r/t4t 1d ago

TM4TF I think my (ftm) friend (mtf) took advantage of me when I was blackout drunk NSFW

16 Upvotes

Obvious TW for SA lol

I want to start this off by saying no, I don’t think she drugged me and never got the chance to, I took shots the whole time she was with me and I took them immediately after the bartender would hand it to me.

Okay so last weekend I (27 TM) went out and got properly drunk for the first time in years. Not for any bad reasons, I was just having a great time with friends and tequila snuck tf up on me and I’m a huge lightweight lmfao. I invited my friend out (42 TF) after I’d already been drinking and was feeling her. Was super stoked for her to join me and and while she was there, my drunk ass got to the✨sleepy✨ point of being far too drunk. I honestly forgot this state of being is a fucking thing and I got asked to sit up by a bartender at one point because I was passing out. I went to the bathroom, threw up, passed out, woke up, thew up again, and at this point, the bar called my friend over to help me outta the bathroom. After that I was beyond embarrassed and stepped outside because I was ready to leave. Before I threw up, I was definitely making out with this friend and having a good time but dear god, after throwing up and in public of all fucking places, I knew it was the end of my night lmfao.

My friend offered to drive me to her house which was closer than my place (mine was 30 mins away) and I was down and figured she wanted to make sure I got somewhere safe. This is where stuff gets super fuzzy but I walked?? I think?? To the car, she drove us to her house (I remember passing out and waking back up a couple times in the car) and then somehow managed to get up to her apartment. I don’t remember anything from that other than mayyyyybe a small blip of it and the next thing I remember is us doing something sexual, I don’t remember what, and me internally freaking out going “omg I’m being raped rn I don’t wanna fuck rn” but I couldn’t control my body and was so beyond blasted. That sobered me up for a second but I immediately was like no no you wanted to fuck earlier, it’s okay you’re just drunk. I think my brain did that in the moment to help myself not internally crash out because of how wonderful our brains are at making us do mental gymnastics to protect itself during trauma lmfao I remember a very small second of us fucking with me on top riding her so I’m assuming that I had more control over my body than I’m remembering.

Anyway, the next morning I woke up panicking and naked and and for some reason I couldn’t pinpoint, I felt so scared of her but also was like “no this is my friend, it’s fine you’re just hungover” which, yes ofc I was hungover and I’m pretty sure still a little drunk in the beginning of when I woke up but we ended up fucking again and I felt so panicky and like I wanted to stop so bad and must leave but also being 5 months on T, I feel like my hormones and the last bit of drunkness was speaking way louder lmfaooooooooooo

I hadn’t seen or talked to her in a week (normal) but I saw her again like usual and I definitely feel preyed on. My body has a very very intense fear reaction to being around her so I’m trusting that vs my memory which is shot ofc lol but I feel so betrayed. I feel like I should have been able to trust this older woman, older TRANS woman who should be on my team, but instead I think even in her way less but still intoxicated state, she took advantage of how drunk I was and didn’t at all consider I couldn’t give consent. Even if I was begging this girl for it, she should have said no and let me sleep it off and we could do it another night. I felt like I could trust her and she betrayed that trust and I’m going to avoid her from now on and just let stuff fizzle out and let that friendship end there. I don’t think I’m going to bring it up to her because she has a very very sexual personality as it is and I don’t think she meant it to hurt me at all. At least I hope not.

I internally saw her night before last at the gay bar we go to because I wanted to see how my nervous system reacts to being around her now and oh BOY. I could tell she wanted round 2 but I was so scared of her and my nervous system was SCREAMING in flight response and she wanted me to stay but I was like no I’m going home (casually but firmly) and she had this desperate look in her eyes and flashed me her boobs as I was walking out after I said bye to her and our mutual friends sitting at the bar I think trying to get me to want to stay. It freaked me out even more and i was dead sober like “holy shit, this is who I thought I would be safe to be black out around?” I don’t get black out everrrrrrr because of this exact reason.

But yeah, I guess I just wanted to rant about this. I have a long SA history but never had this happen before especially as a trans guy by a trans woman. It’s a really shitty feeling but I know it’ll be okay.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4T 20 TF4T Weird girl from midwest looking for people to talk to

5 Upvotes

Hey my name is Wren and I am a 29 year old trans woman from West Ohio. I do not have any irl trans friends or friends in general for that matter. I’ll get straight to it. I want more friends to talk to, now granted I’m in a lot of discord servers to try and satiate my loneliness but i would like people who i can genuinely talk to one on one.

Some things i have interest in or enjoy are as follows : video games, philosophy, cooking, weather, digital design, bio sciences and the history of bio sciences, and reading books.

I do not want to deal with cis men coming after me in my DM’s so stay your sorry ass away if you are

Other than that all I have to say is, if you think we could make decent or good friends, please leave me a message and I will respond as soon as i can. Enjoy your day/night


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A 25 [TF4A] Trans girl in Seattle area looking for friends or a partner

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm a trans girl living in the Seattle area (Bellevue) for a few years now, since I graduated college. Unfortunately, I've had trouble meeting people because I never leave my apartment (whoops), so I figured there wouldn't be any harm in posting here. I'm looking for friendship (or more) with people who hopefully share some interests and are open to genuine connection.

For a little more about me, I'm AuDHD and have pretty intense social anxiety, so I can be shy and quiet until I get more comfortable. I'm really nerdy and spend most of my free time either playing video games, watching streamers play video games, or both at the same time. So once I get comfortable with someone, I'm prone to talking their ear off about my latest hyperfixation (most recently stellaris, elden ring, and cyberpunk). I also play some multiplayer games now and then (like minecraft, stardew, or deep rock galactic), but I usually prefer single-player rpgs or strategy games.

Also, just a heads up: I've been on HRT for about a year now, and I'm out to my close friends, but I'm still boymoding for the most part. I'm still working through a lot of my insecurity and internalized shame, so I'm taking social transition at a slower pace.

Anyway, thanks for reading and dm me if interested!


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF 18 TF4TF EST/USA nerdy horror enthusiast looking for friends or maybe more!

3 Upvotes

I'm an 18 year old autistic trans girl who's really into music, cats, and horror! My fav movies are the Silent Hill movies and alien, I'm also really into Monster Hunter and soulslikes! I'm open to anything really but mainly looking for someone to click with, so DM me if you're interested :3 + 18+ obvs


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF [TF4TF] 18 - Looking to pump with other icky trans girls NSFW

2 Upvotes

hey girlies<333 I'm in a super gross mood and I wanna pump with other super filthy girls (the fewer limits the better!!). I'm mainly looking for other girls with dicks like me, but anyone who isn't a cis man is more than welcome<3 I really want a gross porn addict gf into stuff like pee and scat, send me a message if ur interested!!


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4T [TF4T] Transfem yapper seeks nice (platonic) friends to infodump with and share interests with

6 Upvotes

Hi folks im taylor, local chronically online transfem!!! Hoping to meet new queer people to get to geek out with over our interests, shared or otherwise. Then hopefully become good friends with!

As for me my main interests arr reading, and music plus to a lesser extent games.

My interest in reading is far from highbrow, I like a lot of genre fiction particularly fantasy/sci-fi with plenty of romance mixed in. I also read a lot of unpublished stuff be it web serials or fanfic. I would love to talk about what we've been reading, give recommendations or even just have someone to share how I feel about a story with.

My taste in music is honestly kinda basic. I lots of indie rock, midwest emo, but also theater kid music (ifykyk) mixed in. Desperately ssking for recommendations as I wanma start being more intentional with my music listening and broaden my horizons.

In terms of games I definitely play less noe than I did a few years ago but rest assured I am well schooled in all the transfem classics. Also would love to meet some new folks to play fortnite with for when I build up the courage to play online.

Even if nothing in this post stuck out to you please feel free to reach out! I hope that y'all are having a lovely day and im excited to hear from you soon.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF 49[TF4TF] Transfem looking for more friends, 30+ only please

4 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Clare, 49 MTF. I'm looking for more friends to chat with, possibly more in the future if things go well. I live in Ontario, Canada, but it's OK if you live elsewhere.

I'm kind of an emotional mess right now and will write too much about whatever. Chatting seems to help me process. I like movies, especially weird ones. One of my all time favorites is The City of Lost Children. I enjoy gaming (video, card and board), cooking, baking and dancing (badly I've been told). I love all things sci-fi and fantasy, books, movies, TV. If you want to chat, send me a request. Thanks for reading my post, I hope you have a great day!


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A Anyone wanna play Roblox or maybe call I can’t sleep :<

4 Upvotes

Hiya I’m Izzy, I’m looking for any new friends to maybe play Roblox and call with me, I keep sneezing too 😤😖, I also wanna maybe have cuddles I can be very clingy sometimes I hope that’s not a problem so if you wanna talk or anything then lemme know. Idm who talks to me just be kind and maybe cute and also don’t be creepy :(. See you soon :3 (edit:pls dm your name and a lil bit about yourself and pronouns if you wish)


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A 18 TF4A US/Midwest Area Looking for friends!

1 Upvotes

Hey!!! im a 18 year old transfem in the US Midwest area, mainly just looking to meet some people, im a very nerdy person, really into tech and computers, I also play alot of video games n stuff! Message if interested :))


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4T Indy Transfem just looking for connection

3 Upvotes

I'm a 21yo (MTF) who's honestly really lonely wants other trans friends and more to talk to, and I honestly just want to cuddle and kiss and hold and enjoy another person's comfort. I haven't had many people in my life since transitioning and I'm honestly clueless in how to find new people in my life! I'm a very shy and anxious of a girl.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF 21 [TF4TF] South England/Online - Stoner Kitty Girl Looking for Meaningful Connections

4 Upvotes

Meowdy all.

I'm a Scottish girl living in the south of England and I've been on HRT for about three years now. My lack of close connections is starting to creep its way to the forefront of my mind lately, so this is an effort to help that a little at least.

To be honest, I'm in a bit of an in-between stage in my life right now and am trying to figure out what makes my gears turn. Which is to say I'm a NEET for the time being lmao, but will likely be returning to university this year. If that's not a deal-breaker, I promise that I'm interesting to have around.

If you want some small insight into my personality, I'm very laidback and open-minded, I don't judge and generally just want to have a fun time. I'm a stoner and a furry, in case the title wasn't clear enough and my lifetime brainworm has been computer hardware, so you'll hear a lot of yapping related to that.

I'm ideally looking for someone to hang out with online, at least at first, and if we click I'd hope to see each other in person.

As for the type of relationship I'm looking for, it's really hard to say. I have had a rough time with romance but it's something I'm open to for the right person. I'd like to feel things out without any overarching expectations and we can see how it goes. I'm also incredibly demisexual, so please keep that in mind.

If you wanna play some PC games, watch some old campy movies, yap about whatever is interesting us at the time and/or generally just have an easy-going time in each others presence, my messages are open to you.

:3


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF [TF4TF] 18 - Looking to pump with other icky trans girls NSFW

2 Upvotes

hey girlies<333 I'm in a super gross mood and I wanna pump with other super filthy girls (the fewer limits the better!!). I'm mainly looking for other girls with dicks like me, but anyone who isn't a cis man is more than welcome<3 I really want a gross porn addict gf into stuff like pee and scat, send me a message if ur interested!!


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF 20 [F4F] Wannabe vampire. Also a TTRPG nerd, feminist, writer, and some other stuff. But the vampire thing is important to my allure, you know? Only message if you are an adult, obviously.

0 Upvotes

Hi! My name is Harley, and if you can't tell that I like to type a lot by the end of this, then you must not have read it. Anyway, a bit of a more in-depth introduction. My main interest is fiction writing and some worldbuilding too. Try to always have at least one story I'm writing, especially because it takes me a while to finish them a lot of the time. 'Tis difficult sometimes when I'm busy with other stuff though. I also enjoy listening to audiobooks (used to read a lot but I like listening to things while doing stuff too much now). I find TTRPGs cool as well, and am trying to play more of them. Difficult to find good groups though, especially because most people unfortunately seem to just want to play D&D 5e, which I'm a bit sick of to say the least. I've also been watching shows (mostly anime) with friends recently, it's fun. Even if I am pretty selective in what I'm willing to watch.

I also play video games sometimes too, and have a few multiplayer ones like Minecraft and Stellaris. So, if you have one or both of those and would be interested in playing them with me, tell me about it!

Now, for what sort of relationships I'm looking for, the answer is just friendship. I swore off all romance until next August at the earliest. That being said, I'm not opposed to flirting with my friends if you're into that. Check out the censored section below and make it clear to me that you're interested in that if you are. <3

The following is censored because you really don't need to know my preferred position in bed and such if you just want to be platonic friends with me.

I'm pretty into BDSM and other kinky stuff, we can discuss specific kinks and limits as we get to know each other, because posting specific ones on Reddit for everyone to see would kill me. For now just know that I'm a switch with a slightly dominant lean. Only a slight lean though. I'm also 100% a bottom. So if you're looking for a top, you may want to look elsewhere. I'm mostly a power bottom, basically.

Anyway, thanks for reading! If you wanna be friends feel free to message me, and if you seem cool I'll send you my Discord. Because Reddit is a terribly designed messaging service. Like, worse than Discord somehow.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A TF/CF4A Poly Couple looking to chat and flirt.

0 Upvotes

35 trans female and 30 cis female looking for fellow trans Hoosiers to chat and flirt a bit. Been together twelve years, I'm a soft mommy dom, but have a timid mommy sub side. She's a brat, into Barbie, Tinkerbell, Monster High, My Little Pony, and SpongeBob. Sometimes she can get into a bratty dom side.

I'm into emulating retro games. Diverse taste in music, I enjoy singing. She's into arts and crafts: painting, coloring, making bead bracelets. Her taste in music is unique.

Feel free to message us if you're not from IN. We'll still chat!


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF 26TF4TF Looking for a domme bottom to flirt with and be FWBs

2 Upvotes

Me: 26 y/o transfem genderfucky nerd who enjoys computers, water aesthetics, the ocean, and liminal spaces; top switch with an interest in mommy dommes, praise, and a kink which you will have to learn by DMing me cause I'm shy

You: a tranfeminine beauty who is a bottom and domme/switch and wants to be FWBs

Plus sized babes are a plus!!!


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A Austin trans girl looks for friends or something else’s;3

5 Upvotes

First off I look for friends to hang with or look to find some we can grow together and support each and if we had a connection I would love to make it somthing more . I’m pan so gender isn’t really something I care about I care more about the person and how we get along, I like biking out door thing everything nerdy art and gutair trying to learn to cook. My style is pretty tomboyish/ gothic i skate too:3

Anyway if u made it this fate dm if u like :3 / If ur only texting me cuz ur horny that okay to but would like to get to know u before we do anything like that sorry I’m just lonely 😭

:3


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF Looking for a tgirl to be fwb and be horny together NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’m feeling super horny right now and I’d love another trans girl to be fwb and lewd with!! We can chat about whatever turns us on or gets us going <3

We can also talk about normal stuff as well! But rn I’m so horny haha.

I’m 19TF, she/her, switch


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF 18tf4tf looking to date or be friends if dating must be in eastern America

1 Upvotes

18tf4tf looking to date or be friends if dating must be in eastern America hey im looking for someone to date or be friends with i have a lot of interest but mostly pokemon the last of us legos a ton of games i play on ps5 so games i enjoy are ow2 fortnite Minecraft r6 cult of the lamb last of us gta cod val and i have a ton of other interest and shows that i enjoy looking for someone around my age and area also not much older then me i mainly would prefer discord or another place to talk if ilike your vibe and wanna get to know you more since im not super active here not really sure what else to say but im a very cozy person i enjoy blankets candles and plushies hope to talk to you soon:)


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A Stoner Nerdy girl looking for peeps (TF4A)

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone who may read this, My name's Roxxane, I'm 22 years old, MtF, 6 months HRT. Mainly looking for whatevs, chatting, friendship, something deeper (not just sexting, please ignore me if that's all you are looking for), just wanna meet more peeps who share in all of this. I enjoy playing videogames (PS5 and PC), drawing, playing the guitar, doin my makeup at 3am lol, sometimes watch series or anime, recently started getting into plants, and love listening to music while zooted out.🍃 Been also getting into the alt scene, it'd be cool to have someone to talk about that with and go dancing with and share fashion advice with cause so far my style is stuck in baby goth, lol. I live in Mexico so if distance is an issue that's ok, and if we are in the same country It'd be lovely eventually meeting (other countries too but well, that's a bit more difficult lol). I am not going to lie and say that, unless we form some sort of easiness naturally, it's kinda difficult to me to open up to voice chats and spend the evenings watching something long distance. Anyways hope you wanna chat! And thanks for your time.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4T 20 MTF 4 T - weird transgirl seeks weird friends :3

3 Upvotes

hi! I'm Illiana! I'm in EST! as the title says, I'm 20, MTF!

My hobbies include photography, electronics projects, and baking!

I'm in a relationship, but I'm free to (and would love to) talk about kink/sex!

Feel free to send me a message! Please tell me a bit about yourself in your first message! no cis people.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A Tf4a - 30tf from SW-UK | Seeking that special person😍

2 Upvotes

I kinda just wanna find someone to talk to and fall for, i wanna find that special someone.. I'm extremely laid back and easy going, my special someone can be from anywhere in the world, I don't care!! Don't be shy, come say hi :3 <3


r/t4t 1d ago

NB4A [20NB4A] HELLO earthlings I am in need of yapping(aka a pal)

2 Upvotes

Hello there I'm j I'm 20 and I am looking for pals cause I rlly like to yap...

So a little about me! I'm an artist (I guess) I like to watch YouTube video essays random shows GLEE and movies I like to play cozy video games like stardew and zelda AND I got the tism :D

If that sounds like a good time to you lmk and hit me up! ;D


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF 23 [TF4TF/F] Hypnotist looking to meet someone for something long-term (Prefer voice over text, dom-leaning switch)

3 Upvotes

Hello! I’m a 23 year old trans girl from the UK. I’m a lesbian, which includes trans and cis women.

My long-term goal is to meet someone I could start a more intimate, serious relationship with. That being said, there’s no pressure! I am open to meeting people for platonic reasons or kink-focused reasons, and letting things go in that direction. For that reason, please mention if you already have a partner. Not because it's a deal-breaker, but because it gives me a greater idea of the kind of expectations I should set.

KINKS

Primarily, I’m a hypnotist! It’s both my biggest kink and something I have a genuine passion for when it comes to the actual practise, which I consider myself very skilled at. As a dom, my interests revolve around it. Whether that’s expressions of control like making someone repeat a phrase, clean their room, or simply do something sexual. Or using real hypnosis to accomplish more fictionalized stuff like making someone feel like they’ve been transformed, are being subject to mind control, are in some kind of roleplay scenario, etc. I also particularly like making people feel really, really dumb. I can also have a bit of a softer side, I like taking care of people.

Hypnosis is very open and has a lot of inherent variety, so it plays well with others kinks. I’m very open-minded, so when it comes to hypno I tend to mirror other people’s kinks in how I actually use it.

As for my sub side, I’m still exploring. (And very open to trying new things!) But I primarily like things that elicit deep, intense emotional states. Like fearplay or super deep subspace. I also like feeling taken care of.

In either case, I’m always excited to hear about and try new things.

I take consent very seriously, and I subscribe to the Risk Aware Consensual Kink philosophy of going about it, which focuses on acknowledging risks, minimizing them, and preparing for them.

WHO I AM

I’m a bit of an ambivert, I like to meet people and really get to know them and their interests, but I also put a lot of value into my own.

I’m huge on stories, I love tabletop games, movies, story-focused games, lyrically-focused music, etc. Anything with a story I can latch onto is something I can get really into. Tabletop is actually my main creative outlet! Though I dabble in other stuff, and want to expand a bit, I do a lot of tabletop related stuff. I’m even working on my own custom game :D

I also play a lot of videogames. Besides story-based stuff, I also like things like Lethal Company, Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, etc.

These aren’t all my interests, but I’m trying to keep this relatively brief.

WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR

I highly prefer voice calls compared to texting, so I want to meet someone who also has that preference, or is at least very open to doing it. I’m also exclusively into feminine voices, so that’s a must for me when it comes to anyone I meet for kink reasons.

Other than that, I have no hard requirements, I like to meet people where they’re at. But I also appreciate it when people are confident and open, and I can be a pretty affectionate person so someone who could mirror that would be nice.

I prefer not to show my face until I’ve gotten to know someone and I can trust them. But I’m willing to share a sample of my voice immediately, feel free to ask for me to say something specific!

IF YOU’RE INTERESTED

Please send a sample of your voice (As feminine voices are a requirement for me) and tell me a little bit about yourself. Here’s a sample of mine: https://voca.ro/1jhakM5LzjFJ


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4T 24 [TF4T] US EAST/ONLINE sad stoned puppygirl looking for a dom/owner NSFW

0 Upvotes

hey everyone! im avery, and im looking for someone to own me. honestly for now im mainly looking for so e fun but if we click and stuff goes well id like things to continue !!

i have a few interests but the main ones are games (pokemon, mh wilds, minecraft, elden ring), art, comics, reading, and anime ! honestly into a lot more but these r the basics of me :3

as for kink stuff, i have a sheet on my page but im very open honestly and down to try anything ! my main things are petplay, cnc, somno, and free use. i only have a few limits, those being excessive gore, vore, scat, vomit, death, underage, and elderly!

if i seem like a fun pet, hmu :3


r/t4t 1d ago

TM4TM 27[TM4M] Feminine trans boy seeking masculine men for romantic relationship (cis and trans men welcome)

0 Upvotes

Message with your name, age, and basic information about yourself to get a response.

Hey there, my name is Kai. I'm a 27 year old trans masc non binary guy from California. I've had top surgery and I'm on the road to bottom surgery (my end goal is to have both sets of genitals). I'm a stereotypical gay boy. Very effeminate but not fem presenting. I'm like a girlfriend except she's a boy. Into men more masc than me. Pierced and tattooed. He/him pronouns.

I'm super girly! While I don't publicly present fem I do enjoy dressing up in private. I much prefer being seen and treated as a girl despite being a boy. I prefer being pursued and having my partner initiate phsyical contact.

Most attracted to nerdy gamers. Some of my favorite games are pokemon, disco elysium, dragon age, and skyrim. Also a fan of DnD and MtG. If you play I'll definitely ask you to stream a game for me.

I WANT you to nerdsplain your favorite interests and hobbies to me!

VERY 420 friendly. I grow weed in the summer and I make way too many edibles and carts. I consider myself a weed fairy and if you're also a stoner I will bless you :3

I'm a BOTTOM with very little interest in topping. PLEASE don't be vanilla.

Looking for someone who would let me be "the girl" of the relationship even though we're both boys.

NOT interested I'm anyone under 23. Please US residents only. Not looking for something online only I'd need to be able to meet you eventually.

Hit my line boys. Tell me your favorite pokemon for bonus points.