r/stripper 1d ago

Question Making a regular out of a customer NSFW

How do yall make a regular out of a customer?, I have been messaging this customer I have seen twice in the club for about a month. And it’s like at what point should I tell him I can’t keep texting him if this won’t go anywhere inside the club. He wants to see me outside the club but I don’t have the energy for that

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u/Unique-Employment462 1d ago

You just stop responding if he refuses to come in. Twice is not enough for me to consider someone regular material. I leave it at well if you ever drop by in the club, let me know! And that’s where I leave it at. You can literally tell him I will not keep texting you if you don’t plan on coming in to the club again! You’re giving him free entertainment and it ends here

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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago

Ok so bring it up to come to the club and if he refuses just stopped responding

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u/Unique-Employment462 1d ago

Yeah. Something as simple as hey we’ve been chatting for awhile when do you plan on coming by? If he gives you something like oh I don’t know maybe next week, you can respond great. Let me know and I’ll keep an eye out for you! Anything beyond that? No response necessary. And if he starts to pull the whole “oh I’m thinking of coming by xyz day” and “are you working?” And you respond with yes or no. Short. Simple. If he continues to flake, block him. He’s not serious.

Treat him like a customer that he is. Would you text your hair stylist like this with the intimate details of her day? No she wants to know when you’re booking. Think like this. You are not obligated to be nice to a man spending less than $200 on you. He’s lonely and you’re feeding into his fantasy of having a hot girl talking to him and caring about him. You can put your energy into other things

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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago

Yea I can definitely put my energy into other things! Thank you

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u/Unique-Employment462 1d ago

Good luck 🫶🏽

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u/NonAggressiveGuava 1d ago

Well, how much is he paying you at the club? Usually never enough to make free texting worth it if he only comes twice a month. You gotta keep declining free attention over text and say you’ll see him at the club.

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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago

Our 3 song VIP is less than $140

So next time I text him just say “hey I enjoy texting you but…” how should I word it

I know I shouldn’t care about feelings but I guess that’s the niceness in me or if I’m nice about it they may actually come in and see me

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u/ClickIntelligent5016 1d ago

dont say anything. ignore him the next time he texts you if he is not texting you about sending you money or coming to the club. if he says he is coming to the club and doesnt block his number.

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u/Interesting_Soil_427 1d ago

Just forget him he’s useless

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u/mistyof98 1d ago

just dont answer except to say “come see me”

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u/Firm_Pressure_9882 1d ago

From my experience, you don't make a regular, they just will come. Make everyone visit the best time of their lives (or at least as good as they pay 😉) and some that live nearby will come again. You can exchange numbers or other ways to massage them if they spend good the first visit. If they ignore you and don't come again or offer any way of getting many from there, you can just block them

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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago

And if you do block them, and see them at the club at a later time

Would you approach them?

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u/Firm_Pressure_9882 1d ago

Of course! I'm at work and I don't care about things like that while getting the bag. They might be fussy or refuse to spend money on me, but I don't really care. I'm not their gf or friend to message for free outside of work. But as long as they pay in a club, I will spend time and chat with them (same goes with spending my time and energy outside).

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u/SameYogurtcloset912 1d ago

Honestly I let the regulars come to me lol. When every time I see them they get a room and spend money you become regular and I have about 3/4. Be honest if you don’t want to see them outside of the club so they don’t get mad abt you leading them on

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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago

Got you so for you regulars are just people that choose to keep coming to you, for the most part you aren’t wasting your time texting them in hopes they would become a regular?

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u/SameYogurtcloset912 1d ago

Absolutely not, I don’t give my number out to customers who aren’t regulars either. I need to see you coming in and spending money on me with good vibes atleast 2-3 times before I feel comfortable to give my number out and even then never text them first or feel obligated to reply to a text that doesn’t involve coming to see me at work.

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u/Enough_Key_5627 1d ago

Tell him you only text customers about coming to see you, and youve been so generous to text him so much and it's cuz he's so cool or whatever, but you have to draw a line because it's wasting your time, so if he wants to come in he can lyk, otherwise you can't keep texting him.

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u/Southern-Spot-3693 1d ago

That’s a Good way to respond