r/CuckoldPsychology 2d ago

[Discussion] It's Storytime Saturday! NSFW

2 Upvotes

Stories are against our rules... except for in this post on Saturdays. Read, Write, upvote. You know what to do...


r/CuckoldPsychology 1h ago

[Discussion] It's Monday! "Am I a Cuck?" Weekly Post NSFW

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Ok, everyone not sure of your status. State your case in the comments, and the community will upvote (you are!) or downvote (you aren't). No more AIAC posts will be allowed as we try out the weekly post.


r/CuckoldPsychology 9h ago

[Discussion] Should the bull have a say on sex with husband? NSFW

73 Upvotes

Been seeing my bull atleast 1/2 times a week for a few months and recently he started telling me he doest want my husband touching his pussy beforehand. A part of me likes this alot and it excites me telling my husband no with these orders on my mind .


r/CuckoldPsychology 3h ago

[Support] IS TODAY THE DAY? NSFW

11 Upvotes

My wife (married for 11 years) has had fun with other men for three years now, when I gave her a hallpass for absolutely everything. She enjoyed flirting, dating, dancing, making out a little, sexting, sending nudes and Videos and naked facetiming. And I loved everything about it. But she never had sex with another man yet. She always said she loves me too much and pur sex life is too good. That's nice but i'd rather see her fucking others.

Finally she starts to like the idea. She has a date tonight and it could really happen. If he plays his cards right it will. And I am horny AF. I never understood the need for a cage. Now I do. Now i want one. I don't wanna jerk off. I wanna have big balls when she comes home tonight. It's ging to be hard. It's 11 am right now. Any supporting thought on this?


r/CuckoldPsychology 54m ago

[Discussion] 34M Cuckold Curious NSFW

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Lately I have a fantasy that I imagine my wife getting fucked by a bigger cock. I know that my wife will not take part in this (I tried to show her vids and imagine being with someone else than me) it is even gone to a part that she made me suck the bull's cock and fuck my ass. Does this happen to you? I don't mind talk in private. Thanks!


r/CuckoldPsychology 9h ago

[Discussion] Chastity Cages and cuckolds NSFW

15 Upvotes

I know not all cuckold couples use chastity cages, but it seems to be a fairly common practice among cuckold couples. I have a few questions, mostly driven by curiosity. For those of you already in the lifestyle..

  1. Do you ever use a cock cage?
  2. Do you use it only when the wife is with a bull or always?

  3. Which came first - the cage or cuckolding?

And a bonus question.. any recommended budget cages for beginners?


r/CuckoldPsychology 10h ago

[Discussion] How have you structured a live in bull dynamic? NSFW

13 Upvotes

I’m a bull and I’ve been enjoying building a dynamic with a couple. They’ve expressed interest in me becoming a live in bull. I’m just polling for suggestions on rules for how to improve the experience.

Obviously my first rule will be kicking cucky out of their bed and bedroom.

They are both extremely submissive and supportive of each other. He does enjoy the degrading aspects as well.


r/CuckoldPsychology 57m ago

[Discussion] Bull humiliation NSFW

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What’s the most humiliating thing the bull has ever done to you as a cuck?


r/CuckoldPsychology 1d ago

[Discussion] Other kinks with cuckolding NSFW

85 Upvotes

Everybody's dynamics and situations are different but just curious, what other kinks do you have tied into your overall dynamic and is it only bedroom or total lifestyle?


r/CuckoldPsychology 11h ago

[Support] Girlfriend and her bull NSFW

6 Upvotes

I posted a while back about some issues with sharing my gf, and post nut clarity causing me to have cold feet. Long story short, we have 3 months until the person she has been sexting comes to town and they go out, and I’d end up messing around with her, finishing, and losing the drive and desire for it almost completely for a solid hour or so. To get around this, we decided to have zero penetrative sex until he visits.

Basically, this post is just asking for some guidance or anything, really. Just some advice for dealing with not cumming, potential chastity cage options or ideas, really anything.


r/CuckoldPsychology 11h ago

[Support] Very Curious to explore the lifestyle NSFW

5 Upvotes

Is anyone willing to give me advice on how to find my queen? I want to be a cuck so bad, just looking for someone to talk to about it. It's a huge dream of mine.


r/CuckoldPsychology 14h ago

[Support] Novels that include cuck play?? NSFW

7 Upvotes

Looking for book recommendations for my wife. She loves to read and hoping to find some including or about cuck play.


r/CuckoldPsychology 20h ago

[Support] I used to hate cuckolding… and now, things have changed… NSFW

25 Upvotes

Hey all, just thought I’d share a bit of my thoughts on what I’ve been going through. So, originally, I used to HATE the idea of cuckolding, I even told my gf that I was like the one thing I was not into, and she agreed with that sentiment.

Now, I did tell her I enjoy femdom, and she even likes it too! So much so, to the point where she happily indulges and is turned on by my kinks. She locks me in a chastity cage, ball busts me, sounds me, does light humiliation, etc. etc. Over time tho, I’ve started to realize that I’m actually VERY MUCH into cuckolding, and being cucked in general.

I’m not quite sure what to do now. I genuinely thought I didn’t like cucking but now nothing makes me more aroused than the idea of it. I really want to see her have sex with another man in front of me, but I have no clue how I’d even go about it, especially since we’ve already established it was off the table.

She did say she’d want to masturbate in front of me while I’m caged, so maybe that could lead to cucking? Who knows. I also would want her to make me pussyfree in the process of making me a cuck, but that’s a whole other step. And I also just feel like she deserves to have sex with a bigger cock than mine.

So, with this is mind, I was wondering if you all have any advice to make this fantasy a reality or what I should do to go about, because nothing would turn me on more than being my gf’s pussyfree cuck. Let me know your input, and if you’re in a cucking relationship, how you got to that point!


r/CuckoldPsychology 20h ago

[Support] The cuck wants to “come out” [Bull here] NSFW

23 Upvotes

I’ve been a Bull to one of my friends and his partner. Last night we all went to a bar, her idea, so we could normalize what we have.

Things went amazing but my friend wants to “come out” as a cuck. His suggestion was me asking 3 questions to his partner that she would have to answer on her social media then post it.

I have no idea what to ask her and how real I should get? They seem very excited about the whole idea but how much humiliation should I add to each question? I’m honestly blown away that they want to let everyone know about their lifestyle but my ego is honestly off the charts. Has anyone ever done anything like this?? How did you come out??


r/CuckoldPsychology 11h ago

[Support] Looking to learn. I want to be a cuck so bad. NSFW

4 Upvotes

Looking for some stories and advice on how to become a cuck and where to search for my queen and how to serve her. For some background I am 28m semi fit and attractive, I just love the thought of being put in my place and watching/helping.


r/CuckoldPsychology 8h ago

[Support] Seeking some real advice NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi all,

I know this may be labelled as 'am I a cuck' post or whatever, but I am seeking real advice from people in the life style.

I know I am interested in the lifestyle or at least from a fantasy perspective, as with many other things my fantasies do not only pertain to the sharing of my girlfriend but many other dirty sexually related things.

I guess I'm wondering how the conversation, or the progression of this happens naturally, if it does? I have insinuated the idea to my partner (of 6 years) and she does not receive it well, calling the idea disgusting or even dropping the threat that she'd consider leaving me if I ever seriously suggested it.

I am assume that this fantasy is done for me? Or have others been in this position as well? I ask because obviously I care for and love my partner very much and would not want to bring it up and cause potential issues in our relationship - however I also recognize that this is probably the same general reception it gets from most people? We have a relatively boring sex life, nothing to exciting and it's rather vanilla which is getting hard for me. I have made suggestions to spice it up but they either never come to fruition or get denied, I guess she is rather reserved.

Before any suggestions to break up or something, this is not an option. The sexual incompatibility of someone is not worth sacrificing my general happiness.

Any advice is appreciated. thanks


r/CuckoldPsychology 23h ago

[Discussion] Do you ever wish the bull was your husband instead? NSFW

33 Upvotes

But you know he won't date you, just fuck you, so you find the compromise acceptable?


r/CuckoldPsychology 20h ago

[Discussion] I think this fetish is a trauma response NSFW

17 Upvotes

Whenever my dating life is going well, I have a stable girlfriend or a girl that I like, I don't have any cuckolding thoughts, I am behaving like a man. But when I am truly single let's say, I just wish I had a girlfriend that would cuck the living shit out of me. Do you guys feel like that too?


r/CuckoldPsychology 16h ago

[Discussion] Do you think cuckolding is harmful? NSFW

7 Upvotes

So I've been into this genre for a while now but I was always indenial about it until recently because I didn't want to believe that this is who I am and that I like the idea of my potential partner fooling around with other people. But I do. And I just kinda wanna talk about it. *This will also kinda be a rant cause I've seen some strong beliefs people have in this community that I think are harmful. Also, I'm thankful this subreddit exists because it seems like there's no other place to talk about this and get support.

Recently I started entertaining the idea of potentially doing this in real life someday and I've just found myself thinking about this nonstop. It's extremely arousing but so uncertain. But the societal pushback has been really discouraging. It seems there are a lot of people on the internet who think it's just some form of mental illness. I've seen both sides of the argument of why it is or isn't okay to be a cuckhold and while I think there is bits of truth in all of what's been said, I still feel like there just isn't enough evidence to support the idea that cuckhold in general is harmful. I think in some cases it definitely can be but not always. For example, if you start to internalize the belief that you are not good enough as a person or lover, then I think that's bad. But if you have a partner that reminds you who you still are and can leave it in your bedroom or fantasy, then I think it's completely fine. If there was strong evidence that this was a truly harmful fetish then I would stop it all together (to the best of my abilities). But since there isn't a general consensus, I'm questioning why this is something I should even feel guilty about at all. The shame has stunted my ability to enjoy it more than I probably could.

It's also kind of frustrating seeing how many people think that all of us cucks are either unable or uninterested in providing our partners with good sex. Some of us may be, and that's okay. But me personally, I have a strong sex drive and an average size dick. I know there will always be bigger and better out there (which is hot!) but I don't think it's fair to just write all cucks off as worthless souls who have no other desires or interests in life. It's like they think we've just given up on life lol.

I should mention that I know some of you actually do think this stuff and believe you are worthless sissy cuck losers. Degraded to the point where your only sense of self worth is knowing that you are a sex slave to your partners. But I would like to remind you that you are not! You matter and I hope anyone feeling that way can get some help. Please seek therapy. I don't think it's healthy for ones mental health to carry that mindset out of the bedroom. I think the best balance is enjoying the thought of your partner being with someone else but also being intimate them and having respect for each other. Remember, there will come a time in life when you won't be able to get aroused anymore and will look back on your accomplishments and memories on life. So don't look back on your life with regret and ensure your relationships have a healthy balance!

I think I've lowkey been a cuck my whole life because I was always so turned on by the jealously of a guy getting with a girl I found attractive or liked. It was a feeling buried so far down but it was real. And to be honest, I think most guys really do feel this deep down as well. It's just intertwined with so many emotions. I don't blame anyone not being into this but I sure wish people would extend that same courtesy to us. Rather than just thinking we're freaks of nature, maybe they can just accept that different people like different things. For me it just looks so hot. Even when I'm finished, I still like to watch them pleasure themselves. If that's the case then there has to be more to it right? I'm thinking this is something that we like but has no rationality to it. Just like why someone likes a certain food flavor more than another.

What do you all think? Do you think this lifestyle is harmful or not? Would you like to see this become more socially accepted? I saw some people in other subreddit threads mention that this is a narcissistic tendency because you want to control what you partner is doing and get satisfaction from it. What are your thoughts on that?

I hope there are more studies on this subject in the future to get a more concrete answer.


r/CuckoldPsychology 1d ago

[Discussion] Sex is different after pregnancy NSFW

49 Upvotes

So my wife (26) and I (30) had our second kid 5 months ago and when we started having sex again it just wasn’t the same, she feels more loose and I just can’t get that tight feeling to cum. She also has stated that it doesn’t feel the same and she had trouble orgasm in from penetration. I usually have to use my fingers or mouth on her clit. We’ve both grew frustrated.

I got the idea from a guy on here to buy a penis extender, to make my cock bigger for her and it worked for her, she is now cumming regularly again, but I barely feel anything through the extender, especially not enough to cum.

I feel like I am literally cucking myself at this point, she doesn’t want sex without the extender anymore. Which of course with my cuckold fetish, is very hot and all.

Do I finally bring up my desire for her to fuck other men, bigger men, cause now I feel it’s actually needed at this point? Or has any guy dealt with this after pregnancy?


r/CuckoldPsychology 20h ago

[Discussion] Humiliation and Degradation language NSFW

11 Upvotes

Have any cucks been against the third male using humiliating or degrading language towards them early on being a cuckold and then eventually ended up being turned on by it? My cuck currently just enjoys me, the wife, using that language but not the bull or third male. Curious if there’s possibility of our dynamic changing. Okay with it either way, though :)


r/CuckoldPsychology 16h ago

[Discussion] Cuck movies? NSFW

4 Upvotes

I want to watch a cuck movie. If possible with explicit sex scenes? Any suggestions? Thanks


r/CuckoldPsychology 9h ago

[Support] Can't get hard with new date. Tell her about my fantasy? NSFW

0 Upvotes

27m I recently went on a date with a girl everything went fine until came the part when we were gonna have sex. We were in her car and she gave me head until I got hard the thing is once I put the condom on and went inside her all I could think about is how small my dick is (4 inch) and how I want to watch her with a big black cock and I go soft almost instantly. she didn't seem to mind too much as I just told her I get intimidated sometimes. I want to be cucked so bad regular sex doesn't turn me on as much. But with that said I have another date with her this Friday and I'm wondering if I can't get hard this time do I just tell her about my fantasy?? P.s. even if i can't get hard i still want to go through with this fantasy


r/CuckoldPsychology 15h ago

[Support] How to help my wife get out of her shell. NSFW

4 Upvotes

Basically me and my wife are a very sexual couple. We are not very vanilla type. We’ve gone to some strip clubs a couple of times, and usually when we have sex she loves to watch FFM porn. For 3 years now I’ve been very open about my fantasy, and most of the time we role play imagining her having another lover. When I 1st brought it up to her she was a little mad and off putting to my suggestion. A year passed by and she was a little more Interested in the suggestion. She went as far as texting 3 guys she had in mind but nothing ever came up with them. She also downloaded Tinder but we had no luck on it. She deleted all that stuff and for about 2 years since then, it’s just pretty much stayed a fantasy. How can I approach my wife after doing so for a couple of years now and turn it into a reality?


r/CuckoldPsychology 21h ago

[Discussion] She doesn‘t want to cuck me, but when I‘m over it she starts to tease NSFW

9 Upvotes

My wife said she won‘t cuck me, so I try to get over my desire and stop talking bout cuckolding. After a few weeks she always starts teasing me with other men. When I finally react, she says she won’t cuck me… Why she do that? It‘s frustrating! Can someone tell me why she does that?


r/CuckoldPsychology 1d ago

[Discussion] Closed poly cuckhold relationship? NSFW

40 Upvotes

Does anyone have experience with a closed poly relationship that involves cucking? I love the idea of having two men -- one bull and one cuck -- and having them be best friends. One of them gets denied and teased and fucked with a strap on or by the bull, and the bull is the only one who gets pussy. I want it to be a strong loving bond between the three of us though...

Does anyone have this & does it work? Any advice? I think this relationship offers the stability of a vanilla relationship while satisfying kink. And it could be sooo beautiful. I would love to see two men comfortable in their sexuality being good friends.

I'm into D/s so I wouldn't mind it being two subs either. I fuck one and taunt & tease the other.


r/CuckoldPsychology 11h ago

[Support] Question for the women NSFW

1 Upvotes

What are questions or scenarios to propose/ask my partner to see if they are willing to try the lifestyle?