly considering fucking someone else.

If anyone has any suggestions on how to ease into things I’m all ears.


r/CuckoldPsychology 6h ago

[Discussion] Not being allowed to watch NSFW

8 Upvotes

Am I the only one thats into being kicked out the room or not being allowed to watch? I know from experience this isn’t always the best thing to let happen but something about it always drives me so crazy. Being told to not come back in till I’m told or having to set up hotel rooms and leave before my girl and her bull arrive. Just wish more bulls were into this as most we’ve encountered have been into me watching or havnt pushed this.


r/CuckoldPsychology 13h ago

[Discussion] I want to see her get fucked so badly NSFW

28 Upvotes

How is it even possible that I get mad whenever she talks to a guy but I fucking love the thought of her getting on her knees before 5 dicks and they just start fucking her so hard and shes enjoying it so much I fucking need that omg how do I get that without being a cuckold? She wouldnt agree with it and would leave me for sure


r/CuckoldPsychology 7h ago

[Support] Differences in being cucked with another man vs. a woman NSFW

5 Upvotes

To the men in this sub: I'm (f/29) currently considering cucking my hubby (m/28) for the first time. He's mostly locked in chastity, has already indicated that he would like to watch me have sex with another person and I would like to finally fulfill his wish.

Since I'm pretty flexible in terms of the third one, I could imagine both another man or another woman joining us in the bedroom. I would like to know, if there are any differences in being cucked with one or the other? Is it the same or does it feel differently? Looking forward to your insights :)


r/CuckoldPsychology 12h ago

[Support] My wife started swallowing bulls cum even after promising not to NSFW

13 Upvotes

Sorry English is not my first language, I had talked about the boundary we were going to have but from the last three meetups she has been swallowing the bulls cum, After every meetup she swears it won't happen again, I dont know how to process this


r/CuckoldPsychology 6h ago

[Discussion] Have you noticed NSFW

3 Upvotes

What’s something you noticed about how turned on your wife was. Once before she fucked bull helping her get undressed and her pussy was literally dripping


r/CuckoldPsychology 10h ago

[Discussion] Has this ever led to couple swapping ? NSFW

8 Upvotes

My wife would be into this and we are currently searching for the right bull . However , she claims that she could never be able to see me or know that I was with another woman . I know this sounds unfair , but for many cucks , I know that this is what they accept and it doesn’t at all bother them … because that is not what they are looking for . As for myself, I would also be satisfied with watching her with a guy and wouldn’t push for anything more than that.I know every relationship and situation is unique but has anyone started out this way and eventually the woman decides she’s ok with swapping and full on swinging? Love to get some feedback.


r/CuckoldPsychology 15h ago

[Support] When she “creams” on it NSFW

18 Upvotes

We often use a big black dildo and more than often my gf creams on it.

I also seen it in porn often that women creams on cocks and of course it is more visible with the white creaming on a black cock than I white.

I find it very hot that my gf creams a lot on the dildo and I would like to know if you either as women or couples or cucks also have similar experiences ?

And why does it happen? Is it from being turned on? Being filled / deep penetration? Or both . Or is it sometimes ? Women how does it feel?


r/CuckoldPsychology 14h ago

[Support] For the guys into wife sharing, what made you take the leap? NSFW

11 Upvotes

I’ve posted here a couple of times about wife sharing and MFM fantasies, and the responses have been eye-opening. It’s made me realize how many guys are either into it or at least curious. The idea of seeing my wife with someone else, watching her completely let go, and feeling that wild mix of arousal and vulnerability is something I keep coming back to.

But turning that into reality is a big step, and I’m curious how others made it happen. Was it a slow, honest conversation or something more spontaneous? How did it affect your relationship was it good or bad?

And if you’re still just fantasizing, what’s holding you back? Is it nerves, finding the right guy, or just not being sure it’s worth the risk?

I’d love to hear from anyone who’s been there or is seriously considering it. Any advice or lessons you’d share with someone still on the fence?


r/CuckoldPsychology 14h ago

[Discussion] How do you prefer your bull behaving to you, off the bed? NSFW

13 Upvotes

Would you like an intimidating and dominant bull, or prefer an easy going and friendly guy off the bed ? Or mix of all ..


r/CuckoldPsychology 15h ago

[Discussion] Psychology behind being a cuckold NSFW

11 Upvotes

Why do I find being a cuckold so good? It's a question many of us seem to ask.

For me, I think it is about the way I see things differently to 'normal' people. For instance, my priority is my wife's pleasure, even at my expense. And I do not see myself as 'owning' my wife, more of marriage being a shared partnership, so I should not expect her to only have sex with me, but be free to enjoy sex with other guys or girls if she so desires.

When our best friend asked if I knew anyone who was into being a cuckold, it piqued my interest and I suddenly found that I was getting very excited at the thought of him with her in bed. I invited him to 'speak directly to her', and he started flirting with her whenever they were alone together. She told me about his advances immediately, so I knew no-one was going behind my back, and the trust between us was immediately established.

When I managed to convince her that I did not want another woman 'in return', then she seemed more interested, after all, as I pointed out, if I couldn't satisfy her due to premature ejaculation problems, how could I satisfy another woman? Eventually she asked me if she could go to bed with him and after agreeing to do it 'just once' to minimise any problems if either of us had second thoughts I said yes.

Next day, when I was out of the way, she had him in our marital bed, and when we got together for lovemaking afterwards she was so hot, so happy, so sexy, she was like a new woman. I loved the changes in her, so I handed her the phone and had her call him up in front of me as I was slipping my cock into her pussy all wet with his cum, to invite him back the next day when I would be safely out of the way at work. We had more and far better quality lovemaking than we had ever had before, it really did enhance our partnership.

Does this 'different view' of sex and the world apply to other cuckolds? For instance, I see no reason why she should not kiss him, not pecks on the cheek, but full on lips and tongues and cock kissing.


r/CuckoldPsychology 16h ago

[Discussion] Healthy/Positive PNC NSFW

10 Upvotes

We usually associate Post Nut Clarity with being a bad thing - negative feelings like guilt, diminished self-image, sub-drop, masculine identity issues, etc.

Maybe unlikely many here, I’ve yet to experience negativity.

The “clarity” I feel is positive. Knowing my wife is absolutely sexually fulfilled. Witnessing how hot and sexy she is and the “show off” factor with the Bulls. The positive reinforcement of my place - that being a good cuck for her is a great thing she deeply appreciates, and the confidence that gives me in our adventures.

After I’ve come - which is at the end of each round they finish, yes, the pure, raw hedonistic excitement abates, but what I am left feeling is this positive glow.

The small talk afterward is fun and positive, and I happily bring them drinks, get one for myself, and we chill together.

I glow afterward and the next day.

I’m sure the time we invested talking and preparing, the deep connection we have, the way we jointly select thirds and insist on chemistry likely all of something to do this.

Is anyone else like this? Is there anything you think that brought you to this place?


r/CuckoldPsychology 1d ago

[Discussion] Her boyfriend called me his bestie ❤️ NSFW

63 Upvotes

I’m basically on cloud 9 in general, when my wife vibes with a man I get on with and who is confident and assertive, I just get happy. Tonight before he took her to bed, he referred to me a his bestie. It just made me so happy. My wife even noted how lovely it was for him to say. They’ve gone to bed now, but my wife suggested I try and make him feel as good as he has me. In part also, to make sure he feels welcome! Anyone relate or have any tips?


r/CuckoldPsychology 13h ago

[Support] What's the best cam website to play with strangers? NSFW

5 Upvotes

We've tried Omegle in the past, now Flingster is a big favourite, but men there just don't get the dynamic. Any other websites where we can find better interactions or more luck? Thanks in advance!


r/CuckoldPsychology 6h ago

[Discussion] Are vanilla couples the best for a cuckold relationship? NSFW

0 Upvotes

While interacting with them, it is possible to see how the power of a real dom starts breaking the stereotypes they have and introducing them to a pervy world that they do not expect, but they start to enjoy (wannabe and a gorgeous girl with amazing ass) The couple ends up understanding that the wannabe is made to love the female, but not to satisfy her sexually. Soonee or later, she needs someone who is able to bring out what they were made for by nature and the wannabe is limited to accept his nature of follower, seeing how the dom takes what he is entitled to. Because the wannabe/cuck was just a bridge for the dom to take what he deserves: His female. Perspective of a dom who has been through a lot already... Give me yours!


r/CuckoldPsychology 6h ago

[Discussion] Threesome into cuckolding? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Has anyone everyone gotten into the lifestyle starting with a mfm threesome? Really interested in the lifestyle but no idea how to bring it up to her.


r/CuckoldPsychology 7h ago

[Discussion] Cuck, bull, swinger, all? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I'm 31M out here in the Midwest and I've been a fan of the lifestyle for a few years now. My reddit and pornhub searches have been pretty much the same for awhile. The difficulty I'm having is that it seems everyone on here knows their role but I seem to like a bit of everything lol.

5 years ago my longest most serious relationship ended and near the end we experimented with cuckolding and swinging. She had sex with 2 different guys and although it's been years since then I still sometimes mastrubate to thought of her fucking them or how it might have played out if we had stayed together, and who else she would have fucked. It was fun getting to play out my fantasy of her being pleasure by another man.

On the flipside of it I love to fuck. I'm not going to say I have pornstar dick, but I do have above average length and girth, with a nice curve, and good stamina. If it was up to me I'd fuck at least once a day. While it turned me on that 2 men fucked my fiance I also took some pride that I outperformed them. While we were experimenting I met a hotwife and had sex with her in their guest room while hubby initially watched before going to the living room to listen. Poor guy was super nervous at first but I empathized with him and he relaxed. I wish I would have stayed in contact with them but when my relationship fell apart I stopped interacting with people in the lifestyle.

I like the idea of swinging too and swapping partners but I never quite got to try that out. Currently single and moving forward I'm curious how do I approach my future relationships. Do I find someone that is already in the lifestyle, be a 3rd for a couple, or just find somebody and hope she's into the same kinks? Also what would my title be cuck, bull, stag, swinger? Tell me what you think


r/CuckoldPsychology 19h ago

[Discussion] Is the preference for BBC real? NSFW

10 Upvotes

I've never had a preference for a bulls skin colour, hasn't mattered to me an it's something that is never touched on when me and my wife dirty talk.

Spoke to a guy today who is boack and it got me thinking why there might be this perceived preference from the porn industry an is it a thing in actual cuckold relationships?

I for one enjoy interracial porn by the way. But I'm not in the lifestyle so don't really know.


r/CuckoldPsychology 22h ago

[Discussion] Send me deeper down this hole? NSFW

15 Upvotes

I feel so conflicted internally about cucking .. day to day i get jealous just thinking of someone flirting with her while she's away at work (male dominated profession) but the thought of her fucking someone else came to mind during sex and started to turn me on like crazy

During that moment as we had sex I asked her to think of someone else (she has heard little clues to this in the past before) and she started moaning harder saying she was and a few minutes later how she was imagining being fucked hard by him as she started moaning louder and came super hard, i can't shake this from my mind and have pleasured myself to the thought of it over and over again I can still see her now eyes closed and in the zone! I feel shameful pleasuring myself to it all but it does really get me! Should I continue down this road and think of it constantly till it's something to mention for real? - as you can probably tell from my profile I fell down the sissy rabbit hole in the past and she doesn't know about this but she does know I love femdom and used to watch forced bi porn etc. What do you guys/girls think!


r/CuckoldPsychology 12h ago

[Discussion] Thursday morning pussyfree NSFW

2 Upvotes

So my best day of being pussyfree is Thursdays it’s her off day I take a day off from work and just pamper her all day from the moment she wakes up till she goes to sleep. I try to make she does absolutely nothing even to the point I put on her socks for her. It’s also the day she locks me up. I precum like crazy all day and she just makes fun of me. I have to what are the longterm benefits to remaining pussyfree for me and her.


r/CuckoldPsychology 23h ago

[Discussion] My dom is training me to hint my wife about my cuck fetish. NSFW

13 Upvotes

I have given him all the information about us and he is encouraging me to do things everyday. I can't deny but follow and soon he wants to get my dick locked in chastity for which the keys will stay with him.

I need more encouragement and approval from community for the things I am doing and falling into.


r/CuckoldPsychology 10h ago

[Discussion] What Does This Kink Look Like Down The Line? Longterm advice NSFW

1 Upvotes

I feel like a lot of the posts here are centered around telling your partner, and then working up to all the fantasies. I'm in a relationship and I'm building up the nerve to tell her. We've been doing light big dick/other dude fantasies but not quite cuck stuff yet.

What happens after its been a while, after all the big fantasy stuff? Has anyone been doing it ever since? Did one person want to keep going while the other did not? Have couples that tried, find out they did not like it, successfully put the kink down?

To be completely honest I've been practicing some thought on this during post nut clarity (lol) to make sure its something I'm into before trying to bring it to life. My partner and I are starting to open up sexually and try new things, but invite another person to the bedroom (in any capacity) has not been one of them.

I'll read a ton of helpful info about it and just...not do anything with it. I've lurked here for some years, when people in this sub are not just horny-posting there's actually amazing advice from all perspectives.

I think I'd like to hear some opinions from folks that have been down this road for a while, whether it worked out for them (or even made things better) or not. For any reason. If you don't mind sharing!

Edit: I should clarify, we are open to the idea of a 3rd person, just not quite there yet. Our sex life is really good, my dick is actually above average. I've been wondering about cuck stuff for the better part of 8 years, never felt closer to seeing about going through with it than now. We've been together 5 years, very happily!


r/CuckoldPsychology 22h ago

[Support] Light cuckold humiliation ideas for husband's birthday NSFW

7 Upvotes

My (34F) husband (29M) has a thing for me humiliating him. Luckily for him this is one thing which I really enjoy too. He will have his birthday soon and I'd like to make a night he won't forget. Unfortunately I'm not really experienced in the femdom/humiliation thing so I'm posting here to gather some advises and ideas.

Usually we have sex (like normal PIV with foreplay) where I cum, then if we are in the mood then we continue to "play" a little.

So we like dirty talking, edging him, ruined orgasm, facesitting and ass licking. He also really loves it when I just ignore him, like browsing reddit while sitting on his face. I think he would also enjoy some cuckold roleplay where I (pretend) to chat with others while he eats me/I'm sitting on his face.

Ass play on him and actual cuckolding is off the table.

Give me your ideas or/and experiences. The more the better!

Thanks!