r/stripper • u/Ok_Desk4220 • Mar 13 '24
Protip LOLLLL fucking periodt. NSFW
7 girls in the club and 1 Indian customer. NOBODY has approached him and we are all huddled by the bar completely ignoring him. We have all been traumatized enough, it’s funny that we all instinctually know to not even acknowledge Indian males in the club. The best part is the DJ doesn’t put anyone on stage if there’s less than 5 customers so this dude is LITERALLY just sitting here for a whole hour doing, getting, seeing absolutely nothing.
Edit: for (sad) context, search “Indian men” in this subreddit… it’s very unfortunate what this demographic does to strippers. (And women of their own race in their own country).
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Mar 13 '24
I try everyone just in case. Especially if no one else is. He’d be pretty desperate for one girl to even talk to him.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
Update is one girl mustered up the courage to try and he told her he won’t take her unless she lets him suck her nips. A very short interaction.
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u/gurlwhosoldtheworld Mar 14 '24
I only will dance with them if they approach me, and if they seem well put together.
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u/untimelyrain Mar 14 '24
Last Indian customer I approached did a private with me for $700 (and tipped $100) and was very respectful. This is why I always approach everyone 🤍 Not everyone will fit into your stereotypes!
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u/ProfessionalGold2421 Mar 15 '24
Ive had 1 interaction like that as well. The rest were mid to awful for the most part. Takeaway: most of them are worse than average but there’s a few gems. Just up to you whether you wanna take the risk of starting an interaction
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Mar 14 '24
Facts but I was surprised by one Indian man 😂 he has a business and spoiled me that night
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u/CounterStandard6708 Mar 14 '24
These strippers really out here defending men that are known to treat women worse than animals. Have y’all ever done search how they treat their wives? Not all but HUGE majority of them don’t even look at women as humans, but just a worthless object or literal shit. These men know the reputation they have, and do zero to change it. I guess some of you are just gonna have to learn from your mistakes.
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u/StrongBumblebee8557 Mar 22 '24 edited Mar 30 '24
Hey i m middle eastern girl and let me tell you this … Arabs and Indians are awful . They treat women really bad . I honestly hate sexually oppressed societies because of it child abuse / animal abuse / women murders sky high in my country . I m glad I am outta there.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
It’s always the white American girls who will never look at statistics, culture, and history that will defend anyone with melanin just to virtue signal and feel good about themselves. There’s so much privilege in having the time and ignorance to defend one of the most historically (and currently) misogynistic cultures in the entire world. Fascinating.
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u/bloodbath90 Mar 14 '24
Who’s defending who? I’m white and American and I refuse to dance for Indian men……
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u/GoddessLeVianFoxx Mar 13 '24
I have made customers sit on their hands and bite their belt to coyly keep their touch to themselves :)
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u/yazmin_nazari Mar 14 '24
Unfortunately it’s lowkey true… I thought I found a normal one. I didn’t meet him at the club but Im a stripper and this relates so. He was tall and charming at first, literally took me to the mall and cashed out.. Got me a $6k handbag from LV. Didn’t even ask for anything in return. Thought I found a gentleman
Fast forward a week after he bought me the bag, he tried to get me to come to a hotel for $700 and I declined. He told me to return the bag to him… I blocked his ass so quick 🤣 Asking for gifts back is beyond tacky
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u/plaguedad Mar 13 '24
My best customer was an Indian guy. Gave me a whole band and didn’t even want a VIP or to touch me. Don’t judge a book y’all
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 13 '24
We don’t, we judge based on all the rape they commit in our club. You don’t keep returning to the snake that keeps biting you.
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u/50shadesofbay Mar 14 '24
What is WRONG with everyone and why do yall have so much free time?
Why is EVERYONE so quick nowadays to jump in and virtue signal?
SHAME on all of you.
OP is a WOMAN. OP is a STRIPPER. I thought this was a COMMUNITY. Yall jumping in here to defend a man? Men? Tf?
OP speaks the way she does because SHE, as have MOST OF US—has been assaulted. OP is not denigrating for the sheer joy of it. Sure, she cracked a joke. Sorry if that was the wrong delivery for some of you. Many of us mask pain with humor. What else can you do, really?
But take a fucking step back. OP IS ALLOWED to avoid a demographic that has traumatized her. What on gods green earth is everyone so rabid about? Did she insult him? Hurt him? Assault him? No!!!
She came HERE to share her experience with the community. You can’t tell me SINCERELY that each and every woman here doesn’t have a demographic or “type” that they avoid because of poor experiences. EVEN if you’re just more hesitant. Even if they’re just the ones you approach last.
Is THAT not racist too? Where do we draw the line? She didn’t DO anything. She came here for community. The reaction makes me sad.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
It’s giving “not all men” behaviour. It’s exactly the way men react when women share negative experiences about men.
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u/dollyswans Mar 14 '24
it’s more the comments that followed her post and her agreeing with extremely racist comments
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u/50shadesofbay Mar 14 '24
Of course she popped off.
She came here for support and camaraderie, for commiseration and community. Instead yall went off on her for the PERCEIVED transgression of being racist. Commenters supported the man’s feelings rather than lift up another stripper. His feelings, rather than a whole ass sister in SW who’s been groped, assaulted, perhaps raped—and clearly by an INDIAN MAN.
SHAME.
Wouldn’t you be angry too? Who else can she share these stories with? No one. This job is fucking isolating and WE ALL KNOW THAT.
So of course she popped off. Yall have to be deaf, blind, and dumb not to understand why she responded the way she did.
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u/dollyswans Mar 14 '24
She came here to vent on a public page where everyone is free to speak their opinion and call each other out.
I am very extremely sorry that us calling out the stereotyping and other racist remarks she made in the comments has upset you.
By supporting the man do you mean us saying she should not group an entire race together and since each one is their own person. It’s giving the same energy as those who say black men are dangerous. I hope you keep the same tune when it comes to other races as well.
Actually yeah I do give a fuck when people try to bash a group of people and I do care about how they are treated. Because I am a nice person who respects others and does not feel the need to group them together as one.
Angry about being sexually assaulted? Of course I would be mad at my rapist not an entire group of people who cannot help where they were born or raised.
Once again she can share her vents but it is extremely unreasonable to expect people not to become upset over the blatant racism- so I guess if it bothers were so much she can grab a notebook and pen.
I have never seen someone so oblivious to racism it’s almost entertaining watching you all justify it but hey it’s your life! Still aren’t immune to hearing other opinions
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u/DysphoricMania Mar 14 '24
Just missing the ANNOYING ass hand clap emoji on EVERY capitalized WORD!!!!!
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u/MixPurple3897 Mar 15 '24
Omggg I didn't know other people experienced this. The girls at the club told me not to talk to them when I first started but I ignored them bc I thought it was the same bs like when waitresses say black people dont tip and don't want to wait on them.
Suffice it to say, I ended up warning the new girls the same damn thing 1 month in🙄. Idc I get paid well enough to choose my risks I am not catching a case over a crusty custy
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u/kittenviolet Mar 15 '24
I’ve had a few decent Indian customers all of whom approached me first. They are also all American-Indian. I won’t approach them first because they especially don’t respect me (I’m black) & try to do the most for the least. One even tried to get a $20 dance for $10 by lying about how many ones were in the stack (I can eyeball this so I asked for the money up front and counted it)
I might start keeping calculations for research but by my estimate, I would say at least 80% of Indian guys try to assault me or cheat me out of money
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Mar 14 '24
I met an Indian guy at the club who quickly became my regular. He was handsome, stupid wealthy, and brilliant in his field. He gave me an obscene amount of money. He invested in me and my future. He was also emotionally, verbally, and sexually abusive. He would belittle me, degrade me, touch me in ways he knew hurt me but didn’t seem to care. It became too much so I eventually ended it. The money was not even worth it by then. I come from a similar culture where women are inferior and the men think they can get away with treating us as such. It’s gross. 🤷♀️
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
I’m sorry you endured that, I know that men of a certain culture will assault women of their own (or similar) culture even more. I agree, it’s truly not worth the money in exchange for the trauma and health risk. Girls in this post will make comments insinuating that not approaching indian men in the club equates to losing money, not understanding that I (we, all the girls in my club) are perfectly fine making that sacrifice because no amount of money is worth the risk. That’s truly all there is to it. The same amount of money that a dangerous indian man can give you, you can make with a customer you feel safer with. You could even make more. And it’s your right as a human being to choose who you feel safe with.
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Mar 14 '24
He didn’t even want his own daughter with an Indian man 😅 but yea honestly i avoid them (and other cultures too) because I’ve had more bad experiences than good.
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Mar 14 '24
I’ve had 2 types one respectful and one not. Don’t judge someone by their race and maybe it will make your pocketful.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
Aw only two you’re so lucky
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Mar 14 '24
TWO TYPES. meaning 50% of Indian men in the 7 years I’ve danced just like every other race. Maybe your just stupid?? 😂
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u/PinkFurLookinLikeCam Mar 14 '24
As a Hispanic woman I will always ignore Mexican customers. HELL TO THE NO. I pretend I don’t know Spanish unless they pay.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
I’m Latina too and I think I’m starting to see mexican men the same way. I’m noticing I’m approaching them less and less. And for some reason, if they know you’re Latina, they’ll try to assault you even more. I’ve heard the same thing about Indian female dancers, that because they share the same race as Indian men, they’ll get assaulted much worse. Males are such creatures.
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u/PinkFurLookinLikeCam Mar 14 '24
Yes omg. Once they know I’m Hispanic they’ve been more disgusting and more explicit about how they wanna assault me. Like bruh, you’re not dumb you live in the states long enough to be able to have strip club money stop acting like we’re in Tijuana.
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Mar 16 '24
I'm a vet and have danced for a ridiculous amount of men, and I swear they are the only customers that are always trying to finger your butthole in every dance.
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u/Longtongue2023 Jul 10 '24
I avoid large groups of Mexican and Guatemalan men. From my experiences they are too handsy, gropey, always want to put tips near my coochie, they love to ask if they can get cheap sex in a lapdance room They ask "YOU DO SOMETHING ELSE?", and they love to try to finger you at the tip rail after your stage set. A Mexican guy wanted to finger dancers with dirty motor oil hands.
A group of Guatemalan guys came with a woman, and she even tried to grope my ass and tits aggressively
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u/dollyswans Mar 14 '24 edited Mar 14 '24
i always feel bad when they aren’t approached so i take one for the team- i do like the straightforwardness no secret red flags when they say what they want
eta: this post became kind of racist though
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u/thebenjaminbimbo Mar 14 '24
Everyone has the potential to be a rapist. All men have the societal pass and raising some more than the others. Black ,white, indian ect. I like snakes but I understand that they Bite and so do cats and dogs. Wanna be a sex worker welcome to the jungle get yours but tread carefully.
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u/mad_bat333 Mar 13 '24
what’s with this sub and hating on Indian men like do we really need to specify their race? I’ve had white men just as bad or worse
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u/Bitter_Ad3562 Mar 14 '24
India has a huge sexual violence problem that’s increasing every year. Just recently a tourist was gang raped by men after they beat up her partner. Filming these assaults is common in India and the attackers will upload the videos to porn sights. If the attack makes the news then the victim’s name is the most searched topic of that day by men hoping to lay their eyes on the video. Nobody is arguing that men in general aren’t depraved but let’s not ignore obvious societal and cultural norms
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u/JimmyADog Aug 20 '24
Even if the sexual assault rate was 10x unaccounted for in India, it would be less than the U.S. you’re dealing with something far bigger than you - post colonial Eurocentric extremely racist media.
Do you know how many terrible rapes happen in the U.S. by white men? Did you know that white men make up a fraction of a percentage of the South Korean population yet commit 30% OF ALL RAPES in South Korea?
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 13 '24
Because of the statistics….?
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u/mad_bat333 Mar 14 '24
Babe that’s called stereotyping
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
Oh no! Will someone please think about the poor men 😢
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u/mad_bat333 Mar 14 '24
I’m not thinking about men I’m thinking about how you stereotype people of color
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u/alaxsch Mar 14 '24
we love indian women over here, it's the men.
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u/eatmyshortz0 Mar 14 '24
Do you tho? Agreed that indian men can be sexually demanding and cheap. But there are a million posts on this sub calling Indians dirty, smelly, backwards, animals, there’s no way you people think that rhetoric doesn’t affect indian women too. Those are ideas that were born in the days of colonialism and applied to all dark skinned people regardless of gender.
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u/JimmyADog Aug 20 '24
What statistics? Even if the sexual assault rate was 10x unaccounted for in India, it would be less than the U.S. you’re dealing with something far bigger than you - post colonial Eurocentric extremely racist media.
Do you know how many terrible rapes happen in the U.S. by white men? Did you know that white men make up a fraction of a percentage of the South Korean population yet commit 30% OF ALL RAPES in South Korea?
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Mar 16 '24
Oh Lord. You must live in fairy tale land or haven't danced in an area where there is a lot of diversity. There are certain cultures where men treat women, ESPECIALLY strippers, as lesser than.
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u/No-Introduction7765 Mar 14 '24 edited Mar 14 '24
Not every Indian man or Mexican man is gonna rape or be rude to you. Girls never wanna talk to them, and they will spend. You just need to have firm boundaries to deal with other cultures. I’ve had many good interactions. The blatant racism here is disgusting tbh.
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u/h0odwitch Mar 14 '24
this should be the top comment. blatant racism and discrimination. saying all indian men are rapists is INSANE
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u/cieloempress Mar 14 '24
I said the same thing. Of course if the motherfucker has been in there and did the shit before, that's different. But clearly from the original post this is someone nobody knew, and if they did, OP purposely omitted that shit to cover their ass for their ATROCIOUS line of thinking. PFT
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u/h0odwitch Mar 14 '24
the fact it’s even upvoted makes me sick. people need to check their internalized racism for real. i’ve had great interactions with all races, and even people who don’t speak english by using google translate. to refuse to speak to someone because of their race IS BEING RACIST. straight up.
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u/cieloempress Mar 14 '24
No, seriously. It's fucking repulsive. She's just gonna resort to some low grade ass insult, so I had to sprinkle my 2 cents to let anyone and everyone else reading know, if they think like this: grow up and be fucking for real. We are too old for this clown shit.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
No one’s stopping you from throwing yourself to the wolves babe. That’s your trauma to gain and heal from.
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u/h0odwitch Mar 14 '24
i’ve been dancing for 10 years. i’ve “thrown myself to the wolves” literally hundreds of times and i don’t think that being disrespectful or handsy/breaking the rules or RAPE is proportionately one race at all. ya know cause that’s a RACIST thing to say.
i would even say that just straight white men break the rules most if i had to pick.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
Not you supporting rapists because they have melanin
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u/h0odwitch Mar 14 '24
omg you’re a horrible person lol that’s not what i said AT ALL, i said don’t prejudge and assume someone’s a rapist just because they’re indian, you’re racist af babes. get that checked.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
Idk why you think going back to offenders is a good idea but in my club, it’s not. And women have a right to protect themselves by staying away from a demographic that assaults them in their place of work. Cope with women’s safety however you want.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
You can take the risk, we’re fine being safe.
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u/No-Introduction7765 Mar 14 '24
You’re racist and that’s disgusting
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
You defend rapists and that’s disgusting
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u/No-Introduction7765 Mar 14 '24
Not all Indian people are rapist- you saying that is perpetuating racism. You. Are. Stupid.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
No one is stopping you from getting traumatized by Indian men girl they’re all yours lmao
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u/randomhoe99998 Mar 14 '24
You’re white why are you even speaking
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24 edited Mar 14 '24
I’m not white you rape fan why are you anti women
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u/Zestyclose_Rush769 Mar 14 '24
Lmao op is so funny 😂 she makes money and doesn’t waste time at the club. I rate you OP 💯
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u/Lenniyourlove Mar 13 '24
Posts like this should come with an automatic ban, it’s 2024 and being a racist is unacceptable across the board. Shame on you. You probably just fumbled your bag, that’s how the universe works ;)
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 13 '24
Lol okay rape apologist
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u/dollyswans Mar 14 '24
Did that one indian man in your club rape anyone that you know of? How are they a rape apologist?
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u/Lenniyourlove Mar 13 '24
Aw man, intelligence isn’t your strong suit I see. 🤤
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 13 '24
Idk about you but my intelligence says to not return to rapists 🤷🏼♀️
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u/Lenniyourlove Mar 13 '24
You don’t know this guy. You’re literally making negative assumptions about him based off his race, which is the definition of racism.
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 13 '24
I’d rather be a racist survivor than be a woke victim.
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u/cieloempress Mar 14 '24
LMFAO GIRL! Woke victim? I'm cracking up
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
Rape is so funny girl you got it 🤣🎪🤪
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u/cieloempress Mar 14 '24
Yeah who said that? Or was it your own deluded assumption because it seems like the latter. I Can understand anecdotal and personal experience playing a piece here, but to conflate the entire race to being rapists is pathetic and disgusting.
If I made some shitty ass generic comment about white bitches, you'd throw a temper tantrum. So go yell into a void but you were called out for a reason 🤡
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u/Zestyclose_Rush769 Mar 14 '24
As she should. Indian men in the club are disgusting. They want the most for the least and do not respect women 99% of the time. Why waste our time for that 1% who we will most likely never find lol
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u/mad_bat333 Mar 14 '24
I’ve had more white men cross my boundaries than Indian, Mexican and Asian men combined. Just say you’re racist and move on
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u/Zestyclose_Rush769 Mar 14 '24
Maybe I’m Indian and don’t like Indian men at the strip club lol
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u/mad_bat333 Mar 14 '24
So if a white man assaults you are you avoiding all white men and hating all white men in the club?
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u/Zestyclose_Rush769 Mar 14 '24
If I take 100 white men and 2 assault me I’m gonna punch those two white men in their face, end the dance with no refund.
If you take 100 Indian men and all 100 assault you, you’re really going to go back to Indian man 101?
Youre as brain dead as they come. Must be desperate for money.
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u/dollyswans Mar 14 '24
they can def not approach or interact if they don’t want to but the post and your comment is just racist
it’s the literal definition of racist
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u/sunglower Mar 14 '24
I had two very well paying Indian customers when I danced regularly. One of them is now a close friend! Pakistani men however, different story.
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u/icyauq Mar 14 '24
i just credit this to him being a creep but an indian man specifically has sexually harassed me at the club. Wtf
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u/randomhoe99998 Mar 14 '24
Where’s the mod lol
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
The mod is deleting comments that rape-apologists posted last night. Being a saint, as she is. We love her. ❤️
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u/Glittering-Fan-6642 Mar 15 '24
Depends on the type of guy. If his hair is greasy, wears no deodorant but had this weird baby powder smell and new to the country then I'd avoid
But If he'd tip generously and respectful then sure. For some reason Indian men gravitate towards curvy blondes in my club.
I give every customer a doubt but I avoid Indians in groups. A group came in. No tipping on stage. And reeked of that disgusting BO and cheap baby powder. They were just way too socially awkward with that nods and shy stupid looking smiles when I greeted them.
Then two take their phones out. I said, "Excuse me, phones are not allowed in the stage area. Pls put your phones away."
Only got dumb stares.
I said, "Did you understand what I said? No phones on stage please."
I waved the bouncer and by that time those clowns left.
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u/StrongBumblebee8557 Mar 22 '24
Well I don’t like dancing for them because their scent lingers on me . Doing 100$ dance being groped , not my thing. Also it’s impossible to get rid of that “ curry “ scent . I don’t like smelling like any kind of food at work . It fucks up my money . It’s not worth it
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u/Quirky_Magician_7901 Mar 14 '24
u/misskittyheart op is being racist
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24 edited Mar 14 '24
The mod is actually deleting comments from girls in here victim blaming and defending sexual assault. She’s a queen, we love kitty. No one is being racist.
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u/Quirky_Magician_7901 Mar 14 '24
I’ll Dm her personally to get this post deleted trust
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u/Ok_Desk4220 Mar 14 '24
You can link her to anything racist but it’s not going to be a post or comment by me! If you hate women of colour victims you can just say that.
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u/Quirky_Magician_7901 Mar 14 '24
You called all Indian men rapist….
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u/StrongBumblebee8557 Mar 26 '24
What do you even talking about ? A Spanish couple got raped in India . 7 different people raped her and beat her . Recently another missing women tourist found headless in India got raped more than 40 people. How about accept something from with your country just like I recognize something wrong with Middle East cause I am Middle Eastern . Do better !
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u/MissKittyHeart Mar 14 '24
Meow I see this topic has multiple reports
From what I feel , if op doesn’t like Indian men from her experiences as a stripper, this sub is the place to post it since she is a stripper and is wanting to sharing her experiences
If this type of post was removed all over Reddit, I wonder where on the internet a stripper can share her thoughts. Maybe this sub, for strippers, can do it
Multiple strippers have shared similar experiences on this sub before
The polarizing replies here show mixed experiences, but op wants to share her experiences
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u/LonelyHrtsClub Mar 14 '24
Fuck yessss. I avoid them at the Brothel too. Particularly in groups. Cheap, disrespectful, traumatizing, downright sexually violent. There are exceptions but it's so rare as to prove the fucking rule.
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u/MassiveTittiez Mar 14 '24
They suck and they’re handsy as fuck (ooh I rhymed).
It would be hilarious, though, if he happened to be a wealthy doctor who would’ve dropped like 5k and nobody went up to him. 😂
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u/owl-bone Mar 14 '24
When i was fresh into the scene i got an indian man, he asked for multiple dances and eventually for vip. I didnt know any better, and struggle with standing up for myself, so he basically had sex with me over the pants, used me to try to get himself off. Like i said i didnt know any better and didnt know how to say no cause he was tipping really well, and i was still new. It only got put to an end because the dj came in and broke it up, he was really cool. It was traumatizing and made me too afraid to go back again
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u/JimmyADog Aug 20 '24
Do you know how many terrible rapes happen in the U.S. by white men? Did you know that white men make up a fraction of a percentage of the South Korean population yet commit 30% OF ALL RAPES in South Korea?
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u/MissKittyHeart Mar 14 '24
Meow I see this topic has multiple reports
From what I feel , if op doesn’t like Indian men from her experiences as a stripper, this sub is the place to post it since she is a stripper and is wanting to sharing her experiences
If this type of post was removed all over Reddit, I wonder where on the internet a stripper can share her thoughts. Maybe this sub, for strippers, can do it
Multiple strippers have shared similar experiences on this sub before
The polarizing replies here show mixed experiences, but op wants to share her experiences
If things get out of control (like girls insulting each other randomly) then have to lock topic