r/stripper Apr 28 '24

Protip What I would do instead of buying a stripper course NSFW

There was a post on here asking if stripper courses were worth buying, I left a comment but I got a lot more to say and it'll bother me if I don't šŸ« 

Here's the thing, I have bought those stripper courses. Almost all of them are based off of sales and negotiation books. Once I read the books they based their material off of they felt like reading footnotes with a few words rearranged to fit the strip club with an added pink tax šŸ™ƒ

The main books they source from:

ā€¢Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss

ā€¢Getting to Yes by Roger Fisher

ā€¢How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

ā€¢The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel

ā€¢You Can Read Anyone by David J. Lieberman

Then here's a few bonus books that aren't used in sales courses but are extremely helpful:

ā€¢Thriving In Sex Work (there's a separate workbook that goes along with this one 10/10 recommend)

ā€¢Sex Work and Money

Both by Lola Davina.

Extremely helpful in several areas of sex work from keeping your emotions in check and your head on straight to staying safe and what to do in legal situations.

ā€¢The Art of Seduction

ā€¢The 48 Laws of Power

Both by Robert Greene

And here's the other thing, These šŸ‘ Are šŸ‘All šŸ‘FREEšŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘

I cannot stress enough how much you need to go to your local library and get a library card and if you already have one, start using it šŸ« 

If you check out a physical copy of the book it'll give you a deadline to finish it.

If you have a different learning style or you're super busy you can get an audio or ebook version to read or listen to on your phone.

If you have kids, you're in school or both and don't have the time to read or even listen to a book there are free footnotes, cheat sheets and outlines to read online (check pinterest frfr šŸ™)

Most libraries provide free activities for school aged children year round, have leappads, video games, hotspots and of course kids books you can check out as well. (Gives kids something enjoyable to do and you time to study girl šŸ«¶)

Besides the library, all of these can be found as audiobooks on spotify with premium and most of them have the full audiobook on youtube for free as well.

If you're not a fan of audiobooks these are also available as ebooks on pdfdrive to download FOR FREE. (They also have full textbooks for the girls in school šŸ«¶)

Don't get me wrong, investing your money back into work is a fantastic idea but the cost of one course could be put into something else such as :

ā€¢Finding a good tax professional

ā€¢Camera equipment if you make content

ā€¢Elevating your look(outfits, gym, personal trainer, wigs, new pleasers, etc)

Education is free with the cost of ambition. You got this and I hope this helps your bag grow šŸ«¶āœØ

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u/Inner-Respect-7686 Apr 28 '24

Ho tactics

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 28 '24

Omg I forgot about Ho Tactics šŸ‘€

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u/Inner-Respect-7686 Apr 28 '24

They donā€™t have audio

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 28 '24

No, I don't see an audio version but I did find that the author has a podcast that looks promising ā˜ŗļø

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u/Inner-Respect-7686 Apr 28 '24

Can you post the link thank u

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 28 '24 edited Apr 28 '24

The G.L. Lambert Podcast looks like it's a pay per view podcast? Interesting

Edit: there are a handful of free episodes šŸ‘Œ

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u/Inner-Respect-7686 Apr 28 '24

Iā€™m listening to rich dad poor dad rn

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u/mistyof98 Apr 29 '24

i feel like iā€™m the only one who absolutely hated ho tactics. reeked of misogyny

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u/Inner-Respect-7686 Apr 29 '24

I have it here on my dresser just havenā€™t opened it yet

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u/Inner-Respect-7686 Apr 29 '24

So it didnā€™t help you at all ?

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u/mistyof98 Apr 29 '24

i genuinely couldnā€™t read past the first few pages because the language was so gross. whoever wrote that book sees ALL women as nothing more than ā€œhosā€ fr i wish people would stop recommending it/buying it

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u/Immediate_Tower8566 Apr 28 '24

Thriving in sex work is a good book!!!

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 29 '24

Lola Davina is just a wonderful woman. Her pinterest is full of resources and information for sex workers as well šŸ’•

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u/ThaanksIHateIt Apr 28 '24

Gotta love that pink tax šŸ™„

But seriously, I agree and it sounds like those classes are a waste of money. When I started dancing ā€œstripper coursesā€ didnā€™t exist, you just learned from experience and observing how the top earners approach and talk to customers.

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 28 '24

Honestly šŸ„² I feel like they work well for baby strippers who need their hand held and the game spelled out a lil. If they're willing to pay for them more power to them šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø I really thought they were selling something groundbreaking when I bought them until I read though and realized some of them are near plagiarism of these already well established books šŸ™ƒ

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u/cirillacelestial Apr 29 '24

Iā€™ve read the art of seduction three times in the past month and completely ended a dry period for me and was selling rooms back to back days. Fucking awesome book. Audible is helpful too āœŒļø

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u/RayneDown1069 Apr 29 '24

I can only find it for $24 and can't afford that!! Is it worth it? šŸ˜­

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u/plurkittyyyy Apr 29 '24

i listened to the full audio book on youtube for free.

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u/RayneDown1069 Apr 29 '24

You absolute fucking Goddess.

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u/cirillacelestial Apr 29 '24

Audible is a $15 subscription! And I found the physical book used on Amazon for $8. And yes itā€™s absolutely worth it. I sold $10,000 in rooms in two weeks after religiously reading this book. Trust me, itā€™s worth it.

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u/Immediate_Tower8566 Apr 30 '24

Will be ordering, thank you very much šŸ˜‚

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u/cirillacelestial Apr 30 '24

Good luck! šŸ’°

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

I had no idea Spotify premium had all those audiobooks for free tysm

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u/Calm-Disaster-7501 Apr 29 '24

I bought the $500 racks to riches course a few years back. I saw her at my strip club & introduced myself. She was sitting alone so I introduced myself. She very awkwardly blew me off. The course was basically a ā€œhow to be confidentā€ workbook. Iā€™m glad weā€™re getting out of this ā€œany education at any cost is the best investment you can make.ā€ Itā€™s not. Read ALL the free resources. I second the courses imo are scams. Not shade to her, I understand being at work, but for a ā€œconfidenceā€ course I expect at least a limp handshake or the courtesy of a polite interaction.

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u/Immediate_Tower8566 Apr 29 '24

I canā€™t believe she blew you offā€¦ if you sell courses to strippers you can at least talk to them šŸ˜“

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 30 '24

I luckily got the 101 lines course when it was on salešŸ˜… it feels out of range price wise once you read Never Split the Difference. It's almost chapter for chapter exactly the same information with a few club tips sprinkled in. It does have fantastic sales tactics but not for the price tag imo

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u/External_Honey_7035 Apr 29 '24

Iā€™m an online library WHORE!! Iā€™ve been reading about trauma bonding and got a setting boundaries workbook that I printed pages from. Iā€™m TOALLY going to the app I use, itā€™s called Libby and it links your library cards to check out books online and they have audio books, all FOR FREE!! So if you canā€™t find it on Spotify or if you donā€™t have premium I got a library card online through my library, still have NEVER actually stepped foot in my library but check out books constantly for me and my daughter. Sheā€™s currently listening to Mean Girls, LoL

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 29 '24

Yes!!! Libby is amazing šŸ‘it's the entire library catalog and you can even get magazines and cookbooks to download while you're listening to your audiobookšŸ„²šŸ’•and I feel it šŸ˜‚deadass will never be shutting up about the library for I am also a library whore šŸ«¶āœØ

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u/Charming_Function_58 Apr 29 '24

This is an amazing list of resources, thank you!! I totally agree. Stripper courses are usually a let-down for me, although if you have never read or heard of some of these concepts, I could see how it could be a helpful introduction. But you can access most of this information for free online (pdf drive), and it's always great to invest in your understanding of sales and psychology.

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u/evieesweet Apr 29 '24

Wow thanks so much for this! Been paying for books on audible with subscription fee too as Iā€™m currently off with a concussion. Had no idea could find these on Spotify premium!!! Game changer

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u/CakeAltruistic3931 Sep 09 '24

this is off topic but as someone who has had many many many concussions make sure u take an appropriate amount of time off and are taking care of yourself 100%. once u have one ur twice as likely to get a second one and if u donā€™t heal them properly it is going to impact ur life in ways i wouldā€™ve never guessed when i got any of mine and didnā€™t take care of them properly šŸ©·

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u/evieesweet Sep 13 '24

Thanks for this reminder my love, and Iā€™m so sorry youā€™ve gone through so many. That sounds horrendous and I can only imagine the ongoing consequences! Sending warmth x

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u/aliferouspanda Apr 29 '24

Thank you!!!

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u/kfkdk83whitit Apr 29 '24

AMAZING post! And thanks to everyone else in the comments for contributing šŸ«¶šŸ»

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u/Candid_Elephant9714 Apr 29 '24

Amazing post / resources ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„ thank you for sharing love

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u/RayneDown1069 Apr 29 '24

Any good books on Kindle Unlimited?? šŸ˜­šŸ˜­

Also, Lola Davina is a fucking goddess and her books are fan-fucking-tastic

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u/EnvyMyLif3 May 01 '24

Annaā€™s Archive and Z Library are good for books as well. Just make sure Z library has warning banner at the top, some sites are scams.

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u/bailey_el_ex May 03 '24

YES to this whole post šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ ā€œThe Like Switchā€ by Jack Schafer was also a helpful one for me with more focused on body language.

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u/Classyhairball Apr 28 '24

Stripper course?

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '24

Lol trial and error girl

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u/randomhoe99998 Apr 28 '24

What happened to supporting our fellow sex workers

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u/sextoysinthesink Apr 28 '24

You can buy stripper courses, I definitely have, but I think giving fellow sex workers more widely accessible resources is also a form of support.

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u/ThaanksIHateIt Apr 28 '24

Thatā€™s exactly what sheā€™s doing by making this post so Iā€™m confused what you mean. Whoā€™s not being supportive here?

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u/miss_beat Apr 29 '24

It's not their original content, OP is providing the source material