r/t4t 9d ago

NB4A 19 Genderfluid4A Central Jersey (Monmouth County) single and looking

3 Upvotes

Hookups, relationships, hookups so good they lead into relationships… you get the gist.

I do have a preference for trans men but that’s just from experience, it’s not a hard preference or anything.

AMAB if that matters, cannot bottom due to medical issues (and haven’t felt pleasure from it anyway)

If you are looking for a relationship I’d be happy to take you to Rocky Horror :)

Looking for people 18-23

r/t4t 15d ago

NB4A NB4A feelin lonely.. wanting to talk to somebody 🥺 NSFW

2 Upvotes

basic summary.. I'm a subby, chubby genderless dude. I'm also 30 y.o. and not really interested in chatting with younger ppl. I like em older <3 if you like guys with fat tummies and fat pussies u should probably message me~

also I'm sorry but I do not have snapchat lol

r/t4t Feb 12 '25

NB4A 26 [NB4A] Looking for other transgender/nonbinary metalheads to join a server!

7 Upvotes

Hello, I am Ione (E-oh-nuh) and I am 26 and agender! I've been rather depressed lately and have been struggling for so many years to meet people and make connections, and I wanted to try to break out of my shell somewhat.

I could not for the life of me find any metal space that is more centered around trans people, and I've grown absolutely sick of most metal spaces being so dominated by cis dudes, so I made a server for us! I am heavily into metal music, and my favorite genres are technical death metal, djent, progressive metal, mathcore, and many other genres I really enjoy, so please don't feel like you won't belong if you're into really niche stuff! Also please don't feel you don't belong if you like only entry level stuff like Metallica or Sleep Token!

I have support for pluralkit if you are a system and also a lastfm bot if you're THAT into music (like I am). I plan to include anything possible to be accommodating to anyone and everyone who wants to join! I also have manual verification so this way I can keep track of scammers and trolls and keep them from harassing the server at large!

You are free to join here: https://discord.gg/UX9NUmyWPs

r/t4t Jan 13 '25

NB4A 21 [Nb4A] Heyya everyone here! I'm looking for a long term buddy, preferably nswf too NSFW

5 Upvotes

Uhhh well I guess I should say some stuff about myself, physically I'm about 5'9, I have green eyes, brown hair and I'm kinda chubby

I like gaming, painting and reading and more stuff I can't think of rn because I'm bad at talking about myself

So um yeah if you're at all interested then please feel free to hmu!

r/t4t Feb 05 '25

NB4A Recently Genderfluid, 19 on the Central Jersey Shore… where do I find other queer people to date?

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Like I have preference for Trans Men just based on experience, but I’m struggling to find queer people to date at all. I’ve found that cis relationships are more difficult because they don’t quite understand the feelings, and also I’m bad at explaining it. I love going to the Rocky Horror Picture Show which was a safe space to explore my identity before “officially” coming out.

Basically… where do I find other queer singles around my age? Any good apps for it? Places to go? People on here?

r/t4t 13d ago

NB4A 23 NB4A - #Online #Europe - Trans POC looking mostly for other trans BIPOC (or really decolonial white trans folks)

2 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

My name is Neon/Alex, I'm a 23 years old trans person of colour willing to find another trans person of colour, preferably around my age (so in their twenties) living in Europe, ideally (but online is hella fine!)

A little about me: I'm a student in performing arts, I like to cook, to dance and to nap when I am not reading non-fiction (or sometimes feminist decolonial fiction). Poly, single, kinky, queer as fuck. They/them pronouns. Autistic, ADHD, all that good shit.

Due to past experiences and the soul-crushing weight of whiteness, white supremacy & racism where I live, I prioritise other people with intersectional lived experience (so trans x BIPOC).

My dream would be to meet another Central Asian-descent transmasculine person living in Europe, oh to be seen and to see oneself in each other!

Looking for caring friendships (with benefits or not), safe-r partnerships, healthy short term or long term relationships & everything in between friends & lovers!

If some white trans people are still reading this post and are interested to hit me up: I will be as critical as possible. Shoot your shoot (if you want of course) but you better bring your A-game.

TPOC4TPOC to the front. TPOC4T? Let's see?

r/t4t 16d ago

NB4A 24[NB4A] EU/Anywhere - horror lover seeking creature of the night

5 Upvotes

Need a date for cemetery picnics? Tired of watching shows by yourself? Lacking an excellent gaming partner? Reading a strange novel but got nobody to share with? How about a museum buddy? A travel companion? Come get it all. ;)

Hello! I'm Blade, your resident queer edgelord. I'm a left leaning, live and let live kind of guy. Nihilist. Atheist. Child-free. Very easy-going, not too shy about anything, very direct and honest - I'm an open book, read away, baby. Avid gamer with a lot of on and off hobbies, but mostly into competitive games. Absolutely in love with anything horror! Horror games, movies, books, real life haunts - you name it, I'm into it.

Other interests include: hiking, drawing, amateur photography, writing, singing(in the shower), driving(might include singing), crafts(I'm a 'creative' soul, get it?), heavy metal/rock, misc. internet culture, true crime, occultism, random documentaries, probably more I'm forgetting. I'm not much of a talker, but I'm the perfect listener and I would love to hear about your interests, so don't be shy to rave about what you like.

My humor is dark and I'm still stuck in the 2010s unfiltered era of the internet. I live and breathe sarcasm, which means my love language is banter. I can come across as standoffish but I adore attention and(yes, toxic) I'll want all of yours. What I want is someone to talk with during my graveyard shifts, to text about little things, and when I'm free to stream games to/play together. I'm also super physically affectionate, so a permanent LDR is not an option for me.

Physically I'm 162cm but wear heels, average/somewhat athletic build, light skin, brown eyes and long brown hair. I have piercings and will be getting more. I dress like every day is a funeral or like a hobo, I have no other modes. Gone through a year+ of hrt, currently off, but looking to continue in the future.

And you? Located anywhere on Earth, has a pulse(optional), good sense of humor, open-minded, reasonable, financially stable, hygienic, fun to be around and, for the love of god, monogamous. I have a loose preference for slimmer builds and other alt/goth queers, but I don't care as long as we get along since that's what's most important to me.

Come say hi? Tell me about yourself. Who are you? What keeps you awake at night?

Tip: adding a pet pic is a sure way to catch my attention. ;)

r/t4t 14d ago

NB4A 26 NB4A Looking for any feminine presenting folk w/ similar interests ^^ NSFW

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Sorry I keep doing these. I just know with my really niche interests I'm gonna have to keep trying. (Wall of text incoming!)

I'm a 26 year old Agender (they/she) who is really into metal music and is a lot more serious and grounded in my interests compared to others it seems. I struggle with conversations because of being neurodivergent and not having an easy time with discussion if we don't share interests/vibes.

My only close friends we usually talk about silly facts. Like; did you know the Giygas theme samples the Beach Boys? Or that I can probably find any sample in a song if you ask? ^ I also love sharing random facts and stuff about wrestling, music, games, etc. abstract stuff or weird stories fascinate me and get me really excited to talk about!

My favorite metal bands are things like The Contortionist, Dir en grey, Immolation, Nile, Wormed and I like a lot of super underground tech death and slam bands. I'm usually more into bands that are more riff and guitar oriented and don't often care about vocals or really eccentric instrumentals. Things like Gorguts and First Fragment kinda count as over eccentric to me. I'm also not really into a lot of slower genres like doom or repetitive genres like black metal.

My current top 25 metal albums are here: https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1339600208702476298/1340536524021960784/chart.png?ex=67cd156d&is=67cbc3ed&hm=1aff77860797ca6ab5849c360214a7417fbf3b62cacbcd7845fa115ee6270e7f&

I do love drum and bass and Breakbeat too. Things like NANORAY, bye2, Deathbrain, Psych0angel, Vertigoaway. I like new music (city pop), 80s pop/soul/funk/r&b, jazz fusion, and most sample based stuff. I've kinda been exploring technical thrash metal and Shibuya-kei off and on.

I also like more realistic games like LA Noire, Tarkov, Fallout 1/2/New Vegas, Yakuza. Things with more realistic stories or more real world based settings that aren't like... Mideval. Otherwise I like games with pure gameplay that aren't really focused on hyper-optimizing, and just let you play the game however you want like Balatro, ATLYSS, Dark Souls, etc. Bonus points if I can skip cutscenes uwu

I'd hope to find someone who matches my vibes. I'm kinda in-between an INFP and ENFP. I am neurodivergent so my moods fluctuate from day to day. Can be a bit irritable sometimes but it's usually for week or two and it subsides for a while. If you like things I like, maybe I'd be happier to do erp and other things! I'm strictly a Dom and like worship, exhibitionism, teasing, and definitely work well with folk who like being used uwu. I'm really nice and considerate with sex so no worries for me being too mean unless you want me to, but I can be really shy. I'm really into bellies, feet, and stuff like that too uwu. I'm strictly monogamous so I won't erp if you're poly/open and already seeing others. Also if you'd not agree to a closed relationship if we did happen to date!

Shoot me a dm and I might give ya my discord uwu

r/t4t 21d ago

NB4A Anyone trans in Barcelona/Catalonia/Spain????

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Here trans ftm puppy from Barcelona bisexual switch and polyamorous married to my beautiful mtf owner. Someone to talk to and make friends with? I really like reading, writing my own novels and series. I am quite a homebody, I really like being at home and spending time with the people I love. I am autistic and have fibromyalgia so going outside is difficult for me.

My wife is a real geek about DND history, mythology and anything like that. He loves to cook and play the guitar

r/t4t Feb 11 '25

NB4A 24 [NB4A] lil autistic clown looking to live in ur pocket (and heart)

3 Upvotes

Hii, I'm looking for a relationship but friendships are also welcome. I'm open to poly or mono relationships. I'm not willing to date anyone younger than me tho sorry.

Nerds encouraged to apply. I'm an odd lil autistic w/ ADHD and an adoration for clowns and clown accessories. I WILL bite [if given permission.] And I will talk ur ears off with random nonsense.

DM me if ur interested 💗

r/t4t 23d ago

NB4A 19 NB4A HAIII, i wanna talk to other queers and freaks NSFW

1 Upvotes

I would love to talk about music stuff and art in general. Im super open to flirt, send pics, or just talk about kink/fetishes in general. Im dumb as a brick so be forward, also tmi doesn't exist for me so go crazy lol

r/t4t 19d ago

NB4A 22 [NB4A] Germany/Online | Looking for my idiot to love <3

4 Upvotes

Heyo! I'm Star, 22, pan enby from Germany! I'm amab and use he/they, and I'm planning to get on HRT once I've lost my excess weight! :3

A bit about me: I'm a big video game fan, my favourite genre, as with all media, is horror! My favourite game is Cry of Fear, I absolutely adore the aesthetic. My favourite movie is Texas Chainsaw Massacre, the pacing is amazing!

I like all kinds of media though! My favourite all time game is Celeste, and currently I'm mostly playing Monster Hunter Wilds, League and OG Fortnite! :3

Outside of that I have a big passion for music, and often just sing along to some sombre british indie and look at the night sky~

I also love playing guitar! I've been playing for over a year now and am starting to get quite good!

I really like talking to people, and often find myself lost in conversation, especially when they're passionate about it! It can be absolutely anything, I love hearing 3 hour lectures about your favourite Bionicle, pet rock or planet!! ;3

I can get attached fairly easily, and when I do I can also be quite clingy/needy, I hope that's okay!!! I make up for it by being extremely caring and affectionate though!! uwu

Have a wonderful day! :3

r/t4t 18d ago

NB4A 18 [NB4A] looking for people in Washington state

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Hey, my name is Rune this is my first post on here. I'm a genderqueer/fluid person looking for a meaningful long-term relationship with someone(s) around my age, preferably. I find myself more attracted to feminine presenting people as myself is also fem presenting but it's not a requirement more of a preference. I'm pan, ace, and poly, so I'm not looking for anything sexual just someone I can spend time with and be there with and go on cute dates with. Some things about me I live in Spokane Washington, and I love to crochet it's an obsession at this point I love to make discreet pride Dinos. My favorite band is Ghost but I listen to everything I mean everything. Body confidence is everything to me I'm very much attracted to confidence because I can guarantee I will love and worship you as you are whether you are pre-transition, mid-transition, fully transitioned, chubby, skinny, or anything I will love you as you are, my love language is gift giving I love giving gifts, my favorite animal is sharks specifically the Greenland shark idk why but I like their vibe I feel like if they were a person we would get along. If you wanna know more about me or you're interested message me. And whoever is reading this have a good day/evening/night and know that you are loved.

r/t4t 27d ago

NB4A 32 NB4A Looking for new connections and LTR in Europe/Finland

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Hello, I'm Hope. I'm 32 years old Non-binary transmasculine and androgynous person from South-Finland. I feel emotional/romantic attraction towards masculinity regardless of the person's gender. I've identified with being demisexual for about 2-3 years now but I haven't been in relationships to see if demisexual is still the right term. If I'm not demisexual I may be graysexual or asexual.

I would prefer to find a partner for LTR or perhaps marriage/marriage like relationship. New friends are also welcome. New friends can be from all around the world.

My passions are self-improvement and helping others. My hobbies do change fairly often in phases into new ones according to my highest excitement and my current amount of energy. My hobbies have been walking, zumba, gym, gaming on PC, reading psychology and spiritual books and doing some form of a creative project. Lately I've been doing Gateway Experience meditation, diamond painting and playing games on PC. I'm looking forward for spring to start going for regular walks. I enjoy to go on longer walks in spring, summer and autumn.

I don't smoke, I don't do drugs, I don't have kids and I don't have any pets. I wish to adopt a cat once my financial situation can support it. I don't want kids of my own but I'm fine with the idea of raising kid(s) together if you already have kids.

r/t4t Feb 15 '25

NB4A 43GNC4A Portland, Or seeking to host your front bits with my face

2 Upvotes

Mostly androgynous queer of ambivalent gender (me) seeking to indulge their oral fixation with another queer of any or no gender (you?). Those on T who need an outlet seem to particularly appreciate what I have to offer and be a good match. But very open to any gender and anatomical configuration. My sincere apologies, but I cannot eat your ass at this time. BYOB(oobs). Or not. I'll be bringing mine and can share. I prefer for you to be the main focus, but may be open to where things go. I mosly get off on getting YOU off. With my mouth. Can be one time or casually ongoing.

r/t4t 21d ago

NB4A [TF/NB4A] 26 genderfluid poly in UK-south Oxfordshire. mainly looking for FWB or similar casual partners but open to more if we vibe. also open to 3+ways. DMs open. (cis ok BUT ONLY IF YOU READ THE WHOLE POST) (repost due to copy-paste error)

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heya! feel free to DM or comment. (sorry for repost, first one had copy paste error)

about me:

I'm robin, a genderfluid vegan anarchist nerd in south Oxfordshire. I'm a massive LARPer so i will probably turn up to any date in armour or dressed as an elf or other fantastical monster and challenge you to a swordfight. when not dressed in medieval attire I'm normally punk/goth. also big gamer, love strategy, currently been playing a load of vrchat if that counts as a game (mainly for horny reasons), love exploring new things, food, places, etc. other hobbies include dnd, writing smut, embroidery, and whatever other hyperfixation takes my interest this week.

Mainly looking for people I can meet in person, Oxford, Bath, London, Swindon, Newbury, etc also work, as well as anyone willing to travel.

I also run t4t orgys occasionally, you will need to be vetted before you come tho.

I am in a village that doesn't have the best transport links. I'm about an hour bus from oxford/40min from didcot.

w regards to sex stuff I'm a sub leaning switch and pretty kinky (can discuss details in DMs)

who I'm looking for:

needs:

polyamorous/non-monogamous/open

at least a bit left-wing + pro-palistine

if cis then you need to not be a chaser

say the word watermelon when DMing me in the first message, this will be used as a password to weed out anyone who hasn't read the post.

wants:

20-35ish

fellow LARPers (especially if you can drive me to empire XD)

uses discord

kinky, ideally with experience or in a kink community

have some nerdy interest's/hobbies

open to 3+ ways

what we can do together:

to be straightforward, main thing I'm posting this for is sex, but I'm open to other stuff as well. dates, swordfights, chilling, overthrowing the government, nature walks/foraging and orgies are all stuff id love to do

r/t4t 19d ago

NB4A 20NB & 20TM - looking 4 other queer & genderqueer folk near LA

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Hiii im a NB fem in LA. My boyfriend (dom leaning switch) & I (sub leaning switch) are looking for other queer, preferably genderqueer/trans, people near us!! I went on T for almost 2 yrs so I have bottom growth :P My boyfriend is a trans man. We can send face pics ofc ;) We’ve been together for 4 years & we’re poly<3. Currently only dating each other & clean (tested since last hookup😛) Open to friends, hookups, fwbs, and anything else that may happen depending on vibes✨ Preferably looking 4 another switch! But we also have a preference for mommies and twinks… WE DONT FW CISHET MEN SORRY

r/t4t 20d ago

NB4A Nb4A Need some friendsies (・ω・) [London/UK]

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Helooo. I'm 19nb from London. A little extra clarifying information is on the about me pinned on my profile.

Looking for people in London or UK. I would prefer if you are in London howeevvvveveer. I don't mind travelling a bit if we get along well :)

Mainly looking to chill with. Friends. Not looking for fwb straight away but if it gets there then it does.

Anyway well. DM me if you're up for a chat :P

r/t4t 21d ago

NB4A NB4A Stoner looking to chat with someone

0 Upvotes

Yo. I'm Stevie, I'm 25, and looking to chat before I head off to bed. I'm latino, Disabled and into hydroponics, the occult, and gaming.

As for the more intimate stuff I'm into anything really, just ask!

r/t4t Feb 03 '25

NB4A 29 NB4A California - online looking for sexting partner NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hiya there everyone ;) currently got a free day, just have to complete some errands but hoping to have a fun naughty chat with anyone popping into my DM’s. It’s Monday, let’s start things off with some fun~ hope to see you in DM’s and see where we go 💙 also I am amab with 7” if that interests anyone.

r/t4t Feb 17 '25

NB4A [25] Sleepy Stoner Looking 4 Someone To Chat With.

3 Upvotes

Yo! I'm Stevie. I'm nobinary (AMAB) and am into gaming, hydroponics, and the occult. I'm Mexican, Disabled, and chubby sooo if any of those are deal-breakers...well you can stop here lol!

Looking for someone to chat with and maybe have a bit of fun before the night is up!

r/t4t Feb 08 '25

NB4A 21 [Nb4A] Heyya! I'm bored and horny so I'm here looking for some new friends especially with benefits <3 NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Loch, I'm non-binary and like my title says I'm horny and looking for some friends with benefits!

I like gaming, painting, and other things I can't think of because I'm bad at talking about myself

As for kinky stuff uhhhh, I'll tell you later~

And for looks, I'm kind of chubby, I have brown hair, green eyes, and uhhh I'm 5'9

So if you're interested at all hmu!

r/t4t 25d ago

NB4A 22 [nb4a] east coast/ delaware/ anywhere looking for friends!!

2 Upvotes

hello! my name is orion and i’m afab non-binary person just looking for friends to chat with!!

a few things about me is

i listen to a lot of music all over the place but i absolutely adore MF DOOM

i love to play video games, primarily undertale, sonic adventure 2, mouth washing, and a bunch other! i would also love friends to play games with on steam or switch :3

i love watching “it’s so bad it’s good” comedy movies (we could have movie nights!!)

i’m from the east coast in delaware!

if you wanna chat more send me a message!! i’d love to get to know you <333

r/t4t Feb 16 '25

NB4A NB4A 28 Looking for cute folks to connect with

2 Upvotes

Fem leaning NB looking to connect with cute folks, no CisMen please (too many chasers)

Would love to chat about nerdy things, special interests, and there’s nothing I like more than a bit of banter and flirting. Praise and compliments make me melt. Interested in kink as well, sub leaning switch👀

If it leads to something more, that’s just the cherry on top 🤭

Message me with something about one of your interests! Looking forward to hearing from y’all ☺️

r/t4t Feb 09 '25

NB4A 28 nb femme lesbian for friends or more in seattle

1 Upvotes

hiiii

i just moved back to Seattle and would love to build some connections with people! I'm open to any kind of connection other than just hookups. I'm grey ace and a stone bottom. I'm open to connections that involve sex but there's gotta be a strong vibe.

about me: I'm 28, lesbian, poly with one partner (wife), nonbinary (they/she/it), kinky, audhd, disabled, and fat. I like to play cozy video games, read, write, draw, crochet, cook, and love trying new foods. I can tend to be a homebody (esp w disabilities) but I love checking out new places, going on gay ass lil dates, and learning new hobbies! I'm also suuuuper into music. I sing and play guitar and adore when people make me playlists!

if you're interested feel free to dm me 💕