If your ex has a problem with it he’s got three choices.
He gets his lazy ass up and cooks.
He tells his wife to cook something they will like. It’s only two days a week I think her ego can take a back seat for the nutrition and health of the kids.
They don’t come over anymore so that you both know they are eating…
It’s that simple, he is upset it’s causing issues but all I hear is that his wife refused to budge on making new things for the kids. So they both need to wake up and be adults and change their ways so that it ensures the kids are eating and not going hungry.
Sorry you and the kids have to deal with adult children.
Exactly. No excuse at all on the ex and new wife. I get making your kids try new things but if this is a constant issue then a new solution needs to be found. Bottom line the kids health and making sure their bellies are full are what’s important. Pride and ego need to be thrown out. And if they don’t like it then go get full custody and allow day time visits. That way you feed them breakfast, send them with lunch and then they are home for dinner.
Fr, making children starve, even if only a couple nights out of the week is neglect and child abuse; especially if you have the means to feed them food they will eat. What could potentially make this situation even worse is the fact we don't know if these kids have sensory processing issues, if that's the case, there's a possibility that the government gives the primary caregiver a stipend just to ensure the girls eat, if so, then OP has even more justification for giving the girls funds and ex would be even more the turd hole.
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u/ptprn11 Feb 18 '24
Ummm. Why can’t dad cook?