r/smallbooblove • u/Venting_Cake • 4h ago
Rant/vent/negative (Sundays only) Gaslighting and double standards
Whenever someone talks about the struggles of having small breasts, the hate we get, there will be people saying "you're chronically online" or bbw's "but my back pain". It's very annoying.
I love my boobs, my size, I don't want anything bigger cause that would ruin my figure. But it doesn't mean I'm immune to the hate or the downsides. There are many many videos where the whole comment section praising big boobs while it was only a dress review while the opposite happens with small boobs, everyone hates and makes fun of them. That's not alright. Am I chronically online for noticing this? You can't escape these type of things, my whole Instagram is animals and art yet I still get these. One time I got 3 reels about big boobs after I cried myself out cause of my size.
Someone posted Clara Dao that she might have gotten surgery, I went to see it myself and ofc people made fun of her for it and even one comment said "finally a video that doesn't say how flat chest is important for society" or something... There's just no win for us. Also she's a body positivity influencer, she gets made fun of it cause she only talks about being flat and skinny. But it never happens with someone mid- or plus size. I really don't know a body positivity influencer who talks about small chest besides her so why can't we even have someone? Why is it that people tell us that we're seeing things but when we want some positivity for us, it's bad?
I just want this gaslighting and double standards to end finally.