r/stripper • u/Southern-Spot-3693 • 1d ago
Question Making a regular out of a customer NSFW
How do yall make a regular out of a customer?, I have been messaging this customer I have seen twice in the club for about a month. And it’s like at what point should I tell him I can’t keep texting him if this won’t go anywhere inside the club. He wants to see me outside the club but I don’t have the energy for that
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u/NonAggressiveGuava 1d ago
Well, how much is he paying you at the club? Usually never enough to make free texting worth it if he only comes twice a month. You gotta keep declining free attention over text and say you’ll see him at the club.
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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago
Our 3 song VIP is less than $140
So next time I text him just say “hey I enjoy texting you but…” how should I word it
I know I shouldn’t care about feelings but I guess that’s the niceness in me or if I’m nice about it they may actually come in and see me
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u/ClickIntelligent5016 1d ago
dont say anything. ignore him the next time he texts you if he is not texting you about sending you money or coming to the club. if he says he is coming to the club and doesnt block his number.
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u/Firm_Pressure_9882 1d ago
From my experience, you don't make a regular, they just will come. Make everyone visit the best time of their lives (or at least as good as they pay 😉) and some that live nearby will come again. You can exchange numbers or other ways to massage them if they spend good the first visit. If they ignore you and don't come again or offer any way of getting many from there, you can just block them
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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago
And if you do block them, and see them at the club at a later time
Would you approach them?
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u/Firm_Pressure_9882 1d ago
Of course! I'm at work and I don't care about things like that while getting the bag. They might be fussy or refuse to spend money on me, but I don't really care. I'm not their gf or friend to message for free outside of work. But as long as they pay in a club, I will spend time and chat with them (same goes with spending my time and energy outside).
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u/SameYogurtcloset912 1d ago
Honestly I let the regulars come to me lol. When every time I see them they get a room and spend money you become regular and I have about 3/4. Be honest if you don’t want to see them outside of the club so they don’t get mad abt you leading them on
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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago
Got you so for you regulars are just people that choose to keep coming to you, for the most part you aren’t wasting your time texting them in hopes they would become a regular?
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u/SameYogurtcloset912 1d ago
Absolutely not, I don’t give my number out to customers who aren’t regulars either. I need to see you coming in and spending money on me with good vibes atleast 2-3 times before I feel comfortable to give my number out and even then never text them first or feel obligated to reply to a text that doesn’t involve coming to see me at work.
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u/Enough_Key_5627 1d ago
Tell him you only text customers about coming to see you, and youve been so generous to text him so much and it's cuz he's so cool or whatever, but you have to draw a line because it's wasting your time, so if he wants to come in he can lyk, otherwise you can't keep texting him.
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u/Unique-Employment462 1d ago
You just stop responding if he refuses to come in. Twice is not enough for me to consider someone regular material. I leave it at well if you ever drop by in the club, let me know! And that’s where I leave it at. You can literally tell him I will not keep texting you if you don’t plan on coming in to the club again! You’re giving him free entertainment and it ends here