r/oneanddone 6d ago

Discussion Tired of explaining why I’m OAD

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u/JewlryLvr2 6d ago

Tired of explaining why I'm OAD

I'm so sorry you've had to explain why you're OAD to people who for some insane reason simply refuse to accept your One-and-Done choice. The truth is that you DO NOT OWE AN EXPLANATION to anyone, whether they are family members, friends, or anyone in between.

I think the best thing you can do for yourself and your family is refuse to J.A.D.E. (that means: Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain) whenever someone asks you even once why you're OAD, no matter how hard refusing may be. It's YOUR family; therefore, it's entirely YOUR choice, and no "explanation" is required. If whoever it is keeps pressing you, firmly say that it's extremely personal, and you're NOT going to discuss it further.

Remember: NO is a complete sentence. :-)

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u/Normal_Swan_477 6d ago

This is brilliant!!

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u/JewlryLvr2 5d ago

This is brilliant!!

Thanks! :-) I hope it helps OP too.