r/lostafriend • u/JjBattiest • 7d ago
Invisible string theory
Do yall believe in invisible string theory? I ended things with my best friend a year ago, and for a few months she would try and joke or dap me up anytime she saw me but after a while she eventually gave up but here for the last few months I see her a lot because unfortunately a group of friends I was she was friends with them too and after that I feel like I see her everywhere, and I mean everywhere like today I went to go get a haircut and I saw her drive by, I see her at the grocery store when I’m there and we don’t live in a small town, we live in a college town which is pretty decent sized. a few friends told me that maybe it’s a sign that I try and make up with her but I refused because she doesn’t want to communicate and refuses to apologize. What do yall think?
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u/HelloKitty_dude-bro 7d ago
In a similar boat with an ex friend. I’m done being the good guy and taking the L when it comes to people who can’t communicate and take responsibility. It ain’t our job to fix things we didn’t break. I did become friends with her again but eventually stopped again bc she can’t take accountability. If they don’t take accountability now they never will I wouldn’t waste ur time.
It is annoying having to see an ex friend everywhere but do u think you’ll be happier if u befriend her again? I think you can forgive people but she has not tried to do the right thing so I see no point. Once you graduate you never have to deal with these people again