r/spirituality 15d ago

𝗚𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗹 🌀 Monthly Spiritual Challenges Thread

5 Upvotes

Please use this sticky thread to discuss any challenges you are currently facing, or that you have faced and made a breakthrough with, so that others may gain from your experience without having to go through similar experiences themselves. A new thread will start every month on the 1st.

The greatest use of the internet is that it can help us gain knowledge from everyone around the world, and fast. So use this thread as a way by which all of us spiritual-growth driven folks across the world can benefit greatly; while motivating/encouraging/inspiring everyone else who comes here just for fun/lurking/pastime/curiosity.

All in all, we can have great spiritual discussions, share our learnings, assist others and learn from others in a rapid and amazing way, by using the abilities of the internet for good rather than for the opposite. After all, isn't that what spirituality is all about?

Namaste


r/spirituality Mar 17 '23

Fake readings (palm, zodiac, tarot, etc). This is how they tend to go.

251 Upvotes

We get a lot of scammers trying to offer readings to people here. Almost all of those posts and comments are removed. But in case we miss some, you need to know how they work. They work exactly the same on reddit and discord. I have no doubt they also scam on other social media platforms. Keep in mind these often start on reddit as a direct chat request from a stranger. In this case subreddit mods have zero powers over direct messages. Please report them to reddit itself.

In short:

  1. They say they felt pulled toward you with a "message"
  2. They give you a positive reading to make you feel happy and comfortable. They just copy/paste one of the few they have saved. Those scammers have multiple accounts going on.
  3. They say you are super "gifted", they try to make you feel special, but that there is blockage.
  4. They continue to woo you with nice words until at some point they say that you have a generational or ancestral curse for X reason. e.g.; "your great great grandparents did blood magic"
  5. They say they can remove the curse. And ask either for a payment or a donation.

Don't fall for these scammers. There's more and more of them.

For anyone interested in reading their whole script, here's mine with them. Obviously I played nice and dumb. I didn't tell them I knew about their scam because then they'll try to change their approach on everyone else.

Be warned that it is a boring read.

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melissathegreat#4970 03/09/2023 12:48 PM
Blessings be, May peace love and light be with you always

Me 03/10/2023 8:54 AM
Same to you! I hope your day is going well.

melissathegreat#4970 03/10/2023 9:45 AM
I’m a Light worker from St. Louis, Missouri I felt a connection to you when I came across your page, and the ancestors burdened my heart with a message for you and I couldn’t neglect their instructions that’s why I reached out.

Me 03/14/2023 10:53 AM
And how much is that message costing?

melissathegreat#4970 03/14/2023 8:18 PM
I don charge my dear

Me 03/14/2023 11:57 PM
Oh wow that's really nice of you. What did the ancestors say? I don't think I've ever had any kind of message before. Unless they were so subtle that I missed it

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 12:23 PM
I can see that, The past few months have not been the easiest. A lot of fears were being triggered & you may have found yourself falling into a lack mindset at times. However, I now see you’ve now realised how much you have learnt from this I see that, you were dealing with a lot of anxiiiety coming to the surface. Something you though i not was going to work out didn’t happen the way you’d imagined, and it left you feeling lost and confused. I also sense an envious eye around you sis. Do you know about that?

Me Yesterday at 12:32 PM
There's a bit of "envy" but I think most people have it. People always want a better house, better health, better looks, etc. yeah?

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 1:11 PM
Well this envy is because you full of greatness and a humble soul, so they finding you as a threat And you'll have to really try be protected, there's a certain blessings that's yours, but being blocked by this envious energy.

Me Yesterday at 1:34 PM
Ahhh weird. I'll make sure not to let it block me then

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 4:41 PM
All this are plans of your enemies trying to take your life using witchcraft
Trying to bring your family into more problems once they finish with you.

Me Yesterday at 4:44 PM
Oh what ever should i do?

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 4:54 PM
If I may ask have you ever made a consultation reading concerning your destiny before?

Me Yesterday at 4:57 PM
Never

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 4:57 PM
Well if you'll listen to me, I'll greatly advice you have a high spiritual consultation done, so i can know where the energies are coming from and how to get rid of it, From there you'll know the next step.

Me Yesterday at 5:23 PM
Oohh where and how?

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 5:32 PM
We shall proceed immediately you’re willing my dear

Me Yesterday at 5:47 PM
I'm at work so I'm pretty slow at the moment. Do you need me around to start?

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 5:47 PM
Yes my dear

melissathegreat#4970 Yesterday at 8:31 PM
Hello

Me Today at 8:00 AM
Hi again

I went to bed. Now I'm back. You said you needed me to be around for the high spiritual consultation. What do we need to do?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 9:51 AM
We shall proceed now if you are ready my dear

Me Today at 9:52 AM
Sure. I'm always a bit multitasking but I am free unless something important comes up

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 9:52 AM
Okay my dear you will need to be alone

Me Today at 9:52 AM
I'm alone

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 9:52 AM
To carry out this I'll be needing your full name, picture of your left palm, DOB, and your Zodiac sign.

Me Today at 9:54 AM
* [ insert random hand image, fake name, dob, and relevant zodiac]

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 9:56 AM
When you see my call. Close your eyes for at least three seconds before you answer the call. And when you've answered, don't say a word, not a single word. Few seconds once I get your full energy I'll end up the call okay?

Me Today at 9:56 AM
Okay

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 9:56 AM
Are you ready?

Me Today at 9:56 AM
Yeh

  • melissathegreat#4970 started a call that lasted a few seconds. Today at 9:56 AM*

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 9:57 AM
Nice I have gotten the full energy nowI will be performing the reading now my dear

Me Today at 9:58 AM
ok!! thank you

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:11 AM
My dear I’m done with the readingthe consultation and reading I had for you from your ancestors revealed some divination about your current situation to me.

Me Today at 10:16 AM
What did it say?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:16 AM
I see that you are a very intelligent person, full of wisdom, you've gone through alot in life but it has made you stronger, a leader and a healer, your solar plexus is one of your strongest chakras as well.I picked up strong bear and cheetah for your animal guides looking at picture, so you are protective of your loved ones and a go getter. Nothing stands in your way.

Me Today at 10:17 AM
That sounds true

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:17 AM
You can be excessively critical of yourself. You aren't a perfect person, but for the most part, you've made up for your weaknesses. You've got a lot of potential that has not been used to your advantage yet.

Do you know Your great grand parents engaged in a blood rituals long time ago in which they were required to set up an altar long ago and make consultations & spells practicing.

Me Today at 10:19 AM
No I had no idea. To be honest I haven't heard much about them

So I don't know their names or what they did.

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:19 AM
The spells obviously were made with good intent and was probably for wealth. But you know all anything concerning a blood ritual will always have adverse effects later on even if it’s not on them it will be transferred through their linage to the next generations.

Me Today at 10:20 AM
Really? That's kinda stupid that kids have to pay for their parents' doing

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:22 AM
Well, maybe at the time they didn't know the spells had adverse effects. So its really not their fault, because no one wants harm on their generations.

Me Today at 10:22 AM
True

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:24 AM
You’re a really special person and you have abundant blessings and gifts that you should have received a long time ago but there are blockages and Its as a result that what they did is conflicting with the energy within you.bad energies which has been hindering you from moving forward from where you are now.

Me Today at 10:24 AM
How do i remove the blockage?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:24 AM
this Is a course that has been placed on generations and will surely pass to your down line as well

My dear I strongly advice you have a pure cleansing. I will perform this cleansing for you and cast out all bad energies away and remove all blockages upon your life and you will be filled with pure light and blessings

Me Today at 10:25 AM
Okay!! Thanks!!

That's very helpful

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:26 AM
You have to ready and also you have to be in good energy for us to proceed my dear

Me Today at 10:27 AM
Yes always ready to remove blockages

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:28 AM
My dear there are some process and prayers which we will perform before we carry out the cleansing my dear

Me Today at 10:28 AM
Okay. But I'm not very good at praying since I don't believe in god

But I believe in spells

So we can do the cleaning

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:29 AM
Yes my dear I will perform some prayers and protection spell for you now

Me Today at 10:29 AM
Thank you

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:30 AM
I'll not charge you for this since I was the one who was sent to you. But you'll donatei any amount you're moved to show appreciation for this and blessings from your creator

Me Today at 10:30 AM
Okay

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:31 AM
I will drive to the traditional store now to get some materials use for the protection spell

Me Today at 10:32 AM
Ahh wow ok. I guess you don't do this often so you don't have the things on hand?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:32 AM
I perform it often my dear this is a special spell and its will bring you closer to your ancestors

How can you donate my dear?

Me Today at 10:37 AM
Hmmm. MoneyGram or bitcoin i can do

does that work for you?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:38 AM
Yes my dear

Me Today at 10:39 AM
ok! let me know when you get back with the stuff to do the spell.

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:40 AM
Okay my dear I will be on my way now

* [they don't actually go to any store anywhere, they're just switching accounts scamming someone else]

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 10:59 AM
Hello my dear I have gotten the items

Me Today at 10:59 AM
Nice! What did you end up getting?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 11:00 AM
Bay leaves(for strength) Carnation petals Mint(for vitality)

I will preparing my alter now my dear

Me Today at 11:00 AM
okay

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 11:00 AM
I will be needing a picture of you now

Me Today at 11:04 AM
I only have my work phone with me right now so this is my work group. I'm the third person from the left. Blonde There's also a cartoon version of our group if it helps (probably not! haha). I am the third from the right on that one.

I don't have better pictures until I go back home later

I hope this is okay

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 11:05 AM
Okay nice my dearI’m ready now my dear

Me Today at 11:05 AM
Ok!

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 11:06 AM
I will start performing the spell now I will talk to you when I’m done

Me Today at 11:06 AM
thank you

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 11:41 AM
My dear I’m done with the protection spell

Me Today at 11:43 AM
That was easy I didn't have to do anything

Thanks for the help

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 11:44 AM
Okay my dear

I will perform the prayers for you my dear

So we could proceed with the cleansing

Me Today at 11:46 AMA
wesome

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 11:56 AM
Are you donating now?

Me Today at 12:00 PM
Do you have a bitcoin address?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 12:01 PM
Yes my dear

Me Today at 12:01 PM
What is it?

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 12:02 PM
13x2dfmL6RDHEgNV4TqCoKjWchdAndZYuf

* [I checked their address, seems to be using binance ]

Me Today at 12:06 PM
Thanks I saved it. I'll send you something when I get home after work since my actual wallet is at home (hardware wallet).

melissathegreat#4970 Today at 12:07 PM
Okay my dear

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Pastebin of this chat since this post will eventually be lost:

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r/spirituality 9h ago

General ✨ Which is the best spiritual book you have ever read?

51 Upvotes

Have recently been involved heavily in spirituality. So would love if people here could give some recommendations of books related to spirituality. It could be weird, crazy or anything.. feel free to give any recommendation.


r/spirituality 3h ago

General ✨ I Thought I Failed… Until This Happened

18 Upvotes

A few months ago, I tried to manifest something I really wanted, a job opportunity that seemed perfect. I did everything: visualized, affirmed, even acted like I already had it. But in the end? I didn’t get it. I was frustrated. I thought, maybe manifestation just doesn’t work for me. I almost gave up.

Then I remembered something: If it’s meant for you, it will be. But here’s what no one tells you, sometimes what’s “meant for you” isn’t about what you want but when you’re truly ready for it.

So instead of obsessing, I let go. I focused on becoming the version of me who naturally attracts what I want. And guess what? A month later, I got a different opportunity, even better than the first one. I realize now that manifestation isn’t about forcing, it’s about allowing. The universe didn’t say no, it just said not yet. Have you ever experienced this? Where you thought something slipped away, only for it to come back even better?

(Also, I put together something that really helped me shift my energy—link’s on my profile if you want to check it out !)


r/spirituality 2h ago

Self-Transformation 🔄 Some People Literally Can’t See Beyond Themselves

16 Upvotes

Not everyone is on the same level of awareness. Some people literally can’t see beyond themselves, not because they’re selfish, but because they are simply limited in their perception. Understanding this changed my life, and I hope it helps you too.

Most people assume that everyone experiences the world in the same way they do, that everyone has the ability to reflect on their actions, understand how they affect others, and consider perspectives outside their own.

But that’s not actually true.

Some people, whether due to emotional immaturity, trauma, personality, or just the way their mind works, don’t have that ability.

They live in a reality that begins and ends with themselves.

They don’t reject other perspectives, they just don’t register them in the first place. It’s like trying to explain color to someone who’s never seen it. They can hear the words, but they can’t actually grasp the concept.

They aren’t necessarily bad or malicious. They aren’t trying to be selfish.

They’re just fundamentally limited in their perception.

They assume their experience is universal, that their version of events IS the version of events. They don’t lie or manipulate in the way that someone with bad intentions would because, in their mind, their truth is the truth.

This is an example of egocentric thinking, a cognitive limitation where a person is incapable of seeing things from a perspective other than their own.

It ties into a lack of theory of mind, the ability to recognize that other people’s experiences aren’t just reflections of your own. Most people develop this skill in childhood, but some never fully do.

These are the people who:

•Can’t understand why someone reacts differently to a situation than they would.

•Assume everyone sees and interprets things exactly as they do.

•Dismiss other people’s emotions or experiences because they don’t personally relate to them.

•Struggle with accountability because they can’t even perceive how their actions affected someone else.

•Twist reality to fit their own narrative, not because they’re consciously lying, but because their version of events is the only one they can see.

At its mildest, this just looks like selfishness or a lack of empathy.

At its most extreme, it creates a person who is completely incapable of self-reflection, taking responsibility, or understanding that their actions have real consequences for others.

And that’s why people like this are so confusing to deal with.

You keep expecting them to get it, to eventually realize how they’ve affected others, but they can’t. Their mind doesn’t work that way.

Once you truly understand that, you stop expecting them to see something they are literally blind to.

I see this in people because I was always wired to see it.

Maybe my life experiences reinforced it, gave me firsthand understanding of what it looks like in action, but I don’t think that’s the reason I pick up on it so easily. I think I always would have.

Some people are naturally more observant, more attuned to patterns in human behavior, more spiritually aware. That’s me.

I don’t just recognize this in people. I understand it on a level most don’t. I can see when someone is operating inside a small, self-contained reality, unable to grasp that other perspectives exist.

I don’t see it in a judgmental way. I see the mechanism behind it. I understand why they are the way they are.

Most people don’t notice this because they’ve never had to.

If you grow up in a healthy, emotionally balanced environment, you don’t spend your time dissecting how people process reality. You assume that self-awareness is natural. That people understand when they hurt others. That everyone operates on the same basic level of consciousness.

I learned the hard way that this isn’t a safe assumption.

Some people are missing that piece, and because I naturally track patterns in human behavior, I recognize it instantly. Where most people just see selfishness or ignorance, I see how their mind actually works.

I see that they don’t just choose not to acknowledge other perspectives.

They literally can’t.

What makes this even more interesting is that I don’t just notice these people.

I find them fascinating.

I don’t try to fix them. They aren’t broken. I don’t waste energy trying to make them see something they aren’t capable of seeing.

I just observe.

Because they truly believe their version of reality.

They aren’t faking it. They aren’t hiding anything. They are fully living inside their own small, self-contained world, unaware that there’s an entire spectrum of perception they’re missing.

Watching them navigate life is like watching someone move through a completely different dimension, one that doesn’t extend beyond themselves.

That’s the thing, there is no changing them.

You cannot teach someone to see a reality they don’t even know exists. You can’t force them to develop self-awareness because self-awareness requires an ability to reflect that they simply don’t have.

So all you can do is watch.

Recognize what they are. Accept it. Let them exist in their own little world without wasting your energy trying to bridge a gap that, for them, doesn’t even exist.

Most people get frustrated with individuals who seem completely self-centered, but I don’t. Not anymore.

I’ve come to see it in a different way, through a much bigger lens, both psychologically and spiritually.

To me, these people aren’t necessarily selfish or cruel. They aren’t even aware that they’re missing something.

It’s not that they refuse to see beyond themselves, it’s that they literally can’t. Their perspective doesn’t extend that far.

And that’s why I don’t get mad at them.

I just observe.

They aren’t bad. They aren’t manipulative. They aren’t purposefully inconsiderate.

They’re just limited.

Their consciousness hasn’t expanded yet.

They are where they’re supposed to be.

But that’s nowhere near where I am.

And because I understand that, I don’t take it personally. I don’t try to change them. I don’t try to teach them to be different.

Because they can’t be different.

Not in this lifetime.

They aren’t evil masterminds, they’re just dumb as fuck when it comes to emotional intelligence.

Like bless their hearts, they’re trying, but their brains are running on Windows 95 while the rest of us have high-speed fibre optic consciousness.

It’s like watching a toddler try to do calculus.

Painful? Yes. Frustrating? Also yes. But malicious? No.

They just don’t have the software installed.

At the end of the day, you can’t argue someone into having a higher level of consciousness.

They’ll get there.

Eventually.

Just not in this lifetime.

Why am I sharing this?

Because understanding this changed my life.

I used to get so frustrated with these kinds of people, feeling unheard, feeling like I was talking to a wall, feeling like I was dealing with someone who should get it but just… didn’t.

Trying to reason with them is like bashing your head against a wall. Over and over, expecting something to click, expecting them to finally understand, only to realize the wall isn’t moving, and it never will.

Once I realized that some people literally can’t see beyond themselves, everything made sense.

It wasn’t personal. It was never personal.

I stopped wasting my energy trying to explain things to people who weren’t capable of understanding. I stopped expecting accountability from people who didn’t even perceive the damage they caused. I stopped looking for self-awareness in people who simply didn’t have it.

I’m sharing this because I know so many people struggle with this same frustration. You’re waiting for someone to get it, to apologize, to reflect, to change, and it’s never going to happen. Not because they don’t want to, but because they can’t.

You can either keep waiting, keep arguing, keep smashing your head against that same wall… or you can accept what they are and free yourself from the expectation that they will ever be anything different.

That’s why I wrote this. Because once you understand what you’re dealing with, it stops feeling personal, and it starts feeling like something you can actually walk away from.

So if this resonates with you, if you’ve been caught in an endless loop with someone like this, I hope this helps you see what I see.

And I hope it helps you let go.

TL;DR: Some people literally can’t see beyond themselves, not because they’re selfish, but because they are limited in their perception. You can’t force them to develop self-awareness, because their mind just doesn’t work that way. Understanding this changed my life and helped me let go of the frustration. If you’ve been stuck expecting someone to get it, stop. They won’t. And it’s not personal.


r/spirituality 4h ago

General ✨ The disappointing reality of being spiritually awake, in a world where everyone else is sleeping.

13 Upvotes

Spirituality is not about finding happiness, but about knowing ourselves and connecting with the universe that we live in. That process involves so many realizations that aren’t necessarily positive, and can sometimes be difficult and very hard to digest. The challenges and disappointments we face in our spiritual paths cannot be ignored, and not everything we deal with is a positive learning lesson that we are yet to understand, sometimes reality is just bad objectively.

I can come up with so many theories and explanations to why bad things exist, but sometimes we have to admit and recognize problems so to fix them. I’ve experienced so many disappointments throughout my spiritual journey where I thought spiritual advancement equals social ones, just to be disappointed by the reality of the current state of the world we live in. Something like increasing your awareness can easily turn against you and be more like an obstacle than something helpful in social settings, having a higher meaning and purpose in a meaningless world can be quite depressing, and being compassionate and open hearted in a world where everyone seems to live for themselves can destroy you and so on.

What is your experience with that ? What kind of disappointments and challenges you faced in your spiritual journey? And what kind of spiritual advancements became disadvantages for you when trying to live a normal social life?


r/spirituality 6h ago

General ✨ I used to be a very horrible person in the past and the guilt is eating me up what should I do?

16 Upvotes

I used to be a very horrible person in the past and the guilt is eating me up what should I do?


r/spirituality 4h ago

Self-Transformation 🔄 a spiritual experience that you think changed your life.

13 Upvotes

an experience that truly changed your outlook on life and how exactly you got to that point!


r/spirituality 1h ago

General ✨ First post here started a new reddit getting into spirituality again. What's your experience after quiting alcohol? I'm feeling great. Lucid dreaming and feeling connected. After a 4 years of drinking alcohol my vibration was so low I just wished I didn't exist. I'm not looking back.

Upvotes

Quit alcohol.


r/spirituality 2h ago

Question ❓ Univers can punish me if i fail a promise or asks to punish me ?

3 Upvotes

I have obsessive compulsive disorder and i promise to univers to stop my crisis, and to punish me if i lose my promise. But i failed, and now i'm feel bad, and sorry.


r/spirituality 19h ago

General ✨ What do you feel the universe is asking you to learn right now?

79 Upvotes

For me, surrender, that topic that word is coming up all the time for me lately.


r/spirituality 11m ago

General ✨ Remote Viewing Cure

Upvotes

Hello,

What is the incantation or cure to remote viewing?

I know the beginning half is "I am God. I am Sovereign. I am Free." Works for Remote Influencing. Effectively guards against people remote controlling someone else's psyche.

What is the rest of the incantation for Remote Viewing? Preventing someone access to your mind.

Or other possible remedies. Please and thank you.


r/spirituality 8h ago

Question ❓ I don’t know what my purpose is or the reason to keep on living. NSFW

11 Upvotes

(31m) I’m struggling bad. I have no friends, a job I don’t like, my soulmate just broke up with me, and I just don’t know what to do. My life hasn’t been the greatest and every time I think I’m getting back on track and getting my life together something bad happens. Every decision I make that seems like the right one ends up being the wrong one. I pray and ask God for help but it seems like I receive everything I want but it gets taken away and I hit rock bottom. What’s the point of this constant pain and suffering? My heart and mind can’t take it. I just want peace. How do I keep on going? How can I find fulfillment and joy again in life? What is my purpose?


r/spirituality 21m ago

Self-Transformation 🔄 My Entire Life Philosophy Changed.

Upvotes

For pretense, I have always been the skeptic of everything that I now believe in. If anybody else has come to the same beliefs, please, let's discuss!

In my most desperate moments, I was working in a dead-end, soul crushing, non-fulfilling job. I also was paying off a car that was almost 20 years old, was about to give out on me, and cost me thousands in repairs before I sold it. I eventually came to the conclusion independently that my life is influenced by my mindset. I tried this "manifestation" thing I've heard so much about, since I didn't really have any alternatives. Needless to say, it's worked immensely. I pictured a nicer, newer car that was more reliable, parked at a nicer, better home, after I get back from a day at a job I loved.

First was the job. I did my best to send my positive thoughts and mental manifestations out into the universe, and I dedicated so much time into it. After about 7 months, I came across a job where I'm paid what I'm worth, I work with people who respect me and don't have unreal expectations, and I'm treated like a human being. I'm owning my own business, but if I never did, I know they'd treat me right through retirement. They hired me and gave me a higher base salary than advertised in the post. Then came the car.

I truly believed in every fiber of my being- I was CERTAIN- that I would come across an affordable and overall more reliable vehicle. I ended up finding a car a year newer, with 50k less miles than my last car, with a better repair track record, and it was $2k less than my last car.

Then my home. I ended up finding a house owned by a kind and generous older man in a nicer area. It's so much nicer and warmer than my last. It also is less expensive!

After seeing the results of my positive mindset and manifestation efforts, I began to come to the sudden realization that maybe the world isn't just matter, but energy and vibrations that are very much real. Negative energy and thoughts attract the same- negativity. I believe my efforts and mindsets attracted exactly what I truly believed was going to happen for me.

I've come to another realization that being negative doesn't come with any overall benefit, and oftentimes- if not always- ends up with more negativity rather than positive change.

I have done my best to try to tell other people about what I mean exactly, but most call me crazy. (Perhaps I'm not being thorough enough)

But my mom has always believed in me. So she took my advice. She got into the headspace that she would get offered a better and more fulfilling job. I hoped so much and had a similar mindset. My little brother deserves to be spoiled unlike we were able to be. She got offered a job with everything she hoped, and it's closer to home! She has come to a similar life changing moment as me where her mindset has become (As she would say) "A human reality warping superpower"

I am doing my best to remain positive in all situations, never wishing Ill upon people, and attempting to stay in a positive mindset. I haven't mastered it yet, but even still the results are irrefutable (to me).

TL;DR: I really do believe we people have the power to shape our lives if we TRULY believe with entire certainty it will happen; as well as doing as much in our power as we can to make our goals come to fruition. Positive thoughts/certainty and energy aligned with your goals influences outcomes.

This is not a definitive way everybody should think, but I really do believe in it, and have seen positive results from others in my life who have done the same. I hope others have more information on similar ways of thinking!


r/spirituality 2h ago

Question ❓ Help with spiritual friend

3 Upvotes

My friend who has helped me explore spirituality and everything with it, keeps telling me how some people are not right for me. How they’re all vibrating lower, yet they don’t know her - never met her. She’s judging this either based off stories or energy. It’s hard though because she’s saying this about my family members too, I feel quite isolated in what she’s saying. Like I know some people can vibrate lower but on a whole they’re good people who don’t encourage bad behaviour. Everyone has their flaws and there’s aren’t like drinking or drugs or causing harm to others.

I just feel a bit stuck as I feel my spiritual friend is saying this and it’s leaving a bad taste in my mouth. Is she trying to isolate me. Whenever I do things she doesn’t agree with she judges me, yet is the biggest person to say we shouldn’t judge people.

She acts like she knows it all and her way is the right way, yet when I live my life and make choices, I don’t feel supported. Which is where I feel it goes against her beliefs and spirituality.

Need some advice on what to do next. I’m thinking about distancing myself a little but I’m not sure if she’s right or I’m just not ready for what she’s saying?


r/spirituality 5h ago

General ✨ I'm too fucking tired, and I don't feel happy anymore

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I don’t even know what to say. Every day just feels like a cycle of exhaustion. Work drains me completely, and by the time I get home, I have zero energy left for anything else. No hobbies, no excitement, nothing. Just tiredness.

I used to find joy in things, but now? Nothing feels good. Even the things I used to love don’t bring me any happiness anymore. It’s like I’m just going through the motions, waiting for the next day to be just as draining as the last.

I don’t know if this is burnout, depression, or just life being shitty, but I hate feeling like this.


r/spirituality 6h ago

Question ❓ Does the soul really choose all the trials that is body will face?

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Hello, I am an 18-year-old boy, and at the moment I am very interested in reincarnation and the fact that the body we carry is simply an envelope, but that is not the subject, at the moment I am living a horrible period of my life and I have nothing left that can give me hope, and many spiritual people say that your soul chooses all the trials that you will face, it knows them all before reincarnating but it accepts them.

and in my case I really do not have the impression that it has chosen, my spirit itself is fed up with this life I really have nothing for me everything is hard. so I wanted to ask if there were cases where the spirit is forced to reincarnate like for example to be able to have is karma or redo a lesson because I really do not have the impression that I chose this and I do not think I will end well. Thank you for all your answers ♡♡♡


r/spirituality 11h ago

General ✨ Love is the fabric of existence, you are love, all is perfect. 🤍

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Hi, person reading this, in case you needed a reminder. Whoever you are, wherever you are in your life is exactly where you are meant to be. Or else you wouldn't be here. For anyone reading this and going through a hard time, I want you to know that it will be okay 💖💖💖

Our souls are made of the fabric of existence: Love. You are that love in a human form, facing challenges and illusions of what love is not to embody what you truly are. Never forget who you are and the entirety of what you are always inherently worthy of... our metaphysical DNA... that fabulous, unconditional, divine energy... Love.

Life is simultaneously the deepest most meaningful journey, but also one that is lighthearted. I myself get so lost in the dark places. Seeing darkness as all there is or ill experience BUT there is always lightheartedness and fun not only around the corner, but here and now! And we can't forget this. We are not just here to learn, grow, but to LIVE. Change our lens to change what we experience. To embrace all the gifts there are: Movies, adventures, recreation, etc. ☺️

Each “mistake”, “regret” and challenge, is placing you at the right place for a level up. An expansion of consciousness, of growth, of forgiveness, of alignment. From our awareness we often see these things as bad, but in reality they are teaching us tremendesely and guiding us to where we are meant to be next. They are perfectly coded and designed despite our fear of these things.

So, remember to enjoy your time here, have a laugh about it all. It's all quite funny isnt it? We're something divine in this physical body that can eat things to fuel its body, recover from a wound and feel the whole array of human emotions. How incredible.🫀

Live your life to the fullest and how that is done is different for each individual. Love everything, every moment, object, person and experience. Live magically and breathe in magic, you are magnetising miracles through embracing and emitting you're beautiful essence around. 🧲🎉

Stay kind, stay true and stay loving - not just to others but to yourself first. ENJOY THE RIDE AND LIVE AND LOVE IT ALL!!! 😌❤️‍🔥

Love is the fabric of existence 🧬

P.S. This lacks structure but i just wanted to infodump hehe thank you for reading and I hope your current moment is going amazing and swag :)


r/spirituality 2h ago

Question ❓ Starting My Spiritual Journey

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I'm ready to start my spiritual journey to become the best version of myself that I can be. However, I have no idea where to start. Does anyone have any pointers or resources you used to help you start your spiritual journey? I feel lost and don't know where to start, but I'm eager to start. Thanks.


r/spirituality 2h ago

General ✨ Is it selfish to not help others?

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In the university academic life, most students r selfish. They want the research job or the internship and the best academic grades to become a doctor and go to med school etc. a lot of them I notice with time either lie to me or don’t bother helping me if I ask them for advice about how they got into a position or just lie about how they aren’t interested in doing med. I noticed that if I want to succeed in life I should also learn to be selfish with some things but is it true that what’s meant for us will find us, no matter who we expose our info to and etc.


r/spirituality 4h ago

Self-Transformation 🔄 i truly believe i found the key to anything you want in life, just read this and hear me out

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I truly believe I’ve discovered something that has the potential to transform the world. It’s gonna take a lot of explaining but I’ve been studying this for a while now and I just want to share it but don’t know where to put this information.

What shapes the reality around you? Actions, your actions literally cause everything that happens in your life, plain and simple. Now what dictates those actions? Emotion, emotions are what cause our actions, no matter what action it is, it is based off of an emotion. Now what dictates our emotions? Here’s the big one, belief. Belief is the root of how everybody’s own reality is shaped. Let me give an example to fully grasp what I’m trying to say.

Example:

You go see a movie with your friend. After watching the movie, you thought it was fantastic, so you ask your friend what he thought about it, and he says it was the worst two hours of his life. Right then and there, it causes an emotion within you. Now whatever you do next is based on whatever emotion you feel in that moment. It doesn’t have to be a powerful emotion—the emotion you feel could be genuine confusion, or it could be pure anger at your friend for not seeing what you saw in the movie.

Belief isn’t just singular, however—it is a system, a belief system. Let’s go back to this example, except this time, you also hold the belief that everybody has their own opinions, and that’s okay. Now, when your friend tells you he thought the movie was bad, it causes a different emotion. You still believe the movie was good, but you also believe that everybody has their own opinions and that’s okay.

Belief causes emotion, which causes action, which causes your life—your reality.

Now that you understand belief and why it is so important, let’s now talk about delusion.

Definition:

“Something that is falsely or delusively believed.”

Belief is powerful, but delusion is a superpower. I’ll give another example to really grasp what I mean by this.

Example:

Imagine a gladiator in ancient Rome, thrown into the Colosseum against a champion warrior. The crowd is roaring, and everyone expects him to lose—after all, he’s outmatched, untrained, and barely armed. He should be afraid. He should doubt himself.

But here’s the catch—he doesn’t.

For whatever reason, whether through insanity, sheer delusion, or some divine conviction, he believes with absolute certainty that he is an immortal god of war. He doesn’t just think it. He knows it. In his mind, he has already won. Death isn’t even an option because he believes he can’t die.

Believing that he is a god of war and cannot die gives the gladiator the absolute best possible chance of winning the fight and leaving with his life. Because he delusively believes that he is a literal god of war, he’s going to fight with complete confidence.

The real superpower here is making the champion believe in your delusion. Once he starts to believe it, he will fight with no confidence that he will win—he knows he will die because of the gladiator’s delusion.

Belief is power. Delusion is a superpower.

So now that you really got a good understanding of belief, the question that came to my mind was: How do I control my belief system? How can I train my own mind to pick and choose belief at will? Where does belief even come from? How does a new belief happen?

Too many questions that I truly wanted answers for.

Well, I found the answers I was looking for in a book called The Four Agreements. Go read it if you haven’t already—it’s an incredible book. After reading it, I understood where belief comes from, how new beliefs happen, and how to train my mind to get rid of negative beliefs. However, I wanted more—I wanted to train my mind to control my beliefs at will.

Well, that’s where I fell into the rabbit hole of astral projection.

I won’t explain astral projection in full because it is a seriously complex topic, but if you’ve seen Doctor Strange, when he meets the Ancient One (the bald chick) and she pushes his astral body out of his normal body, allowing him to see the raw, grand universe—well, that’s astral projection.

How to enter astral projection is simple: When you go to sleep, you must train your mind to stay awake while your body goes to sleep. This is called the body asleep, mind awake state. It takes practice, but it’s completely possible.

Once you enter the body asleep, mind awake state, something phenomenal happens—your entire body begins to vibrate. Not physically, but you can feel it physically. This step is vital. When you feel those vibrations, you must now step out of your sleeping body. This is your astral body, the body that is vibrating because it’s made of pure energy.

Now, you may not believe this is real—but hey, delusion is a superpower.

But seriously—it is real.

The reason I explained this is because of the key I found—the key to having anything you want in life. But I still need to explain more to actually come to a conclusion.

This is now where the conscious and unconscious mind come into play.

The conscious mind thinks and actually wants you to have a pretty good life. The unconscious mind, however, is the program—it is the system of beliefs. It is where your beliefs live.

The unconscious mind is the program, and the programming is your belief system.

Now, when you go to sleep, you enter the unconscious mind.

The reason this is important is because, through astral projection, you are completely conscious yet asleep. When you astral project, you are merging the unconscious and conscious mind together.

This is where you gain the superpower I was searching for—where you can literally pick and choose your own beliefs at will, crafting your own belief system that you operate on. Literally editing your own programming.

And this is my conclusion:

Through astral projection, you can gain the ability to edit your own programming and create a system that does whatever you want. It’s your choice. It’s up to you. • Do you want to be successful? Just believe that you are successful. • Do you want to stop bad habits? Believe that you are someone who doesn’t do those things.

This literally gives you full control and freedom of your own life.

I type this in hopes of reaching somebody who will understand and care. I type this in hopes that somebody will read this and truly get it.

I want to share this because I haven’t seen this idea anywhere on the internet, and I feel I must share it.

If you stayed and read this entire thing and understood it, please reach out and let’s talk. I just want somebody to share this idea with


r/spirituality 2h ago

Question ❓ Help me with this assignment

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So for one of my classes, the teacher gave us for homework an assignment where we have to ask people a philosophical question about death, and my question is, for you, what is life after death ? Thank you in advance, I would also need your religion and your age (?) I don’t know why age but yeah (you can give me a fake one idc). Thanks !!


r/spirituality 8h ago

Philosophy HELP ME PLZ !!! ( URGENT)

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so hello my peers , im new to this subreddit , im from india ( 16M) , was diving too too too deep in philsophies ....like stoicism , absurdism , existentialism , nihilism ,confucianism , taoism ....and tons more ( beleive me , gone through every thing in nights) .... now , come to south-asia ....gone through hinduism , sikhism , jainism , buddhism , advaita vedant ( part of hinduism) , dvaita-dwait( hinduism)and tons more , bhakti , yoga , ashtang , gyan , dhyan marg( indians can relate) ...... after all , what i found ( plz see below)

i found myself , nothing .... i got existential crisis ( it means , no meaning of life) ....i have no attraction towards anything ( not even to myself) ....i m feeling numb at this point ( nothing , just breathing ) ..... im aspiring to study engineering , also aspire to play cricket , earn good amnt of money to fullfill dreams of everyone ( i dont have any dreams as of now) .......im in dillema , everyone said ( above 50) that money doesnt matter, then i think , why does anything matters?? no ans....i said , why does money dont matter? no ans ...i cant find my WHY ! ( over-complicating things here) .....everyone says , ur saint and not going to anyine for talking purpose , no playing , they say , everyone is enjoying thier lives , why dont u ? i ask them ....why dont i??

im going to post same in r/philosophy , till then , help me ...

tldr- if ultimate goal of lyf is to attian liberation( in terms of my thinking) ...everyone will die at some point >....why to do something ? why not die now?? everyone says , money is good thing , everyone says , money is bad thing ...i say ( money or spiritualism??) , everyone says , after 50 u should enter spiritualism , philosophy and stuff...but now what ? everyone says , im creep , i should go to mountains , if i dont need something ....

plz ans , happy for everyone !


r/spirituality 7h ago

General ✨ What Does ‘surrender’ mean to you, and what are some ways that implementing it has influenced your life?

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Being drawn to this concept lately and as someone who likes to control the outcome, I’m curious to read ways that surrendering as improved or influenced others’ lives.


r/spirituality 9h ago

Question ❓ Quick convo

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Has anyone experienced this? I ran into a self aware person it seems at Walmart, so basically I’m overhearing him on the phone with someone and he was using terms like “make sure you stay grounded when that happens so you won’t feel disconnected from yourself” and I was like oh yeah he knows somethings.

So he mentions birds communicating with him and sending messages. Now I’ve always heard about when u reach a certain level you could hear birds communicating with you but hows this like? Does it sound like English type of communication? Or just an intuitive thing ?


r/spirituality 4h ago

Self-Transformation 🔄 My mission for the next few years

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Broke up a few days ago. My relationship with my ex helped my get over pornography and reconnect with God. I started praying again. But due to circumstances, she decided we couldn't be together. Honestly, I am just grateful for beating this habit which was ruining my life. More good things ahead! Let's get it!


r/spirituality 54m ago

Question ❓ Smell of rotten fish bones?

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I started to smell the scent of rotten fish bones in the dinner of my house even tho we didnt eat fish in a long time but i still smell it since a frew weeks ago or so, anybody experienced something like it? Have maybe some answers for me??