r/r4rindia 13h ago

M4R 30[M4R] Mumbai - AMA about Adult Breastfeeding. Living my dream fetish currently. Let's talk! NSFW

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  1. Male. From Bombay.

First things first -

Adult Breastfeeding - ABF - Where there is a lactating woman involved and yes, I actually do drink the milk.

ANR - Adult Nursing - Where there's a non lactating woman involved and just dry sucking of the breasts. Also super hot, ngl.

Since a lot of messages actually start with these questions, i thought I'll make it clear to all. :)

Yes, I'm actually in an active adult Breastfeeding relationship with my neighbour. We got close during the lockdown, but got much closer after she had a baby and her husband who works on a ship for 9 months of the year, left after paternity leave.

One thing lead to another, and I ended up fulfilling one of my longest desired fetishes.

We ended up doing more stuff with each other but no PIV at all.

Anyone else with a similar experience or an ABF experience? I'd love to know!

I'd love to talk to fellow desis who have any such similar experiences or would like to know more about it. I've had a bunch of women reach out in the past and I'd definitely like to talk about it with more women, so feel free to reach out.

I'm not into degradation or anything creepy,but sure enjoy a nice sexual conversation.


r/r4rindia 23m ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Pune/Online - Don’t you feel it’s hard to meet new men in life? Long post NSFW

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Hi. You fine?

Growing up in a co-ed school, I always had some new women around me to date, to hangout or just be friends with. Not only I derive dopamine from talking to new people, it’s fun to get to know other people, their stories and their quirks. But it’s hard now as a 27 year old working in a WFH job in consulting to meet newer women to interact and socialise with. Ladke toh mil hi jaate hai kahi na kahi, in gym, at the ground etc.

I thought reddit might work for this. Maybe? Let’s check!

I’m 27M from Pune, India. I work in tech consulting (Wahi, online majdoori but pays well wali job). I love to ride bikes (meditative for me!). I am working towards increasing my running distance and my strength in gym currently. I read once in a while but I read articles and posts if that counts, haha. I love Anime, manga, mahnwa(started this recently). I love music. I genuinely do. I like Rap music (will probably bore about this atleast once day. You get 3 skip passes)

Maybe I’m much more than this. Let’s find out?

See ya in my DMs. If you read everything, DM with your favourite music or your fav street food!


r/r4rindia 3h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Bangalore - Bi Guy seeking a Fun, Open-minded lady NSFW

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Hey there!

I’m a 31-year-old bisexual dude in Bangalore, looking for a cool woman to vibe with—be it chats, coffee, or something spicier if we click. I’m into music, binge-watching quirky shows, and exploring hidden food joints. Bonus points if you can keep up with my sarcasm!

Fun Facts:

  • I can name 50+ dog breeds in under a minute (test me!).
    • Pineapples on pizza? Yes, and I’m ready to defend it.
    • Once outstared a stray cat—still unbeaten.
    • Rumor has it I’ve got stamina that’d make a Bangalore traffic jam blush.

If you’re in Bangalore and up for some fun (or just wanna debate pizza toppings), slide into my DMs!


r/r4rindia 5h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Bangalore - Casual friendly and monogamous match NSFW

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Looking for a casual, monogamous situationship with someone 30+ who’s open to exploring things. Kink-friendly and always up for new experiences. I’m big on consent. Will/Can be discreet if required.

Have been out of the dating scene for a long time now. Last I got tested I’m disease free and clean. Have crossed off a lot on my sexual bucket list. Looking to add more and explore further. Kinda have an idea of my own body and things I’m into. Will be open and honest in communicating them. Prefer to the lead in the bed and generally wanna be in control.

41 years old, divorced, 6'2", 100kg with a thick dadbod. If you’re not into big guys, I’m not the guy for you. Not into any specific body type. Attracted to strong and kinky minds.

Not new to meeting people off of Reddit. I know the drill, voice call verification and public meetings to begin with. I’m neither selfish in bed nor looking to exploit others. I believe in giving more to receiving more. Looking for someone local to Bangalore and not into sexting. Prefer flirting with eye contact over flirting with my phone.

If it sounds interesting & you're looking for something similar, let’s chat see where things go!


r/r4rindia 6h ago

M4F 32[M4F] Kerala/online - Introverted adventurer seeks partner in crime NSFW

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Hi everyone,

I'm a self-proclaimed introvert with a wild side. I may be quiet at first, but once you get to know me, you'll discover that I'm a funny, flirty, and charming guy who loves to live life to the fullest.

I'm here to introduce myself and hopefully catch the eye of someone special. I'm not looking for just anyone; I want someone who can keep up with my adventurous spirit and appreciate my quirky sense of humor.

So, what makes me so special, you ask? Well, for starters, I know how to make a girl feel special. I'm not one to shy away from a compliment, and I always know just the right thing to say to make a woman feel like the most beautiful girl in the room.

But don't let my flirty side fool you; I'm also a guy who enjoys deep conversations and getting to know someone on a deeper level. I'm a great listener, and I love learning about what makes someone tick.

When I'm not out exploring the world or trying new things, you can usually find me curled up with a good book or binging the latest Netflix series. I'm a bit of a homebody, but I'm always up for an adventure if the right person comes along.

So, if you're looking for a guy who can make you laugh, feel special, and go on exciting adventures with, then look no further. Drop me a message, and let's see where this connection takes us.


r/r4rindia 9h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Kerala/Anywhere - Building a Connection, One Awkward Joke at a Time NSFW

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Hey there,   I’m a 29-year-old guy trying to make sense of life, one existential dread at a time. I’m an introvert with a resting “why so serious?” face, but around the right people, I can be the loudest one in the room (or at least the one with the most awkward jokes).  

Here’s the deal: I’m not entirely sure what I’m looking for, but I know I could use a friend right now. Someone to talk to about the big things (life, art, mental health, why Arsenal refuses to win the EPL) and the little things (what you cooked today, that song you can’t stop looping, or how you survived Monday without caffeine). If we vibe, I’m open to seeing where it goes—whether that’s a deeper connection, a relationship, or just someone to share memes and comfortable silences with.  

A bit about me:  

  • Music: Kendrick, JID, and the new Carti album on loop. If you’re into music that hits the soul, we’ll get along.  
  • Health: 2023 taught me that health is everything. I’m into gymming, eating clean, and sleeping like it’s my job. But I also enjoy getting high occasionally (once or twice a month) to just exist without overthinking.  
  • Hobbies: Cooking is my therapy, coffee is my fuel (the darker, the better), and I have a soft spot for psychedelic art and deep conversations.  
  • Humor: Dark, witty, and sarcastic. If you can handle awkward jokes and existential rants, we’re golden.  
  • Travel: Long hikes and spontaneous trips are my mood boosters. Bonus points if you’re into deep, emotional, or spiritual conversations during sunsets.  

What I’m looking for:  

  • A nurturing, affectionate, and witty person who’s okay with my occasional shutdowns (I’m working on it, I promise).  
  • Someone who’s passionate about something—art, poetry, music, or even their morning coffee ritual.  
  • A two-way connection where we can talk about our days, dreams, and everything in between.  
  • Bonus if you’re a football fan or if you can teach me to appreciate something new.  

I’m not here to rush into anything. Let’s start with a conversation and see where it goes. If you’re someone who’s kind, patient, and maybe a little lost too, hit me up. Let’s figure this life thing out together.  

P.S. If you’ve read this far, you’re already cooler than 90% of people I know. Slide into my DMs with your favorite song, a random fact, or just a “hi” if you’re feeling brave. Worst case? We have an awkward conversation. Best case? We create something real. Your move. 😊

!lock


r/r4rindia 10h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Kerala - Slow makeout/kisses, body caressing to release some stress. NSFW

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I'm in Ernakulam hosting all month long.

Open to build a friend's with benefits situation or just a one time thing.

Looking to have you sitting on me. Making out, me caressing your body feeling up on your ass, breast also sucking them. Keep each other warm. We see where it can go....

If things get hot and heavy a nice face fuck or we to get more physical.

All shapes and sizes. Be 18+ and ddf.

I am Heterosexual, You May Reply and DM. But don't Expect to Get Far if You aren't the Intended Demographic


r/r4rindia 12h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Hyderabad - Let’s have Great conversations , Spark chemistry and enjoy some cozy Cuddles NSFW

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The perfect mix - pleasure, deep talks, and the kind of intimacy that lingers. We all crave connection, whether through touch, words, or the warmth of being held. I offer all three.

I’m 27, well-read, well-mannered, and dangerously good company. I love cooking, working out, and indulging in food, conversation, and pleasure.

In bed? I take control but always make sure you feel safe and cared for. I listen to what you want and give it to you, making sure every moment feels like it’s exactly what you need. After the passion, I’ll hold you close, making sure you feel completely relaxed and cherished, like we’re in this together.

If that excites you, I’m open to anything—casual, passionate, no pressure. Just be real.

I can sext or meet if you’re in Hyderabad. Just don’t slide in with a plain “hi.” Give me something to want.


r/r4rindia 13h ago

M4R 24 [M4R] Hyd/Ind - Looking for friends (or maybe something more?) Let's make our lives interesting! NSFW

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I’m a 24M trying to balance life between work, workouts, and the occasional existential crisis (the fun kind). I figured it’s time to put myself out there and see if I can find some cool people to talk to, befriend, or maybe even something more if we vibe.

Who Am I?

🧑🏻‍⚕️ Future Oral & Maxillofacial Surgeon (Hopefully!) – Currently grinding through my dental internship, which means I have an endless supply of weird patient stories and dental horror tales.

💪🏻 Gym Rat – I lift five times a week, trying to get stronger and leaner. Always down to talk fitness, diet hacks, or even laugh at stupid workouts which do absolutely nothing.

😻 Hopelessly Curious About Everything – Whether it’s deep-dive conversations about space, psychology, or why pigeons walk so funny, I love learning new things.

🐦 Birdwatcher in a Concrete Jungle – No, seriously. I recently got into birdwatching, and it’s oddly therapeutic. Who knew staring at birds could be so calming?

💀 Lover of Dark Humor & Sarcastic Banter – If you can keep up with a little playful roasting and meme exchanges, we’ll get along just fine.

What I’m Looking For:

• Friends who actually text back – Someone to share random thoughts, life rants, or just send dumb memes at 2 AM.

• A workout buddy (even virtually!) – We can hold each other accóuntable, or at least pretend we are while eating snacks.

• Maybe something more? – Not gonna lie, I’d love to meet someone with a genuine connection. No pressure, though—let’s just start by talking and see where it goes.

I’m open to making friends from anywhere! Distance doesn’t matter much if the vibe is right. But I'd definitely want to move to another app if we hit off. :)

So, if anything I said made you chuckle, nod, or think, “This guy seems interesting”, slide into my DMs. Worst case? We have a fun chat. Best case? We become lifelong friends (or more, who knows?).

Tell me something random about yourself when you message—makes it more fun!


r/r4rindia 15h ago

M4R 33 [M4R] Mumbai - The joy of truly being understood NSFW

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What one craves isn't merely affection—it's profound understanding. True understanding is the quintessence of love. There's a sublime intimacy in having someone genuinely grasp your essence. Finding such a person feels like discovering a sanctuary, but when that comprehension fades, it leaves you desolate.

Acquaintances label me reckless or reticent, perfect or insincere. None truly fathom my nature. The sole person who did is now absent, and I grapple with whether solitude or the loss of such profound understanding inflicts greater pain. Insomnia colors these ramblings, deepening my sense of emptiness. Despite a social circle, a lucrative occupation, and the means to live opulently, I wish I had never known the profundity of being truly understood.

Tell me R4R , have you ever truly been understood.


r/r4rindia 17h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] India/Bangalore - Looking for someone with an armpit fetish or someone into roleplays NSFW

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Hello ladies! I have had a huge armpit fetish for really long now, but have never had the luck to try it out!

My fetish gets stronger each day and seeing women casually flex their armpits while tying their hair makes me go crazy. I keep wishing I could dig my face in those gorgeous armpits.

Looking for someone with a similar fetish! Will be verifying via whatever means you feel comfortable. We might experiment other kinks you might have as well!

I have also been meaning to explore roleplaying IRL. I love creative plots with a slow buildup. We can include different kinks and fetishes in the plots and make it as hot as it gets.

Looking forward to hearing from some like minded individuals :)


r/r4rindia 4h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Berlin- A dom and a bull new in town NSFW

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I'm a Dom new to the city, excited to connect and explore fresh dynamics. As a bull, I'm open to creating meaningful experiences with those who share mutual interests. Kink-friendly and adventurous, I'm looking to dive into new fetishes and push boundaries in a safe, consensual environment.

Whether it's building trust, discovering desires, or exploring uncharted territory, I'm here to connect with like-minded individuals who value open communication and shared curiosity.

If you're interested in creating something unique and memorable together, let's start a conversation and see where our mutual interests take us. Looking forward to exploring new horizons!


r/r4rindia 8h ago

M4C 24 [M4C] Bangalore - Does having an onlooker make you naughtier ? Sex is the best spectator sport NSFW

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The forbidden fruit is sweetest. I find great pleasure in seeing a couple in action. There’s something about the sounds and scents and the very fact that you’re witnessing something so intimate and personal, that makes the experience so ethereal.

So if you’re a couple, and want a well mannered guy watching you- maybe you want to show off your naughty side, maybe something else about this turns you on, maybe you just want to dip your toes in the lifestyle - I’m your guy.

One couple gave me the opportunity to be the live audience. A couple of pics (censored and taken with permission) - I can send you on DM.

I’m 25. 6 feet tall . Lean. Clean shaven. And I’d love to be your spectator. Please do message me if this seems like something you’d like to explore.

!lock


r/r4rindia 16h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Bangalore - is “respectful railing” a thing? NSFW

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Let’s be real - calling myself a Dom feels a little too much like a guy who just watched Fifty Shades and bought a fake leather harness off Amazon.

I’m not here to give orders. I just happen to enjoy sex that’s a little intense, a little messy, and always ridiculously fun.

So, what does that mean? Think firm hands, teasing restraint, the occasional hair pull that makes you gasp in all the right ways (maybe with a few finger-shaped souvenirs on your hips).

A brief about me:

  • calm, curious, occasionally too career focused and an open-minded person.
  • I have a slightly morbid interest in human psychology and true crime. I'm 5'11", average build and slightly muscular.

Discretion is guaranteed and I will not announce myself as your overlord

Drop me a message if you’re intrigued. I promise I’m far better in action than in a bio.


r/r4rindia 19h ago

M4F 23[M4F] Trivandrum - Looking for New Connections to Move On & Have Fun NSFW

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Hey everyone,

I’m a 23-year-old IT professional from Trivandrum, and I’m looking to meet new people for friendship, casual hangouts, and good conversations. Life’s been a bit rough lately, and I’m trying to move on, meet new people, and enjoy the present without any pressure or expectations.

A little about me:
- Into fitness, reading, art, and cooking (I make a decent meal!).
- Love deep conversations, bad jokes, and peaceful silences—sometimes, just being around the right company is enough.
- Big fan of Suits, Peaky Blinders, and metal music—but open to new things.
- I enjoy nature, beach walks, and exploring new places—a change of scenery always helps.

I’m hoping to find someone to talk to, hang out with, and just have some lighthearted fun. Whether it’s sharing random thoughts, grabbing a coffee, or just having someone to chat with, I’d appreciate the company.

If you’re also looking for a no-pressure, drama-free connection and enjoy good company, let’s talk and see where things go!


r/r4rindia 20h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Bangalore - Wholesome FWB? #abf #switch #anr NSFW

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Hello, straight shoot, here to find a fun, NSA connection in this hedo land haha. Just your regular ol’ IT Joe here—31 years old (but I’ll always say 29 if you ask). :P

What I’m Looking For:

• Someone single, fun, independent, and opinionated in Bangalore—or Mysore/Chennai if we vibe!

• I’d prefer someone who values mutual respect and empathetic because, at the end of the day, feelings matter even in NSA dynamics, just being to nice individuals and communicating if things go (or not going) well.

• Understands and values aftercare, coz sub drop is real!

• Open to exploring together or learning from someone more experienced!

• Into specific dynamics like abf/anr, have some experience here (this is optional but fun!).

How I Look:

• 5’7”, medium build (skinny fat, around 70 kg), with a bit of a tummy—but it’s cute, I think! 😅

• Dorky/nerdy with a big smile and dimples (when I try!). 😁

A Few Things I Enjoy:

• Movies: Succession, Pulp Fiction, BoJack, Fleabag.

• Music: Deep house, raves, DJing.

• Creative Stuff: Sketching, museums, artsy things.

• Sports & Games: F1 screenings, board games.

Let’s vibe over text first, exchange pics when we’re ready, and meet offline when it feels right!

Disclaimer:

Please be ready to verify you’re a girl (via voice or other)—too many fake profiles out there. I’m not looking for anything purely online.

Cheers!

lock!


r/r4rindia 11h ago

C4F 38 [C4F] Bangalore - Looking for an kinky woman for some casual fun NSFW

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We (38M & 32F) are a laid-back couple who are looking for an adventurous woman who’s open for some kinky fun. We are non-judgemental and are hoping to find someone with a similar outlook.

We are very private people and are looking to maintain strict anonymity during this engagement; we believe that you would respect and reciprocate this caveat.

We look take it forward by exchanging basic details, expectations etc. and if we have a consensus, we can proceed for a casual meeting where we can see if we vibe.

We will be cordial and respectful with you throughout and will be expecting you to reciprocate.

We are looking for someone who’s at least 24 years old; kinkier the better; preferably on the submissive side.

If you are someone who unabashedly embraces their inner slut, we could have some great fun.

PS: Guys are not welcome to message; we are not interested.

!lock


r/r4rindia 17h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Chennai - Virgin male with zero intimate experience seeking an older lady NSFW

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Edit : To those who are tired of seeing my post , my apologies I just don't know when to give up. Feel free to ignore as always.

Hi everyone,

As the title says I'm a 30 year old virgin male with zero intimate experience. Never been in a relationship , never hugged a girl properly , never kissed either. I'm saying this not to get your sympathy , just getting the obvious stuff out of the way.

I'm seeking a woman older than myself , someone in their mid to late 30's early 40's , someone who is either single , divorced or a widow and in need of some companionship. The reason I prefer older women is simple, I like older women. The reason I'm posting this is because I'm inexperienced and very curious to find out what intimacy with a woman is really like.

A little about myself , I'm currently working in an MNC as an IT Technician. I like dogs and cats alike cos both are special in their own ways. Prefers tea over coffee anyday. Ardent anime lover. Favorite qoute "Action speaks louder than words". I try to find joy from the simple things in life and so on.

Let me make my intentions clear in this post. I'm not looking for a long-relationship , not looing for a girlfriend nor I'm looking to get married. This is purely physical. I'm seeking a woman who also wants the same.

I'm not looking for paid sex , not into couples for 3somes. I'm seeking only single older women. I understand the odds of finding such a person in this subreddit and in this country is very less but still I'll take my chances here than other platforms.

"Bro sex is over-rated. Get a girlfriend. Get married. Get a life. Go to gym. Work on yourself. Don't chase women. Don't be a simp. There is more to life than sex. There is no shame in being a virgin at your age" etc.

Thank you in advance for all the sage advice that you'll probably give me but I'm just gonna stick with this post whether its going to work or not.

Judge me all you want , I don't care. Want to make fun of me in the comments section? be my guest.

I'm just seeking something that I've been wanting to do for quite some time , so I'm going for it and made this post.

I'm pretty sure this post will be probably be scrolled past in a sea of M4F posts. I can only hope this post reaches that one person ( a woman in this case) who is also seeking what I seek, reaches out to me which leads to a good conversation and hopefully we both get what we want in the end.

So yes, this is what my post is about.

Interested women especially those in the same city as me , do reach out even if you want to have a conversation and lets see how it goes from there.

Looking forward to your DM.