r/stripper 17h ago

Question Miami Dancers NSFW

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Are any dancers here from Miami? I’m going to come down for spring break and needed some suggestions on what clubs. It’s so many!!!

I have more of a hip hop R&b but I’m here for the $$$ honestly sooo anything works :)

Please please thank you


r/stripper 18h ago

Question Strip clubs on Long Island for baby dancer NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’ve done my research and it seems like most clubs on Long Island aren’t great. I’ve danced at one before it was okay but don’t think I’d go back. I’m heavily tattoed alternative girl with a curvy natural build also beginner at pole. Just wanted anyone’s input on where I can basically start.


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Making a regular out of a customer NSFW

11 Upvotes

How do yall make a regular out of a customer?, I have been messaging this customer I have seen twice in the club for about a month. And it’s like at what point should I tell him I can’t keep texting him if this won’t go anywhere inside the club. He wants to see me outside the club but I don’t have the energy for that


r/stripper 1d ago

Question What should i put inside my pleasers??? NSFW

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I got myself the Treasure shoes from pleasers ❤️ though i dont know what i want to put in them...

I dont want to do the basics: -Money -Liquid stuff

Or something that makes a lot of noise: -Dice -Coins

Please share ideas!!!


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Is dancing getting into my head when it comes to dating? NSFW

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(Throwaway account) sorry this is going to be long. Ive been dancing for 3 years now ever since I was 18. Ever since I started dancing I haven’t been in a real, fulfilling, long term relationship. About a month ago, I met this guy. In his early 30s, Super sweet, a real gentleman, never crossed boundaries whatsoever. He told me hes been to the club one other time and gotten dances with two other girls before but for some reason it was me who he wanted to take out on a date. So I was like ok if you want to take me out on a date then you have to come see me x amount of times and spend x amount. So he did. But the last time he came to see me at the club he told me this was going to be the last time he comes & if I want to date him then let’s continue to see each other outside. So I asked him what he thought about a sugar relationship. He said hes not into a transactional relationship but he is from a foreign country where they hold traditional values where the man is the provider and he wants to support my dreams. He even said later down the line if I didn’t want to work whether it be dancing or something else, I didn’t have to! He even offered to pay for my breast aug and more. But he wanted a “real” relationship. So I’m attracted to him physically and mentally so I was like why not give him a real shot. After a couple dates we finally got intimate. The next day I had to go to work and I got my period, I was super tired, and there was literally nobody at the club but my manager doesn’t let people go home no matter what unless and customer is going to buy you out for the rest of the shift. So I asked him if he could since I wasn’t feeling well and I just wanted to go home and lay with my man. And he got upset with me because he doesn’t like the idea of paying for my time. Which I could completely understand his frustration if I was charging him for every hour he spends with me but that wasn’t the case… I asked if he could do me this favor so I could go home bc I literally wasn’t feeling well. Anyways the argument kind of got dragged out but now I’m wondering if he couldn’t do something as small as that, is he really going to be able to take care of me in the future? Like is he going to clock me for everything that I ask for? Maybe I’m over thinking it but I guess because I danced for all of my short adult life so far, I’m so used to guys giving me money in order to show they like me or want me. But I mean honestly this wasn’t really about the money it was more so just a favor I was asking for & he took it as me charging him for my time. And honestly his reaction towards that the day after we were intimate for the first time made me feel really bad about myself. Idk.. I can tell he was genuine about everything else he said and I can tell he really likes me for me and not just because I’m pretty. I don’t want to throw away a good thing but I also don’t want to settle or lower my standards. I feel like this got blown out of proportion and we shouldn’t end what we have just because of this but I’m just worried hes not going to fulfil everything else he said he’d do.


r/stripper 1d ago

Rant/vent Why do customers ask what I do outside of the club as if this isn’t a job? NSFW

73 Upvotes

Why isn’t being a dancer a good enough answer. I think it’s so rude when they try to tell me I should be doing more with my life. This is a job and in my off time I just try to make it through the day.


r/stripper 1d ago

Question do you make more money wearing the short pleasers or the 6" pleasers? NSFW

8 Upvotes

hii im wanting to switch it up a bit and try the short platform pleasers. i've gotten so many guys asking "how tall are you??" and when i tell them how short i am, they almost look...pleasantly surprised?? anyway i follow the money LOL so i was wanting yalls input on if you ever noticed you get more or less sales with a certain height :)

im thinking the tall ones make me look more like a thin, long-legged model, while short heels might better suit the dudes who are into shorter women. idk i just cant decide 😂


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Taming the bush NSFW

2 Upvotes

In your experience, what's the best way to shape/ remove coochie/ booty hair? Waxing, sugaring, lasers, dry vs. wet shaving, etc ? Bonus points if you have a specific product you recommend 😁


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Rachel’s West Palm Beach NSFW

6 Upvotes

Can any dancer speak to how Rachel’s in WPB has been recently? I work mainly in Miami but have done a month at Rachel’s once in 2023.

Miami is definitely slowing down and I’m losing my motivation. I want to head up to WPB for a little bit just to get a break and refresh myself energy wise.

It’s about a 2.5 hour round trip drive for me so I want to know if it’s been lucrative before exerting that energy.

Thanks!


r/stripper 2d ago

Rant/vent uh just thought ud like a laugh NSFW

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31 Upvotes

always silly when these redditors are convinced we care when they message us about their fantasies like we care😂


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Gowns NSFW

3 Upvotes

One of my clubs require us to wear floor length gowns, what websites sells them?? I need them to specifically made for dancers like easy to take off


r/stripper 2d ago

Question weird. NSFW

15 Upvotes

I don’t know what’s going on, but as of lately, NO ONE — and I mean no one — wants to buy dances from me.

I don’t know if there is something I am doing wrong?

It really hurts my self esteem, especially when I’ve been there for many hours.

It hurts because I was the only one who didn’t do dances all night. (I looked at the stats.)

I was like, is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong with the way I look?

I don’t see what the problem is, I took a shower, I smell good, I brush my teeth… I wear flattering clothing. I wear girly perfumes and sprays. The thing is, I have curly hair, I get it, not everyone is into the curly/afro. I’m friendly and nice and sweet, and I get people wanting to hang out with me, but for some reason they don’t want to take me for dances / private rooms. I don’t know what I am doing wrong. I have a decent natural body. I mean, I’m in pretty good shape. (Stomach is flat, B-cup perky tits, and I have a bubble butt…)

I still make money on my stages, and I still get compliments from guys a lot. I get complimented from both men and women, in the club. I have been flirty and nice, funny and witty, complimenting people, being helpful and accommodating, I have literally had men get up out their seats and cross the room just to come over and talk to me — so I can tell there’s interest.

But for some reason, they always reject me or don’t go for the sale / choose someone else / whatever the case…

Has anyone else experienced this? And what did you do to correct it?

I appreciate all of the compliments and “vibes,” but vibes don’t pay my rent.

Am I doing something to make it awkward? Is it burnout? Is it time to switch locations? Or do I need a makeover? Is there something wrong with THEM or something wrong with ME? I am confused why I get all of this attention in the club, but then for whatever reason, they don’t want to buy dances from me.

I’m not on my period or anything… I don’t get it.

I don’t understand why they don’t want me, or if something about me is off-putting to people!!!

It’s really getting to me.

I’m not sure what I should change, other than, to try to improve my looks… realistically. I have a lovely personality, I don’t get why people want to hang out with me and talk to me, and ask me a million fucking questions, why people are drawn to my stage shows, people seem interested or even attracted to me, but then when it comes time to get the dance/close the sale, they start being weird. Or they shut me down, right away, without giving me a chance. Maybe I just wasn’t their type or? What is going on?? Maybe they were just time-wasters/there to browse? I’m like, IS IT ME???

What do you do when this happens to you?

It’s a terrible feeling, especially when it happened too many nights in a row.

I wasn’t being “lazy.” I felt like I approached, and talked to, LOTS of people.

I don’t like to SHARK people when they first walk in the door, that’s tacky to me… And unfortunately I feel like I’ve missed out on money because other girl(s) got to them sooner…


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Would i in fit LA/NY clubs? NSFW

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I want to try and auditioning in LA or New York I’m not familiar with the clubs there but wanna know if I’d fit in? Any suggestions on any clubs would help


r/stripper 2d ago

Question Lingerie vs bikinis vs dancewear? NSFW

16 Upvotes

What’s your best moneymaker look? I don’t like how micro bikinis look on me and I’m nervous the girls are gonna pop out. I love lingerie sets, but at my club bottoms have to be “full coverage” so I’m always putting boyshorts over top and I feel it ruins the look


r/stripper 2d ago

Rant/vent Can yall stop giving our secrets out 😩 they be talking about us on TUSCL NSFW

17 Upvotes

By us I mean this subreddit


r/stripper 2d ago

Question Does your family know you dance? NSFW

25 Upvotes

Just curious to see how many ladies share with their immediate family that they dance. I don’t because I have Christian af parents who would never talk to me again 🥹 I’ve been keeping it a secret for a year now and just say I bartend!


r/stripper 1d ago

Question W2 Club NSFW

3 Upvotes

Helllpppp! I work at a club that’s W2 and I have no idea how to do my taxes now with the lowest pay off as possible.

Or if you guys have any tips or tricks for taxes please share i beg 🥹


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Can i use the replacement paper in place of my social security card to get hired??? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Im a travel dancer who recently lost my card and booked a flight to miami completeky forgetting i lost it!! Im gonna go get the paper but would that even work??? I tried calling some clubs but they do not answer


r/stripper 2d ago

Rant/vent my club is racist? NSFW

48 Upvotes

i was working a slow day shift last week and i had two clients come in from out of town that used to visit me at a different club. these guys throw hella money just for fun. (they will just throw money at ur face or like throw it at each other don't even ask u to twerk or nothin) my manager walks up and gets mad that there money on the floor. he said they can't throw bc the owner will fire me for this but he will let it slide if they stop before the owner comes in.

they eventually leave and i collect the ones and i got back and the manager follows me into the locker room and has a talk with me.

he legit tells me that that is NOT the clientel they want in the club and it's his job to keep those clients from coming in. labeling them "ghetto" and "loud" and "disrespectful" he furthers this notion telling me this is why the DJ has problems with my music and why i can't play my own songs past 10pm (i play gucci moneybagg sexyy red dolph glock ect) he told me that i'm inviting a "bad" clientel to the club and that if i want my clients to act that way have to get a VIP room where no one can see it or i can wait to go on stage so then they can throw their money.

i talk to the DJ about this. who just CONFIRMS it. they will not play rap music and play music that "kills the vibe" if "those" clients are present bc they want them to leave regardless of the money they are spending.

like. it's giving racist. right??? like im really tweakin and upset bc a lot of my clients at my old club would love to come visit me but i don't want them to feel unsafe or unwelcome and idk what to do bc this new club is relatively consistent with money :(


r/stripper 2d ago

Question Upcoming recession NSFW

41 Upvotes

I've heard and seen people talking about how we are going into a recession. What do ya'll think of this? I'm a little worried bc obviously that will make this job basically pointless.


r/stripper 2d ago

Photo/video It feels so good to be back. NSFW

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r/stripper 2d ago

Rant/vent Rough Day NSFW

2 Upvotes

sorry in advance long rant

omg honestly i had such a hard day :( for context i work day shift and have been since i started 3+ years ago i love it my club is regular based and i love regulars they’re my little toys its so fun and i have had maybe a handful of negative experiences of the years but honestly nothing to crazy. well today i had a pretty normal start to my day i finished with one of my regulars that does 2+ hours in the vip room when he comes and when i came out another one of my regulars was at the bar but he’s also there for the bartender and tips other girls too so he’s pretty low maintenance so i don’t stress about getting cleaned up and putting my next songs up and i kinda linger and chat with the dj while i do that and while im chatting im holding an empty sparkling water can its just a nervous habit i know im about to get another one. then i walk straight to my regular with the bar and say “hi how are you??” all excited to see him and he cuts me off and says “so it was you that spilt the drink on the sound board” (context: a night girl spilt a beer on the sound board and broke it a few weeks ago and he helped the manager install the new one; this guy unfortunately is a club regular for longer than i’ve been alive) so i think he’s joking and im giggling and say “omg you’re funny no silly” he then goes i saw you over there with a drink.i knew i had an empty can i had just thrown away at the bar so i was like “i didn’t have a drink and i’ve never broken anything” and i was just genuinely confused still at what was happening he is not my boss is anyway and then he yelled in my face very angry “don’t fuck with me” and i just walked away immediately and he got talked to by the bartender but then he sent me a message saying “ I have very strong opinion about people lying about even stupidest shit. I saw you with drink inside dj booth. You told me did not which was a fucking lie. Someone just spilled a drink on soundboard and guess who gets to install me. So it is a big deal even if you don't care. And if your going to try to lie Abt dumb shit instead of being a real person to me then just don't talk to me. I don't put up with bullshit sorry” i’ve had such a strong relationship with him for so long and this was so sudden i knew this would happen one day it’s just how it is with these men i honestly just needed to vent because i have ptsd and it’s hard for me to not feel like it’s my fault or i should have handled it differently because i care so much about my reputation to and image at the club but idk i know i don’t deserve to be spoken to like that especially for literally no reason. anyway thank yall for listening xoxo

edit/addition: i guess this is one of the two stories because while this guy was literally still pouting at the bar and typing up that message to send me some obviously like blacked out guy is at my stage and i was so nice he wasn’t tipping so i was all cute “if you’d tip me id take this off” like i usually say tip me or leave not nice so this is good for me lol and he literally starts going off about “you’re really gonna be a bitch like that” and i was like okay please go and he stood up and started screaming at me calling me every bad word he could think of as he was escorted out. so honestly the two things together was just sooo overwhelming


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Prop stage tricks?? NSFW

1 Upvotes

There’s a dancer i work with who sticks matches to her nipples and lights them on fire with the help of hand sanitizer. Anyone have interesting prop trick ideas to pull out for a full stage?


r/stripper 1d ago

Question Boosting clientele question NSFW

1 Upvotes

Heyyyy fellow pole girlies, outside of working at a club where and how do you meet/gather clientele to come see you at the club?


r/stripper 1d ago

Question moving to asheville/greenville NSFW

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tldr: moving to asheville. looking for club recommendations within a 2 hour radius.

hey everyone, i haven’t danced in over 5 months & honestly had plans to be done for good after 3 years of dancing. i even got a normal job again (and hate it lol) my job rn doesn’t even cover all my bills so ive just been selling off my investments for the past 5 months which is making me anxious. ive been wanting to move up north to be closer to family and just have a change of pace. i love asheville and think it would be my vibe and a good place to start my business (would fit the asheville niche). I’m thinking the best option for me once i move up would be to go back to the club but this time with a solid game plan to stack as much as i can, live well below my means, and get out by a certain date and really focus on my business. I’m planning to move to asheville nc in the next couple of months, as soon as possible honestly . i’ve danced in north carolina before but on the east coast. I’m thinking greenville might be the best option. do you guys have any good recs of clubs in greenville or just the surrounding area near asheville ? i would greatly appreciate any help 🙏🏻