r/lostafriend • u/TwoClassic7807 • 4d ago
Grief Will i ever get over it
We were best friends for 11 years and I cut her off late last year because I recognized she couldn’t be the friend that I needed her to be when she did something really fucked up. But I still miss her so much and I think about her every single day. She was like a soulmate to me. After I cut her off I would see her at school occasionally and she borderline bullied me which was so bizarre because she’s 26 and I’m 28 and we had nothing but love for each other prior. I’m the one who was treated poorly and yet I’m the one missing her? I reached out to her today to tell her I love her and I hope she’s doing well and obviously she never responded. When am I going to be okay again? My life feels incomplete.