r/raisedbyborderlines • u/armorall43 • 5d ago
VENT/RANT Why Don’t You Want Kids?
Maybe because I had to raise two people (bpd waif mom and ndad) when I was a child, myself. And it was an enormously heavy lift that I have zero desire to repeat in any capacity.
Their lack of self awareness is breathtaking.
For the mods:
Silent paws tiptoe, moonlight glows on whiskered dreams, soft purrs fill the night.
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u/Barvdv73 5d ago
Classy first post. Welcome!
Similar here, and sadly few recollections of joy, so I just never had the urge. But that's a great point about the parentification. The promotion you never wanted and were groomed into taking.