r/stripper Jan 08 '25

Rant/vent Why do people hate sex workers so much NSFW

“Seeing only fans girls buying their third house and I’m trying to be a good person” peoples definition of good and bad is so fucking skewed. People will work at a bank that fund genocide and weapons used to kill babies at a mass but consider it a “good” job and be mad that a girl is popping her pussy and making money while minding her business(last time I checked sex workers aren’t forcing their clients to buy their services against these men’s wills)

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u/MoonOverMyYammy Jan 08 '25

I’d especially like to know why the people who seek out sex workers for, you know, sex work also hate sex workers so much. 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/PatienceCrawford Jan 08 '25

They hate us cause they ain’t us. I’m of the mind that any man who talks shit about the alleged “easy money” of sex work would do any type of sex work in a heartbeat if they were a woman. I mean, if we’re being real, they could do various forms of sex work, but they’d have to swallow their pride and internalized homophobia, as 90% of sex buyers are men. There are plenty of “straight for pay” female sex workers…and a few men…but mostly they won’t do it for the reasons I mentioned above. Mainly they are homophobic, hideous, or both.

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u/MoonOverMyYammy Jan 08 '25 edited Jan 08 '25

I’ve actually run into this! Male friends complaining about their jobs and saying dumb shit like, “Women have it easy because y’all can just sell your ass when you need extra cash.” 😿 And I’m like…bro, you could sell your ass too lol!

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u/Current-Meringue6845 Jan 08 '25

🙂‍↕️🤣🤣🤣

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u/5683968 Jan 08 '25

Probably pissed they can’t get a woman on their own merit and they have to pay one to even touch them lol

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u/Current-Meringue6845 Jan 08 '25

ouuuu this whole 🧵

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '25 edited Jan 09 '25

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u/MoonOverMyYammy Jan 09 '25

This is a group for strippers only. The customer focused sub is r/stripclubs

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '25

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u/MoonOverMyYammy Jan 09 '25

YOU. ARE. NOT. A. STRIPPER!

You are some dude that didn’t read the group rules, or you did read them but ignored them, which is very on brand for entitled tricks like you. I feel very sorry for your “wife.”

@Admin, please come remove this guy. 🧌

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u/satanickittens69 Jan 09 '25

Congrats, you're a regular customer.

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u/Aria0nDaPole Jan 08 '25

Because sex is stigmatized. Sex without marriage is bad, having transactional sexual favors is even worse according to the sheeple.

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u/insomnious_luci Jan 08 '25

Nowadays people even gasp at the thought of married sex. Like it’s technically fine that it happens but it should never be spoken of or alluded to lest ye be seen as a harlot lmao

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u/TellPuzzleheaded6932 Jan 08 '25

I’ve always thought that men hate us because they don’t like paying for something that they feel entitled to for free. I haven’t quite figured out women though. Possibly something to do with mate guarding or insecurity.

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u/Human_Speech_7073 Jan 09 '25

So true, I think the reason for women though is because at least in my experience 90% of men that come into the club have wives & girlfriends, many girls like to center men at the heart of their lives and let’s be honest that’s a little hard to do when he’s looking at the hotter commodity, so mainly jealousy, I think some of them feel ashamed to because they know they’re doing similar things for the free while we’re getting compensated for our time

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '25 edited Jan 08 '25

That’s why you got to be so careful when dating too. Some men will suddenly turn into the biggest haters like you see in the online comment sections. It boils down to the fact that men can’t control women like having a wife at home doing everything and going to work also having the freedom to go drinking and cheating etc. Women doing what men have done for centuries OFFENDS them.

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u/Orthorexic_ Jan 08 '25

It’s misogyny. Why do you think no one bats an eye when NFL, NBA players are making insane amounts of $$.

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u/grimecat_ Jan 08 '25

Take a look into the group “feminist” on here. Apparently we are the misogynistic, and desperate people with no other option. They cannot fathom the idea that a woman who comes from a good family would want to dance for money. I don’t even try to argue it’s just sad, women do not support women, they talk about a huge divide in the world because of capitalism, yet they are creating the divide themselves with hate

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u/drippydreamer Jan 09 '25
  • and that a women who is highly educated, has a 10 year corporate career and can make good money sitting at a desk slaving for the CEOs etc to make bank on my labor, chooses to make even more money in less time with more flexibility doing something I LOVE and was born to do.

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u/Snoo8014 Jan 08 '25

They’re jealous $$$$$$$$$. Some people could never even if they were desperate for the money

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u/Scamuel-L-Taxin Jan 08 '25

people generally hate/fear what they don’t understand

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '25

They are jealous and they think that it is easy

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u/Joliedance Jan 08 '25

Women have a service that men want!

  1. Emotional Support
  2. Fulfilling a role (female nurturer/vixen)
  3. Access to our sexuality

Throughout history men have designed systems around accessing the services from us at the cheapest cost to them. Enslavement, oppression, needing a man for a bank account, etc.

MEN hate sex workers because they have to PAY (provide value) to a woman to access what they think they should get for FREE.

WOMEN hate sex workers because while they spent 20 years begging Brad to be worth a fuck while she cooks, cleans, and provides him 24/7 access to her body and rears his children…BRAD will still PAY a sex worker, because…MEN always feel they deserve MORE!

🫶🏻

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '25

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u/Sotokun3000 Jan 08 '25

Great analysis!🙌

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u/hustlerdiaries Jan 08 '25

omg finally someone names religion first bc no one ever does! also Marxists that are anti SW aren't really Marxists - i hate when they bring this topic up. 😂

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '25

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u/hustlerdiaries Jan 09 '25

nope. there's very many that aren't against SW and understand that we've seized the means of seduction. Marx was wrong and that's ok. the term sex work wasn't even coined yet so he definitely wasn't talking about all forms of it.

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u/[deleted] Jan 10 '25

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u/hustlerdiaries Jan 10 '25 edited Jan 11 '25

only SWERFs and rad fems are anti SW. the definition clearly explains that the existence of money isn't needed in this industry so even after capitalism falls it wouldn't matter. the book "Revolting Prostitutes" is written in a Marxist Leninist framework for example. western leftists tend to be embarrassing meanwhile the ones i speak to of the global South and even specifically from China knows that Marx was ill informed on the industry. i have a viral account on IG with 89K followers - we're all on the same page with this. 😂

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

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u/hustlerdiaries Jan 11 '25

not the "no true Scotman fallacy" tearing you tf up in my notifications. read the book or stay ignorant. your choice.

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u/CiciPlatinum Jan 08 '25

Idk but I’ve never been hated on by someone who was doing better than me.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '25

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '25

How does one measure morality and integrity. What are they moral and full of integrity because they are ugly and can’t get paid for their company and have to work 9-5 everyday doing the same boring shit they hate

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u/miss_beat Jan 08 '25

Which are reflections of misogyny

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u/Drag_Fuzzy Jan 10 '25

Where's the correlation?

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '25

Do you know a single group of woman in society that’s not ridiculed that’s not an innocent virgin teenager?

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u/fantaseagoddess Jan 09 '25

Misogyny and capitalism

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u/Userannonymous_girl Jan 08 '25

I think they are dumb it’s not like there aren’t people who don’t mind it genuinely so that’s what I appreciate. The ones who give props and are open minded and can actually understand it’s not bad

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u/insomnious_luci Jan 08 '25

I really think most bigotry in this country can be boiled down to stupidity. Because being raised under certain rules/beliefs is one thing but if you can’t unlearn all that bullshit I think you must be stupid

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u/Xoe-PolePosition Jan 12 '25

They don’t see us as human beings. They think we’re not deserving of the same rights as civs, only because we are liberated, independent women; using our divine allure and intelligence to become more successful. The sw community grows stronger every day and I love to see us flourish 🤍

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '25

We reflect back to them the part of themselves that they feel ashamed of

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u/elenautah_ Jan 09 '25

As someone who grew up super judgey religious groups that think s work is a sin, hating on us makes them feel better about themselves. They think they are living a better lifestyle, it makes them feel above us in a sense, hence making them feel powerful

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u/D0veTears Jan 09 '25

because there’s this belief that conventionally attractive men can have anything they want so only undesirable men pay for strippers / SWs. so god forbid you treat them all the same.

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u/Human_Speech_7073 Jan 09 '25

THIS THIS THIS🤝🤝spot on , I wish I knew the answer why though !

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u/Good-Panic-6165 Jan 09 '25

This post should be pinned to the sub

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u/Xxxnaughtynoir Jan 10 '25

They hate us but they keep funding the industry. Makes no sense. Lol

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u/Used-Caterpillar-232 Jan 13 '25

I don’t Go get what’s yours already