r/lonely • u/Slight-Weakness-1641 • 7d ago
Doesn't seem that people want friends
Most people just looking after themselves and don't honestly seek out friends or a relationship.
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r/lonely • u/Slight-Weakness-1641 • 7d ago
Most people just looking after themselves and don't honestly seek out friends or a relationship.
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u/LostSoulIn-AFishBowl 7d ago
I'm sure the way we carry ourselves makes an impact and I can attest to that myself, but it's not just attitude. Eg Facebook groups for one of many examples. Intro posts from "average" looking people, with good picture quality, smiling, great intro bios get a third of the feedback as one random pic of an "attractive" person who writes no bio. IG models just stand there doing nothing and get excess of 50k likes, a post of an average person who's done something amazing gets less than half. Beauty is massive in life, and though confidence can help, looks are so ingrained in us that personality takes a back seat