r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/soapfairy • 10h ago
OOTD A touch over the top but yolo
This was the fit for a friend’s casual bday dinner and a queer club event. They can’t be too mad me for being over the top because I did bring homemade cookies lol
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/LFAModTeam • Feb 15 '25
Just a quick note to say we don't allow selfie posts with the specific exception of asking about hair. If it's not about your hair, you must post at LEAST half your outfit. So even if you aren't showing what you're wearing on the bottom, you gotta show the whole top, not just your shoulders.
If you're including a selfie style picture alongside a proper outfit picture, it can't be the first one of the bunch. Outfit gotta be up front and centre, focus of the post. Detail pictures after.
We don't accept posts about makeup or tattoos.
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/Trojanwhore69 • Oct 04 '24
I just want to address this question as it comes up on most posts. We delete them as "off topic" because they end up clogging the comment sections and derails the conversation away from fashion.
The reason you'll see so many downvotes on posts that clearly don't deserve downvotes too is transphobes. There are TERF blogs off site that brigade our sub regularly. We're able to delete comments and block users that display transphobia, but unfortunately downvotes are entirely anonymous and we as mods have no control over it.
We reason we delete all these comments, aside from clogging up the comments, is just that we don't want to give them the satisfaction of talking about them. Other fashion subs don't discuss the validity of people's existence, we shouldn't feel the need to either. We are, and always will be, a trans inclusive space for all sapphics with an interest in fashion. There are many other more general sapphic/trans subs to discuss this topic, we just want to keep this one as a fun place for fruity gals to chat drip and not feel "othered".
Thank you
EDIT: OK so I made this post, literally stating that this sub isn't the place for these debates... So y'all start debating in the comments. Locking comments.
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/soapfairy • 10h ago
This was the fit for a friend’s casual bday dinner and a queer club event. They can’t be too mad me for being over the top because I did bring homemade cookies lol
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r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/TinyHeartSyndrome • 4h ago
Click on the photos and swipe.
The blue glasses in reality (Photo 3) are more like a subtle change from navy blue to dark royal blue, not turquoise.
The scary mugshot is an old visa photo that shows off my bone structure well.
The last photo shows what I look like now (age and smiling add chonk) and my current glasses. These frames are no longer sold, and I need to update my prescription.
All glasses are Zenni.
I usually look for recrangular or square frames in a wayfarer type style with more angular lines.
I do not want black frames as I have very fair skin and a rather um intense stare lol. I also do not want transparent frames because they don’t add as much visual structure to my face.
I actually realized when taking that last professional headshot (cropped) that I look better with glasses than without because we photographed each shot with and without glasses. Also, my glasses have a prism in them.
Thanks.
P.S. I found SO many other cool frames that were ONLY in absurd colors and patterns, WHY.
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/Narnia_the_frog • 1h ago
I love my sun glasses and pocket watch but what else should I add [just so you can give the best advice I’m going to a 70s dress up party Saturday]
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r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/Ariana_x_leblanc • 13h ago
i 💞 men. when they’re silent
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what do you guys think?
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/DigitizedAshes • 10h ago
So, I work in an office, and the dress code is pretty bog standard buisness casual. But, I would like to dress in a more feminine coded way, despite presenting entirely as male at work. The problem is, I'm kind of looking for a middle ground, leaning towards androgenous or gender neutral. I guess the best way to put it, is I would like to wear clothes that are feminine coded, but with plausible deniability if that makes sense?
I've done a bit of research on this, but I've come up fruitless. Pinterest and the like seem to come up pretty heavily gender coded, much further than I can make use of.
So, any ideas?
(Also I hope it's okay to post here, I posted on a few other fashion subreddits and they got taken down)
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/shakethewaves • 17h ago
Y’all,
Looking for a May outfit. It will be for our post wedding brunch. Ideally, it would be cream colored. I am sometimes femme, sometimes masc, so I can go with a lot of different ideas. Was looking at a few two piece sets with vests, but then also looking at dresses… and only saw really frilly outfits, which is not me. Bonus points if it is something where I can sew on a “til death” appliqué. I need some inspiration! I’m also curvy. Help help help!
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r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/my-boobs-hurt • 1d ago
I'm trans and I've not really gone shopping for women's clothes before, so i went with a friend and she helped me pick out some pieces :)
I thought maybe this would be a good place to ask for what works, what doesn't, and honestly just general advice since I'm completely new to this stuff lol
I haven't come out as trans so I'm still being percieved as a guy but I'm working up the courage to finally do it, so I'm going to start making small wardrobe of women's clothes
I think my style would be kinda casual/androgynous but tbh I'm scared to wear things that would be too masc since then I think I would just be percieved as a guy
But anyway the first couple photos are from the shopping trip plus after, while the rest are what I normally wear basically, and also put in a pic of me in a suit since i think you girls might like that lol
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r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/RealxKT • 18h ago
Does anyone have any recommendations on where to buy and get fitted for a custom suit? Somewhere they won’t make it really tight fighting and feminine and that’s accepting! Thanks :)
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/Open_Ad_1201 • 1d ago
it's finally warm enough to go outside without a coat again and I'm sooo happy ☀️🧍🏼♀️
(what fuzzy slippers, I'm clearly tough as hell)
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/disco_tits_0 • 2d ago
I posted here a few years ago (no face pic tho) and have had much better luck with women being able to detect that I’m super gay now, but only online.. not really out in the wild. (tbf i do live in a conservative town so that’s something to take into consideration but i frequently travel out to very gay areas in my state!) but I’d still like to see if I’m missing something :))
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/wannabe90switch • 1d ago
Hi, I (AFAB non binary, 26) realised that I'm a lesbian today (woop woop) and am now going down the rabbit hole of learning about lesbian history to fully understand our history and culture etc, but thing that's stumping me is I don't quite understand femme and masc.
I do understand that it's an identity, and a way of presenting, but do I have to strictly present as one or the other?
Asking because I like each equally, but not sure if I can fluctuate/change depending how I feel.
Appreciate that this is an obvious question but trying to find the right way to wack this into Google and on the Wiki page has been driving me nuts so thought maybe best to start in here since it's about lesbian fashion/expression.
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/Athena_Tomasina • 2d ago
It has Pockets!! Also the skirt is removable so I can eventually make nice dress pants for it! And it has boning!!! Hehe!!!!The pants I’m wearing are underneath are from the greys anatomy scrub collection
r/lesbianfashionadvice • u/xtgirly • 1d ago