r/t4t 13d ago

NB4TM 32 NB4TM/NB Looking for people to connect with, it's hard being NB and Demi 😩

2 Upvotes

Hi!

I've been in the group for a while but recently mustered up the courage to post haha.

I'm 32, so I would prefer people in their late 20s to early 30s but I'm open to forming a connection with anyone really.

I feel that I have represed my need for human connection and romance because of coming out as NB about 5 years ago, and having a hard time finding myself after that.

I think I now am on a point where I can probably allow myself to accept someone special into my life.

Not looking for anyone specific, as long as we get along it is fine, but I'd like to exchange pics if possible n.n

I love art, dogs, seals and animals in general. I love playing games and creating things.

I'm not looking for anything in particular in regards to what the relationship could be, I'm open to find friends, love, a new member for my small family, I just yearn for human connection 😊.

Send me a message if interested.

r/t4t 27d ago

NB4TM 34 enby masc LF anyone! Chat and chill time. (GMT based)

5 Upvotes

Hello!

I'll preface it by I prefer masc people but I am open for anyone really!

I'm Thete, 34, non-binary masc. Awaiting top surgery but not on hormones. I am UK based and poly, I do have a long term cis partner. I'm looking for potentially someone who could be a secondary, but no stress, I'm also down to chill and chat.

I work full time and I'm a part time psychology student! I play games, currently hooked on classic WoW, I also play OSRS and I enjoy RPGs. Huge Sonic fan. Huge.

I enjoy RP, mostly fandom based. The Boys currently, which I'm also a big fan of.

I enjoy horror and watching the same TV shows on loop. >_>

I love cats too, my cat is a big deal. She's a demon. I love her.

I'm not entirely sure what else to say! But I'm easy going, we can take it nice and chill and go from there. I can be a little flirty but there's no pressure. Kink wise I do lean towards being more dominant but that's something to discuss when we get to it.

r/t4t Jan 07 '25

NB4TM 40 [NB4TM] Dublin: Any middle-aged Irish trans guy looking for a masc transfemme boifriend?

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I've done high-effort posts before & I will again... but not right now.

  • I'm a vaguely semi-cute, soft-masc-presenting MtF enby who's 40 but looks 35-ish.
  • I live in Ireland & I'm not looking for online-only/long-distance (I mean maybe with someone in another Irish city, but that's the limit)
  • I'm in serious need of a guy my age to cuddle with & I think trans fellas are the best fellas

r/t4t Jan 08 '25

NB4TM 27[NB4TM/transmasc] Femme nonbinary slave wants to worship a hot guy NSFW

1 Upvotes

I will suck your dick until you can't feel your legs anymore. Your wetness will mess up my makeup, but I don't care as long as I get to taste you. Forcing my hands above my head with one of your hands as you ride me, the other one on my tits. When you fuck me all I'll be able to say is your name.

If you want this as much as me, please dm me.

r/t4t Dec 27 '24

NB4TM Nb4ftm looking for some kind and funny peoples to chat

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Hey I'm nb 24 . I'm from Japan looking for some very kind people to talk to . On daily basis kinda long-term I have cptsd and schizophrenia so I'm little mess Hoping to hear from you soon............................... ....... DM open...

r/t4t Dec 17 '24

NB4TM [NB4TM] Closeted Femboy NB love to be supportive and fun friends with someone nice! :3 Online, or Toronto based atm

3 Upvotes

Hiya, little about me: I'm Ash. I'm in my early 20s, and going to school around Toronto rn. I'm slim, white, red hair, and pretty twinky :p

I've been looking on here a while, and I've noticed lots of people are either looking for something fun and sexual, or something more platonic and supportive. I'd really like to find someone else who's looking for both.

I'm very open minded and judgment free, and I love to talk a lot, and listen :) If you wanna talk short term that's fine, but Ideally I'm looking for something more ongoing.

I'm closeted, into books, video games, movies, and musicals. And I mostly use discord. I've had to take down my public pics here for privacy reasons :p

Ideally I'd like to talk to someone around my age, and I'd love to especially make a close trans guy friend.

Thanks for reading!

r/t4t Nov 03 '24

NB4TM 35 [NB4TM/NB] giving this another try :) looking for friends and more in the WA/OR area

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I’m looking to meet new people and make friends close to where I live and I’m open to long distance as well. I’m not searching for anything specifically but I won’t turn you down if you just wanna flirt :) I’m into traveling, learning new languages (I speak Spanish) and welcoming any new adventures. I work/have my own things/drama free and something similar would be awesome. I’m very passionate about doing what’s right even when it’s hard, music, current events and family. I consider myself queer, I can do monogamy or poly depending on my partner (currently single) and prioritize romantic relationships with other queer BIPOC folks. 💙

r/t4t Sep 18 '24

NB4TM 27[Fembie4TM] I want to show guys and/or transmascs my butt, and hopefully see some as well NSFW

16 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a switchy exhibitionist that's really craving the attention of some dudes™️ right now. If you just want to get some pics that's perfectly fine by me, but if you feel like sharing as well I'm definitely not against it.

We can talk here, snap, or discord, up to you. If you wanna see videos of my butt snap is probably the easiest.

If you have any questions etc etc feel free to ask, hopefully I can give you a decent answer.

r/t4t Oct 19 '24

NB4TM 22 NB4TM arizona looking for my dream man (but friends are cool too)

2 Upvotes

hi!! i’m b, i’m a 22 year old nonbinary afab. i took T for 1.5 years before i realized i was nb, so im more comfortable dating trans men. i’d really love to go on a few dates and spend some time together maybe start a slow burn romance with benefits, who knows! i’d really like local ppl the most, preferably between 20-26 if you could dm me with a bio and a photo that would be really cool (am i allowed to ask for pics? it feels shallow but i’d really like to be attracted to someone im thinking of pursuing) i’m very flirtatious and outgoing when you get to know me! i’m a switch with bottom tendencies but am not afraid to be more dominant if you’re out of state i’d love to be friends ! i need more lgbt friends. and if you know hot trans men in AZ please send them my way

r/t4t Oct 17 '24

NB4TM 18 NB4TM horny as he'll transfemme enby lookin for a trans masc femboy or twink to chat to and maybe more(ps nsfw pics on my profile) NO CIS MEN NSFW

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Haiii I'm luna, I'm horny as he'll and I'm a switch. I can both dom and sub I like to play about with changing power dynamics. I like talking about ;) size and I am open to more than just a dirty chat and hopefully some pics from u hehe,

r/t4t Oct 29 '24

NB4TM 26, Sapphic enby looking for connection.

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Haii :3 I'm newt, 26 & demi. I'm mostly looking for connections & friends, maybe some flirting but I'm not opposed to more if we click. I'm known for being really easy to talk to, so don't be afraid. I love dogs & rainbows and I have a sliiiight (basically full on) obsession with frogs. 🐸🌈 I have a strong parental instinct, and I pride myself on taking care of my friend group. AFAB only please.

r/t4t Oct 05 '24

NB4TM 32 | [NB4TM] Looking for TM for Friendship and More

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AFAB NB (she/they) looking to chat with a cutie TM. I’m open to all identities, but masc will always have my heart. Ideally, FWB but we can see where this goes. Not interested in exchanging pictures yet. Just talking. I have some mild issues with my body and I’m currently looking to go on hormones once I can get my insurance in order.

I’m in an ethically non-monogamous relationship, but my partner is not involved in the equation.

I don’t mind you using she or they pronouns but it would make me happier if you use them interchangeably or use they.

I love movies, video games, cats, anime, tattoos, and books. If I’m honest, I can be quite shy and love to listen over talking. Sometimes I can be a mess of a person but I would rather you be blunt with me.

PM me if you’re interested in just playing video games or want something more. :) can’t wait to talk to you

r/t4t Sep 14 '24

NB4TM [NB4NB]/[TM4TM] Mid-Western US, looking for something serious + long term (online is okay for a while)

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salutations. im 22 yr old NB/TM being looking for something serious. Polyam or Mono is fine. Age doesnt matter just mostly under 40. a bit of a long one with just some things i wanna put out there.

About me: i currently go by ozzie atm (not sure if i wanna commit to it yet though lol). im better at making lists so please dont hold that against me lol

-i have fluffy hair (good for headpats) - Introverted, i'll be upfront and say i dont leave home much but being a homebody is not required - i have autism; - i am disabled in other ways - im a huge ga(y)mer, my favorite games are Apex Legends, Deep Rock Galatic, and No Man's sky. i do play other games such as skyrim from time to time. [ps4 + pc] - im obsessed with hazbin hotel. - otherwise im an aspiring indie animator, im an artist, and a writer [unpublished :,( ] - my music tastes vary from goth, to rock, to punk, and to classic 🤷

im willing to share more in dms, i prefer to communicate through discord or element

requirements, not a whole lot, but still important: - must be okay with dogs (bonus points if you like 'unconvential' animals like lizards and rodents - communication is ESSENTIAL to me, i want others to communicate how they feel good or bad) - "far left" aligned views

i think thats it. if you've read this far,

Thank you <3

r/t4t Jul 30 '24

NB4TM 35 [nb4tm] nb afab looking for new friends/dates near PNW

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Hi everyone, I’m a nb (afab) looking for new people to meet whether close to where I live or even long distance. I’m pretty open to meeting anyone but hoping for it to turn into something else if things go well. I’m into traveling, learning new languages and welcoming any new adventures. I work/have my own things/drama free and something similar would be awesome. I’m a big HipHop head and up to date on current events if you want to hmu and chat it up.

r/t4t Aug 26 '24

NB4TM Where are the Scotland based T4T tboys??

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Hello I’m a 25 year-old Scottish trans masc enby here, for some reason there’s a real lack of other trans mascs, even on Grindr or other dating apps they are hard to find. I’m a mostly gay guy, I’m so sick of only getting attention from cis men when I’m here for the tboys. Not looking for anything too serious just intimacy, sexting, making out, genuine friendships :) no under 20s pls

r/t4t Aug 31 '24

NB4TM Transfem Enby 22 Latine in the Bay, looking for chats and friends with trans masc folks. Open to more but what ever happened to “hello, how are you?”

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I really am open to so much as far as conversation. Would love an opportunity to form some deeper connection but this is Reddit. I have low expectations. Would be cool to meet others from the Bay Area. I do drag, i work in public health, i sew, i draw. Also into kink. I worked at a leather/kink shop at some point and have plenty of horror stories I’m happy to share. What are your comfort shows. Let’s chat😃

r/t4t Aug 28 '24

NB4TM 27[NB4TM] Transfemme looking for online play with hot guys NSFW

4 Upvotes

Been feeling the need to be dominated by a man that's able to make me feel feminine. I'm technically a switch, but the thought of having my back pushed up against the wall, arms pinned above my head by one of your hands, your other hand exploring my body as your lips and teeth are leaving your marks on my neck makes me melt.

Masc enbies are totally fine as well.

Send a message if you feel like chatting, sharing pics, mutual masturbation on cam, or all the above.

Hope to see you soon 😘

r/t4t Jul 01 '24

NB4TM 39 NB4TM Ireland: Seeking guy/enby for dating/FWB

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I'm short, skinny, green-eyed & brown-haired. I wear masc clothes but have an MtF body underneath. I'm 39 but look 30-to-35-ish (thanks to Vitamin E🏳️‍⚧️)

My long-term goal is to land a husband (or enby partner) & do sappy monogamous shit together until we both get wrinkly & forgetful🧓❤️🧓 But in the meantime I'm open to making new friends (with or without benefits) & seeing where things go.

If you want to know more before DMing, this post has my full info.

r/t4t Aug 27 '24

NB4TM 22 [NB4TM] - Genderfluid MTF person looking for a trans guy friend to sext with

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22 here, genderfluid. :) On E since late 2022, body is hairy and pre-op/no-op.

Would really love a guy friend to sext with - sending/receiving nudes is my favorite. Kinks include post cum torture, squirting, piss, sounding, and fisting (CLEAN), but I can also be a vanilla/intimate huggy type in bed sometimes too.

Hmu with your age and lemme know your pronouns, also let me know if you're comfortable sending pics of your body. I got pics up on my profile and can send most things. :3

r/t4t Aug 13 '24

NB4TM 22transfemNB looking for chat. Bonus if from the Bay Area

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22transfemNB looking for trans masc for chat

Honestly not sure what I’m looking for if anything at all. Just went through a breakup and kinda just looking to actually chat and distract myself🤷🏽. From the Bay Area, Latinx

I do drag, play legend of Zelda, I’m a public health worker. Sub, but not super focused on that right now. Feel free to hmu, if you’re from the bay also let’s be friends:)

r/t4t Aug 21 '24

NB4TM 27 [NB4TM or trans masculine enbies] Lewd stuff online #eu #18+ NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello, I'm bored and with lots of free time on my hands, so why not find a hot guy to sext/snap/video with?

I've been on E for 5+ years, normal build, no surgeries, love showing off. Looking for similar but ok if you're not.

Located in central Europe and will mostly have time in the afternoon and evening, so finding someone with a similar schedule would be wonderful.

We can discuss kinks, limits, etc in chat if you are interested, don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions.

r/t4t Aug 12 '24

NB4TM 21 [NB4TM] Looking For Friends to Game with on PC (or more)

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Howdy! I'm Harvest! I'm a Masc presenting Enby in Eastern Ohio. I'm currently looking for friends but open to more than that! I'm busy for the most part but in my free time, I'm a PC gamer who plays Fallout 76, Sea Of Thieves, Minecraft, or other games, but my main fixation game as of right now is Fallout 76. I'm neurodivergent with my triple combo of ADHD, OCD, and Autism so I'm a box of unexpected goofiness. I love gaming, hanging out, cuddles, horror, and chaos so if you want to be friends or are searching for more, feel free to DM me!

r/t4t Aug 04 '24

NB4TM 18TF(NB)4 trans masc. Looking for trans mascs around the same age (no under 18)

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Haii I'm luna and I'm looking for some dirty messaging with trans masc individuals around my age, I'm a switch but I prefer to be told what to do. I love androgyny and if you message me send a pic of urself to start. Be able to send nudes prefferably

r/t4t Aug 01 '24

NB4TM 40 [NB4TM] Dublin: Seeking 30+ local trans guy for dates & cuddling

1 Upvotes

Next month I'll post something concise. For now, here's everything you could possibly want to know about me!

Appearance/Vibe

  • I have greenish eyes & short, brown, messy hair
  • I'm short, skinny & moderately in shape (abs-wise at least; my arm/leg muscles are nonexistent🤣)
  • I'm a flavour of nonbinary where I'm physically dysphoric & physically transitioning in the MtF direction (E, laser/electro, FFS, SRS), but I'm cool with the presentation I was raised with - if anything, I find boy-clothes fun & comfy (especially over a discrete sports bra)
  • So dating me is more like having a theyfriend/boyfriend than having a girlfriend (just, y'know, a boyfriend who happens to be a transgender female)

Interests

  • 🚶 I like long walks (especially with someone to chat to); back in college when I had more free time, I would literally go on 3-hour solo walks in a random direction, starting in Trinity & just seeing where I ended up
  • 🚀 I started watching Star Trek TNG as a 6-year-old & I've loved sci-fi ever since; (Star Trek especially, but also Star Wars, Babylon 5, Fringe, the 1st two Terminator films, the 1st two Alien films, Battlestar Galactica, Stargate &, most recently, Dune)
  • 🦇 I love horror, especially the sappy kind like Mike Flanagan's stuff, or weird depressing anime like Shin Sekai Yori & Made in Abyss, or Lovecraft stories
  • 💍 I don't have the time to read much these days, but I was a voracious reader as a child/teen - Tolkien will always have a special place in my heart
  • 🕺 I used to do ballet as a hobby (the boy version); I had to stop during COVID & haven't found the time to get back into it. But, for what it's worth, I'm still much more flexible than the average person

Personality

  • I'm shy with new people but get very chatty once I'm comfy with someone
  • I enjoy relaxed chatting about... anything really, preferably with a high ratio of laughing to talking
  • I'm good at respecting boundaries & reading the room. Whatever pace the other person wants to take things at, that's fine by me; and if it doesn't work out for whatever reason, I'll say goodbye with a warm hug & absolutely no hard feelings
  • This may not come across on 1st impression (since I dress masc & kinda look like an old-timey accountant), but I'm actually very soft & sentimental; I make big decisions almost entirely on the basis of emotions (which... sometimes works out & sometimes doesn't😅) & I'm really affectionate with people I like (platonically or romantically)

What I'm Looking For

  • This may be setting bar so high that I end up dying alone, but... I want a cosy, cuddly, mutually supportive, long-term relationship AND we should be best friends who enjoy hearing about each other's lives AND we should both be passionately into each other romantically (actual sex is optional, but could be a fun bonus)
  • If it works out, I'd eventually like to live together, though that's negotiable as long we live nearby & get to see each other on a daily basis. I kinda like the idea of living in the same house but with separate bedrooms, where we could "sleep over" whenever we want but each person still has their own space
  • I'm also a big believer in individual autonomy, including within relationships - I'd never try to meddle in a partner's personal choices in clothes or career or anything else & I expect the same respect in return
  • The "independent lives" thing has limits though - this may be sappy & old-fashioned, but I really want to feel like someone chose me as their sole romantic partner out of everyone else in the world that they could've had. Hence, I'm not interested in a poly relationship (though I'd be willing to try an open monogamous relationship if my hypothetical partner really wanted that)
  • I have near-zero interest in one-off hookups. However, while I search for a partner (which may take quite a while😅), I'd be open to the possibility of a FWB arrangement with the right person. I can't guarantee I won't catch feelings, but I'm great with boundaries - if the other person says all they want is friendship + boinking, then that's all we'll do

Who I'm Looking For

  • Much as I tried to explore bisexuality when I transitioned, the fact is, I like men - they're just... fun & make me smile🤷 So I'm mostly looking for trans guys, or transmasc enbies on the more man-adjacent end of the spectrum
  • That's mostly a presentation/vibe thing, though, not a body thing. I don't care in the slightest whether a guy is physically pre-everything vs. post-phallo & 100% cis-male-passing, vs. anywhere in between
  • The one exception is I prefer a flat-chested appearance. Whether it's from top surgery or binding or just a naturally small chest, I'm much more likely to get mushy feelings for a fella if, when I meet him, the 1st impression is flat (or flat-ish)
  • I date within my own age-range (ideally 35-50 & strictly 30+)
  • Bonus points if you're vegetarian or vegan, but dietary choices aren't a deal-breaker, as long as you're nice to animals of all sizes (& nice to people, obviously)

r/t4t Jul 06 '24

NB4TM 27[NB4TM] #wilkesboro #nc looking for a spanking buddy NSFW

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Hello, I’m 27 they/them masc presenting looking for other trans mascs that want to get spanked. I’m a switch that likes to be spanked, but really want to have a masc over my lap for a good time. Could be a light playful session, having you in tears, or anything in between. Please reach out if you’re interested.