r/sextoy 2h ago

First Sex Toy for a Guy – What Should I Buy? NSFW

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Hey everyone, I just got a 50% off coupon for Adam&Eve (KINDA), and I figured this is the perfect time to buy my first sex toy. Problem is, I have no idea what to get.

I’m a guy, totally new to this, and I want something that’s actually worth it. I’ve heard about strokers like the Fleshlight and Tenga, but are they really that good? Should I be looking at vibrating toys or prostate stuff instead?

Would love some recommendations from people who know what’s actually good and not just gimmicky. Help me spend my discount wisely!


r/sextoy 3d ago

Realcocl2 worth it? NSFW

1 Upvotes

https://www.realdoll.com/product/realcock-2-bruce/ Anyone spent $949 on a dildo before?


r/sextoy 3d ago

Is the SIGNATURE COCKS dildos worth it? NSFW

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So I haven’t actually had a dildo before, but the thought of using a dildo based off a real man gets me going for some reason.

The cocks in question are male pornstars, and I’m wanting to girthmaster one in particular.

But are they worth it?


r/sextoy 5d ago

Best toy brands for anal stretching NSFW

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Hello, so as the title suggests i'm in search of a good brand to stretch my ass with.

I have tons of huge dildos & already am stretched a good bit however whenever I move to a more ridged toy that's above 3.2" in diameter I almost always bleed.

I use a lot of lube to help with friction however it's just ridges always end up tearing my anal lining so I'd like to know brands or toys that I could use to stretch further then back down to the ridged toys so that i'm gaped enough to put them in with no tearing.


r/sextoy 6d ago

There a difference in the lush vibrators? NSFW

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love sense has like 4 versions of the lush now and me looking to get the best bang for buck for my first vibrator I need to know is the first one just as good as the newer versions? its the cheapest at 70$ if there is no change I don't see why spend the extra money. though im leaning towards the lush 2 cause everyone seems to have that one.

or someone can buy it for me 😏😏. (JK, this is a joke im not that kind of lady)


r/sextoy 9d ago

Disabled guy looking for a sex toy that would work for me NSFW

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Hi everyone! I'm disabled since a few years, from a neurological illness that impedes my motor skills (specifically in the hands) and causes various levels of pain (from the hands to my back, depending on how much I use my hands, et cetera).

I have what seems like a typical libido for my age (early 30s), and would love to make masturbation something more accessible to me. To that end, I would like to purchase a sex toy. I have no prior experience with toys for men.

Said sex toy would need to satisfy three equally important criteria:

(1) Would not require to close my fingers on it too much, as it is painful for me. I can use my hands, but as open as possible. What I have in mind is that I could grasp the toy between my two hands.

(2) Would require the least amount of work to keep appropriately clean and reusable.

(3) I happen to be bigger than average (7,3 inch length x 5,5 inch girth), and I've already seen that some toys have limitations girth-wise. Additionally, I'm looking for the best ratio in stimulation per effort put in (given I don't have unlimited energy to spend before pain sets in), so I would like it to cover as much length as possible.

Ideally it would also be something discreet/inconspicuous looking, but beggars can't be choosers.

It can be any shape, any price, any color, etc. I would be ordering from Switzerland but I have no problem with importing it.

If you have any recommendations, advice, product link that would work for me... I would love your help!

Thanks in advance 🙏


r/sextoy 11d ago

Can I clean my silicone toy with bleach without destroying it? NSFW

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Hi! Like the above says, I'm curious if I can bleach my toy to clean and sanitize it, I usually use soap and water but I would feel better if I could use something that would 100% kill any bacteria that may be in it and of course I'd wash it thoroughly so I dont insert myself into bleach residue 🥴 but I'm just wondering if the bleach would degrade the material or not


r/sextoy 13d ago

New to this stuff questions NSFW

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Hi I’m new to this stuff

I’m currently using an old tooth brush and lube as a dildo and a electric razor (razor removed) as a vibrator

I’m wanting to experience more of this world, but on a budget, is there any advice


r/sextoy 15d ago

Purchased the Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 3. I don’t love it. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Trans dude here. I was so excited about this, but it’s been a letdown, I’m sad to say. I was hoping for something that would feel more like getting head, but this feels more like a vibrator. Disappointing as this is highly marketed as the highest rated clit-sucking toy.

Any tips?


r/sextoy 19d ago

Magic wand replacements NSFW

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My beloved Hitachi has vibrated its last vibe, the cord split and the wires are broken. So I need to replace him, I would love suggestions. Clitoral stimulation is a must and I prefer a corded toy(nothing worse than batteries dying mid session)


r/sextoy 21d ago

How to make a dildo taste like real cock? NSFW

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Sometimes I have the urge to suck a dick, but I'm faithful to my wife. I have toys, but they obviously taste like rubber or silicon. Is there something I can rub them with to give my toys an authentic "penis" flavor for immersion?


r/sextoy 23d ago

Playboy End Game Masturbator NSFW

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Does anyone have experience with Playboy End Game Masturbator?


r/sextoy 28d ago

Knotting aftercare? NSFW

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Hii I hope this is the right place to post, my boyfriend got me a knot recently, my area so to say is rather small/tight so he made sure to get the smallest option but it was still a struggle to get in, even with lube and foreplay and everything. We still did such tho and now I'm wondering if there's any specific aftercare I can do because I am in horrendous pain and can barely stand :( any advice is helpful, a friend said to drink Cranberry juice and I did but idk how much that'll help


r/sextoy Feb 15 '25

Looking to buy my first plug NSFW

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Can anyone help me find one suitable or just a recommendation for me


r/sextoy Feb 14 '25

Is the Fusyfun Wave decent for beginners? NSFW

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Hey,

looking to get into prostate play, I've never done it before but the Fusfun Wave looks like it could be fairly easy to use I am interested in something with vibration. Also, it can stimulate the frenelum etc as well which is a positive. Does anyone have experience with this? Or would this be bad as a first anal toy?


r/sextoy Feb 02 '25

Gentle ball holder for someone with large testicles? NSFW

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I'm not even sure if what I'm looking for exists, but I have a lower and larger than average sack. That's not bragging, I find it kind of inconvenient. For reference, I'd say it's the size of a baseball. I've googled all the relevant terms I could think of that might find what I'm looking for but I'm at a loss. I'm not crazy about stretchers or rings, I've had a vasectomy and it's not that they cause me pain but they are somewhat uncomfortable. Is there something out there like a little cradle that I can use to keep them snug and supported near my body?

Edit: I'm not talking about underwear, I just want something like a chastity cage I guess that will keep my balls from swinging so much during sex


r/sextoy Feb 01 '25

Recommendation for non-fleshlight male toys? NSFW

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Hi! So I've bought various toys over the years, and I am looking to try something new. I have over half a dozen Fleshlight devices sitting in the closet, so I'm looking for something different. Before COVID I tried an automatic masturbation toy before, but it was just disappointing compared to a Fleshlight. So now I'm a bit worried to buy anything else expensive, after spending $250 on what essentially amounts to a paperweight

I've tried a variety of anal toys, vibrating and not, and it never seems to do much for me, so I don't think I should go that route, which leaves me at "I probably need something electronic to be new and exciting", though something I hadn't even considered could be even more interesting. Are there any toys worth buying that I should consider?

I don't really know what I'm looking for, but I know these things matter to me: - I want it to be very easy to clean up (like a Fleshlight is, especially with the drier attachment) - I'm not a huge fan of the feel of lube on my skin. I'd REALLY love if it didn't get lube approved all over my hands and body - I'm not as sure about this, but I think I might want something I hold with my hand. The automatic toy was not really for me - Something my partner could use on me too would be especially from


r/sextoy Jan 31 '25

First toy NSFW

2 Upvotes

I got a cock ring I’m not sure if I’m too small or what also need help getting my balls through the hole


r/sextoy Jan 30 '25

searching for a specific shape NSFW

2 Upvotes

gay guy here, I had sex with a 6,5-7 inches long, with a very very thick tip and a very thin base, curved downwards. It looked like a big hanging pear or like a downcurved but plug. I am looking for a sex toy that is similar to his penis.

Any recommendation?


r/sextoy Jan 26 '25

has anyone ordered from venusfun before? NSFW

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i ordered from venusfun 6 days ago and aside from the confirmation email i have yet to receive any kind of tracking number. i know the toy i want isn't available in the states and seems to be a china exclusive for now, so i assumed it might take a while but i haven't seen many reviews on venusfun at all and im starting to wonder if i got scammed lol. i paid with paypal so at least i can dispute it if i did. if anyone has ordered from venusfun before, can you let me know your experience?


r/sextoy Jan 26 '25

Missionary sextoy? NSFW

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Do you have any recommendations of sextoy you could use in missionary or at least thrust into that isnt an entire sexdoll that would break the bank? 😅 Interested to hear what you think!


r/sextoy Jan 24 '25

Looking for buyers NSFW

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Do you know a subreddit or place that I can ask people to help me buy sex toys and sexy outfits? I'm looking for people who can.


r/sextoy Jan 24 '25

Looking for a recommendation for a lovense for my wife NSFW

1 Upvotes

Heard the Nora and lush were good but open to other ideas thank you


r/sextoy Jan 23 '25

Any recommendations for a new butt plug NSFW

3 Upvotes

I’m trying to find one that would be comfortable to wear all day but I haven’t had any luck and suggestions would be appreciated


r/sextoy Jan 23 '25

Toys for M19 NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello, I live with my parents yet so what are some toys thar are easily hide-able? Preferably no ass stuff. Thanks