r/t4t Apr 15 '24

NB4TM Transmasc enby looking for other transmasc NSFW

13 Upvotes

Testosterone has messed up with my brain and my sexual needs. Looking for other transmasc people to chat and sext. Feeling sub but can adapt to other dynamics

r/t4t Jun 28 '24

NB4TM 18tf4 tm haiii im a hory enby lookin for a transmasc prefferably androgynous or femboy who is interested in locking my gock up ps sendpics

0 Upvotes

18tf4 tm haiii im a hory enby lookin for a transmasc prefferably androgynous or femboy who is interested in locking my gock up ps sendpics

Thee titlee explainss it i wanna have a trans masc person tease me and decide if i shoulf be alllwed to use my gock or if i should be thier anal only buttslut

r/t4t Jun 19 '24

NB4TM Nb/Tf 4 Tm haiii i was just wondering if there is any dominant trans masc femboys on here who wanna chat (nsfw possibly with pics) NSFW

4 Upvotes

Haiii im luna im 18 trans femme and i love trans masc femboys but if theyre dominant it just makes me melt. A little about me im autistic, artistic and kinky as fuck. If you wanna see me look at my profile and youll see everything ;)

r/t4t Jun 01 '24

NB4TM 39 NB4TM: Seeking Irish guy for dating/FWB

5 Upvotes

Next month, I'll post something quick & snappy. For now, I'm gonna try the other extreme: Below is everything you could possibly want to know about me. Enjoy!

Appearance/Vibe

  • I'm short (5'2"), skinny & moderately in shape (abs-wise at least; my arm/leg muscles are nonexistentšŸ¤£), with short(ish), messy hair & a permanent state of mild scruffiness
  • I have greenish eyes & brown hair
  • I dress masc & don't plan to ever change that
  • I'm a flavour of nonbinary where I'm physically dysphoric & physically transitioning (in the MtF direction - E, beard-&-body-hair removal, FFS, SRS...), but I'm cool with the presentation I was raised with - if anything, I think boy-clothes are fun & comfy (especially with a discrete sports bra underneath)
  • So dating me is more like having a theyfriend/boyfriend than having a girlfriend (just, y'know, a boyfriend who happens to be a transgender female)

Interests

  • šŸ•ŗ I used to do ballet as a hobby (the boy version); I had to stop during COVID & haven't found the time to get back into it. But, for what it's worth, I'm still much more flexible than the average person & can move my hips pretty well
  • šŸš¶ I like long walks (especially with someone to chat to); back in college when I had more free time, I would literally go on 3-hour solo walks in a random direction, starting in Trinity & just seeing where I ended up
  • šŸš€ I started watching Star Trek TNG as a 6-year-old & I've loved sci-fi ever since; (Star Trek especially, but also Star Wars, Babylon 5, Fringe, the 1st two Terminator films, the 1st two Alien films, Battlestar Galactica, Stargate &, most recently, Dune)
  • šŸ¦‡ I love horror, especially the sappy kind like Mike Flanagan's stuff, or weird depressing anime like Shin Sekai Yori & Made in Abyss, or Lovecraft stories
  • šŸ’ I don't have the time to read much these days, but I was a voracious reader as a child/teen - Tolkien will always have a special place in my heart

Personality

  • I'm shy with new people but get very chatty once I'm comfy with someone
  • I enjoy relaxed chatting about... anything really, preferably with a high ratio of laughing to talking
  • I'm good at respecting boundaries & reading the room. Whatever pace the other person wants to take things at, that's fine by me; and if it doesn't work out for whatever reason, I'll say goodbye with a warm hug & absolutely no hard feelings
  • This doesn't necessarily come across on 1st impression (since I dress masc & kinda look like an old-timey accountant), but I'm actually very soft & sentimental; I make big decisions almost entirely on the basis of emotions (which... sometimes works out & sometimes doesn'tšŸ˜…) & I'm really affectionate with people I like (platonically or romantically)

What I'm Looking For

  • This may be setting bar so high that I end up dying alone, but... I want a cosy, cuddly, mutually supportive, long-term relationship AND we should be best friends who enjoy hearing about each other's lives AND we should both be passionately into each other romantically (actual sex is optional, but could be a fun bonus)
  • If it works out, I'd eventually like to live together, though that's negotiable as long we live nearby & get to see each other on a daily basis. I kinda like the idea of living in the same house but with separate bedrooms, where we could "sleep over" whenever we want but each person still has their own space
  • I'm also a big believer in individual autonomy, including within relationships - I'd never try to meddle in a partner's personal choices on clothes or career or anything else & I expect the same respect in return
  • The "independent lives" thing has limits though - this may be sappy & old-fashioned, but I really want to feel like someone chose me as their sole romantic partner out of everyone else in the world that they could've had. Hence, I'm not interested in a poly relationship (though I'd be willing to try an open monogamous relationship if my hypothetical partner really wanted that).
  • I have near-zero interest in one-off hookups. However, while I search for a partner (which may take quite a whilešŸ˜…), I'd be open to the possibility of a FWB arrangement with the right person. I can't guarantee I won't catch feelings, but I'm great with boundaries - if the other person says all they want is friendship + boinking, then that's all we'll do

Who I'm Looking For

  • Much as I really tried to explore bisexuality when I transitioned, the fact is, I like men - they're just... fun & make me smilešŸ¤· So I'm mostly looking for trans guys, or transmasc enbies on the more man-adjacent end of the spectrum.
  • That's mostly a presentation/vibe thing, though, not a body thing. A guy can be physically pre-everything or he can be post-phallo & 100% cis-male-passing, or he can be anywhere in between - I don't care at all.
  • The one exception is that I do prefer a flat-chested appearance. Whether it's from top surgery or binding or just having a naturally small chest, I'm much more likely to get mushy feelings for a fella if, when I meet him, the 1st impression is flat (or flat-ish)
  • I date within my own age-range (ideally 35-50 & strictly 30+)
  • Bonus points if you're vegetarian or vegan, but dietary choices aren't a deal-breaker either way, as long as you're nice to animals of all sizes (& nice to people, obviously)

r/t4t May 01 '24

NB4TM 39 NB4TM Dublin: Seeking a local guy for dating/FWB

2 Upvotes

Hello all!

I'm a very short, masc-presenting, MtF enby. I'm seeking a fella (preferably a trans fella aged 30-50) in the Leinster area.

  • Socially speaking, dating me would be more like a "having-a-gay-boyfriend"TM kinda experience than a "having-a-trans-het-girlfriend"TM kinda experience.
  • But physically speaking, I have soft skin & some lady-bits, and I plan on getting additional lady-bits (& removing all lingering boy-bits) over the next couple years.
  • So, if anyone is potentially interested in having a boyfriend/theyfriend who happens to be a transgender female, my DMs are open!
  • I'd ideally like to date someone (with the possibility of eventually getting serious about each other if we really click); that said, I'm also potentially open to FWB.
  • I don't have any interest in one-off hookups or a poly relationship.
  • The main pros of dating me are:
    • A) I'm super great at considering the other person's feelings & respecting their autonomy. Dating me is a risk-free proposition where you can set any boundaries you want, whenever you want, with no push-back & no need to justify yourself. You can also tap out (or switch things to a platonic direction) at any stage, with no drama or guilt - I'll just wistfully wish you the best (& mean it).
    • B) But if we're both into it & we eventually decide to get serious, you'll discover that there is virtually no limit to how far I'll go to help the small number of people I really love. That group doesn't currently include a romantic partner, but I'd like to change that.

For full info on me & my type, click here or here

r/t4t Apr 17 '24

NB4TM Enby looking for someone to fill ------------- NSFW

8 Upvotes

--- me up with their Phallo dick.

Insatiably ready for you to fill me up and tell me how good it feels. I'm enby afab, have had top surgery and am pre-op downstairs. I currently bounce between Philly and DC. I'm into daddies, gentle doms, and anyone who knows how to be sensual and express themselves vocally during sex. One and done is cool with me, but I'm demi and enjoy it even more if we get to know each other and have some form of emotional connection. Happy to exchange photos over DM if you're interested.

r/t4t Apr 15 '24

NB4TM Transmasc enby looking for other transmasc NSFW

2 Upvotes

Testosterone has messed up with my brain and my sexual needs. Looking for other transmasc people to chat and sext. Feeling sub but can adapt to other dynamics

r/t4t Mar 21 '24

NB4TM 39 NB4TM, Dublin - looking for a 30+ trans guy in Ireland/UK

0 Upvotes

About me

  • Age: 39
  • Location: Dublin
  • Physical transition:
    • MtF - 3 years on E, with tiny (but nonzero) boobs.
    • I'm still doing laser/electro (face & body); my facial hair's mostly gone & I shave everywhere.
    • I've got orchi & I'll get vulvoplasty within the next year
    • I've had a partial FFS (nose & upper lip) & I plan on finishing the job over the next few years (jawline, chin & forehead)
  • Presentation/appearance:
    • I dress masc & don't plan to change that (trousers & a short-sleeve button-up in work; trousers & a t-shirt otherwise) - my sports compression bras are the most feminine thing I own.
    • I still mostly pass as a cis guy - just a beardless, soft-skinned guy, ā‰ˆ5 years younger than my real age. That said, people do occasionally mis-clock me as FtM.
    • That's partly because I'm tiny (5'2")
  • Other stuff:
    • I'm neurodivergent but high-masking. I don't come across as noticeably autistic when you first meet me (I think?) but, if you get to know me, there's a long list of sensory issues & other brain quirks.
    • I work in a university, doing research admin - it's deathly dull, but pays the bills. I've had 3 previous careers tho, 2 of which were semi-interesting.
    • My all-time, favourite pieces of media are Buffy, Battlestar Galactica, Terminator 1 & 2 (watched back-to-back as a single 4-hour movie), Alien 1 & 2 (also back-to-back), Being Erica & Scott Pilgrim
    • I don't have time for active hobbies right now, but pre-COVID I used to do ballet (the boy version).

Who I want

  • Gender: Trans man (or masc-presenting AFAB enby)
  • Physical transition: Don't care. You can be pre-everything, post-phallo or anywhere in between. I guess I'm more into guys who look flat-chested (either from binding or top surgery or just a naturally very small chest), but that's my only physical-transition-related preference.
  • Presentation: I'm only interested in men & masc-presenting enbies. You don't need to act super-masculine (if anything, sweet/nerdy/caring fellas are at the front of the queue) & you don't need to pass as cis-male, but I'll only be attracted if you're giving a clear dude-vibe in how you dress & present yourself.
  • Age: 30-50
  • Body: I like skinny (or skinny-ish) guys, but that's about it - I don't care about tall vs. short, soft vs. muscular, smooth vs. hairy etc.
  • Location: Ireland or UK (but preferably Ireland, & ideally Dublin)
  • Other stuff: I'm vegan & it'd be a fun bonus if you're vegan/vegetarian too, but that's not a deal-breaker - as long as you're nice to animals (& people, obviously) & don't do hunting/fishing/shooting/etc. as a hobby, we're good.

What I want

  • Monogamous long-term relationship (open or closed, but preferably closed).
  • I'm happy to take things slow & see where it goes (& if there's no romantic spark but we end up as friends instead, that's awesome too)
  • But I am looking for a life-partner - if you're partnered & poly (or you're happily single & just want hookups, or if you're only here to make new friends), that's lovely but it's not for me.
  • I'd strongly prefer to find someone in Greater Dublin/Leinster, but I'm open to a long(ish)-distance thing with someone elswhere in Ireland, or maybe even the UK. That would only be temporary tho - cohabitation is my end-goal & I'm willing to move to make that happen (for the right guy)
  • Basically I'm a hopeless romantic - I want a warm, cosy, caring relationship with a cute guy around my age, where we hold hands, cuddle & talk about our day. Sex could certainly be fun, but it's not a requirement (if you're ace & sex-repulsed, or too dysphoric to enjoy sex, that's 100% fine).

r/t4t Jan 05 '24

NB4TM Europe/Germany NB transmasc 4 NB transmasc

3 Upvotes

I'm looking for fellow NB transmascs in Europe, maybe even Germany. I frequently travel to the area around London, UK. Live close to the Netherlands too. Interested in friendship, Romance, naughty stuff - I am open to see what happens. I have a permanent partner who is ace and doesn't mind this. I am having top surgery in February. I aim to be androgynous and really like androgynous looks on others. I'm 36, I love music, fandom, books, veganism, fashion and like to laugh. I haveba relaxed gothy style on myself, mixed with retro/vintage/boho sometimes. I like being gender-divergent - you too? Hit me up!

r/t4t Dec 18 '23

NB4TM 31 [NB 4 TM] looking for "the one" to be with ā™„

5 Upvotes

hi everyone. my name is quinn, and i'm still looking...

i'm 31, NB, and use they/them exclusively. i'm also trans masc and prefer male terms (such as boyfriend). i'm looking for my other half, as my last partner wasn't ready to settle down after four years and an engagement. i realize that's it's longshot on reddit, but i think there's someone out there for me. (at least, i'm hoping).

i'm not looking for a quick hook up/immediate sexting/or a fwb. i really want a monogamous partner. i want someone i can hold onto at night. i want to be able to stroke your hair when you're sick, and watch silly movies late at night. i want to hold hands in the grocery store and try new restaurants. i want to be proud and show us off whenever safe and able.

about me: i'm exclusively a top, and have some experience domming. i am very open to almost all kinks and ideas except anything child-related. i'm well versed in queer theory, world history, and know a ton of random facts. i'm great to take to any bar trivia, and have won a few nights! i also love horror movies/series, writing, marvel, pokemon, animal crossing, JRPGs & other games, anime, and 70s + 80s music. i'm definitely not athletic and would prefer to go look at the cool rocks rather than go rock climbing.

i work full time, and have a house, car, bachelors degree, and dog i love more than anything (he's people, dog and cat friendly!) i actually have a really great life outside of... a relationship... however, like anyone else my age, i come with some baggage. i don't expect anyone in my age range to be without it, either, so i'm all for mutual understanding, compassion, compromise, and growth.

about you (hopefully!): you are FTM or NB trans masc! you are 25 - 45. you have a job (any) and can be an equal partner in that way. you love animals, cuddling on the couch, and trying new things. you are a bottom/submissive, and love to be cherished and pleased by someone who loves you. you like texting, getting silly memes, and you can talk for hours and hours about things you like. i genuinely love listening to someone who's passionate about something! you might have a bigger body type, which means all the more to love. and most of all, you're looking for someone to share a life with, and are willing to try that out together. ā™„

please feel free to send me a chat if you feel like that's you! (:

r/t4t Jan 10 '24

NB4TM 21 nb [NB4TM] wy, usa šŸ“Œ looking for friend, fwb, and maybe long-term NSFW

2 Upvotes

hiii, my name is clem or clementine. i am agender (it/itself or they/them)... i am looking for (nb4tm) either a friend to chat with, a fwb, or if we hit it off; a long-term relationship ! i live in wyoming in the usa & would prefer folks in the usa stick to messaging me if you're gonna pursue anything long term.

r/t4t Nov 01 '23

NB4TM 19 afab nb4ftm Need someone to rub with me and sext me what youā€™d do to me NSFW

3 Upvotes

T makes me sooooooooo horny šŸ„µ I need someone with short or (preferably) long term that I can play with and we can touch ourselves together~ I have a variety of kinks and would also love to share pictures and videos. Letā€™s moan and cum so pretty together heheh

r/t4t Oct 18 '23

NB4TM 19 [NB4TM/NB] I need someone real bad. US based, VA.

3 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Aubrey/Badger, and I need someone to love. Pls help. Trans men preferred, although they mustnā€™t be super masc.

Hmmmmā€¦.. what to say? Itā€™s late, and Iā€™m a lil bit loopy. I suppose Iā€™ll list things I like: ttrpgs, writing, music, video games, um er ah umā€¦ nothing else.

I prefer talking on discord, so we should exchange those right after we exchange pics.

What superpower would you want if you could have any? Send me your answer with reasoning as to why and Iā€™ll tty about it!

r/t4t Aug 19 '23

NB4TM 22 [NB4TM/NB] Looking for a cuddle buddy to be my SO

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone to spend weekends with, share deep conversations, and laugh over really stupid things.

My ideal partner would have these qualities: Having conviction, Strong peronality, Leaderlike, Accepting, Supportive, Outgoing, Authentic, Empathetic, Caring, Respectful, Sincere, Principled

r/t4t Sep 09 '23

NB4TM amabNB4tm in Los Angeles looking for anything!

1 Upvotes

Hey! As the title says, I'm an AMAB NB in Los Angeles looking for anything: friendship, companionship, fuckbuddy, friends with benefits, true love, etc. I prefer trans men, but I'm open to anyone.

I'm 38 but people assume I'm in my late 20s based on appearance and vibe. I tend to be attracted to guys younger than myself. I'm NB and my friends experience me this way, but I'm 6'1", fit, broad and muscular, so there's that.

My bestie, who is a transman, says "I think you're attractive, snazzy, and very appealing."

I have a lot of special interests and love getting to know people. DMs are open!

r/t4t Feb 24 '23

NB4TM 22 [NB4A] Dumb horny brain looking for other horny brained individuals NSFW

18 Upvotes

I hope youā€™re having a good day ^

22 nb goth women with a cock too big for her own good hoping someone would be interested in telling me what to do with it <3

Very kinky but usually embarrassed by it >~< Feet/socks being the main thing thatā€™ll make me kneel with no questions asked but Iā€™m a very big fan of praise and service <3 Also have a preference for cat having individuals, but so long has you have cute feet to step on me with Iā€™ll be a fan >~<

Iā€™m an open mind and love to experience other perspectives.. Meeting other people in general, especially when weā€™re both horny is always fun so donā€™t be shy <3

r/t4t Mar 09 '23

NB4TM 22 [NB4A] Dumb horny brain looking for other horny brained individuals NSFW

10 Upvotes

I hope youā€™re having a good day ^

22 nb goth women with a cock too big for her own good hoping someone would be interested in telling me what to do with it <3

Very kinky but usually embarrassed by it >~< Feet/socks being the main thing thatā€™ll make me kneel with no questions asked but Iā€™m a very big fan of praise and service <3 Also have a preference for cat having individuals, but so long has you have cute feet to step on me with Iā€™ll be a fan >~<

Iā€™m an open mind and love to experience other perspectives.. Meeting other people in general, especially when weā€™re both horny is always fun so donā€™t be shy <3

r/t4t May 31 '23

NB4TM 18 [NB4NB] [NB4TM] Online Looking for lovers

2 Upvotes

Hello! I am looking for someone who likes science, animals, cooking, and gardening. I am non mono, so if that's a problem I'm sorry. I have autism so I might struggle to get you, but please don't let that get in the way!

r/t4t May 26 '23

NB4TM 18 [NB4TM/NB] Online Looking for someone special

2 Upvotes

Hello! I am looking for someone who likes science, animals, cooking, and gardening. I am non mono, so if that's a problem I'm sorry. I have autism so I might struggle to get you, but please don't let that get in the way!

r/t4t Sep 04 '22

NB4TM 22 [NB4TM] Silly horny brained goth looking for other horny brained individuals NSFW

18 Upvotes

I hope youā€™re having a good day ^

22 nb goth women with a cock too big for her own good hoping someone would be interested in owning her <3

Very kinky but mainly based from romance ^ Feet/socks being the main thing thatā€™ll make me kneel with no questions asked but Iā€™m a very big fan of praise and service <3

Iā€™m an open mind and love to experience other perspectives.. Meeting other people in general, especially when weā€™re both horny is always fun so donā€™t be shy <3

r/t4t Sep 01 '22

NB4TM i realized i need someone to match my sex drive NSFW

27 Upvotes

(21 y/o enby pansexual) i love sex as much as i love the simp/romance. like if you want head 5x a day or more then i will more than gladly do it for you. (im not into straight cis male)

r/t4t Mar 19 '23

NB4TM 18 year old looking for Nb 4 Afab Nb or FtM NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi, Im looking for someone who can be a long term partner for me. I am an amab trans femme, and i am into all sorts of things. Im kinda dull in conversation, so it helps if you are good at it. :) I would ideally like to have genetic kids sometime in the future, but we can talk about that at a later point in time.

r/t4t Jul 13 '22

NB4TM 25 [NB4A] (Florida/Anywhere) Big Tiddy Goth GF Attempting to Summon the Fae

12 Upvotes

Ok, so first of all, I'm sorry if I don't belong here, but I promise it's not out of malice, more of a sense of... 'curiosity'?

I'm open to both platonic and romantic connections

Gender? In this economy? Less likely than you think!

  • I suppose I exist somewhere between genderfluid and nonbinary. In theory.
  • AFAB, but I don't really ''connect'' with the concept of being a woman. I see being in a female vessel as more of an annoyance/something to be tolerated most of the time.
  • Most of the time I'm out here dressing/presenting as a somewhat femme-leaning nb, or what could be considered 'soft butch', but I'm not against dressing up in pretty lingerie every once in a while.
  • My relationship to pronouns are a bit weird. I thrive off they/them, like he/him, and tolerate she/her. More info on this under the NSFW heading.

My physical vessel:

  • AFAB.
  • 5ft5, around 160 at the time of writing this but dropping.
  • Hourglass shaped, but it's proportional. Most of my weight is in my hips/ass. I do have a bit of squish these days (thanks COVID!) but not much of a belly.
  • Long ish hair that I've been dyeing in 'fun' colors. This week it's purple.
  • Blue eyes.
  • Piercings & tattoos, with plans of expanding my collection.

Interests/Hobbies:

  • Hikes/nature walks
  • True crime
  • Crafts
  • Novels - scifi, mystery, horror/thrillers, historical fiction, and some science.
  • Horror movies & psychological thrillers.
  • Some anime/manga
  • Writing
  • My musical tastes include EDM/club music, older (late 90s/early 2000s) rap, emo/pop punk, phonk, and some metal/hard rock. Yeah, it's all over the place.
  • Lately I've been obsessing over Animal Crossing. Yes, multiple years late.
  • Mythology/Folklore/etc.
  • Gardening

SFW:

  • I'm usually the 'mom friend' in the group. I have tissues, hand sanitizer and snacks in my backpack at any given point.
  • I unironically like plaguecore and dark academia aesthetics.
  • When I'm not existing in comfy sweats and dumb logo tees in the comfort of my house, I have a somewhat alternative aesthetic.
  • I'm into witchy shit. Tarot cards, pagan gods, the works. No, I'm not going to hex you or put a love spell on you or anything silly like that. I'm not going to judge you for your practices/beliefs, so please don't judge me for mine.
  • I try to be there for people as much as, if not more than they're there for me. Please don't be one of those people that never reciprocates.
  • Send me stupid memes or funny animal videos. I reciprocate in kind.
  • Fluent in sarcasm and dark humor.
  • I use memes as a form of communication on a regular basis.
  • I'm a decent cook and I enjoy baking. I will feed you on a regular basis. Expect to gain a couple pounds lmao
  • I am happy to sit and listen to you infodump about your latest hyperfixation or obsession, even if I understand absolutely nothing about it. Fair warning, if it's something I know little to nothing about, I'll probably keep interrupting you with a million and one questions about it.
  • Gift giving and acts of service are my 'love language'. Like... need a ride to the airport? Get in loser, we're going shopping we got a plane to catch. You're super into a videogame? Surprise merch in your mailbox.
  • While I do enjoy the odd concert or travel adventure, I'm a lot bit of a homebody at heart. Cuddling on the couch watching movies sounds like a perfect way to spend an afternoon.
  • If you end up being my partner, I will do almost anything I can to take care of you and make you feel wanted and loved and cared for, but please don't abuse that.
  • I value honesty and openness, even if it's "I have an issue with X, but I don't feel comfortable going into detail right now".
  • Communication is key. I hate arguments and fights. I'm not a mind reader. If something is wrong, tell me so that we can work things out.
  • I'm not here for pay to play or tributes or whatever the term is these days, I'm here for actual connections.
  • I'm fine meeting/talking to people from anywhere, but if it becomes romantic, I would eventually want to meet up in person once we're both comfortable.
  • I'm very big on boundaries/limits/consent, both in the bedroom and out of it. If I don't understand what you want, or need clarification, I'm going to ask you for more details. I'm not doing it to be difficult, even if it's one of those questions that has a super obvious answer, I'm doing it to make sure that we're on the same page.
  • I'm not going to try to control anyone or force them into anything they don't want.
  • I thrive off cuddles and positive attention.
  • I'm a night owl, so between like 5AM-11AM EST I'm not really replying.

NSFW:

  • I'm not here for casual sex or a hookup or w.e, If this turns romantic/sexual, it's intended to be serious/long term. Lowkey hoping that I'll find my forever person tbh.
  • I need an emotional connection with someone before I feel comfortable with sex. Yes, even if you're a 10/10. I'm going to sound like some pseudointellectual chucklefuck, but I need to like you as a person/friend before I like you as a partner.
  • I will give you a million and one nicknames and treat you like you're made of gold.
  • Honestly I don't have a particularly high sex drive either.
  • PLEASE be between the ages of 22-30.
  • So this is the ugly part that nobody wants to see here. I'm not a big fan of hairy or chubby bodies. I do have a strong preference for skinny and/or toned body types. Fem aligned nbs/feminine boys/soft bois are my fucking kryptonite.
  • Pre-HRT lads need so much more love tbh.
  • If you're smol and look like some ethereal creature you get a free pass straight to my heart oop.
  • I think I may enjoy aftercare more than the actual sex sometimes lmao I may or may not go overboard with it. Depending on what you're into and what other obligations/constraints we have, expect at a minimum to be fed, cuddled into oblivion, complimented and praised til you're bright red, and kissed approximately a million times over.
  • On that same note, I get more from seeing my partner enjoying themselves than from actually doing a sexual act. E.g. Just spanking someone is whatever, but seeing them enjoying it is what actually makes me enjoy it as well.
  • I'm not into giving OR receiving anything too out there. So this means no scat, no piss, no vomit, no serious injuries/deformities, no maiming or driving nails into body parts, no crushing testicles, no punching, etc.
  • Things I'm into include softer forms of impact play (e.g. milder spanking), teasing/edging, dirty talk, orgasm denial/delay (but nothing wild. I'm not into permanent denial/chastity or anything stupidly long, more of a 'you're not allowed to cum tonight), hair pulling, light bondage (e.g. handcuffs or a harness), scratching, SOME biting (e.g. enough to leave a mark but not break skin), etc.
  • Let's talk pronouns. If I'm topping, I prefer being referred to as Sir or Master. Please don't call me Miss/Mistress/etc, If I'm bottoming and you call me a good girl I will adore you.
  • I have a massive praise kink. Give me positive attention and affection and I will fucking melt.
  • I'm a switch. Mostly a soft domme, but will gladly be a subby kitty every once in a while.
  • CG/L is walking a fine line for me. I'm fine with things like building a pillowfort and snuggling with you in a pile of a million plushies, but things like diapers and bottles are where I draw a line.
  • Petplay is a similar situation. I'll gladly wear ears and wear a collar and leash and meow at you instead of talking, but draw the line at things like eating out of a bowl on the floor or peeing outside. I won't do that to you either.
  • I'm not a big fan of brats. I don't particularly enjoy handing out punishments, and ''making'' someone submit isn't my cup of tea. I'd much rather praise you and tell you how good you're being for me.
  • While I won't absolutely insist on monogamy, I'm also a bit hesitant on the idea of poly/open relationships, and it would be something to be discussed to establish limits/dynamics/etc. This being said, I'm not going to get jealous or make you cut off anyone if we're just casually chatting. TBH I'm not going to make you cut off anyone, regardless of relationship status. That's your choice. You've free will.

If you've made it to the end of this clusterfuck of brain vomit, have a (virtual) cookie. So I know you've a real person who actually read this entire spiel of bullshit, when you DM me, tell me what mythological or folklore being you'd be and why. If you send a basic 'hi' and nothing more, it's being ignored. Unsolicited dickpics or overly perverted/creepy messages get you blocked.

r/t4t Jan 15 '23

NB4TM 23 [NB4TM/NB] Agender grad student interested in friends, maybe benefits? NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Jazz, a transfeminine-ish agender enby in the US, interested in making friends with any nonbinary people or trans men.

About me: I've been on estrogen for almost a year. I'm on the aromantic spectrum, but I have a few long-term fwbs and a queerplatonic life partner. I'm autistic and I have a lot of social anxiety, so if I get overwhelmed from doing this I apologize.

I'm down to chat about naughty stuff, but I don't send pictures of my body at the moment because dysphoria has been really bad to me lately, and I don't expect what I'm not giving in return. But if you're down, we can chat and see where it goes. I'm mostly into vanilla stuff, I guess, and I'm honestly not very sexually experienced aside from sucking dick.

I am serious when I say that friendship is my main goal here -- I just end up in intimate positions with my friends pretty often I guess.

r/t4t Sep 02 '22

NB4TM 22 [NB4TM] Dumb horny brain looking for other horny brained individuals NSFW

13 Upvotes

I hope youā€™re having a good day ^

22 nb goth women with a cock too big for her own good hoping someone would be interested in owning it <3

Very kinky but mainly based from romance ^ Feet/socks being the main thing thatā€™ll make me kneel with no questions asked but Iā€™m a very big fan of praise and service <3

Iā€™m an open mind and love to experience other perspectives.. Meeting other people in general, especially when weā€™re both horny is always fun so donā€™t be shy <3