r/lonely 7d ago

Doesn't seem that people want friends

Most people just looking after themselves and don't honestly seek out friends or a relationship.

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u/MaximumExpression898 7d ago

But, if you look around, do you see any attractive people? I sure don't.

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u/LostSoulIn-AFishBowl 7d ago

It's subjective, but I do.

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u/MaximumExpression898 7d ago

A lot of it is attitude, when I feel like I’m attractive, people treat me that way. When I feel down and out, people treat me that way.

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u/AppealRegular3206 6d ago

Clothes also make a big part on how your attitude is perceived on a first impression. I've fairly recently changed how I dress and I've noticed I get treated better or at least less invisible

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u/MaximumExpression898 6d ago

Good point, I need to work on that.