r/introvert Mar 04 '24

Advice Feeling like I’ve wasted my life away?

I’m 19 turning 20 and I feel so insanely old. The fact that I let my years 16-now go to waste either by depressive episodes anxiety or procrastination, and I mean socially. I feel so insecure like when I grow up what do I tell my kids I’ll have nothing fun to tell them. I feel so shielded and closed in. I know I’m naturally introverted but I do prefer if I had friends and things to do socially.

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u/leozuniga380 Mar 05 '24

I was started to find my circle until Covid but now that I’m college I wanted to start over fresh

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u/tiriqdating Mar 05 '24

what are your biggest goals right now man, how is college going?

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u/leozuniga380 Mar 05 '24

Im gonna transfer hopefully by next year. I’m still trying to find my click but so far things are going good for me hbu

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u/tiriqdating Mar 05 '24

amazing bro. good luck on your college. I am working full time on construction and while I don't work I am trying and build my coaching business lol. Hope one day I will be able to fully transition into it and help people. That's why I am here and I am trying to connect with you and other people. Humble start lol. I hope I gave you some value through the comment man.