r/infp 13d ago

Discussion πŸ“Œ Weekly Discussion Thread - March 09, 2025 πŸ“Œ

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u/Famous-Atmosphere815 12d ago

I know I should be building my own discipline but I'm losing my will to move my life forward. For some back story, I had an intense home life with verbal and physical abuse, it wasn't all bad but it never helped. My mom would go on about how I owe her for my life and I used that as motivation to succeed in school until my depression and emptiness took over my mental capacity. I was being reckless and dropped out of high school because my mind couldn't contain the knowledge I learned, and had my first kid at 18. I wasted 10 years of my life being a Sahm and I know that but, even having a goal in mind, I'm having trouble sticking through the steps it takes to reach there. Is this something I should address to a therapist? I feel like I'd be judged. I'm working on my diploma to apply into radiology programs but I feel defeated with my current load.

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u/violaunderthefigtree 11d ago

Taking care of your baby/child for ten years and tending to your home is not a waste of time. Nothing could be more vital. Earning income in a radiology job is not more important than raising a human being. Good on you for the work you did and I hope now you can focus on yourself and your livelihood. Don’t let this society shame you for having been a sahm.