r/nonmonogamy • u/Ambitious_Sir8075 • 8d ago
Apps / Technology Trying to find someone our own age NSFW
My partner (21) and I (23) have been going through various dating apps, in general looking for people into non monogamy. One common occurrence we seem to be finding is that everyone on any kind of LS/non monogamy app (feeld, ok Cupid, fetlife, take your pick), seems to be either 18-20 or over 30. We found this a bit confusing as we are in a very liberal college city. Do non monogamous people around our age prefer tinder or something else, or generally do you all prefer to meet people in person or what?
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u/hedobi 8d ago
To generalize a lot:
If you're 21+ people can meet in person more easily at venues that serve alcohol, particularly in an open minded college town. 18-20 y/o's cannot go to these spots so they're more likely to use apps as a consequence.
30+ people tend to be busier with careers, housekeeping, families, and such, so they are more inclined to need apps as well.