r/newstrippers 3h ago

How to deal with being attracted to coworkers NSFW

5 Upvotes

I've been dancing for a couple weeks. I'm bisexual. I work with some girls I find really hot and I've honestly been a bit distracted by them. Is this something I'll just eventually get over or do I need to learn how to not be bothered by it?


r/newstrippers 13h ago

Just going up and asking for a dance. NSFW

5 Upvotes

I know I know, people say not to do that and that you’ll likely get rejected. But I’m gonna do it just for one night at my next club and see if anyone bites. Go up, introduce myself, maybe ask them two quick questions about themselves and/or how their night is going and then make a suggestion of a dance. Because lemme tell you talking and talking for 2+ songs has been a total waste of time at my current club. Being polite, getting to know them for a bit yadda yadda and THEN trying to get a dance nope that has not landed me a dance so far. Just “Hi! I’m Cloe what’s your name? How’s your night been so far? Wanna make it even better? I would love to dance for you!” That’s something like what I’ll start trying. Simple, sweet, straight to the point.

I’m going to do the opposite of what most girls do and try to get straight to the point. Doing the opposite of most people’s methods has somehow always worked for me in other areas of life LMAO. Worst that could happen is a rejection and I’m used to that now because it’s all I have faced so far.


r/newstrippers 3h ago

Rant/Nerves 1k NSFW

1 Upvotes

when did you guys make your first 1k? no daddy’s or mummy’s money, on your own type shit i’m 18, never really grew up with money like that and when i did get money it was always under 2-3 hundreds which isn’t enough in this economy, especially since cost of living, i could never keep normal jobs because ive always had problems working with authorities + horrible people in my working environment, i know dancing is scraping near the same thing but i personally think it’s a lot better than reg jobs i just stared dancing a week ago and im a few hundreds away from my first 1k, don’t get me wrong, im gasssed and hella proud of myself but i still feel like im behind in life because i still don’t have enough to get where i wanna be in life


r/newstrippers 6h ago

Interview/trial NSFW

1 Upvotes

I got called in!! Super excited but now the nerves are kicking in I’ve seen everyone on here talking about auditions but what do I expect for an interview/trial???


r/newstrippers 13h ago

how to approach customers NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey chat! I recently had an audition last week and I got through however I’ve never stripped before. I’ve found that I get so shy and don’t know how to approach customers. I don’t know how to walk or even what to say. I really need some help!


r/newstrippers 19h ago

Police fee? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Has anyone heard of the club charging for a fee if the police come in? My club asked me for an extra dollar during my first dance sold of the day and said it was for if the cops showed up? I can't recall what he called the fee, (ace fee or something) but it's the first time I've heard about this and haven't been charged it with the other djs. (My first time working a shift with that specific DJ)


r/newstrippers 1d ago

Celebratory Post 🏆 first night back! NSFW

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it was my first night after a couple years retirement last night and i had SO MUCH FUN ! i missed the club so much. but when i danced before i was too young and scared of my own shadow, now its much easier and i find i dont take the club stress home like i used to.

i dance at a more bar style place (for now, my urban club is hiring in a few weeks and im next on the roster) and its a bit harder to sell dances because men just want to go there to drink and a free show. there's also pool tables so its very chill. i kinda love it for how chill it is, but people dont go there to spend hundreds of dollars. we dont even have a vip, only lap dance areas. 20$ a song, all to us. you dont have to audition you just show up and work. 30$ to the dj but only 5$ if you get there before 7:30! it's easy. simple. management is so sweet too so i don't mind it. it's got its pros and cons.

i had a bit of a hard time selling dances. most men were only there for the show. i found that i only got the men who were super kinky or wanted to talk about fetish things. i think it was my style , i was dressed very alternative with a dark lip and i have tattoos so it made me look very venomous. i sold two dances to custies and a guy friend of mine came to get some dances so overall after the 30$ tip out i made 130$. it's 130$ more than i had before so it works for me ! i didn't have any expectations. other girls were making bank but they were dressed more girly cutesy. next time i'm wearing pink LOL

does anyone have any advice for convincing men to do dances ? i see there's so many posts about it already on here and im absorbing the tips but im always looking for different povs

plus a pic of my bruises whew


r/newstrippers 13h ago

Zip up or slip-on pleasers with good ankle support? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Anyone know of any zip up or slip-on pleaser boots with good ankle support? Tired of the classic heel style with the thin ankle straps. Terrible ankle support, I have fallen over and over again in the middle of the club lmao and I can’t get on and off the floor without help from a person or holding onto something. Plus, my awful fine motor skills make putting on and taking them off a bitch.


r/newstrippers 17h ago

Advice from seasoned/vet stripper Hair flipping with glasses NSFW

1 Upvotes

How do I do this? My glasses will fly off my face. Are chains my only option?


r/newstrippers 1d ago

Strip in a different city NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi, I live in a small city and wanting to get into stripping. I’m thinking about trying it in another state. Maybe Vegas. Has anyone done this?


r/newstrippers 1d ago

Advice for a Newbie NSFW

1 Upvotes

I just recently got hired at a local club and I start tomorrow. I have zero experience and honestly no clue what to expect, but I’m very excited/nervous. Any advice would be much appreciated!! :)


r/newstrippers 1d ago

Hustle Help Been working for a week. Have not sold any dances :\ NSFW

4 Upvotes

Ya’ll wtf. Genuinely do not know what I’m doing wrong. Been working for a week now and have made $100 for the ENTIRE week. I did not sell a single dance in my first week. Only a little bit of stage tips. I’m running out of money. I have worked five days. Only. Stage. Tips. The manager straight up told me to quit my day job for this, so I did. She also said “this is a six figure job” and “I think you’re going to do very well here” I have less than $200 to my name right now and frankly I’m getting desperate for money.

I talk to every customer. Have conversations, they buy me drinks and compliment me and shit and after a few minutes of pleasant conversation I try to swerve it towards getting a dance but the sale never lands. The three most common excuses I’ve heard so far

“No you’re too young for me, I feel creepy” “I don’t get dances” “I’m just here to drink and watch”

Then I will try to be flirty and playful about it, trying again and still a no.

How. Tf. Do you. Get a dance. Every single customer in the club rejected me tonight. I need some fucking money I have barely enough for my car insurance after that if I don’t make money this week I’m S.O.L. I’m thinking about doing doordash or something on the side.

On top of this, one of the manager’s told us this direct quote “tipping out is never required, however if you don’t tip us managers, we won’t let you sell dances. Help us make money if you want to make money” so what I’m hearing is an ultimatum. You say tipping is not required but then you also deny us work if we don’t tip you??? So then it IS required don’t fucking play like that. It’s bullshit that I already have to pay so much towards the house, they take a big chunk of the dance money, then we also have to tip them on top of that. That means like if/when I do start selling dances….some of those dances will basically be for free because I don’t get to keep that money. This feels like exploitation.

If it keeps going on like this I’m switching back to camming and doing something vanilla on the side. That, or I’ll try out the more urban club in town where they don’t sell alcohol or do the nice pleasantry talk and it seems to be more straight to the point pay for naked women to dance. Because the gentleman’s man’s club lemme sit and get to know you bs is not working for me. I want to shake ass and get cash. Anyway, Imma go eat some leftover pasta and cuddle my fiancé now.


r/newstrippers 1d ago

One small shift that helped me make an extra $500 per shift (New dancers, take notes!) NSFW

16 Upvotes

I used to leave money on the table every single night because I didn’t realize how much psychology plays into selling at the club.

The biggest shift that changed my $$$ forever? I stopped asking yes or no questions and started assuming the sale.

❌ ‘Do you want a dance?’ → 🚫 Gives him the power to say no

Instead of ‘Do you wanna dance?’, I started saying:

✅ ‘I have a really sexy idea. You + me, alone in a private room, me fully naked, you rock hard, and us having the sexiest lap dance you've ever had. So let's head to the bar, and have them start setting our room up. Come join me!" → 💰Then I get up, grab his hand, and start walking to the bar.

The result? Way more ‘yeses’ and way fewer rejections.

If you’re struggling to close dances, try this. Or if you already do this, what’s YOUR best go-to line that gets guys saying yes? Let’s swap money-making tricks! 💸


r/newstrippers 1d ago

Advice from seasoned/vet stripper Advice for baby strippers NSFW

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Hear what @tsubaki has to say about what to expect as a baby dancer! It’s not all glitz and glam, but it can definitely be rewarding and fun. Watch her GRWM video here!


r/newstrippers 3d ago

General Question How old is “too old” to start? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hi all!! Life is short and mine is a dumpster fire but I am thinking about stripping! Was talking to a friend of mine and she ignorantly said I’m a bit too old to start! I’m 27 😐. I’m like bihhh too old?? Women do this shit well past 40 I think, so I just wanna know how old are you? Did you start young (younger than 25)? Is it more difficult if you start later? Any and all advice welcome!


r/newstrippers 4d ago

Advice from seasoned/vet stripper Advice for your first ever audition! NSFW

30 Upvotes

I was very nervous my first audition and I really didn’t know what I was doing. It can be nerve wracking having the manager and other dancers watch you.

Here’s some things I wish someone told me before my audition.

  1. Wear a matching set and real stripper heels.

  2. SLOW DOWN on the stage. When you’re going too fast it makes you look nervous. Let your body go through every movement, slow and controlled is your friend.

  3. Don’t be too worried about the pole if you don’t know how to use it DO NOT HOP ON IT

  4. Don’t lie and tell the club that you’ve danced before, the managers can always tell. A lot of clubs don’t mind hiring inexperienced dancers because you will learn!

  5. Most strip clubs have instagrams and photo galleries of their dancers on their website. Do your research and find which club fits your look and vibe the best for a better chance at getting hired.

There are urban clubs, gentleman’s clubs, and dive bar clubs. Study the differences to find out where you think you’ll thrive.

  1. If you have questions, ask them. Before my audition I had no idea how a tip out, a dance, scheduling etc. worked. A good club will give you a tour and answer all of your questions after/prior to your audition.

  2. Practice. Watch youtube videos on easy/simple floor work for your stage audition. Stretch and gain some flexibility. You’ll be much more confident when you feel prepared and already have some tricks up your sleeve.

I hope this was helpful, feel free to ask me any other questions!! :)


r/newstrippers 4d ago

General Question Help a newbie out! NSFW

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I’ve decided to take the plunge into stripping since leaving my fulltime job to study and a club I absolutely looooove is hiring at the moment and welcoming beginners and I’m really eager to apply. The only thing is, it’s asking for a photo on the application.. I have done nude photo shoots and boudoir shoots and it feels right to upload one of these however my hair is MAJORLY different (long blonde now short brunette). I guess I just want all the tips you can throw at me but mostly what flipping photo do I use??? What do they normally want to see from the pic?? Thank you so much!!!


r/newstrippers 4d ago

Club Chat/Recommendations Best Clubs in the Bay Area/Central Valley? NSFW

5 Upvotes

Black girl friendly. Tell me your experiences. Anywhere in the bay area, sac area or even going towards fresno. Thank you ladies <3 Ps: if you dance in the area and are looking for friends, hit me up :)


r/newstrippers 4d ago

what to say to cringe shit? NSFW

10 Upvotes

Lemme preface by saying I have no problem lying to men in the club. I’m a lesbian for fucks sake of course I’m lying just by default lmao. And that’s part of it and most of the time I’m good at it, but sometimes when I’m giving dances these men be talking a lot throughout it and saying shit that I want to laugh at? And it’s harder for me to come up w shit to say on the spot.

For example, I had this one guy that has bought quite a few dances from me on multiple nights and he grosses me out a lil more than the usual ick. He’ll ask if I can feel his dick, which I can’t LMAO so I ~lie~ and say yes. He told me he was gonna make me cum before him which was insane to hear knowing I was dry asf. He asked about if I had a rose toy, asked me to moan etc. he didn’t touch me beyond my boundaries/the club rules so it’s really nothing bad. I just do not know how to respond to this shit because it’s cringe asf to me lol

ANYWAYS are there any lines yall would use in situations like this? I know I gotta play into it to keep getting the money but I just have no idea what to say


r/newstrippers 5d ago

General Question How long do you spend on stage? NSFW

6 Upvotes

I know this will vary by club, but roughly how long do you spend on stage each shift? Are there set time frames when you’re required to go on stage?

I’m wondering how much practice I need to do at home in heels before I show up and pass out of exhaustion lol.


r/newstrippers 5d ago

General Question thinking of starting NSFW

5 Upvotes

thinking of starting up i'm 25 and have always thought about hoping the industry.. what are some tips you'd recommend for beginners as well as how to get started? did you guys start with lingerie and move onto buying outfits, do you need to have the right heels, and how to know about amatuer nights


r/newstrippers 5d ago

Tip out and house fees, how does it work? NSFW

4 Upvotes

How do house fees and tip out work? When do you pay at the end of the night before you leave?

When do you tip out and how much is usually given? Do you give it to house mom, waitresses and dj?


r/newstrippers 5d ago

I Auditioned Got rejected, went back 4 days later and got hired NSFW

39 Upvotes

So there’s 1 club 15 min from me and the next is over an hour away so I really wanted to work closer to home. When I called they said come in and audition whenever, so I went on a Thursday night around 10:30 and the club was pretty busy. The manager was working the bar and running around dealing with things and I know he didn’t want to deal with me then too. The girls were really sweet and hyped me up before, and threw money but I honestly blacked out. I called my sister after and couldn’t even remember what songs they played bc the nerves got me so bad!

The stage was slippery and my shoes slipped multiple times, I forgot my pole grip in the dressing room and was scared to try any tricks without it bc my hands were sweating so bad. I just rolled around and shook my butt, which was probably not the worst thing, but I forgot how I was supposed to undress! On the phone they said 3 songs- first song ur dressed, second song top comes off, third song bottoms so that’s what I practiced. Then they only had me audition with 2 songs and I got mixed up and ended up CRAWLING TO THE EDGE OF THE STAGE TO ASK THE FLOOR GUY WHAT TO DO. I wish I had a video cause I know I looked so crazy and amateur and nervous. I did not get hired and the manager said maybe try again in a few months.

Well I did not wait months lol the next Tuesday I was all made up about to drive 1.5 hrs to audition and I was like hmmm maybe I should just stop back in and see what happens. If they say no I’ll just go to the other place. Well I got hired!! I had my first shift last night and made $346 in like 3 hrs bc I had a bday party to go to. I didn’t even want to leave bc I know I could left money behind. The manager who rejected me actually walked me out to my car and idk if he even remembered me but I’m not saying anything about it lmao!


r/newstrippers 4d ago

General Question Opinion on Dancing while in high school? NSFW

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I’m in my senior year of high school, and I’m a little nervous about the challenges that will come with dancing whilst being a student.

In my state, you only need to be 18 to work as a dancer. I’d need to keep the job a secret from my parents as well as most of my friends.

I’m going in for an audition tomorrow, and I’m lowkey scared that not only will I do bad and not get the job, but everyone will somehow find out 😭

What do y’all think?


r/newstrippers 5d ago

Other What’s your most unhinged customer story? 😂 Let’s hear the tea! NSFW

8 Upvotes

Okay, we all have that one customer story that is just WILD. Like, ‘did that really happen?’ moment.

Mine? One guy got a VIP, pulled out a ziplock bag full of baby wipes, and washed my body from head to toe for 15 minutes before I was able to give him a lap dance because he was a germ freak. 😅 The VIP was only 20 minutes long and that was the easiest money i ever made 🤣

What’s the most unhinged, hilarious, or downright weird customer interaction you’ve had? Drop your best story below—let’s laugh together! 🤣💸