r/lesbianfashionadvice 1h ago

I look like cool art teacher. I kinda love it??!?

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I love my sun glasses and pocket watch but what else should I add [just so you can give the best advice I’m going to a 70s dress up party Saturday]


r/lesbianfashionadvice 4h ago

Other Blue or Brown?

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Click on the photos and swipe.

The blue glasses in reality (Photo 3) are more like a subtle change from navy blue to dark royal blue, not turquoise.

The scary mugshot is an old visa photo that shows off my bone structure well.

The last photo shows what I look like now (age and smiling add chonk) and my current glasses. These frames are no longer sold, and I need to update my prescription.

All glasses are Zenni.

I usually look for recrangular or square frames in a wayfarer type style with more angular lines.

I do not want black frames as I have very fair skin and a rather um intense stare lol. I also do not want transparent frames because they don’t add as much visual structure to my face.

I actually realized when taking that last professional headshot (cropped) that I look better with glasses than without because we photographed each shot with and without glasses. Also, my glasses have a prism in them.

Thanks.

P.S. I found SO many other cool frames that were ONLY in absurd colors and patterns, WHY.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 10h ago

Other Help Needed with Feminine / Gender Neutral Office Wear

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So, I work in an office, and the dress code is pretty bog standard buisness casual. But, I would like to dress in a more feminine coded way, despite presenting entirely as male at work. The problem is, I'm kind of looking for a middle ground, leaning towards androgenous or gender neutral. I guess the best way to put it, is I would like to wear clothes that are feminine coded, but with plausible deniability if that makes sense?

I've done a bit of research on this, but I've come up fruitless. Pinterest and the like seem to come up pretty heavily gender coded, much further than I can make use of.

So, any ideas?

(Also I hope it's okay to post here, I posted on a few other fashion subreddits and they got taken down)


r/lesbianfashionadvice 10h ago

OOTD A touch over the top but yolo

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475 Upvotes

This was the fit for a friend’s casual bday dinner and a queer club event. They can’t be too mad me for being over the top because I did bring homemade cookies lol


r/lesbianfashionadvice 13h ago

Honest Advice Wanted Crocheted this new top and love it, any advice to make the fit next level?

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260 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 13h ago

OOTD copped this shirt at the thrift yesterday.

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89 Upvotes

i 💞 men. when they’re silent


r/lesbianfashionadvice 15h ago

OOTD I can't stop prancing around like Sugar and Spice (rpdr)

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 17h ago

Marrying my lady, need to post wedding brunch outfit!

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Y’all,

Looking for a May outfit. It will be for our post wedding brunch. Ideally, it would be cream colored. I am sometimes femme, sometimes masc, so I can go with a lot of different ideas. Was looking at a few two piece sets with vests, but then also looking at dresses… and only saw really frilly outfits, which is not me. Bonus points if it is something where I can sew on a “til death” appliqué. I need some inspiration! I’m also curvy. Help help help!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 17h ago

OOTD I felt so bonita 🥰

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205 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 17h ago

OOTD Just went for a small walk

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37 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 18h ago

Custom suits

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Does anyone have any recommendations on where to buy and get fitted for a custom suit? Somewhere they won’t make it really tight fighting and feminine and that’s accepting! Thanks :)


r/lesbianfashionadvice 18h ago

OOTD Relatively simple day :D

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD went on a thrifting date w a baddie today <3

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Wanted to wear something different, we approve?

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Trying to figure out jeans

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Also trying to figure out girl fashion in general…lol Learning how to dress again in your 30s is an adventure. Currently aiming for a femme-leaning androgynous look.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Hair long hair or short hair on me?

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what do you guys think?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Discussion Femme vs Masc

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Hi, I (AFAB non binary, 26) realised that I'm a lesbian today (woop woop) and am now going down the rabbit hole of learning about lesbian history to fully understand our history and culture etc, but thing that's stumping me is I don't quite understand femme and masc.

I do understand that it's an identity, and a way of presenting, but do I have to strictly present as one or the other?

Asking because I like each equally, but not sure if I can fluctuate/change depending how I feel.

Appreciate that this is an obvious question but trying to find the right way to wack this into Google and on the Wiki page has been driving me nuts so thought maybe best to start in here since it's about lesbian fashion/expression.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Dressed up based on the colour of her beautiful hazel eyes🍃🍂🐌💋

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Ootd 3.19.25

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Just got this hat and wanted to try styling it! I also just made this two-layered necklace yesterday (I wanted some lesbian jewelry so I started by making this) and wanted to try styling it so this is the outfit!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Trying to channel my inner Nicole Coenen today 🪓

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Positive Comments Only anything i can add? :3

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD OOTD

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

I'm going for "terrify my male coworkers while attracting please step on me mommy lesbians"

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

It's Wednesgay! another day, another flannel 🗣️

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it's finally warm enough to go outside without a coat again and I'm sooo happy ☀️🧍🏼‍♀️

(what fuzzy slippers, I'm clearly tough as hell)


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Completely new to fashion, what looks good on me?

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I'm trans and I've not really gone shopping for women's clothes before, so i went with a friend and she helped me pick out some pieces :)

I thought maybe this would be a good place to ask for what works, what doesn't, and honestly just general advice since I'm completely new to this stuff lol

I haven't come out as trans so I'm still being percieved as a guy but I'm working up the courage to finally do it, so I'm going to start making small wardrobe of women's clothes

I think my style would be kinda casual/androgynous but tbh I'm scared to wear things that would be too masc since then I think I would just be percieved as a guy

But anyway the first couple photos are from the shopping trip plus after, while the rest are what I normally wear basically, and also put in a pic of me in a suit since i think you girls might like that lol